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44. Tackling Rising Referrals with Compassion and Cohort Support
8th October 2025 • The Language of Behavior • Joshua Stamper and Charle Peck
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In this week's episode of The Language of Behavior Podcast, hosts Charle Peck and Joshua Stamper dive deep into a pressing question from a school administrator: how can teachers shift their mindset when facing an increase in student referrals? Fresh from their professional learning in sunny Florida, Josh and Charle unpack the importance of understanding students' stories, trauma, and stress and why reactive discipline often misses the mark. They discuss practical ways educators can humanize their responses, the power of scenario-based reflection, and the need for ongoing training to equip staff for behavioral challenges.

Listeners will learn about the cohort model that's helping educators and leaders across the country build essential skills, foster a culture of support, and create lasting change for both students and staff. The hosts share favorite classroom mantras, including "firm but fair" and Nelson Mandela's "I never lose, I either win or I learn," offering inspiration to cultivate growth mindsets in every learning space. Whether you lead a campus or teach in a classroom, this episode delivers actionable strategies backed by real-life experience—and highlights how starting honest conversations is the first step to positive transformation.

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About Charle Peck:

Charle Peck is the co-creator of Thriving School Community, a revolutionary program designed for schools to improve mental health. She holds an MS in Education and an MS in Social Work as a 20+ year veteran in education (K-12). As a global keynote speaker, she delivers powerful messages of hope to educators and facilitates meaningful professional development. Charle successfully equips school staff with practical tools to mitigate teacher burnout and the youth mental health crisis providing relief to schools all across the country. Her unique lens as a high school teacher turned clinical therapist specializing in trauma makes her stories relevant and captivating to educators struggling in today’s system. You can purchase her book “Improving School Mental Health: The Thriving School Community Solution” on Amazon and connect with her on X @CharlePeck.

Follow Charle Peck: 

  • Website: www.ThrivingEducator.org   
  • Twitter: https://twitter.com/CharlePeck 
  • Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/charlepeckconsulting?mibextid=LQQJ4d  
  • LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/charlepeck/
  • Other: charle@thrivibgeducator.org 
  • Podcast: Thriving Educator
  • Book: https://www.amazon.com/Improving-School-Mental-Health-Community/dp/B0BTS3MN2P?crid=EIKAGWZ4V006&keywords=charle+peck&qid=1705780803&sprefix=charle+peck%2Caps%2C181&sr=8-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=aspirewebsite-20&linkId=6456f4f1bc2440be71d094a5d14656a4&language=en_US&ref_=as_li_ss_tl  

About Joshua Stamper:

Joshua Stamper is the Director of Innovation for the Teach Better Team, a multifaceted role that encompasses his talents as an author, podcaster, leadership coach, and education keynote speaker. With a rich background as a middle school administrator, classroom art educator, and athletic coach, Joshua brings a wealth of experience to his work in education.

Joshua is passionate about implementing trauma-responsive techniques, exploring alternative student discipline methods, and promoting healthy leadership habits. He is deeply committed to enhancing leadership capacity through self-care practices, ensuring that educators are equipped to lead with empathy and resilience. As the author of The Language of Behavior and Aspire to Lead and host of two popular podcasts, Joshua continues to inspire and empower educators and leaders worldwide.

Follow Joshua Stamper: 

  • Contact: https://joshstamper.com/contact/ 
  • Twitter: www.twitter.com/Joshua__Stamper 
  • Instagram: www.instagram.com/joshua__stamper 
  • Linkedin: www.linkedin.com/in/joshua-stamper 
  • Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/AspirePodcast 
  • Subscribe to Aspire to Lead: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/aspire-the-leadership-development-podcast/id1384210762?mt=2 
  • Book: https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1953852386/ref=as_li_tl?ie=UTF8&camp=1789&creative=9325&creativeASIN=1953852386&linkCode=as2&tag=aspirewebsite-20&linkId=0d9c336e3db6ab16cbb08421ef3e4175 

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