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And I think showing your values as a human, I think it's very important
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to raise your family in the right way.
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And that's not something that many people agree with us, and
Patricia:
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I feel sorry for these people.
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I wanna be able to tell my daughter in the future that this is what mom stand
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in the past and what she keeps doing.
Serena:
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Welcome today, I am really happy to have a conversation with Patricia.
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Recruiter and co-founder of Principal, a recruitment agency for people with
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values who are looking for a job.
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Welcome, Patricia.
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What does it mean?
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I'm back for you.
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Something more practical for people.
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For example, it's my first advice will be to seek support to your tribe.
Patricia:
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Choose your tribe wisely.
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Choose the people you wanna be surrounded with and people who will be understanding,
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supportive of these conversations.
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You know, take for Palestine, for example, was, and it is a great support for
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myself because, you know, we all from everybody in the world and it's a safe.
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Space to talk about the action that we taking, to talk about the news that we
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are receiving, and even to take part in amazing projects to help Palestinians
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currently based in Russia in the West Bank and diaspora all around the world.
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So I think that's the important part.
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Second of all, I will say it's really important to come back to yourself
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even after having a long day at work, taking part in these projects.
Patricia:
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It might be easy to feel that guilt, and trust me is, I mean, you know, if
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it was myself being in the scheme of the people that I talk to, obviously
Patricia:
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I will reconsider things, but this prime, there are examples and examples.
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I have been listening to people's stories, for example, that they decided to walk
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away from their jobs knowing that the financial impacts with the lifestyles and
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basic needs will be at odds with that.
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But they chosen to, to be driven by their values and what's best for their
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hearts and their soul, which I admired.
Patricia:
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I highly admired.
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And I equally highly admire the people who are conscious about what they're doing,
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and they want to step away from that.
Patricia:
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They come to us, they come to principal, and they ask as
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well, I'm ready to walk away.
Patricia:
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But you know, obviously I'm being mindful of how, what steps I'm
Patricia:
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taking in order to do that because I have a family, I have a mortgage.
Patricia:
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I have dependence under my care.
Patricia:
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And obviously financing these basic needs is important.
Patricia:
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So as soon as there is an opportunity ready, please put me forward
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because that will be my next step.
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So I equally admire these people, and in the meantime, I keep telling
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the same, you know, make sure you find your tribe, even if it's us.
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Maybe if you're not acquainted with any tribes with
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pro-Palestinian views in activism.
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Principle is still for you that go to group where you can always reach
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out to us and we can have that chat and, and just remind ourselves that
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we are supportive towards each other.
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So support, it's my main, main, key piece of advice for someone
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transitioning that on the own.
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So, yeah.
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Yes, because there are also people that maybe are not working in this big
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corporation who are actively participating into the genocide, but they're working
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in companies where you cannot talk about these topics for whatever reason.
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And so I think it's important to talk about that.
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I think it's important also to understand that what is happening outside is
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having an impact on the inside.
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Absolutely.
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Absolutely it is.
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Yeah.
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I agree.
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You know, obviously silencing yourself.
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It's how, I think it's some of the propaganda that these mainstream
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enablers of the war crimes that are happening in Palestine and Gaza, that's
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the tactics they want to implement.
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Because when you don't talk about it, it's when we forget about it, and
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this has been happening since 1947.
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All we know in our history books, all we know in our accessible sources
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of information, at least here in Europe, let's tell on the United
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States, is that, you know, sources of information have been manipulated.
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They have been changed.
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You know, to go back to what you mentioned, you know, it's really
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frustrating to be part of a company that is silencing you, and then you
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really have that duty as a human.
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A human to really make, um, you know, to, sorry, sorry.
Patricia:
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That's really heated.
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I, it's really upsetting.
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Of course.
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Sometimes it's just too much.
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It is, yeah.
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I agree.
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It is, yeah, it is very overwhelming.
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Very overwhelming.
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And I feel, uh, and I hear these people, you know, and, and I can't imagine what
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it's like working in a company that's.
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You know, you've been highly active in, in the genocide and you know,
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and not having the privilege to say anything because you are fired and you
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know, and then your mortgages, your bills, and your dependents are not
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ultimately taking care of because of.
