{"href":"http://player.captivate.fm/services/oembed?url=http%3A%2F%2Fplayer.captivate.fm%2Fepisode%2F3d8742ca-7764-4ff9-8653-377f43d82e5d","version":"1.0","provider_name":"Captivate.FM","provider_url":"https://www.captivate.fm","width":600,"height":200,"type":"rich","html":"<iframe style=\"width: 100%; height: 200px;\" title=\"Doing Divorce Different #30 Making the Difficult Decision to Divorce w/ Kim Geiken and host attorney Lesa Koski\" frameborder=\"0\" scrolling=\"no\" allow=\"clipboard-write\" seamless src=\"http://player.captivate.fm/episode/3d8742ca-7764-4ff9-8653-377f43d82e5d\"></iframe>","title":"Doing Divorce Different #30 Making the Difficult Decision to Divorce w/ Kim Geiken and host attorney Lesa Koski","description":"<p>This episode makes sense of all the noise we have heard about how you know it is time to divorce. &nbsp;No one can help us more that guest Kim Geiken; who was a divorce mediation client and became a mediator. &nbsp;Join us as we discuss the three A's. &nbsp;Addiction, Abuse and Adultery, some say they lead to a sure fire path to divorce. &nbsp;Others say they are the only reason to divorce. &nbsp;We re-examine Brian Burns 4 step process: &nbsp;1. &nbsp;Know yourself-Are you willing to change and grow to make the marriage work? &nbsp;2. &nbsp;Check-in with your spouse, are they willing to change and grow to make the marriage work? &nbsp;3. &nbsp;If it's new give yourself time (maybe 6 months) being your best self; taking care of your own lane - to re-evaluate. &nbsp;4. &nbsp;Know you have done your best and follow your gut. &nbsp;We discuss that knowing you did your best and that you tried everything not only makes you feel good about your decision; it also helps you have tools that assist you in divorcing together better. &nbsp;Kim shares her story of growth and connection. &nbsp;And how this is fundamental to any partnership.&nbsp;</p>\n<p>MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST:</p>\n<p>After 18 years of Elder Law and Family Law, Lesa Koski brings extensive experience to the complex area of Mediation. &nbsp;In truth, Lesa Koski Mediates wherever she shows up. &nbsp;She is fully equipped with the communication skills that bring a taste of peace to the nastiest discrepancies.</p>\n<p>Lesa's mission is to offer compassionate, complete, competent services while maker her life such that it blesses humankind. &nbsp;This mission is palpable when you shake Lesa's hand. &nbsp;Clients love working with Lesa because she is trustworthy and capable. &nbsp;Above all, Lesa Koski is a brilliant communicator, bar none.</p>\n<p>Website: &nbsp;https://www.familyandcivilmediation.com/</p>\n<p>Instagram: &nbsp;https://www.instagram.com/koskilaw/</p>\n<p>Linkedin: &nbsp;https://www.linkedin.com/in/lesakoski/</p>\n<p>Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/mediationspecialists1/</p>\n","thumbnail_width":300,"thumbnail_height":300,"thumbnail_url":"https://artwork.captivate.fm/1256c21b-3521-4927-97ee-ea180a22de20/15697230-1633551000374-3f02783ee243e.jpg"}