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Welcome to Destin for success. I'm your
Jennifer Takagi:host, Jennifer Takagi, and this week I want to expand a little
Jennifer Takagi:bit on Chad Austin's conversation last week around
Jennifer Takagi:focus, like that was part of his talk, and focus always jumps out
Jennifer Takagi:to me, because focus is such an important thing. If we're not
Jennifer Takagi:focused on what we're doing, we make mistakes. We don't get the
Jennifer Takagi:best out of it, of whatever we're doing. So focus and
Jennifer Takagi:focusing your mindset on where you want the conversation to go,
Jennifer Takagi:how you want the meeting to turn out, whatever work product
Jennifer Takagi:you're working on. If you're focused on it, and you step in
Jennifer Takagi:to that activity, your mindset impacts it greatly. So are you
Jennifer Takagi:walking in with a negative mindset? Is it something you
Jennifer Takagi:don't want to do? Are you walking in just like, I'm just
Jennifer Takagi:going to do this because I have to get it done, chances are the
Jennifer Takagi:product that outcome will really reflect that so your intention,
Jennifer Takagi:your mindset, whether you're positive or negative, is going
Jennifer Takagi:to impact that outcome. I love that book that talks about and I
Jennifer Takagi:don't, I don't have the information in front of me.
Jennifer Takagi:Maybe I'll add it to the show notes. But this, I believe he
Jennifer Takagi:was a scientist. Took jars of water. All the jars were clean,
Jennifer Takagi:cleaned all the same way, filled with water from the same source,
Jennifer Takagi:and he talked very negatively to some of these jars of water, and
Jennifer Takagi:over time, those jars of water developed all kinds of fungus
Jennifer Takagi:and bacteria they they were not even potable, which I was pretty
Jennifer Takagi:impressed when I learned the word potable. That's where you
Jennifer Takagi:can't drink it. It's not fit for consumption. But the jar that he
Jennifer Takagi:talked to, lovingly and kindly remained clean and pure. So our
Jennifer Takagi:thoughts, our intentions, the words we use, really impact the
Jennifer Takagi:internet interaction, the activity that we're going to
Jennifer Takagi:have. So if you're going to speak to an employee, let's say,
Jennifer Takagi:and you walk in with a laundry list of mistakes they've made,
Jennifer Takagi:things they've done wrong, that conversation is going to go
Jennifer Takagi:downhill quickly, and there may not be room for recovery. It may
Jennifer Takagi:not be able to heal, but if you find the things that they do
Jennifer Takagi:well the skills that they bring to the table, then you can have
Jennifer Takagi:a conversation around how to improve those areas that aren't
Jennifer Takagi:up to par. But if you walk in with an attitude of, gotcha, I'm
Jennifer Takagi:going to get you, I'm going to destroy you, you probably are
Jennifer Takagi:and it's not going to be a good thing. But if you walk in with
Jennifer Takagi:the attitude of, I want to give you this tools, you need to do
Jennifer Takagi:your job better to have a better outcome, it's going to be a
Jennifer Takagi:whole different ball game. And if you've already focused on
Jennifer Takagi:what they do well and what they bring to the party, it's going
Jennifer Takagi:to be a much easier conversation than walking in focused and your
Jennifer Takagi:intent being on everything they did wrong. Any type of
Jennifer Takagi:disciplinary conversation is really supposed to change the
Jennifer Takagi:behavior. It is not a preamble to firing. I'm going to say that
Jennifer Takagi:again, any disciplinary conversation should be to change
Jennifer Takagi:behavior, not a preamble to fire someone. I'm an entrepreneur. I
Jennifer Takagi:have to do things. I may not love doing, but I love what they
Jennifer Takagi:bring me. I love that outcome. Sometimes, coming up with a
Jennifer Takagi:social media post can be difficult. I don't know why, but
Jennifer Takagi:I'm like, What am I going to talk about? Not that I don't
Jennifer Takagi:have 40,000 topics, but sometimes it's a little bit
Jennifer Takagi:harder. But I have to have a little chit chat with myself and
Jennifer Takagi:be like, oh, I want to do this social media post. Because why
Jennifer Takagi:do I want to do this? How is it going to impact me and whomever
Jennifer Takagi:happens to see it like, how is that going to work out?
Jennifer Takagi:Sometimes distractions are the killer of our focus. Talk about
Jennifer Takagi:car wrecks with people texting and driving, right? You're not
Jennifer Takagi:paying attention to what you're doing and what's going on around
Jennifer Takagi:you. The same thing happens in any other area of your life,
Jennifer Takagi:whether it is a home project, a work project. If you don't
Jennifer Takagi:eliminate the distractions holding you back, the outcome
Jennifer Takagi:and the product are not going to be what you wanted. They're not
Jennifer Takagi:going to be at the best. There are people who are very specific
Jennifer Takagi:that their work area has to be. Clean, neat and tidy, or they
Jennifer Takagi:cannot concentrate, they cannot do the work for me. That's not
Jennifer Takagi:really case. That's really not the problem. I just need a deaf
Jennifer Takagi:space around me that I could do the work. I have not really
Jennifer Takagi:completely embraced the whole paperless society yet, and in my
Jennifer Takagi:last job, I really hadn't either. I had papers everywhere.
