{"href":"http://player.captivate.fm/services/oembed?url=http%3A%2F%2Fplayer.captivate.fm%2Fepisode%2F57c80294-f2dc-435b-8b3e-b470051a4033","version":"1.0","provider_name":"Captivate.FM","provider_url":"https://www.captivate.fm","width":600,"height":200,"type":"rich","html":"","title":"Episode 092: Masculinity, Vulnerability, and Sexuality\u2026The Perfect Storm \u2013 Zachary Zane","description":"Sometimes, well actually most of the time, the way to show up in the world is in the moment. That\u2019s exactly how my guest and I met today. No we weren\u2019t on some hook-up app, or cruising each other in a club. We were both putting our stuff out on the proverbial hookup site \u2013 Facebook \u2013 and someone shared his article on How To Meet Men IRL (not on Grindr) and low and behold, in the moment I reached out to this handsome guy and said, \u201cLet\u2019s hook up on my podcast and talk about all things masculine, vulnerable, and sexual.\u201d And here we are. Zachary Zane is a modern day Carrie Bradshaw \u2013 you know from sex in the city \u2013 and he\u2019s putting his sexuality, writing, and making his own mark in the city of Los Angeles as a writer an interesting perspective on all things any modern day male version of Carrie Bradshaw might be thinking! So grab yourself a cosmo and let\u2019s go hang out in The Coming Out Lounge with my guest \u2013 Zachary Zane!\r\nShow Highlights\r\n\r\n* Ever wonder how to meet men in real life? You\u2019ll want to listen to this\u2026\r\n* Zachary used to think he couldn\u2019t explore without having a \u201clabel\u201d of what he was\r\n* Hear why the bisexual voice is\u00a0underrepresented in communities and the media\r\n* Sex is one of the LEAST important factors of being bisexual!\r\n* The confusion of wondering if he was gay or straight consumed Zachary\r\n\r\nConnect with Zachary Zane\r\nZachary Zane is a modern day Carrie Bradshaw from Los Angeles. His writing focuses on (bi)sexuality, gender, identity politics, dating, and relationships. He\u2019s currently a contributor at\u00a0Cosmopolitan,\u00a0Bustle,\u00a0PRIDE, and\u00a0Huffington Post Queer Voices. He\u2019s working on a novel, which explores the modern relationship between masculinity, vulnerability, and sexuality.\r\nWebsite\u00a0\r\nTwitter\r\nRecent Articles:\r\nHow to meet men IRL (And Not On Grindr) \u2013\u00a0\r\nIT HAPPENED TO ME: I Came Out as Bisexual and Now Can\u2019t Date Anyone Gay or Straight\r\n5 Ways Grinder Changed Me For The Good\r\n\u00a0\r\n","thumbnail_width":300,"thumbnail_height":300,"thumbnail_url":"https://artwork.captivate.fm/4b9b6c41-474a-4fd0-a374-cbb2a7aa23a4/1400x1400_uncloseted_artwork-01-573.jpg"}