{"href":"http://player.captivate.fm/services/oembed?url=http%3A%2F%2Fplayer.captivate.fm%2Fepisode%2F66a68cbe-9820-4b62-aa26-da3d5f6a4f7d","version":"1.0","provider_name":"Captivate.FM","provider_url":"https://www.captivate.fm","width":600,"height":200,"type":"rich","html":"","title":"You Can't Force It","description":"Let\u2019s just admit it, sometimes as silly humans we do try to force things and we try to fight reality; especially when we don't want \u201cit\u201d to be how it is. \n\nAs a coach, parent or an entrepreneur, really anybody who leads or guides people, whether it's a team of employees, a membership & community, or a mentor that has clients, the one thing we all know is we cannot make people do the work.\n\nWe can hold the vision for them, we can cheer them on and we can show them the way - but like the old saying goes, \u201cYou can lead a horse to water, but you can\u2019t make him drink.\u201d \n\nIt\u2019s the same with people; no matter how much you might want \u201cit\u201d for them you just can\u2019t force it. They have to be willing to play a proactive role in their own growth, transformation and healing.\n\nToday on The Karen Kenney Show, we\u2019re talking about loving and supporting people, but from a place of acceptance and understanding that we can\u2019t force them to do even what might need to be done, for their own results, safety, health, happiness or peace.\n\nSometimes it\u2019s super necessary to take a step back and let the people you love people live out the effects of their personal choices and the consequences of being themselves.","thumbnail_width":300,"thumbnail_height":300,"thumbnail_url":"https://artwork.captivate.fm/22c50850-e75c-4734-b25e-87faf90de9ff/2026-Podcast-Artwork-512KB.jpg"}