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#Lovehacks – Common Struggles Faced When Dating
Episode 60 • 19th December 2024 • Connect2 • Focus on the Family Singapore
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“It may not have been the person's intention to hurt ... what can we do about this situation together, to remember that we are a team and we're not against each other.” Darren Lim  

Dating isn’t always smooth sailing, but it’s full of opportunities to grow! Tune in to hear how Hosanna and Darren learned to fight fair, set boundaries, and lean on trusted mentors for counsel.

Discover how active listening and teamwork can transform conflicts into moments of growth and compassion. Whether you’re navigating dating or moving toward marriage, this episode is packed with relatable stories and practical wisdom.

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