{"href":"http://player.captivate.fm/services/oembed?url=http%3A%2F%2Fplayer.captivate.fm%2Fepisode%2F8ad8a004-87de-461c-adc5-ebab022a5d22","version":"1.0","provider_name":"Captivate.FM","provider_url":"https://www.captivate.fm","width":600,"height":200,"type":"rich","html":"<iframe style=\"width: 100%; height: 200px;\" title=\"Accept Others\" frameborder=\"0\" scrolling=\"no\" allow=\"clipboard-write\" seamless src=\"http://player.captivate.fm/episode/8ad8a004-87de-461c-adc5-ebab022a5d22\"></iframe>","title":"Accept Others","description":"I have another name for the eighth rule of Trauma Hiders Club: \u201cSometimes Other People Suck, and It\u2019s Not Their Fault.\u201dIt can be frustrating whenever you share your trauma with others. Sometimes you don\u2019t get the response you want; sometimes, they trigger your trauma even more; sometimes, you trigger their trauma. That\u2019s because nobody else has lived your experience but you\u2014inevitably, some people are going to fall short of expectations. But you\u2019re not responsible for how they respond, and they\u2019re not responsible for how you respond. Know that even the people who love you\u2014friends, families, partners\u2014can disappoint you. It doesn\u2019t mean they\u2019re not doing their best to support you, and it doesn\u2019t mean we\u2019re going to stop working on our healing or talking about trauma. We\u2019ll keep going, and we\u2019ll keep working on our healing.In this episode, I share the eighth rule of the Trauma Hiders Club: \u201cAccept Others.\u201d I describe how and why people are sometimes going to disappoint you when you share with them your experiences and remind you to keep doing the work, even if you are yet to find the right people.\u201cKnow that there are people in your world who are going to disappoint you, anger you, or re-trigger your shit. But we don\u2019t stop. We keep doing the work.\u201d - Karen Goldfinger BakerThis week on the Trauma Hiders Club Podcast:* The eighth rule of Trauma Hiders Club* Your lived experiences are unique to you, and why it can be frustrating to talk about trauma with others* Accepting others and doing the workWhere High Achievers Get Through Shit - TOGETHERThanks for tuning into this week\u2019s episode of Trauma Hiders Club \u2018The Podcast\u2019 with Karen Goldfinger Baker. If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe and leave a review wherever you get your podcasts.Apple Podcasts (https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/trauma-hiders-club-podcast/id1569664269) | TuneIn (https://tunein.com/podcasts/Health--Wellness-Podcasts/Trauma-Hiders-Club-Podcast-p1444567/) | GooglePlay (https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0cHM6Ly9vbW55LmZtL3Nob3dzL3RyYXVtYS1oaWRlcnMtY2x1Yi9wbGF5bGlzdHMvcG9kY2FzdC5yc3M) | Stitcher (https://www.stitcher.com/show/trauma-hiders-club-podcast) | Spotify (https://open.spotify.com/show/2ZOxHZICFQhfI2nbrIU2Ut) | Amazon Music (https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/e8ff8ce6-d410-4eec-b482-b297f7cb8a24/Trauma-Hiders-Club-Podcast)Be sure to share your favorite episodes on social media to help me reach more high achievers like you.Join me on Facebook (https://www.facebook.com/kbakercleve), Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/kaygeebee007/), and LinkedIn (https://www.linkedin.com/in/bakerk/) and visit my website (https://www.karengoldfingerbaker.com/) to discover the rules of Trauma Club and grab your free download: Discover 5 Ways Your Fuckery Is Getting In The Way of The Next Level of Your Success.","thumbnail_width":300,"thumbnail_height":300,"thumbnail_url":"https://artwork.captivate.fm/088d56a0-498e-4477-9c3e-ab874e5b97b0/image.jpg"}