{"href":"http://player.captivate.fm/services/oembed?url=http%3A%2F%2Fplayer.captivate.fm%2Fepisode%2F91bf602d-80fa-4b7b-bb8b-9e19164f30c0","version":"1.0","provider_name":"Captivate.FM","provider_url":"https://www.captivate.fm","width":600,"height":200,"type":"rich","html":"","title":"037. How To Overcome Guilt When Moving Your Loved One Into Senior Housing","description":"There comes a time for many of us when we have a talk with our loved ones about their living situation. Whether you need to find them assisted living or a nursing home, initiating the conversation isn\u2019t always easy - and it\u2019s common to feel guilt. Unfortunately, guilt can increase stress, drain your energy, and cloud your judgment, which can worsen the situation.Senior Living Expert Lori Williams discusses the red flags you should look for when deciding if it\u2019s time to start the conversation about long-term care. She also outlines 4 reasons people feel guilt when beginning this process with loved ones. While it\u2019s an uncomfortable situation, it\u2019s important to remember you\u2019re not a failure for needing help and for doing what\u2019s safest for them.Topics discussed:-\u00a0Long-term care and senior living-\u00a0Assisted living and nursing homes-\u00a0How to tell if your loved ones need care-\u00a0Dementia / Alzheimer\u2019s-\u00a0Caregiver's guilt-\u00a0Difficult discussions with seniors-\u00a0Resources for senior family membersTakeaways from this episode:-\u00a0Change is often hard for those involved, so try easing the process with good communication. Talk to your loved ones about their options and what they\u2019d like in their new home \u2013 and talk with the community about your loved one\u2019s needs.-\u00a0Your loved one may resist long-term care, but keep in mind if they have a long-term care policy, they had planned for this when they were in the right state of mind.- Many loved ones feel denial or embarrassment when they\u2019re struggling at home and may resist help for fear of losing independence.-\u00a0It\u2019s uncomfortable to feel the role reversal with parents when you\u2019re making decisions about their lives, especially if your parents are private - but it\u2019s still important to handle.- You\u2019re not a failure for seeking help and providing the care they need. It\u2019s a smart decision that promotes their safety and well-being.Resources mentioned in this episode:Episode 21: Red Flagshttps://www.loriwilliams-seniorservices.com/aging-in-style-podcast/episode/78dafab1/021-7-red-flags-to-look-for-during-holiday-visits-with-senior-family-membersEpisode 5: Senior Housing 101https://www.loriwilliams-seniorservices.com/aging-in-style-podcast/episode/78876793/005-senior-housing-101To suggest a topic, or to get help please email Lori@Loriwilliams-seniorservices.com For more senior resources and to sign up to the newsletter please visit:https://loriwilliams-seniorservices.com/aging-in-style-podcast/https://www.facebook.com/LoriWilliamsSeniorServices/","thumbnail_width":300,"thumbnail_height":300,"thumbnail_url":"https://artwork.captivate.fm/1bfacc2a-972c-48e6-8bca-6af5306c63dc/23108943afb058f2fcf9e7824ffc27b8-square-big.jpg"}