{"href":"http://player.captivate.fm/services/oembed?url=http%3A%2F%2Fplayer.captivate.fm%2Fepisode%2Fe1928113-9dd6-47cb-92c0-21bf2642cc54","version":"1.0","provider_name":"Captivate.FM","provider_url":"https://www.captivate.fm","width":600,"height":200,"type":"rich","html":"","title":"Fat Positive with Nicola Salmon","description":"It just sucks the whole joy out of life if you\u2019re having to permanently be doing things all the time to keep your body small. \u2013 Nicola Salmon\r\n\r\n\nOn this episode of the Plan Simple Meals Podcast, I\u2019m really excited to talk with Nicola Salmon, a fat-positive fertility coach about weight and health. So often we equate thinner bodies or lower weight with health, which can have a terrible impact on people, especially women. \r\n\r\n\nNicola was diagnosed with PCOS and was told early in life that she wouldn\u2019t be able to have kids. The protocol was to lose weight, which put her into a yoyo of dieting and weight loss and gain. After a traumatic experience, she turned to acupuncture. As she did so, she made other tweaks in her life. It turned out she got pregnant more easily than expected and wondered if other people had a similar experience\u2014and how she could help. \r\n\r\n\nWe talk about how healthcare professionals can be misinformed and harmful when it comes to women\u2019s weight and health, whether it is pregnancy-related or life in general. More importantly, we talk about practical steps you can take to make healthcare visits less triggering\u2014things like not getting weighed unless there is a specific need to know your weight, asking about other options besides focusing on weight loss.\r\n\r\n\nWe talk about: \r\n\r\n\nThe racial background of fat shaming\r\n\r\n\nThe importance of health-promoting behaviors vs. weight loss\r\n\r\n\nDiversity and accessibility issues related to weight \r\n\r\n\nThe problem with BMI\r\n\r\n\nTeaching kids to embrace difference in bodies and about consent for their own bodies\r\n\r\n\nBeing kind and gentle to yourself and being in the body you are in\r\n\r\n\n\r\nBIO\r\n\r\n\nNicola is a fat-positive and feminist fertility coach and author of \u201cFat and Fertile\u201d. She advocates for change in how fat people are treated whilst accessing help with their fertility. Nicola supports fat people who want to get pregnant using her unique FAT+ve fertility framework to find their own version of health without diets, advocate for their bodies, relearn how to trust their body and believe in their ability to get pregnant in their current body.\r\n\r\n\nLINKS\r\n\r\n\nInstagram @fatpositivefertility\r\n\r\n\nnicolasalmon.co.uk\r\n\r\n\n\r\nDoable Changes from this episode:\r\n\r\n\nSTOP WEIGHING YOURSELF. Weighing yourself has no real benefit and can set you up. If you are in the habit of weighing yourself, see what happens if you stop. \r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n\nADVOCATE FOR YOURSELF. Take a different approach with your healthcare provider. Tell them you don\u2019t want to be weighed (unless there is a specific reason, for example getting anaesthesia). If they simply tell you to work on weight loss, ask for other treatment options. What would they recommend to other patients? Push for the treatment that feels right to you. \r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n\nHELP KIDS EMBRACE BODY DIFFERENCE. Talk about body diversity. Model how you want your kids to engage with people of all body shapes and sizes. Stop criticizing your own body or talking about what you want to change. Talk about what your body can do instead of what it looks like. \r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n\n","thumbnail_width":300,"thumbnail_height":300,"thumbnail_url":"https://artwork.captivate.fm/0db2d77e-ffe9-40f7-a046-cf00d529f0a3/nicola-salmon-podcast.jpg"}