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When To Let A Horse Go: To Another Owner, Retirement, or the Great Beyond
Episode 725th December 2025 • Adulting with Horses • Adulting with Horses
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In this engaging conversation on the Adulting with Horses podcast, Heather and Natalie explore the themes of trusting the process, the importance of energy and intention in life, and the dynamics of horse ownership. They share personal stories about their experiences with horses, the emotional lives of these animals, and the significance of connection and communication in building relationships with them. The discussion also delves into the challenges of making decisions regarding horse care, the role of personality in horse selection, and the power of self-reflection and writing in navigating life's complexities. Ultimately, they emphasize the importance of empathy and understanding in both horse care and personal relationships, while also planning for future fun and community engagement.

Takeaways

  • Trust the process and be open to the journey.
  • Energy and intention shape our experiences.
  • Returning to riding can be a personal journey of rediscovery.
  • Understanding horse behavior is key to effective communication.
  • Connection with horses is essential for a fulfilling relationship.
  • Decisions about horse ownership should consider the horse's needs.
  • Empathy plays a crucial role in horse care and relationships.
  • Personality influences the fit between horse and rider.
  • Writing can help clarify thoughts and feelings.
  • Building a supportive community enhances the equestrian experience.

Keywords trusting the process, energy, intention, horse behavior, connection, horse ownership, empathy, personality, writing, community, decision making, reflection

Chapters

00:00

Trusting the Process: A Disney Adventure

03:08

Energy and Intent: Creating Your Reality

06:01

Returning to Riding: A Journey of Confidence

08:59

Understanding Your Horse: Signs of Change

12:03

Riding in the Dark: Safety and Confidence

15:02

The Importance of Routine: Observing Behavior

18:00

The Cat Chronicles: Lessons in Care and Attention

20:59

Deciding on Retirement: Knowing When to Let Go

27:04

Building Connections with Horses

30:18

Understanding Horse and Rider Compatibility

36:06

When to Let Go of a Horse

41:47

The Importance of Empathy in Horse Care

46:56

Finding Peace in the Horse Community

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