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Your Home Is In Your Heart: The Call For Leadership With Integrity
Episode 211th November 2025 • Queen Of Your Castle Ft. The Whole Stepfamily • Brittany Shakti Lynch
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If "World Peace In One Generation" is the outcome, what are the questions we must ask?

2:00 - the free gratitude audio training program (follow on Instagram for the curriculum)

3:00 - thank you for rating, reviewing, and sharing the show if you align with our Mission. Peace On Earth Begins With Peace At Home

4:00 - on longing, belonging, and "creating peace from war" (broken strategy)

5:00 - insanity is the definition of doing the same thing over and over, but expecting a different result + how this allows us to champion evidence-based practice in thought leadership

5:30 - how thought leaders and visionaries turn ideas into industries, and how to structure yours so that it is aligned with Positive Peace Frameworks (re: Institute for Economics & Peace) versus the $20T Extractive Economy that is destabilizing health, home, and humanity

07:00 - our new requirements to becoming a trusted White Dahlia Peace Foundation partner, the mechanisms we've installed to steward our resources without corruption, and what all consumers should be aware of when it comes to "verified trust seals"

10:00 — on brand alignment and integrity 

11:30 — the value of education as something that can never be taken away from you

13:30 — my take on Elon Musk’s warning that sitting on the couch is more dangerous than flying rocket ships

14:30 — why we provide anchors of stability in transition, and how the acceptance of the full emotional range of the human is NECESSARY for the survival of your species 

16:30 — how your “well-to-do-ness” can be manipulated by corporations who understand your dopamine system 

18:30 — “there is nothing more expensive than trusting the wrong person” and our lessons from the White Dahlia Peace Summit on May 31 2024

20:00 — the individualist mentality of the west and how it’s been designed to bankrupt the middle class financially, spiritually, and emotionally 

21:30 — going toe to toe with the Hero’s Journey 

22:45 — the difference between corruption and unconsciousness

23:30 — trustworthiness, the rigged audit + certification process, and the paradox of compliance

26:00 — the new economy of trust as revealed at Panorama in 2024

27:15 — the $20T Pipeline

29:30 — 

30:45 — THE TV DIMENSION and how this distraction is paying $20 Trillion A YEAR into war and destruction of our children worldwide

31:00 — The foundation of “Your Home Is In Your Heart” 

33:30 — Billie Eilish vs Elon Musk, and why “giving people money” is never the answer

34:30 — how we are funding war and genocide without our own conscious consent

35:40 — the values that drive White Dahlia Peace Foundation and how these allow me to stand behind my work 10 years from now

36:25 — “do whatever you want, just know what you’re doing”

36:45 — before you had 4 walls, your home was?

37:25 — “a rising tide lifts all the boats”

39:30 — how to protect your dopamine system and become unfuckwithable 

41:00 — peace is not positive thinking (but it *is* this)

42:30 — “garbage in garbage out” — why we need to consider the source

The 11/11 "Home Is In Your Heart" Episode as channelled in The Empress.

Released Dec 18, 2025 from Amritsar. Back-dated for alignment.

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