162 | 10 Ways You May Be Unknowingly Blocking What You Want | Salarah Kacey Starre
What if the reason you’re not getting what you want isn’t because you’re doing manifestation wrong, you’re not thinking positively enough or your vibration isn’t high enough?
In this episode, I’m exploring ten ways we can unknowingly get in the way of the very things we say we want, often through patterns we don’t even realise we’re repeating.
We’ll look at what happens when you spend more time rehearsing the reality you don’t want than the one you do, why challenges don’t necessarily mean you’re going backwards, how we outsource feelings such as happiness, security, worth and enoughness to the things we’re trying to manifest, and why becoming obsessed with how something is going to happen can keep us stuck in control rather than allowing life to meet us somewhere we couldn’t have planned.
I also explore the deeper side of manifestation: the version of you who would actually need to exist to hold what you’re asking for, the ways we hand responsibility for our internal world to other people, why uncomfortable emotions aren’t something to fear, and how hidden patterns can have us recreating the same emotional experiences with completely different people and circumstances.
Because manifestation isn’t just about attraction. It’s about awareness, responsibility, embodiment and participation.
In this episode, we explore:
• Why you may be unconsciously rehearsing what you don’t want
• The difference between desire and emotional dependency
• Why a new challenge can actually be evidence of growth
• What happens when you outsource your happiness, worth or security
• The hidden cost of trying to control how everything happens
• Why your current identity may not match the reality you’re asking for
• How people-pleasing, over-giving and self-abandonment affect what you create
• Why difficult emotions aren’t necessarily blocking your manifestation
• How subconscious patterns keep recreating familiar experiences
• The difference between surrender and passivity
• How to create more without postponing your enjoyment of the life you already have
If you recognise yourself in some of these patterns and want to understand more about what may be sitting underneath them, my book The Only Way Out Is In: Healing the Hidden Patterns Running Your Life takes this work much deeper. It will help you begin recognising the beliefs, patterns and unconscious programmes shaping the way you think, feel, behave and experience your life, and give you practical ways to start changing them.
You can find The Only Way Out Is In on Amazon in Kindle and paperback, with the audiobook coming soon.
https://www.amazon.co.uk/dp/1917623321
If this episode brings something up for you, I’d love to hear what you recognised. Come and find me on Instagram and let me know which of the ten spoke to you most.
