{"href":"http://player.captivate.fm/services/oembed?url=http%3A%2F%2Fplayer.captivate.fm%2Fepisode%2F14b68fc8-03c3-4422-ba24-1744d0f4ae9d","version":"1.0","provider_name":"Captivate.FM","provider_url":"https://www.captivate.fm","width":600,"height":200,"type":"rich","html":"<iframe style=\"width: 100%; height: 200px;\" title=\"Reflections on Love\" frameborder=\"0\" scrolling=\"no\" allow=\"clipboard-write\" seamless src=\"http://player.captivate.fm/episode/14b68fc8-03c3-4422-ba24-1744d0f4ae9d\"></iframe>","title":"Reflections on Love","description":"I was never one to dream about being a bride or planning a wedding\u2014perhaps I was too busy navigating my life as a trauma hider. However, I did know a few things: I knew who I wanted to be in love, and knew with whom I wanted to be in love. I wanted to be real, honest, vulnerable, and raw, and I wanted my person to be with all of me, even if I didn\u2019t want to deal with all of me. I married the guy who stayed, and not just because he could deal with all of me; he showed up sweetly, tenderly, as a human who felt at home and continues to 32 years later.\u00a0In this episode, I reflect on love as we celebrate the 32nd anniversary of our beautiful wedding. I also discuss the kind of person I wanted to be\u2014and be with\u2014in love, describe our wedding at our family home, and share the most gracious statement my mother has made about me.\u00a0\u201cTo love each other has been the easiest and most difficult part of being married: each day is a recommitment to love.\u201d - Karen Goldfinger Baker\u00a0This week on the Trauma Hiders Club Podcast:\u00a0\u25cf\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0Who I wanted to be in love and the kind of person I wanted to be in love with\u25cf\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0Our beautiful wedding at our family home\u25cf\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0What it\u2019s like to be married for more than 30 years\u25cf\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0My mother\u2019s toast and the legacy I want to honor\u00a0Where High Achievers Get Through Shit - TOGETHER\u00a0Thanks for tuning into this week\u2019s episode of Trauma Hiders Club \u2018The Podcast\u2019 with Karen Goldfinger Baker. If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe and leave a review wherever you get your podcasts.\u00a0Apple Podcasts (https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/trauma-hiders-club-podcast/id1569664269) | TuneIn (https://tunein.com/podcasts/Health--Wellness-Podcasts/Trauma-Hiders-Club-Podcast-p1444567/) | GooglePlay (https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0cHM6Ly9vbW55LmZtL3Nob3dzL3RyYXVtYS1oaWRlcnMtY2x1Yi9wbGF5bGlzdHMvcG9kY2FzdC5yc3M) | Stitcher (https://www.stitcher.com/show/trauma-hiders-club-podcast) | Spotify (https://open.spotify.com/show/2ZOxHZICFQhfI2nbrIU2Ut) | Amazon Music (https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/e8ff8ce6-d410-4eec-b482-b297f7cb8a24/Trauma-Hiders-Club-Podcast)\u00a0Be sure to share your favorite episodes on social media to help me reach more high achievers like you.\u00a0Join me on Facebook (https://www.facebook.com/kbakercleve), Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/kaygeebee007/), and LinkedIn (https://www.linkedin.com/in/bakerk/), and visit my website (https://www.karengoldfingerbaker.com/) to discover the rules of Trauma Club and grab your free download: Discover 5 Ways Your Fuckery Is Getting In The Way of The Next Level of Your Success.\u00a0","thumbnail_width":300,"thumbnail_height":300,"thumbnail_url":"https://artwork.captivate.fm/a97e0681-2a80-46d9-a746-7ff24244df92/1474210-1681514345.jpg"}