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Episode 33924th March 2025 • Destined For Success • Jennifer Takagi
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Get all the inside secrets and tools you need to help you develop your intuitive and leadership skills so you are on the path to the highest level of success with ease.  What you focus on grows/multiplies.  When you decide to focus, the intention you bring to it matters!

In this episode you will learn:


  • Eliminating Internal and External Distractions – Recognizing what pulls your attention away, whether it's self-doubt, external noise, or limiting beliefs, allows you to create an environment that supports deep focus and productivity.


  • Alignment Creates Momentum – When your focus aligns with your values and goals, progress feels effortless. Small, intentional actions—like the 12-minute method—help build consistency and transform focus into lasting success.



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Are you ready to tiptoe into your intuition and tap into your soul’s message? Let’s talk 

Listen in as Jennifer Takagi, founder of Takagi Consulting, International Inspirational Speaker, and 5X time Amazon.Com Best Selling-Author, shares the invaluable lessons she’s learned along the way. Each episode is crafted to provide tools, insights, and inspiration to lead with integrity.

As a masterful energy healer, Jennifer combines an extraordinary range of transformative certifications and modalities, including Emotion Code, Body Code, Belief Code, Energetic Magic, DISC Behavioral Analysis, Change Style Facilitation, Law of Attraction, and advanced coaching techniques. Her unique expertise enables her to guide clients through profound shifts, unlocking energy, mindset, and belief patterns to achieve deep alignment and lasting success. Known for her humor, Jennifer brings a dose of fun to each session, so expect some puns and perhaps a bit of sarcasm!

Tune in for motivational guests, impactful stories, and actionable tips that bring you closer to the success you’ve been striving coveting.

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I look forward to connecting with you soon,  Jennifer


Jennifer Takagi

Speaker, Trainer, Author, Catalyst for Healing


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Welcome to Destin for success. I'm your

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host, Jennifer Takagi, and this week I want to expand a little

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bit on Chad Austin's conversation last week around

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focus, like that was part of his talk, and focus always jumps out

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to me, because focus is such an important thing. If we're not

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focused on what we're doing, we make mistakes. We don't get the

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best out of it, of whatever we're doing. So focus and

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focusing your mindset on where you want the conversation to go,

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how you want the meeting to turn out, whatever work product

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you're working on. If you're focused on it, and you step in

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to that activity, your mindset impacts it greatly. So are you

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walking in with a negative mindset? Is it something you

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don't want to do? Are you walking in just like, I'm just

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going to do this because I have to get it done, chances are the

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product that outcome will really reflect that so your intention,

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your mindset, whether you're positive or negative, is going

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to impact that outcome. I love that book that talks about and I

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don't, I don't have the information in front of me.

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Maybe I'll add it to the show notes. But this, I believe he

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was a scientist. Took jars of water. All the jars were clean,

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cleaned all the same way, filled with water from the same source,

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and he talked very negatively to some of these jars of water, and

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over time, those jars of water developed all kinds of fungus

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and bacteria they they were not even potable, which I was pretty

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impressed when I learned the word potable. That's where you

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can't drink it. It's not fit for consumption. But the jar that he

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talked to, lovingly and kindly remained clean and pure. So our

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thoughts, our intentions, the words we use, really impact the

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internet interaction, the activity that we're going to

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have. So if you're going to speak to an employee, let's say,

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and you walk in with a laundry list of mistakes they've made,

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things they've done wrong, that conversation is going to go

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downhill quickly, and there may not be room for recovery. It may

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not be able to heal, but if you find the things that they do

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well the skills that they bring to the table, then you can have

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a conversation around how to improve those areas that aren't

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up to par. But if you walk in with an attitude of, gotcha, I'm

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going to get you, I'm going to destroy you, you probably are

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and it's not going to be a good thing. But if you walk in with

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the attitude of, I want to give you this tools, you need to do

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your job better to have a better outcome, it's going to be a

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whole different ball game. And if you've already focused on

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what they do well and what they bring to the party, it's going

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to be a much easier conversation than walking in focused and your

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intent being on everything they did wrong. Any type of

