{"href":"http://player.captivate.fm/services/oembed?url=http%3A%2F%2Fplayer.captivate.fm%2Fepisode%2Fb7e9752a-3c49-45cf-ba76-e318d8127cdb","version":"1.0","provider_name":"Captivate.FM","provider_url":"https://www.captivate.fm","width":600,"height":200,"type":"rich","html":"","title":"Former Inmate on How to Overcome the Mistakes of Your Past | E41 Nate Dukes","description":"Nate Dukes is an author, speaker, property investor, leader at his church, and serves on the board of a non-profit for underprivileged youth. Already an impressive resume for someone in their 30s.\u00a0\nBut what is even more impressive is the journey Nate took to get here. After getting busted for stealing a car, Nate spent 6 months in a Tennessee jail. He was written off as a lost cause and told that he\u2019d never change.\nNate decided to tear up that script by getting focused on what he wants and making the right choices.\nAfter changing his life, he shifted his mission to helping others do the same. To do this, Nate wrote and published his debut book, You\u2019ll Never Change: Create Your Comeback and Prove Them Wrong.\nIn this conversation you\u2019ll hear the story of how Nate went from successful business owner to innate to author.\nWe\u2019ll discuss how to find inspiration in unlikely places, how to surround yourself with the right people, and repairing the damage of your past.\n\u00a0\nKey Takeaways:\n[1:50] How Nate\u2019s childhood influenced the broken mindset he carried into his 20s\n[21:30] Nate\u2019s initial feelings when he found himself in jail\n[26:50] Nate\u2019s first interaction after being let out of jail\n[31:35] Nate surprising inspiration for personal development\n[33:53] Spending time with the right people\n[38:53] Repairing the damage of your past\n\u00a0\nFavorite Quotes:\n[4:29] \u201cWhat feels good in the moment, isn\u2019t always good for your future.\u201d\n[14:47] \u201cThe truth is, if I wanted to, I could always go back. I could always go back to living the way I was before. But I didn\u2019t know what my life could look like if I committed one year and did whatever it takes.\u201d\n[29:52] \u201cI\u2019m smoking weed and listening to Tony Robbins at the same time.\u201d\n[35:12] \u201cI was a super messy person at that time, but there were some people that were willing to get messy with me.\u201d\n[39:19] \u201cHaving the right voices in your life is going to help you make the right choices in your life.\u201d\n[43:34] \u201cThere are people that know a version of you that doesn\u2019t exist anymore.\u201d\n\u00a0\nMore of Nate:\nBook (Amazon): https://www.amazon.com/Youll-Never-Change-Create-comeback/dp/057888996X/ref=sr_1_2?crid=3UP25N90ZRNZ9&dchild=1&keywords=you%27ll+never+change+book+nate+dukes&qid=1628715127&sprefix=you%27ll+never+change%2Caps%2C1219&sr=8-2\nwww.youllneverchange.com\nPay it forward program: www.youllneverchange.com/payitforward\n\u00a0\nMore of TSIR:\nFind show notes and more at https://www.tsirpodcast.com/\nFollow us on Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/tsirpod/","thumbnail_width":300,"thumbnail_height":300,"thumbnail_url":"https://artwork.captivate.fm/af2f3160-cadc-422b-ba96-9c6145ca838b/cover-art-59-au4n9.png"}