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108. 'Supportive of What?' The Year a Friend Asked Me One Question and Broke the Season 3
Episode 10826th May 2026 • ADHD Mums • Jane McFadden
00:00:00 00:22:16

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The birthday of ADHD Mums came and went and I didn't celebrate. I'd spent a whole season demanding a seat at the table. By the end of it I was in bed, couldn't walk, getting diagnosed with perimenopause mid-record, and a friend asked me one question that broke the whole thing open. Supportive of what?

What We Cover

  • The launch episode promise — "no more explaining, just strategy" — and why I delivered it and still feel like I lied
  • Two lipedema operations, four months unable to walk, demanding a seat at the table from a hospital bed
  • The cooked roast chicken after the C-section, and what I now call that "badge of honour"
  • Crying mid-record with Dr Sunita Chelva and getting diagnosed with perimenopause to my face
  • Reading the DSM at 15, walking into my parents' room, and being told to sweep it under the rug
  • Why I gave up on the NDIS politicians — Mark Butler, the budget line, the room with no lived experience
  • The premiers and health ministers messaging me now to re-announce nothing
  • The friend who said 'Supportive of what?' and broke the whole season open
  • What it costs to be the high-functioning ADHD woman who could do it all
  • Why the strategy episodes were never the ones that landed — the identity episodes were
  • The scheduled five-minute breakdown in the car, the wipe, the smile
  • A million downloads, and what you've been doing for me without knowing it
  • I'm not your guide. I'm the woman next to you in the car park.

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