Shownotes
The birthday of ADHD Mums came and went and I didn't celebrate. I'd spent a whole season demanding a seat at the table. By the end of it I was in bed, couldn't walk, getting diagnosed with perimenopause mid-record, and a friend asked me one question that broke the whole thing open. Supportive of what?
What We Cover
- The launch episode promise — "no more explaining, just strategy" — and why I delivered it and still feel like I lied
- Two lipedema operations, four months unable to walk, demanding a seat at the table from a hospital bed
- The cooked roast chicken after the C-section, and what I now call that "badge of honour"
- Crying mid-record with Dr Sunita Chelva and getting diagnosed with perimenopause to my face
- Reading the DSM at 15, walking into my parents' room, and being told to sweep it under the rug
- Why I gave up on the NDIS politicians — Mark Butler, the budget line, the room with no lived experience
- The premiers and health ministers messaging me now to re-announce nothing
- The friend who said 'Supportive of what?' and broke the whole season open
- What it costs to be the high-functioning ADHD woman who could do it all
- Why the strategy episodes were never the ones that landed — the identity episodes were
- The scheduled five-minute breakdown in the car, the wipe, the smile
- A million downloads, and what you've been doing for me without knowing it
- I'm not your guide. I'm the woman next to you in the car park.
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