{"href":"http://player.captivate.fm/services/oembed?url=http%3A%2F%2Fplayer.captivate.fm%2Fepisode%2Fb4d29d78-043e-4e33-92f2-30c5d6e335d0","version":"1.0","provider_name":"Captivate.FM","provider_url":"https://www.captivate.fm","width":600,"height":200,"type":"rich","html":"<iframe style=\"width: 100%; height: 200px;\" title=\"(2) Born to be Me - Toddler Stage\" frameborder=\"0\" scrolling=\"no\" allow=\"clipboard-write\" seamless src=\"http://player.captivate.fm/episode/b4d29d78-043e-4e33-92f2-30c5d6e335d0\"></iframe>","title":"(2) Born to be Me - Toddler Stage","description":"<p>\nThis episode, &#39;The Attached Life&#39;, explores the developmental stage in early childhood where autonomy clashes with feelings of shame and self-doubt. It shares how this phase can influence the adult&#39;s difficulty in making decisions or pursuing their desires and discusses why such responses are rooted in childhood interactions with caregivers. The speaker utilizes examples of everyday parental situations to demonstrate how a child&#39;s autonomy should ideally be met with balance and containment. It touches upon the potential impacts of caregivers&#39; personal anxiety, religious constrictions, and financial strains on a child&#39;s autonomous development. Lastly, it offers practical tips for adults to address and nurture their &#39;inner child&#39;, promoting self-awareness and personal growth.</p>\n<p>\nChapters:</p>\n<p>00:00 Introduction to the Concept of Inner Child</p>\n<p>00:56 Understanding the Importance of Choices and Preferences</p>\n<p>03:11 Exploring the Concepts of Shame and Self-Doubt</p>\n<p>05:54 The Impact of Early Life Experiences on Adult Life</p>\n<p>08:45 The Role of Trust in Developing Autonomy</p>\n<p>20:31 The Consequences of Suppressing Natural Impulses</p>\n<p>23:02 Understanding the Origins of Negative Self Beliefs</p>\n<p>32:27 The Impact of Parenting Styles on Child Development</p>\n<p>37:47 Techniques for Overcoming Shame and Self-Doubt</p>\n<p>43:31 Conclusion: Embracing the Inner Child\n</p>\n<p>\n</p>\n<p>To join our WhatsApp Status for consistent updates, short snippets and more <a href=\"https://wa.me/message/GHK7P7WJUW43F1\">\u2060click here.\u2060</a></p>\n<p>Our content can be found on:</p>\n<p><a href=\"https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCQ42ryab8dROF3ganS4NfTAx\">\u2060YouTube\u2060</a></p>\n<p><a href=\"https://open.spotify.com/show/3J0C9YRySOhJ1KnDjIelw6\">\u2060Spotify\u2060</a></p>\n<p><a href=\"https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-attached-life/id1664578187\">\u2060Apple Podcasts</a></p>\n<p>\n\n</p>\n","thumbnail_width":300,"thumbnail_height":300,"thumbnail_url":"https://artwork.captivate.fm/8a4f2974-2eaa-474b-affc-9904892ac562/36319797-1706898874003-90cf0314df443.jpg"}