{"href":"http://player.captivate.fm/services/oembed?url=http%3A%2F%2Fplayer.captivate.fm%2Fepisode%2Ff55a6120-af5d-442d-b3fb-fe5873665a06","version":"1.0","provider_name":"Captivate.FM","provider_url":"https://www.captivate.fm","width":600,"height":200,"type":"rich","html":"<iframe style=\"width: 100%; height: 200px;\" title=\"What Doesn\u2019t Kill You\" frameborder=\"0\" scrolling=\"no\" allow=\"clipboard-write\" seamless src=\"http://player.captivate.fm/episode/f55a6120-af5d-442d-b3fb-fe5873665a06\"></iframe>","title":"What Doesn\u2019t Kill You","description":"If you\u2019re anything like me\u2014which I\u2019m guessing you are because you\u2019re here on the Trauma Hiders Club\u2014you likely have experienced one or more of the following phrases that could be harmful to people who experienced trauma:\u201cTime heals all wounds!\u201d\u201cI\u2019ve been there, too.\u201d\u201cEverything happens for a reason,\u201d or, perhaps the bestseller,\u201cWhat doesn\u2019t kill you makes you stronger!\u201dIn this episode, I discuss why these phrases, though sometimes said with good intentions, aren\u2019t helpful and can even be harmful to people who experienced trauma. I also share what you can do when faced with people who are committed to misunderstanding you.\u201cTrauma does NOT make you stronger\u2014it causes dysregulation. Only if we do a lot of work do we go through on the other side. The trauma doesn\u2019t do that, WE do. We get stronger because we do the work.\u201d - Karen Goldfinger BakerThis week on the Trauma Hiders Club Podcast:* Phrases that can be harmful to survivors of trauma* Why time doesn\u2019t heal all wounds* Facing people who are committed to misunderstanding you* Where High Achievers Get Through Shit - TOGETHERThanks for tuning into this week\u2019s episode of Trauma Hiders Club \u2018The Podcast\u2019 with Karen Goldfinger Baker. If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe and leave a review wherever you get your podcasts.Apple Podcasts (https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/trauma-hiders-club-podcast/id1569664269) | TuneIn (https://tunein.com/podcasts/Health--Wellness-Podcasts/Trauma-Hiders-Club-Podcast-p1444567/) | GooglePlay (https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0cHM6Ly9vbW55LmZtL3Nob3dzL3RyYXVtYS1oaWRlcnMtY2x1Yi9wbGF5bGlzdHMvcG9kY2FzdC5yc3M) | Stitcher (https://www.stitcher.com/show/trauma-hiders-club-podcast) | Spotify (https://open.spotify.com/show/2ZOxHZICFQhfI2nbrIU2Ut) | Amazon Music (https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/e8ff8ce6-d410-4eec-b482-b297f7cb8a24/Trauma-Hiders-Club-Podcast)Be sure to share your favorite episodes on social media to help me reach more high achievers, like you.Join me on Facebook (https://www.facebook.com/kbakercleve), Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/kaygeebee007/), and LinkedIn (https://www.linkedin.com/in/bakerk/) and visit my website (https://www.karengoldfingerbaker.com/) to discover the rules of Trauma Club and grab your free download: Discover 5 Ways Your Fuckery Is Getting In The Way of The Next Level of Your Success.","thumbnail_width":300,"thumbnail_height":300,"thumbnail_url":"https://artwork.captivate.fm/4633e5b9-2b12-4e23-a1c8-9fd73c1b85dd/image.jpg"}