{"href":"http://player.captivate.fm/services/oembed?url=http%3A%2F%2Fplayer.captivate.fm%2Fepisode%2Fcf4d30db-722b-45c1-ac9b-bdd9b8373201","version":"1.0","provider_name":"Captivate.FM","provider_url":"https://www.captivate.fm","width":600,"height":200,"type":"rich","html":"","title":"Consent Made Confident: Men\u2019s Sexuality, Shame, and Trust-Building Without Explicit Language \u2014 with Eric FitzMedrud","description":"On Pleasure Principles (Healthy Mind By Avik\u2122), Avik and therapist\u2013author Eric FitzMedrud unpack men\u2019s sexuality through a practical lens: how consent becomes a skill, why shame blocks clarity, and how to move from performance to presence. Expect direct, science-based language suitable for YouTube, Facebook, Instagram, and LinkedIn. You\u2019ll hear concrete ways to ask, attune, and co-create intimacy\u2014without explicit terms\u2014so the episode is safe for social distribution and discoverable via SEO across platforms.\n\u00a0\n\u00a0About the Guest :\u00a0\nEric FitzMedrud, PhD is a Bay Area therapist specializing in relationships and sexual well-being and author of The Better Man: A Guide to Consent, Stronger Relationships, and Hotter Sex. He trains clinicians, speaks at conferences, and writes on trust, consent, and collaborative intimacy.\n\u00a0\n\u00a0Key Takeaways :\u00a0\n\n\nConsent is a learnable skill\u2014start clunky, get fluent; it increases trust and expands pleasure.\n\n\nAsk don\u2019t assume: curiosity about a partner\u2019s desires is more attractive than guessing.\n\n\nFrom entitlement to collaboration: replace \u201cI\u2019m owed\u201d with \u201cWhat works for you, and how can I deliver it well?\u201d\n\n\nPerformance vs. presence: skill isn\u2019t \u201cpushing buttons\u201d; it\u2019s attuning in real time to this partner, today.\n\n\nReframe desire as a gift: discuss what gift is wanted, how, and when\u2014then offer it respectfully.\n\n\nName the shame: many men funnel needs (comfort, closeness) into a single request for sex; separate the needs and use clear language.\n\n\nCulture shapes comfort: different norms around touch and talk affect how openly couples communicate\u2014meet each other where you are.\n\n\nSpontaneity survives structure: brief check-ins (\u201cIs this good?\u201d \u201cMore/less?\u201d) can heighten\u2014not kill\u2014the mood.\n\n\nIterate after intimacy: ask for feedback to become a more skillful, trustworthy partner.\n\n\nOne action today: share one desire and ask one question about your partner\u2019s pleasure.\n\n\n\u00a0\n\u00a0\nConnect with the Guest\u00a0\u00a0\nWebsite: https://www.drericfitz.com/Book: The Better Man (major booksellers)\n\u00a0\nWant to be a guest on Healthy Mind, Healthy Life? DM on PM - Send me a message on PodMatch\n\n\nDM Me Here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/avik\n\n\n\u00a0\nDisclaimer: This video is for educational and informational purposes only. The views expressed are the personal opinions of the guest and do not reflect the views of the host or Healthy Mind By Avik\u2122\ufe0f. We do not intend to harm, defame, or discredit any person, organization, brand, product, country, or profession mentioned. All third-party media used remain the property of their respective owners and are used under fair use for informational purposes. By watching, you acknowledge and accept this disclaimer.\n\u00a0\n\u00a0\nHealthy Mind By Avik\u2122\ufe0f is a global platform redefining mental health as a necessity, not a luxury. Born during the pandemic, it\u2019s become a sanctuary for healing, growth, and mindful living. Hosted by Avik Chakraborty\u2014storyteller, survivor, wellness advocate\u2014this channel shares powerful podcasts and soul-nurturing conversations on:\n\u2022 Mental Health & Emotional Well-being\u2022 Mindfulness & Spiritual Growth\u2022 Holistic Healing & Conscious Living\u2022 Trauma Recovery & Self-Empowerment\nWith over 4,400+ episodes and 168.4K+ global listeners, join us as we unite voices, break stigma, and build a world where every story matters.\n\ud83d\udc49 Subscribe and be part of this healing journey.\nContact\ud83d\udcbc Brand: Healthy Mind By Avik\u2122\ud83d\udce7 Email: join@healthymindbyavik.com | podcast@healthymindbyavik.com\ud83c\udf10 Website: www.healthymindbyavik.com\ud83d\udccd Based in: India & USA\n\ud83c\udf99\ufe0f Open to collaborations, guest appearances, coaching, and strategic partnerships. Let's connect to create a ripple effect of positivity.\nCHECK PODCAST SHOWS & BE A GUEST:\ud83c\udfa7 Listen our 17 Podcast Shows Here: https://www.podbean.com/podcast-network/healthymindbyavik\ud83e\udd1d Be a guest on our other shows: https://www.healthymindbyavik.com/beaguest\ud83e\udd1d Video Testimonial: https://www.healthymindbyavik.com/testimonials\ud83e\udd1d Join Our Guest & L","thumbnail_width":300,"thumbnail_height":300,"thumbnail_url":"https://artwork.captivate.fm/6fc409da-a195-4067-90c1-a92f7c84c453/untitled-design-4-b62zz.jpg"}