Jennifer Takagi:However, I pretty much knew where the stuff was. Could I
Jennifer Takagi:have done things quicker if things had been all filed and
Jennifer Takagi:put away, maybe, but when I knew what stack they were in, and
Jennifer Takagi:then I had to dig through drawers to find it once I filed
Jennifer Takagi:everything, um, that, in the end, made it a little bit harder
Jennifer Takagi:for me. So all kinds of questions and possibilities on
Jennifer Takagi:the outcome of that, like, what is your environment? If you know
Jennifer Takagi:there's something broken in your house and you work from home,
Jennifer Takagi:your mind might just continually go back to that, like, Gosh, I
Jennifer Takagi:really need to call somebody. I really need to get that fixed.
Jennifer Takagi:Is it distracting you and holding you back from doing what
Jennifer Takagi:you really want to do and or need to do it? Really can those
Jennifer Takagi:things, kind of things can really drive you insane. I have
Jennifer Takagi:a friend who really has to have everything perfect before any
Jennifer Takagi:work gets done, and a lot of times that that outer world, the
Jennifer Takagi:world around us, if it's not in order, our inner world, can be
Jennifer Takagi:in turmoil and not quite right. Not everybody has the ability to
Jennifer Takagi:cut out those distractions. I recently had a conversation with
Jennifer Takagi:somebody in a a workman was at their house repairing an
Jennifer Takagi:appliance, and as I'm hearing all the drama unfold with the
Jennifer Takagi:appliance, I thought, just buy a new one. Like, it's not that
Jennifer Takagi:expensive to have just replaced this small appliance. And I
Jennifer Takagi:learned that firsthand. We bought a refrigerator with a
Jennifer Takagi:freezer, and it had an ice maker in it, and the ice maker kept
Jennifer Takagi:going out, like, I don't know how many times it went out, and
Jennifer Takagi:at one point they sent somebody from a different company,
Jennifer Takagi:because this was through the warranty. And the guy said,
Jennifer Takagi:Ma'am, like, for $50 I can just put a new ice maker in, and the
Jennifer Takagi:labor will be about 20 because it's not going to take me any
Jennifer Takagi:time at all. And I was like, do that. I had taken off work
Jennifer Takagi:literally four times to come home to get this ice maker
Jennifer Takagi:fixed. I had to take leave 30 minutes before I needed to be
Jennifer Takagi:home. And then all the time I was home. And then, you know,
Jennifer Takagi:you get a window of when they come that was the biggest
Jennifer Takagi:distraction all the way around. And the first time the person
Jennifer Takagi:came out, they could have just put in a whole new ice maker. It
Jennifer Takagi:cost them more money to buy the part to put in there and fix it
Jennifer Takagi:than a brand new ice maker would have been. That seems simple,
Jennifer Takagi:but that was distracting me from getting my work done, because
Jennifer Takagi:now I had fewer hours in the day multiple times. I'm telling you,
Jennifer Takagi:multiple times it was at least four till we got it fixed, and I
Jennifer Takagi:couldn't get my work done, or I had a much shorter period of
Jennifer Takagi:time to get it done. This is in the times when when you had to
Jennifer Takagi:physically go into the office all the time. You weren't given
Jennifer Takagi:the opportunity to work from home at all. You were either at
Jennifer Takagi:work or on leave. So what distractions are out there? Are
Jennifer Takagi:you fighting with your computer? Is it not working correctly?
Jennifer Takagi:That is a distraction from your focus. If your things aren't
Jennifer Takagi:working right, you can't get the job done. Jack Canfield, in his
Jennifer Takagi:book The success principles, really talks about things that
Jennifer Takagi:he calls incomplete. What is incomplete or undone in your
Jennifer Takagi:life that is distracting you from doing the work you're
Jennifer Takagi:really meant to be doing. And one of the exercises is to make
Jennifer Takagi:a list. And there was someone. It might have been him, I can't
Jennifer Takagi:remember now, but someone's garage door didn't open, and
Jennifer Takagi:whenever he came home, he had to park the car, get out of the
Jennifer Takagi:car, open the garage door, get in the car, pull the car in,
Jennifer Takagi:turn it off, get out and physically pull the garage door
Jennifer Takagi:down. And he had picked up someone that was coming to stay
Jennifer Takagi:at their house from the airport. And he pulls up, and he stops
Jennifer Takagi:and gets out and goes through his whole production of the
Jennifer Takagi:garage door up and car moved, and all that, and the visitors
Jennifer Takagi:said, So, how long have you been tolerating that? How long have
Jennifer Takagi:you been tolerating that? So, what is it that you are
Jennifer Takagi:tolerating in your life that is causing the distraction from
Jennifer Takagi:having the focus? Need to have to show up the way you want to
Jennifer Takagi:show up.
