{"href":"http://player.captivate.fm/services/oembed?url=http%3A%2F%2Fplayer.captivate.fm%2Fepisode%2F9d2f9eb5-2978-4639-b02f-6b903fb54338","version":"1.0","provider_name":"Captivate.FM","provider_url":"https://www.captivate.fm","width":600,"height":200,"type":"rich","html":"<iframe style=\"width: 100%; height: 200px;\" title=\"The Foundation of Networking \u2013 Work In Sports Podcast\" frameborder=\"0\" scrolling=\"no\" allow=\"clipboard-write\" seamless src=\"http://player.captivate.fm/episode/9d2f9eb5-2978-4639-b02f-6b903fb54338\"></iframe>","title":"The Foundation of Networking \u2013 Work In Sports Podcast","description":"Hey everybody, I\u2019m Brian Clapp V of Content and Engaged Learning at WorkInSports.com and this is the Work in Sports podcast\u2026Just a quick personal vent -- not a big fan of changing the clocks. I think it is purely mental, but I get the worst night's sleep for about a week after the clocks change. My 12-year-old daughter was up at like 5:30 this morning, so clearly I passed this trait down to her as well.\u00a0Not a fan.\u00a0<a href=\"https://www.workinsports.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2019/09/qa_cover.png\"></a>What makes it even worse is staying up to watch your team stink on Sunday night Football\u2026 but I digress, as fully recognize that no one feels sympathy for Patriots fans like me. I would just like to again state for the record, I am from Boston and therefore my fandom is legit and earned through decades of sucking\u2026\u00a0Alright now that we\u2019ve cleared up the massive problems with daylight savings and sucking on Sunday night football.. Let\u2019s get to a question, shall we?I get all types of questions -- but this one from Teague in Oregon stuck out to me this week:\u201cHey Brian, I suck at networking, can you help?\u201dYou know I respect the brevity of this request. There is no flattery, no sugar coating, just straight to it. And while I love it when people say \u201chey brian, you are awesome!\u201d sometimes a good old \u201cI suck can you help, really cuts through the BS.OK, so this is a big subject, this networking things here, and I don\u2019t want to go on for hours and hours, so I\u2019m going to focus this a bit. If you want more I have an entire course on networking as part of the Work In sports Academy\u2026 but for now, I\u2019m going to go at this like I approach most things, I flip the conversation on its head.\u00a0Let\u2019s reverse engineer the heck out of this thing...and ask the question -- what makes someone become your friend?Does that seem to be a weird question to ask in regards to networking? Well, let\u2019s think about this -- as I analyze my network of contacts, the only ones I would rely upon, disclose things about myself too, give deep time and effort to helping when asked\u2026 are those people I would consider more than just a connection, I\u2019d call them a friend.\u00a0So how do you build more industry friends? That is the key to networking - it is the depth of the relationship, not the number.\u00a0So I\u2019ve moved around a bit in my life, and I\u2019ve figured out that it can be pretty hard to make friends when you get older.\u00a0You have shared experiences. Shared schedules. We\u2019re all on the same career status entry-level. Less responsibility. You can go out all night and not have to worry about things. It makes it pretty easy to connect with people.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0But as you get older, it gets harder to break in with people. I left my cushy world in Atlanta to move to Seattle knowing no one. I\u2019m 28, the new boss, and everyone you meet already has a circle of friends they\u2019ve been hanging with for years. We don\u2019t have shared experiences. We all have different job levels, more responsibilities, life is changing...and this tends to make people lean into the group they already have.\u00a0Networking is the same damn thing as making new friends.\u00a0Just connecting with someone. Or just engaging them in small talk at a conference. Or just liking their posts. Isn\u2019t going to cut it. The person you do that with, isn\u2019t going to stick their neck out for you next time you need a job, or need advice, or need a hand.\u00a0Building a network is the creation of multiple mini friendships. Maybe not your tell them everything and complain about your spouse best friend, but it follows the same rhythm. In life, we aren\u2019t trying to make 5,000 friends, we\u2019re trying to make the right 20 friends.Networking is the same thing.\u00a0\u00a0I have 6,536 connections on LinkedIn, I know very few of them. These people are opportunities to network, but they are not a network. They are lumps of relationship clay that I have done little to nothing with yet.\u00a0Many people compare their network to the expectations they have in their heads.","thumbnail_width":300,"thumbnail_height":300,"thumbnail_url":"https://artwork.captivate.fm/26560fc7-5c61-48a7-b5b5-434c695759a4/wispod-cover.png"}