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Standing in the right side and you know, and my question to you is, VIN,
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and I know you have a family, right?
Patricia:
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You have your kids?
Patricia:
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I believe it's one or two kids that it so far.
Patricia:
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Oh, okay.
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Okay.
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So in the future, oh, okay.
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Sorry.
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Sorry.
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I had a different understanding.
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But you know, this is also my question to you.
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You know, if I am your daughter, I'll prompt you with this question.
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Mom, what have you done about this?
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You know, is there anything you have done about this, you
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know, back in the present times?
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You know, how would you answer to that question?
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Yeah.
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This is why I don't want to say to my future daughter I did nothing.
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Especially because it's so live streamed right now.
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That is really impossible to say for future generation that we didn't.
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Knew about that.
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And this is also linked to my family history because my parents were really
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active for Palestine since the seventies.
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And I asked this question to my parents when I was a child and they
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always said, we protested, we have done, uh, these kind of things.
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We raise awareness, we had a discussion, et cetera.
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And.
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For me, it was comforting to see that it's always possible to do
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something, even if maybe we don't have the full power to change the
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situation, but we have the power to change a little bit and maybe talk with
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someone, maybe raise more awareness.
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And I think it's equally important, and I don't want to be someone that will
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say in 10 years, oh, I, I didn't know.
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I didn't understand.
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Because in reality it's like saying I didn't care.
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But actually I care a lot.
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Oh yeah.
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And thank you for sharing that, Serena.
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You know, obviously it's, it's important to, when you raise a
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family, how do you live with example?
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And I think showing the values as a human.
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I think it's very important to raise your family in the right way and,
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you know, and that's not something that many people agree with us.
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And, and you know, and I feel sorry for these people and you know,
Patricia:
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I wanna be able to do the same.
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I wanna be able to tell my daughter in the future that this is what mom.
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Done in the past and what she keeps doing and you know, and also I
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appreciate that you feel that you feel the same way about your parents.
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You feel extremely proud to have parents with a compassionate heart and with
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human duty to make things right for CCIT and for standing against in obviously
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governments and medium people's opinion.
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So I think it's highly admirable, you know, and I think that's the sort of seed.
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You wanna carry over with your lineage because many people talk about
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how you carry your trauma around.
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How about these things?
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How about the real value in people and humans having that seed throughout our
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lineage, our history?
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Yeah, because we always talk about intergenerational trauma, but also we
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can talk about intergenerational love.
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Correct?
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Yeah.
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And it's equally important.
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Palestinians are teaching us this every day.
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That is correct.
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Yeah.
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They are teaching us that every day.
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And I think that's, you know, and I think that's ultimately the feeling I
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go to bed with and I wake up to, instead of feeling hate for the injustice.
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Right now, we can really benefit from spreading that love and from
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really understanding that love from them, uh, because they are
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ultimately giving that to us.
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That's the message they're sending to us outside of those walls in class.
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And you know, that worse and in class.
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So ultimately, that's what I take myself and will take myself to, to
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the last time, till the last day.
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So, yeah.
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I have a more practical question now.
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But I think it's important to share.
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So currently you are connecting candidates to companies that are more principled.
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What are the challenges that you have right now, but also what are you seeing?
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Meaning there are companies that are looking for these kind of
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people, or it's still difficult to find these kind of companies.
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I would say it's interesting and I think it's a good.
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Test, right?
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Because traditionally speaking, when you run a recruitment agency, you just have
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a wider array of companies to tap into.
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But with here, it's very different.
Patricia:
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It is very meaningful, obviously.
Patricia:
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You know, like if you think about that a hundred percent of companies, you
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know, imagine a number in your head and then double it and triple it.
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That's the markets you can tap into as a recruiter.
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The difference with this is that okay, it requires more time to conduct research,
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to conduct some due diligence, some checks, internal checks in the company.
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So obviously there is added element of transactional work in order to understand
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the companies that you want to work with.
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It makes it really meaningful because, you know, looking for the principles
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companies, it's a shared success.
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You know, these companies that is standing on the right side of humanity, they
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are either donating profits to Gaza, they're either founded by Palestinians.