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disciplinary conversation is really supposed to change the

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behavior. It is not a preamble to firing. I'm going to say that

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again, any disciplinary conversation should be to change

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behavior, not a preamble to fire someone. I'm an entrepreneur. I

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have to do things. I may not love doing, but I love what they

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bring me. I love that outcome. Sometimes, coming up with a

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social media post can be difficult. I don't know why, but

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I'm like, What am I going to talk about? Not that I don't

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have 40,000 topics, but sometimes it's a little bit

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harder. But I have to have a little chit chat with myself and

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be like, oh, I want to do this social media post. Because why

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do I want to do this? How is it going to impact me and whomever

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happens to see it like, how is that going to work out?

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Sometimes distractions are the killer of our focus. Talk about

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car wrecks with people texting and driving, right? You're not

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paying attention to what you're doing and what's going on around

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you. The same thing happens in any other area of your life,

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whether it is a home project, a work project. If you don't

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eliminate the distractions holding you back, the outcome

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and the product are not going to be what you wanted. They're not

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going to be at the best. There are people who are very specific

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that their work area has to be. Clean, neat and tidy, or they

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cannot concentrate, they cannot do the work for me. That's not

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really case. That's really not the problem. I just need a deaf

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space around me that I could do the work. I have not really

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completely embraced the whole paperless society yet, and in my

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last job, I really hadn't either. I had papers everywhere.

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However, I pretty much knew where the stuff was. Could I

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have done things quicker if things had been all filed and

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put away, maybe, but when I knew what stack they were in, and

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then I had to dig through drawers to find it once I filed

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everything, um, that, in the end, made it a little bit harder

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for me. So all kinds of questions and possibilities on

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the outcome of that, like, what is your environment? If you know

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there's something broken in your house and you work from home,

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your mind might just continually go back to that, like, Gosh, I

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really need to call somebody. I really need to get that fixed.

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Is it distracting you and holding you back from doing what

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you really want to do and or need to do it? Really can those

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things, kind of things can really drive you insane. I have

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a friend who really has to have everything perfect before any

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work gets done, and a lot of times that that outer world, the

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world around us, if it's not in order, our inner world, can be

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in turmoil and not quite right. Not everybody has the ability to

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cut out those distractions. I recently had a conversation with

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somebody in a a workman was at their house repairing an

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appliance, and as I'm hearing all the drama unfold with the

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appliance, I thought, just buy a new one. Like, it's not that

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expensive to have just replaced this small appliance. And I

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learned that firsthand. We bought a refrigerator with a

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freezer, and it had an ice maker in it, and the ice maker kept

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going out, like, I don't know how many times it went out, and

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at one point they sent somebody from a different company,

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because this was through the warranty. And the guy said,

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Ma'am, like, for $50 I can just put a new ice maker in, and the

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labor will be about 20 because it's not going to take me any

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time at all. And I was like, do that. I had taken off work

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literally four times to come home to get this ice maker

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fixed. I had to take leave 30 minutes before I needed to be

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home. And then all the time I was home. And then, you know,

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you get a window of when they come that was the biggest

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distraction all the way around. And the first time the person

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came out, they could have just put in a whole new ice maker. It

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cost them more money to buy the part to put in there and fix it

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than a brand new ice maker would have been. That seems simple,

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but that was distracting me from getting my work done, because

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now I had fewer hours in the day multiple times. I'm telling you,

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multiple times it was at least four till we got it fixed, and I

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couldn't get my work done, or I had a much shorter period of

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time to get it done. This is in the times when when you had to

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physically go into the office all the time. You weren't given

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the opportunity to work from home at all. You were either at

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work or on leave. So what distractions are out there? Are

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you fighting with your computer? Is it not working correctly?

