{"href":"http://player.captivate.fm/services/oembed?url=http%3A%2F%2Fplayer.captivate.fm%2Fepisode%2Fcaf9bcff-b2ef-4d14-8d02-f0f3f50addc2","version":"1.0","provider_name":"Captivate.FM","provider_url":"https://www.captivate.fm","width":600,"height":200,"type":"rich","html":"<iframe style=\"width: 100%; height: 200px;\" title=\"032: Control The Controllable And Keep On Flowing With Anthony Hayes\" frameborder=\"0\" scrolling=\"no\" allow=\"clipboard-write\" seamless src=\"http://player.captivate.fm/episode/caf9bcff-b2ef-4d14-8d02-f0f3f50addc2\"></iframe>","title":"032: Control The Controllable And Keep On Flowing With Anthony Hayes","description":"This episode is dedicated to Dillon<br />\n<a href=\"https://www.amazon.com/Science-Being-Surviving-Depression-ebook/dp/B01MTVY1HF/ref=sr_1_4?ie=UTF8&amp;qid=1490951438&amp;sr=8-4&amp;keywords=the+science+of+being\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"https://www.amazon.com/Science-Being-Surviving-Depression-ebook/dp/B01MTVY1HF/ref=sr_1_4?ie=UTF8&amp;qid=1490951438&amp;sr=8-4&amp;keywords=the+science+of+being\"></a><br />\nIn 2004 this person embarked on a journey that would be many people&#8217;s worst nightmare. He began a downward spiral in his life as he began partying with shady people who did shady things. He was experiencing failed relationships and was immersing himself in a lifestyle of self destruction and self medicating over a 10 year period which ended up even costing him his marriage&#8230;all this before the ripe old age of 30. The pain he was suffering got to the breaking point where he wanted to die and no longer go on living.<br />\nFor whatever reason, he dug deep and decided that he wanted to understand what he was going through and like a true champion he never gave up and embarked on a journey of self discovery. While finally starting to step back and take a look at his life, it was revealed to him that he was suffering from clinical depression, anxiety, ADHD, self medicating, and bouts of insomnia. Like a modern day Rocky Balboa, he fought his way out of the darkness of his depression and rose like a Phoenix from the ashes!<br />\nHe went on to document his 10 year journey of overcoming insurmountable odds\u00a0despite his circumstances, in his book &#8220;The Science of Being: Surviving Depression&#8221;.<br />\nFastforward and this individual has gone on to do many wonderful things. \u00a0<br />\nToday he is an author, podcaster, and blogger. Is a member of the International Association for Internet Broadcasters and the co-founder of the Podcast Discovery Center, which I am proud to say I&#8217;m a member of. His early life accolades include competing on a national level in martial arts,custom car building, and traveling the world as a professional DJ and break dancer.<br />\nThough he says his greatest achievement in life so far is being a first time father to\u00a0a beautiful baby girl named Violet. He currently resides in sunny South Florida where he works in management at the largest grocery retailer in the southeast.<br />\nHis driving force is what he calls m5: mindfulness, meditation, music, martial arts\u00a0and the need for More.<br />\nMOTO:<br />\n&#8220;Control the Controllable, as for the rest, Keep on Flowing and Just Be&#8230;&#8221;<br />\nAnthony Hayes welcome to the show!<br />\nRESOURCES:<br />\nAnthony Hayes&#8217; podcast\u00a0<a href=\"http://memyselfandiradio.com/\" target=\"_blank\">http://memyselfandiradio.com/</a><br />\nFor Anthony&#8217;s book &#8220;The Science of Being: Surviving Depression&#8221; <a href=\"https://www.amazon.com/Science-Being-Surviving-Depression-ebook/dp/B01MTVY1HF/ref=sr_1_4?ie=UTF8&amp;qid=1490951438&amp;sr=8-4&amp;keywords=the+science+of+being\" target=\"_blank\">Click Here</a><br />\nNational Suicide Prevention Lifeline<br />\n<a href=\"https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org/\">Home</a><br />\n<br />\nPhone Number:\u00a01-800-273-8255<br />\n&nbsp;<br />","thumbnail_width":300,"thumbnail_height":300,"thumbnail_url":"https://artwork.captivate.fm/e89bbfb4-23de-429c-a162-641187255d05/tmm-new-podcast-cover-art-2.jpg"}