{"href":"http://player.captivate.fm/services/oembed?url=http%3A%2F%2Fplayer.captivate.fm%2Fepisode%2F18c8fc73-fe38-4bf6-a636-704db63dd148","version":"1.0","provider_name":"Captivate.FM","provider_url":"https://www.captivate.fm","width":600,"height":200,"type":"rich","html":"<iframe style=\"width: 100%; height: 200px;\" title=\"Finding Your Most Confident Self \u2013 Work in Sports Podcast\" frameborder=\"0\" scrolling=\"no\" allow=\"clipboard-write\" seamless src=\"http://player.captivate.fm/episode/18c8fc73-fe38-4bf6-a636-704db63dd148\"></iframe>","title":"Finding Your Most Confident Self \u2013 Work in Sports Podcast","description":"Hey, everybody, I\u2019m Brian Clapp, VP of Content and Engaged Learning at Work in Sports.com and this is the Work in Sports podcast\u2026I had a moment last week that really helped refocus me.\u00a0As you all know I am highly transparent, and I think I am pretty self-aware. I can tell when I\u2019m not feeling as inspired, or a question the impact I am making or wondering if I\u2019m hitting the mark with all of you.Yes, I am a worrier, and I don\u2019t think for a second that I have it all figured out. I am flawed and learning. And that isn\u2019t some statement hoping for compliments, it\u2019s just to show we are all the same in many ways.\u00a0<a href=\"https://www.workinsports.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2018/09/qa_coverD.png\"></a>As you have doubts, guess what, so does everyone else. If you worry and have anxiety and think you are all alone..well guess what, you aren\u2019t and I hope it gives you some solace to know you aren\u2019t alone.\u00a0Anyway, my point is, I go through ruts for sure. I go through times where I struggle to book guests and I wonder, why is this still so hard, haven\u2019t I established an audience yet, don\u2019t people know the good we are doing?Or I go through a rut where I\u2019m worried my message isn\u2019t getting through, I\u2019m not growing the audience like I should, or I\u2019m not hearing from the audiences very much\u2026 and I wonder and stress over what is wrong.Again. I share this because you need to know it is totally normal and rationale. People like Gary Vaynerchuk may not admit it, but I\u2019m pretty sure they go through moments of vulnerability and doubt too. I\u2019m just willing to admit it.\u00a0Well, this week Nathan Brown really helped me out, whether he knows it or not -- so I want to share this story. Nathan is a relatively new fan of the show, and is a student at the University of Dayton - he messaged me this week on LinkedIn:Brian, I got a funny story for you... So I recently took a shot and applied for a gameday position with the marketing department for the Cincinnati Bengals. I had no expectation I would hear back from them, but they liked my resume and invited me for an interview (woo hoo!).\u00a0However, I am currently interning in NH so I asked if we would be able to conduct an interview over Skype. It took them awhile to get back to me, and what happened was I basically had less than 12 hours to prepare. I did my best to do some of the tips and tricks you talk about in your podcast, but then I remembered something, I am staying in a pretty rough, not attractive, dorm room/student housing thing right now and this is not the place for an interview.\u00a0I then went searching around town at local libraries and what not trying to find a place to conduct this interview and I struck out (not being very familiar with the area did not help and how do these libraries not have study rooms?).\u00a0I come back to my dorm room and was like, \"were gonna make the best of this,\" but as I come into my room and turn on the lights, you guessed it, the light bulbs blow out. Long story short, I get a call about an hour later and did my best to own the fact that I was conducting this interview with nothing more than a desk lamp and my bed in the background. I could have been much more embarrassed and stressed by the situation, but I was able to make everyone laugh about it and own it. The rest of the interview went on to be very genuine and fun since the ice had been broken very early on in the conversation. I wanted to share with you that I was offered the job this morning.\u00a0I thank you for your knowledge and advice. I was able to use the things you have mentioned, stay calm, be myself, and make the best of a tough situation. Thanks again to you and what you do.Great story from Nathan, and to be honest I couldn\u2019t be prouder. This is a great life lesson for all of us - Nathan had a choice -- panic, and let that come through in the interview...or own the situation, make a bit of a joke out of it, loosen the mood, laugh at yourself a little and then nail the interview.","thumbnail_width":300,"thumbnail_height":300,"thumbnail_url":"https://artwork.captivate.fm/eef33116-7509-406c-bbfd-6de9cb5749b9/wispod-cover.png"}