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That is a distraction from your focus. If your things aren't

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working right, you can't get the job done. Jack Canfield, in his

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book The success principles, really talks about things that

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he calls incomplete. What is incomplete or undone in your

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life that is distracting you from doing the work you're

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really meant to be doing. And one of the exercises is to make

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a list. And there was someone. It might have been him, I can't

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remember now, but someone's garage door didn't open, and

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whenever he came home, he had to park the car, get out of the

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car, open the garage door, get in the car, pull the car in,

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turn it off, get out and physically pull the garage door

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down. And he had picked up someone that was coming to stay

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at their house from the airport. And he pulls up, and he stops

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and gets out and goes through his whole production of the

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garage door up and car moved, and all that, and the visitors

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said, So, how long have you been tolerating that? How long have

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you been tolerating that? So, what is it that you are

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tolerating in your life that is causing the distraction from

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having the focus? Need to have to show up the way you want to

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show up.

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We always take out our frustrations on the ones we

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love. We shouldn't, but that's what we do. That's what we do.

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That's how this runs. So eliminate as many distractions

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as possible. Get the things that are broken fixed, get them

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thrown away if they just need to be thrown away, but make your

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environment physically, emotionally and spiritually.

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Make those environments as tidy as you need them to be, so that

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you can be as productive as possible. You can have that

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focus, and it's in the right area. Another piece, the last

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piece I want to talk about on this today is alignment creates

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momentum. Alignment creates momentum. I have spent so many

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hours, I don't even want to say how many hours that probably led

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to weeks, that probably led to months, working on things that

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really weren't in alignment with me, what I wanted to do, how I

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wanted to show up in the world. And it's time that's lost time

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is that one commodity that we can't replace in any way, shape

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or form. So are you aligned with what you want to be doing? I

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know there are people probably listening who are like, I have

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this job. I have to keep this job. So, I mean, I'm just going

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through the motions. I have to have this job. Well, if you're

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new to me, you may not have heard this. If you've heard it

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before, maybe it will land differently for you. You made a

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choice to take that job. Nobody forced you to take that job.

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Nobody forced you to take that job. If you said yes to that

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position, then you're saying yes to showing up as your full best

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self and do that job to the best of your ability. Brendon

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Burchard often calls it summoning your best. He's he

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uses that in a lot of his books and podcasts. Summon your best

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to do your job the best you can and identify the ways that job

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is fulfilling you is the pay good so you're able to have the

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lifestyle that you want. Do you enjoy the clientele that you

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serve? Do you feel good having the answers? I heard somebody

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say the other day, man, I feel really great when I'm able to

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answer somebody's question and it's the right answer and it

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helps them move further along. What is it about that job, that

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career, that field you've chosen that brings purpose? I didn't

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always do tasks that I loved in my career in housing as an

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entrepreneur, there are tasks I do that, I don't love either,

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but they're part of the bigger picture. So is there alignment

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with what you're doing, the task you're doing that fulfills a

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bigger purpose? Because finding that alignment, which is not

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always hard to do, sometimes it is, but mostly people can find

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that alignment pretty quickly, you find that alignment and your

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momentum is just it's going to be off the charts. When I made

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this shift from doing strictly black and white, very strategic

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leadership development training, and got more into the woo space

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and the energy healing and clearing the blocks that are

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holding people back. It's so much easier to show up and do

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what I want to do, because I love it. I enjoy it. I was in an

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event recently in Miami, and because people are amazing and

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they make wonderful referral recommendations, I was referred

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to several people that they needed to work with me, and at

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the end of those few days of Miami, it was like, I can't quit

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doing what I'm doing, even if I want to, because I love this. I

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love doing what I do. I love impacting people's lives in a

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positive way, and I love being able to sit back and watch them

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flourish, doing what they want to do. So when it comes to your

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focus, check your thoughts and your mindset before you start

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the project. Eliminate those internal and external

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distractions that are going to keep you from really giving it

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your all and then align what you're doing with your calling,

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having that clarity that this is what you want to be doing, or

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it's a piece of a bigger picture. Even if you don't love

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this little piece, it feeds a bigger piece. And the momentum

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comes and the shifts come and things happen most. Faster. I'm

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Jennifer Takagi with destin for success, I would love to have a

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chat with you. Click the link, book a call, and let's see

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what's going on in your world. And if there's any way that I

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can possibly make it better, I look forward to connecting with

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you soon.

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