{"href":"http://player.captivate.fm/services/oembed?url=http%3A%2F%2Fplayer.captivate.fm%2Fepisode%2F6e232fe4-6097-45d4-a812-d66786f7f633","version":"1.0","provider_name":"Captivate.FM","provider_url":"https://www.captivate.fm","width":600,"height":200,"type":"rich","html":"","title":"The Chaos Kid Factor and the Hidden Roots of Divorce with Larry Bilotta","description":"When relationships fall apart, most people search for surface-level reasons. In this episode of Healing Horizons, host Yusuf speaks with relationship educator Larry Bilotta about the deeper, often invisible forces that quietly shape betrayal, midlife crisis, and divorce.\nThis conversation is for anyone navigating marital conflict, emotional betrayal, or confusion about why love suddenly feels unstable. Larry introduces the Chaos Kid Factor and explains how unresolved childhood abandonment, abuse, or neglect can resurface inside intimate relationships, often without warning.\n\u00a0\nAbout the Guest:\nLarry Bilotta is a relationship educator and teacher who spent 27 years in a loveless marriage before discovering a framework that reshaped his understanding of emotional chaos and long-term relationships. He now helps individuals facing marital crisis regain clarity and emotional control.\n\u00a0\nKey Takeaways:\n\n\nYou do not just marry a person, you marry their family system\n\n\nChildhood chaos often resurfaces only inside intimate relationships\n\n\nLove chemicals can hide serious emotional patterns early on\n\n\nBetrayal often stems from learned habits of hiding and avoidance\n\n\nAwareness of subconscious patterns is the first step toward stability\n\n\n\u00a0\nHow to Connect With the Guest:\n\u00a0Larry is also the author of This Is Not the Woman I Married and maintains resources on his websites, savethismarriage.com and larrybilotta.com, as well as on his popular YouTube channel.\n\u00a0\nWant to be a guest on Healthy Mind, Healthy Life? DM on PM - Send me a message on PodMatchDM Me Here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/avik\n\u00a0\nDisclaimer: This video is for educational and informational purposes only. The views expressed are the personal opinions of the guest and do not reflect the views of the host or Healthy Mind By Avik\u2122\ufe0f. We do not intend to harm, defame, or discredit any person, organization, brand, product, country, or profession mentioned. All third-party media used remain the property of their respective owners and are used under fair use for informational purposes. By watching, you acknowledge and accept this disclaimer.\n\u00a0\nHealthy Mind By Avik\u2122\ufe0f is a global platform redefining mental health as a necessity, not a luxury. Born during the pandemic, it\u2019s become a sanctuary for healing, growth, and mindful living. Hosted by Avik Chakraborty, storyteller, survivor, and wellness advocate.\nWith over 6000+ episodes and 200K+ global listeners, we unite voices, break stigma, and build a world where every story matters.\ud83d\udc49 Subscribe and be part of this healing journey.\nContact:\ud83d\udcbc Brand: Healthy Mind By Avik\u2122\ud83d\udce7 Email: podcast@podhub.club\ud83c\udf10 Website: https://www.podhub.club/\ud83d\udccd Based in: India & USA\n\ud83c\udfa7 Listen to all podcast shows: https://www.podbean.com/podcast-network/healthymindbyavik\ud83e\udd1d Be a guest: https://www.healthymindbyavik.com/beaguest\ud83d\udce9 Newsletter: https://healthymindbyavik.substack.com/\n#podmatch #healthymindbyavik #podhub.club #relationships #divorcehealing #betrayalrecovery #emotionalhealing #innerchildwork #relationshippatterns #mentalhealthawareness #healingjourney #personalgrowth #mindfulness #selfawareness","thumbnail_width":300,"thumbnail_height":300,"thumbnail_url":"https://artwork.captivate.fm/ea739b07-c0de-4eec-805f-6e266f2967bc/mzhhzs5qcgc.jpg"}