{"href":"http://player.captivate.fm/services/oembed?url=http%3A%2F%2Fplayer.captivate.fm%2Fepisode%2F4743407f-4895-4276-8e7a-48088c9abb84","version":"1.0","provider_name":"Captivate.FM","provider_url":"https://www.captivate.fm","width":600,"height":200,"type":"rich","html":"<iframe style=\"width: 100%; height: 200px;\" title=\"Why Control Freaks Get So Anxious\" frameborder=\"0\" scrolling=\"no\" allow=\"clipboard-write\" seamless src=\"http://player.captivate.fm/episode/4743407f-4895-4276-8e7a-48088c9abb84\"></iframe>","title":"Why Control Freaks Get So Anxious","description":"<p>Anxiety has reached epidemic proportions in our culture, and it might have to do with the \u201cillusion of control\u201d that technology has given us. We can reach anyone, anytime at the touch of a button. (And worse yet, they can reach us.) We have instant access to movies and answers and doctors. Like Pharaohs of old, we live in private palaces. And like God, we need only to speak to turn on the lights.</p>\n<p>But it\u2019s all an illusion. The truth is, we have no more control than the cavemen did before us. And that\u2019s why, more than ever, control freaks get so anxious.</p>\n<h3><strong>Re-defining Anxiety</strong></h3>\n<p>Oxford defines anxiety as \u201ca feeling of worry, nervousness, or unease, typically about an imminent event or something with an uncertain outcome.\u201d It\u2019s clarifying to add one more phrase to the end of that definition: \u201c...that you can\u2019t control\u201d. The imminent event isn\u2019t the problem. The reason we\u2019re so scared is because we\u2019re not in control.</p>\n<p>For some people, this is a new insight. It\u2019s the revelation, the new sense of out-of-controlness, that usually brings on the panic. The anxiety chapter in the Bible (Philippians 4) offers a surprising antidote to this problem, tailored just for control freaks:</p>\n<p><em>Philippians 4:4-5 (NLT) Always be full of joy in the Lord. I say it again\u2014rejoice! Let everyone see that you are considerate in all you do. Remember, the Lord is coming soon.</em></p>\n<p>But we have a different problem today: we love our lives! We\u2019ve created heaven on earth, and it\u2019s uncomfortable (and unnecessary) to think about eternity. We hear \u201cThe Lord is coming soon\u2026\u201d and we think, \u201cAm I ready? Will I make the cut?\u201d For many of us today, the phrase causes dread!</p>\n<h3><strong>Anxiety as a Thorn</strong></h3>\n<p>That\u2019s the beautiful thing about anxiety. It\u2019s a warning sign, a wake-up call. It brings us back down to earth, and it reminds us of the reality of our condition. We are not in control. We need to re-establish our reliance upon God.</p>\n<p>Paul learned this lesson for himself and passed it on the the church in Corinth:</p>\n<p><em>2 Corinthians 12:7-10 (NLT) So to keep me from becoming proud, I was given a thorn in my flesh, a messenger from Satan to torment me and keep me from becoming proud. Three different times I begged the Lord to take it away. Each time he said, \u201cMy grace is all you need. My power works best in weakness.\u201d So now I am glad to boast about my weaknesses, so that the power of Christ can work through me. That\u2019s why I take pleasure in my weaknesses, and in the insults, hardships, persecutions, and troubles that I suffer for Christ. For when I am weak, then I am strong.</em></p>\n<p>Anxiety makes you feel \u201cless than\u201d and opens you up to vulnerability. It shows your weakness. And guess what? That\u2019s a good thing! This thorn in the flesh opens the door to a work of God in and through you.</p>\n<h3><strong>Who\u2019s on the Throne?</strong></h3>\n<p>Because here\u2019s the question we\u2019ll all have to answer one day: who is on the throne of your life? Who\u2019s in control, really?</p>\n<p>The prophet Isaiah had that question on his mind when the great King Uzziah died after 52 years on the throne in Israel. His reign brought peace and prosperity like the nation hadn\u2019t known since the times of King David (2 Chronicles 26). Life was good, and then Uzziah diedii. That\u2019s when Isaiah had his spectacular vision:</p>\n<p><em>Isaiah 6:1 (NLT) It was in the year King Uzziah died that I saw the Lord. He was sitting on a lofty throne, and the train of his robe filled the Temple.</em></p>\n<h3><strong>Rejoice in the Lord</strong></h3>\n<p>So what\u2019s the practical response to anxiety for a control freak? The answer is surprisingly simple, and it brings us back to the passage we started with:</p>\n<p><em>Philippians 4:4 (NLT) Always be full of joy in the Lord. I say it again\u2014rejoice!</em></p>\n\n--- \n\nSupport this podcast: <a href=\"https://anchor.fm/pursuegod/support\" rel=\"payment\">https://anchor.fm/pursuegod/support</a>","thumbnail_width":300,"thumbnail_height":300,"thumbnail_url":"https://artwork.captivate.fm/861a1fd3-3211-4a99-b19b-8717b016b491/1086498-1640819066205-ac79b05d70fe5.jpg"}