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Gratitude in Marriage + A New Ritual
Episode 139 • 2nd December 2025 • Master Your Marriage • Sharla and Robert Snow
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Episode Summary:

In this episode of Master Your Marriage, we explore the profound impact of gratitude on relationships, emphasizing its ability to enhance emotional connections and overall well-being. We discuss the psychological, physical, and relational benefits of practicing gratitude, and provide actionable steps for couples to incorporate gratitude into their daily lives. We also share our 30-day gratitude challenge designed to foster appreciation and strengthen bonds between partners.

Takeaways:

Gratitude rewires your brain and regulates your nervous system.

Practicing gratitude can deepen your connection with your partner.

Gratitude is often overlooked in relationships due to everyday distractions.

Expressing gratitude can help shift focus from self to others.

Gratitude has psychological benefits, including reduced depression and anxiety.

It improves physical health by enhancing sleep and reducing stress.

Gratitude fosters forgiveness and kindness in relationships.

Consistent gratitude can protect marriages from stress and conflict.

Effective gratitude expression involves recognizing your partner's qualities.

A 30-day gratitude challenge can significantly enhance relationship closeness.


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