{"href":"http://player.captivate.fm/services/oembed?url=http%3A%2F%2Fplayer.captivate.fm%2Fepisode%2Fa62bbbeb-9b4f-4fd7-8b28-e19c59201300","version":"1.0","provider_name":"Captivate.FM","provider_url":"https://www.captivate.fm","width":600,"height":200,"type":"rich","html":"","title":"#038: How To Trust Again After Sleeping With The Enemy - with Shannon Higgins, M.A., LPC-S","description":"This is the 3rd and last part of our mini-series on hidden abuse, narcissism & gaslighting. Part 1 was ep. #028: \u201cDid You just Gaslight Me?\u201d\n\n*Content note: this episode discusses abusive relationships, discretion is advised, particularly between 1hr 8 to 1 hr16* \n\nWe cover: \n// How do we recover from abusive relationships and how to trust again?\n// What are the symptoms that people can experience after they left an abusive relationship?\n// Is there a difference in those symptoms if you left a narcissist vs a toxic individual?\n// We go over how charming they are and why making a discernment when close to them is hard. We portray this with an extreme example of Marc Dutrou nr: 1 eveil wanted guy when I was growing up and how he charmed his way into an escape.\n// Self-forgiveness being a key part of recovery. \n// We address what to do if you\u2019re living with your abuser whilst in isolation - Domestic violence shelters are still working even under lockdown. \n// After this ordeal, how do you trust again?\n// How to deal with the abuser trying to claw back in.\n// The predator-to-prey symbiosis phenomenon.\n// Do some maybe have a deep desire to be toyed with or have a fantasy for total annihilation, is it a thing?\n// We finish up with successful recovery stories and The Tiger King. \n\nMentions in the episode: \n// https://www.angie-s.com/podcasting-taster-session \n// Katy Perry - Wide Awake (Official Video) \n\nFind Shannon: https://unlockingfortitude.com/ & insta @shannonhigginslpc \n\nFind me at https://linktr.ee/toooldforthisshit or www.angie-s.com","thumbnail_width":300,"thumbnail_height":300,"thumbnail_url":"https://artwork.captivate.fm/e249435a-0cf8-4b03-af65-0d824b6d7db0/7r6BnL52mKF7j5cfOhGOlN5l.png"}