{"href":"http://player.captivate.fm/services/oembed?url=http%3A%2F%2Fplayer.captivate.fm%2Fepisode%2Fc0eea39b-94ce-4145-bc40-84a090fc472f","version":"1.0","provider_name":"Captivate.FM","provider_url":"https://www.captivate.fm","width":600,"height":200,"type":"rich","html":"","title":"61 | Shifting from \u201cMe\u201d to \u201cWe\u201d in Feminine Leadership","description":"Today, in the second-to-last episode in the series, \u201cDakini\u2019s Den,\u201d I\u2019m sharing a talk on the dangers of being a \u201csolopreneur\u201d and how service and collaboration are the highest forms of feminine leadership.\n\n\u201cSelf-Care Isn\u2019t Selfish,\u201d reads one of the sections in my first book, The Way of the Happy Woman. \n\nI wrote those words almost nine years ago, and we women were in a very different place then than we are now. \n\nAs I look around today, I see that there\u2019s now too much emphasis on self-care. We\u2019re overly fixated on: How can I get what I want? \n\nHow can I get the dream home? The dream car? The dream spouse? The dream job? How can I get more for me? \n\nAt the same time, we underestimate our strength. We don\u2019t give as much of ourselves as we\u2019re capable of because we tell ourselves the story: \u201cI\u2019m introverted. I\u2019m sensitive. I\u2019m overwhelmed.\u201d \n\nBut here\u2019s the thing: you may be introverted and you may be sensitive, but you\u2019re not fragile. You\u2019re made of all that the Universe is made of\u2013 tornadoes and rain forests, tigers and robin\u2019s eggs. You\u2019re all of this and everything in between. \n\nWhen your self-talk shifts from \u201cThis is all too much for me\u201d to \u201cDear God, please use me,\u201d you\u2019ll begin to see just how strong you really are.\n\nWhen you ask to be used\u2013and then open yourself to inner guidance for direction\u2013 you realize that your role here is to serve the larger whole, not just to focus on yourself.\n\nToday\u2019s episode is a clip from the final class I taught for this year\u2019s mastermind, the SHE Leadership Circle.\n\nAnd, if you\u2019re looking for a circle of women who will be your mirror, your support, your sisters in 2019 as you fully step into your feminine leadership, learn more & apply for the 2019 mastermind here: www.AYearofSHE.com","thumbnail_width":300,"thumbnail_height":300,"thumbnail_url":"https://artwork.captivate.fm/868e2102-ad11-4c79-8a32-107fa246f091/artworks-ttuzibyba2ax1fv3-76xuha-t3000x3000.jpg"}