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Diaspora Palestinians, or they either really connected to,
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to the Palestinian course.
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So obviously they stand on that side of the fence with
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us and equally our candidates.
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And I think when you tap into these conversations with founders,
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for example, from my experience, it is my job at Principle to, to
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really develop and produced that partnership with founders and CEOs.
Patricia:
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Ultimately, but this is the way I start my conversations.
Patricia:
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I don't start my conversations from a transactional standpoint.
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I say, I am a recruiter and I am going to sort your problems.
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I'm going to offer you a staffing solution.
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Which is what we also do at Principle.
Patricia:
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The other difference is that we are solving a bigger problem
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that build staffing problems.
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We are aligned in the way that we see what's happening in the world.
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We are creating a synergy.
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We are creating a synergy by exchanging ideas, by opening up about how we
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feel and by creating that safe space, ultimately, and this is what I talked
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about earlier, about looking for your tribe, and this is our tribe.
Patricia:
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My prospective clients, my partners, you know, they're all my tribe
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because they feel as though it's safe and vulnerable to hold these
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conversations with me and so do I.
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And that's the added value.
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And then, you know, this is really what we can do for each other.
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This is the synergy, you know, so we can provide you with candidates, you know,
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obviously great talents, but guess what?
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The conversation and the alignment that we just have in this
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values based, they also have it.
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So what's better than best?
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You know?
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So that's really it.
Serena:
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Yeah.
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And I'm really curious about the candidate experience, because I would
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imagine that going into an interview with a company, knowing that this
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company is aligned to your values, your principle, it's giving you.
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So much power to perform well during, uh, the interview.
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I don't know what is your experience.
Patricia:
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No, you are right.
Patricia:
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You know that it gives you that extra boost of confidence when
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you walk into the interview room.
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Ultimately you will expect to be asked questions to assess
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your suitability for the role.
Patricia:
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And you know, there's no way around it.
Patricia:
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You know, you can be supportive of what I believe you cannot be, but you know,
Patricia:
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the interview process has to always be very fair, transparent, and equal.
Patricia:
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I do agree with you and I think I align with that, you know, because
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if I know that, uh, the founder that I'm interviewing with for the role.
Patricia:
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Shared my same ideas.
Patricia:
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Then, you know, there's already the icebreaker in the conversation,
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and this is the advice I give to all the candidates I have met
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throughout my 11 years in recruitment.
Patricia:
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It's always about putting the icebreaker in place, you know, and I think that's
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the best way to perform during your interview, to feel more confident
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and more present, and more receptive to provide good quality answers.
Serena:
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Do you have any advice for our listeners on how to find
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something that is more aligned to their values and principles in
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general, not only for Palestine?
Patricia:
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Yeah, absolutely, and I think we often forget about our authenticity.
Patricia:
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And I think we have to stick to what makes us real authentic and ourselves
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and not another version that you know, so IT of our family, our partner or friends
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will expect from us because that's how you end up making the wrong decisions.
Patricia:
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Some advice will be very practical and you know, when it is very intuitive
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and if there is a place that doesn't feel right for you, you know, it
Patricia:
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can be an array of reasons, but not aligned to what you believe or, you
Patricia:
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know, they're not inclusive or you're not getting the rewards you deserve
Patricia:
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or, or there is some misalignment with the managers, you know, whichever
Patricia:
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the reason we always have to keep.
Patricia:
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Truth to ourselves and to stay, to take strategic steps to do it.
Patricia:
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Not to blow things off the roof because that's easy to do, but to take the steps,
Patricia:
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you know, be really strategic about how you want to exit safely an organization in
Patricia:
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order to join your next venture, you know?
Patricia:
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So I think that's important advice.
Patricia:
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I will give people.
Patricia:
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Thank you so much,
Serena:
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Patricia, for this really meaningful
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conversation.
Patricia:
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Thank you very much to you Sina, and you know, for offering me the
Patricia:
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chance, even setting the space to, to speak the truth, you know?
Patricia:
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And it is been a real pleasure, Sina a real, real pleasure and yeah.
Patricia:
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Yeah, let's make things better and hopefully this message
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gets the right audience.
Serena:
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