{"href":"http://player.captivate.fm/services/oembed?url=http%3A%2F%2Fplayer.captivate.fm%2Fepisode%2Fc4c1a492-a71e-4743-a768-36f9a4a5bece","version":"1.0","provider_name":"Captivate.FM","provider_url":"https://www.captivate.fm","width":600,"height":200,"type":"rich","html":"<iframe style=\"width: 100%; height: 200px;\" title=\"Grief and the Fear of Loss\" frameborder=\"0\" scrolling=\"no\" allow=\"clipboard-write\" seamless src=\"http://player.captivate.fm/episode/c4c1a492-a71e-4743-a768-36f9a4a5bece\"></iframe>","title":"Grief and the Fear of Loss","description":"A friend recently thanked me for sharing my grief experience on Facebook and Instagram. She told me that she was terrified of the inevitable loss of her currently healthy, thriving mother. But what I learned about loss\u2014and this is something I learned only after my mother\u2019s funeral\u2014is that there\u2019s nothing to fear. And while I can\u2019t say I\u2019m on the other side of grief\u2014because I\u2019m doubtful there\u2019s an \u201cother side\u201d to it\u2014I understood something about grief that I could only learn by being on the other side of death and loss.In this episode, I explore the fear of death and of losing someone important to us. I describe how I\u2019m giving myself space to move through my days. I also discuss how grief changes us and the relationship between the fear of a loved one\u2019s death and the illusion of control.\u201cI grieve for the \u2018before\u2019 me that got to hear her mother say her name. \u2018After\u2019 me relies on memory, aware of the presence of absence\u2014moving through, pushing back, sometimes resisting, sometimes flowing.\u201d - Karen Goldfinger BakerThis week on the Trauma Hiders Club Podcast:* Lessons I learned after my mother\u2019s funeral* Grief and how there may be no \u201cother side\u201d to it* The fear of death and the illusion of control* Where High Achievers Get Through Shit - TOGETHERThanks for tuning into this week\u2019s episode of Trauma Hiders Club \u2018The Podcast\u2019 with Karen Goldfinger Baker. If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe and leave a review wherever you get your podcasts.Apple Podcasts (https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/trauma-hiders-club-podcast/id1569664269) | TuneIn (https://tunein.com/podcasts/Health--Wellness-Podcasts/Trauma-Hiders-Club-Podcast-p1444567/) | GooglePlay (https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0cHM6Ly9vbW55LmZtL3Nob3dzL3RyYXVtYS1oaWRlcnMtY2x1Yi9wbGF5bGlzdHMvcG9kY2FzdC5yc3M) | Stitcher (https://www.stitcher.com/show/trauma-hiders-club-podcast) | Spotify (https://open.spotify.com/show/2ZOxHZICFQhfI2nbrIU2Ut) | Amazon Music (https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/e8ff8ce6-d410-4eec-b482-b297f7cb8a24/Trauma-Hiders-Club-Podcast)Be sure to share your favorite episodes on social media to help me reach more high achievers like you.Join me on Facebook (https://www.facebook.com/kbakercleve), Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/kaygeebee007/), and LinkedIn (https://www.linkedin.com/in/bakerk/), and visit my website (https://www.karengoldfingerbaker.com/) to discover the rules of Trauma Club and grab your free download: Discover 5 Ways Your Fuckery Is Getting In The Way of The Next Level of Your Success.","thumbnail_width":300,"thumbnail_height":300,"thumbnail_url":"https://artwork.captivate.fm/f0235a94-09f2-4f72-993d-58865562b8ef/image.jpg"}