Jennifer Takagi:We always take out our frustrations on the ones we
Jennifer Takagi:love. We shouldn't, but that's what we do. That's what we do.
Jennifer Takagi:That's how this runs. So eliminate as many distractions
Jennifer Takagi:as possible. Get the things that are broken fixed, get them
Jennifer Takagi:thrown away if they just need to be thrown away, but make your
Jennifer Takagi:environment physically, emotionally and spiritually.
Jennifer Takagi:Make those environments as tidy as you need them to be, so that
Jennifer Takagi:you can be as productive as possible. You can have that
Jennifer Takagi:focus, and it's in the right area. Another piece, the last
Jennifer Takagi:piece I want to talk about on this today is alignment creates
Jennifer Takagi:momentum. Alignment creates momentum. I have spent so many
Jennifer Takagi:hours, I don't even want to say how many hours that probably led
Jennifer Takagi:to weeks, that probably led to months, working on things that
Jennifer Takagi:really weren't in alignment with me, what I wanted to do, how I
Jennifer Takagi:wanted to show up in the world. And it's time that's lost time
Jennifer Takagi:is that one commodity that we can't replace in any way, shape
Jennifer Takagi:or form. So are you aligned with what you want to be doing? I
Jennifer Takagi:know there are people probably listening who are like, I have
Jennifer Takagi:this job. I have to keep this job. So, I mean, I'm just going
Jennifer Takagi:through the motions. I have to have this job. Well, if you're
Jennifer Takagi:new to me, you may not have heard this. If you've heard it
Jennifer Takagi:before, maybe it will land differently for you. You made a
Jennifer Takagi:choice to take that job. Nobody forced you to take that job.
Jennifer Takagi:Nobody forced you to take that job. If you said yes to that
Jennifer Takagi:position, then you're saying yes to showing up as your full best
Jennifer Takagi:self and do that job to the best of your ability. Brendon
Jennifer Takagi:Burchard often calls it summoning your best. He's he
Jennifer Takagi:uses that in a lot of his books and podcasts. Summon your best
Jennifer Takagi:to do your job the best you can and identify the ways that job
Jennifer Takagi:is fulfilling you is the pay good so you're able to have the
Jennifer Takagi:lifestyle that you want. Do you enjoy the clientele that you
Jennifer Takagi:serve? Do you feel good having the answers? I heard somebody
Jennifer Takagi:say the other day, man, I feel really great when I'm able to
Jennifer Takagi:answer somebody's question and it's the right answer and it
Jennifer Takagi:helps them move further along. What is it about that job, that
Jennifer Takagi:career, that field you've chosen that brings purpose? I didn't
Jennifer Takagi:always do tasks that I loved in my career in housing as an
Jennifer Takagi:entrepreneur, there are tasks I do that, I don't love either,
Jennifer Takagi:but they're part of the bigger picture. So is there alignment
Jennifer Takagi:with what you're doing, the task you're doing that fulfills a
Jennifer Takagi:bigger purpose? Because finding that alignment, which is not
Jennifer Takagi:always hard to do, sometimes it is, but mostly people can find
Jennifer Takagi:that alignment pretty quickly, you find that alignment and your
Jennifer Takagi:momentum is just it's going to be off the charts. When I made
Jennifer Takagi:this shift from doing strictly black and white, very strategic
Jennifer Takagi:leadership development training, and got more into the woo space
Jennifer Takagi:and the energy healing and clearing the blocks that are
Jennifer Takagi:holding people back. It's so much easier to show up and do
Jennifer Takagi:what I want to do, because I love it. I enjoy it. I was in an
Jennifer Takagi:event recently in Miami, and because people are amazing and
Jennifer Takagi:they make wonderful referral recommendations, I was referred
Jennifer Takagi:to several people that they needed to work with me, and at
Jennifer Takagi:the end of those few days of Miami, it was like, I can't quit
Jennifer Takagi:doing what I'm doing, even if I want to, because I love this. I
Jennifer Takagi:love doing what I do. I love impacting people's lives in a
Jennifer Takagi:positive way, and I love being able to sit back and watch them
Jennifer Takagi:flourish, doing what they want to do. So when it comes to your
Jennifer Takagi:focus, check your thoughts and your mindset before you start
Jennifer Takagi:the project. Eliminate those internal and external
Jennifer Takagi:distractions that are going to keep you from really giving it
Jennifer Takagi:your all and then align what you're doing with your calling,
Jennifer Takagi:having that clarity that this is what you want to be doing, or
Jennifer Takagi:it's a piece of a bigger picture. Even if you don't love
Jennifer Takagi:this little piece, it feeds a bigger piece. And the momentum
Jennifer Takagi:comes and the shifts come and things happen most. Faster. I'm
Jennifer Takagi:Jennifer Takagi with destin for success, I would love to have a
Jennifer Takagi:chat with you. Click the link, book a call, and let's see
Jennifer Takagi:what's going on in your world. And if there's any way that I
Jennifer Takagi:can possibly make it better, I look forward to connecting with
Jennifer Takagi:you soon.
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