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No Apologies: 5 Days Unfiltered Getting Out of My Own Way
Episode 1829th September 2025 • It's About DAMN Time • Jarratt DAMN, DaWholeDamnShow
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What happens when you stop overthinking and just let yourself live?

In this episode, I kick off a 5-day experiment to do exactly that—no filters, no edits, and definitely no second-guessing. For five days, I’m saying what I feel, doing what I want, and seeing who I am when I’m not stuck in my head.

This isn’t about being reckless or hurting feelings—it’s about finding out who I am without constantly managing everyone else’s expectations. It’s about trusting myself, even when it feels scary.


I’m taking you along for the ride, day by day. And next week, I’ll be back with the results.


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It’s about DAMN time I stop waiting for the perfect plan and just trust myself in the moment.


💥 D.A.M.N. Challenge

  • Do something you’ve been overthinking
  • Acknowledge how it feels
  • Make a note of what surprised you
  • Never apologize for being yourself


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