Take the 2 Word Challenge! By eliminating these two words from your vocabulary, you'll become a stronger, more purposeful communicator and create an achievability mindset.
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Hi there.
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I see that you made it over to the new tips
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and talk portion of the podcast.
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These are bite-sized topics that I pull from community questions and
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things that I'm observing in the world of handmade small business.
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I'm going to call this the two word challenge by eliminating
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these words from your vocabulary.
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You're going to communicate in a much stronger and purposeful way,
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and you're also going to have a mindset of achievability and
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what's possible versus a defeatist mindset.
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Why do this first off people are going to listen to
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you more.
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Have you ever felt like you've insane something,
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and either you can tell nobody's listening because they're looking away
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or they didn't get what you were talking about.
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Possibly it's because of the words that you're using.
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So the ability to have people really pay attention to what
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you're talking about is one of the results here.
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You'll also be seen as more of a professional by the
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manner in which you're communicating.
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And the really cool thing about eliminating these two words too,
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is that as you communicate out in the way that I'm
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going to share with you,
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you also feel it internally.
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So even though you're giving out a stronger presence,
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you're also giving back to yourself,
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heightened confidence.
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Let's dive in right now to the first word.
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The word I want you to remove from your vocabulary is
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just take this out of your vocabulary.
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99% of the time,
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if you're doing,
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let's say an email and you say as the first line,
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and I do this all the time and I have to
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catch myself.
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If you say,
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I just wanted to pop in here to tell you,
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and then whatever it is that you're saying by adding that
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word just you've already diminished the value of what you're trying
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to say.
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It's like,
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you're saying,
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oh, I'm so sorry.
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I don't mean to interrupt you.
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This really isn't that important.
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I just have one little thing to tell you.
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Instead, what I want you to do is get to the
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topic. Here's another example,
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just a quick announcement reminding you that we're all getting together
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this afternoon at four hope you can join us.
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Instead of saying that we're just get to the announcement.
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So exciting.
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Remember, we're getting together at four.
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Can't wait to see you.
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Then it puts so much more strengthened value to the topic
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versus adding that word in.
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Just now having said that there are a couple of times
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when just does make sense to use,
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like think of the Nike tagline.
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Just do it when you use just in that way,
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you're putting a significance on it.
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Time-wise just do it.
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So it actually adds strength in that.
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Or when you want to say something like in a recipe
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or something you say add just a pinch of sugar,
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they are,
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you're saying the extreme is small.
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So at Nike you're saying powerful,
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just do it big.
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And then in a recipe you're saying Jost,
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a pinch of sugar,
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smaller, those extremes,
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the word justice.
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Great. But in communication generally,
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when you're making a statement and you put just in there,
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you diminish the importance in the value.
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By eliminating this word,
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you are creating more powerful,
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stronger, and personable communication.
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The second word ready for it.
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The second word I want you to eliminate is the word.
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Can't see the problem with the word.
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Can't automatically sets up in your mind,
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a failure.
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You're unconsciously positioning yourself that you're not going to be able
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to achieve something.
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And I honestly hear this all the time from people and
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I don't think they really recognize what they're doing.
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And again,
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I'm going to say,
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I've done this to myself too.
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I'm not just saying it because I'm so good at it.
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I'm saying it because I'm recognizing it.
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And I catch myself doing it too.
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Here's an example.
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I can't understand all the tech stuff.
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You know,
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people will say tech messes me up,
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or I can't get that.
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Or you know,
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all these excuses with the word can't instead think about saying,
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I'll find a way to manage and whatever that technical problem
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is because let's face it in this day and age,
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there are always ways to figure things out.
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There's Google.
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You can hire somebody real quick on a website like Fiverr
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for just a few dollars to fix something that you need
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fixed. You could talk to someone in your local chamber who
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has the expertise.
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Yeah. You might pay them a couple of dollars,
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but you can turn those can'ts to Cannes.
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Another example of cant could be can't build a website because
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I don't have the money.
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So you're already making an assumption that you can't do something
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versus I know I need a website and I'll research what
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my options are to make this happen.
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See how much more opportunistic that sounds than automatically saying you
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can't. I think lots of times we add the word can't
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into our vocabulary because we don't know what those options are
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out there.
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And in the case of a website,
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there are so many options.
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You don't have to hire a designer and spend thousands of
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dollars to get an online presence where you can sell your
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products. When we say can't it virtually takes you out of
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the game psychologically.
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And the sad thing is we've done it to ourself.
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While you can say,
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can't someone else is finding out a way to say can
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and are passing you by whether it's creating your product and
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selling your product.
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Whether it's establishing a website,
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whether it's starting your business in the first place.
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I want to know if you're willing to accept this challenge
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with me,
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we are going to eliminate these two words from our vocabulary,
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as much as possible.
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And to do this,
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you have to do it consciously.
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So just get rid of it from speaking from emails everywhere,
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your communication will be so much more powerful and you will
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only listen to,
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and can't get that out of your vocabulary because you're limiting
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your own thinking by using that word can't are you with
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me? Are you accepting my challenge?
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If so,
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jump over to Instagram.
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I'm at gift biz on rapt.
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And let me know in the DMS that you're doing the
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challenge, right alongside me,
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eliminate these two words.
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Watch for them.
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Catch it before you do it,
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adjust how you're saying things.
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And honestly,
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it might just change your life.
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That's a wrap.
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I may get to the point kind of girl.
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And this is what you can expect from these quick midweek
