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This is the nuts and bolts of what you need to begin your Divorce Mediation process.  Yes, the paperwork.  Here it is in a nutshell:

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  1. Taxes
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  2. Pay stubs
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  3. Retirement Plan Statements
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  4. Health and Dental coverage information
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  5. Stock information and values
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  6. Property deeds
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  7. Life Insurance Paperwork
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  8. Bank Account information
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  9. Debts
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  10. Budgets
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If you begin pulling all of this information together you are off to a good start.  Budgets are difficult; they are so important.  It gives you a leg up to know how much you need to survive and thrive after the divorce.  It will also better prepare you in your negotiations.

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And don't forget to outline what your values are.  Mediation is a bit of a compromise so if you know what you are willing to bend on (and what you are not)- before you actually sit down to mediate - you are better able to leverage your true needs.

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If you need Divorce Support, or know someone who does, please contact me.  I am here and I want to help.

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