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Is eloquence a superpower?
Episode 3093rd December 2025 • Irresistible Communication • Dr. Michael Gerharz
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When you’re eloquent, it can feel like everything sounds smart when you say it. But that skill comes with three nasty traps that may backfire.

Check out my new essay series: “What the Best Leaders Say”: https://michaelgerharz.com/what-the-best-leaders-say

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