Bonus Short from Episode 106: Overcoming the "I Don't Know" Moment: Driving Confidence Solutions
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In today's episode, we thought
we'd talk about the topic of what
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:to do, some ideas to help you out.
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:If you often find yourself when
you're driving thinking, I don't
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:know what to do, or what do I do?
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:So we thought we'd come up with a few
ideas and a few solutions to help out.
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:Part of what we have found or heard
from people, and this is, we're going
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:to talk about three reasons really, and
the first reason is that there might
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:be gaps in knowledge and understanding.
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:It might have become a habit to say, I
don't know, or I don't know what to do, or
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:there may well be the situation where it's
just overload, there's too much going on.
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:So let's look at the first step and what
we want you to do is, you've probably
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:heard us say it before, but we'd like
you to become your own detective.
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:Yeah, because if there's three,
well, , like you said, , there
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:could be all sorts of reasons.
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:But if there are three main themes,
three main reasons for this, then you
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:need to get your detective hat on and
start looking for clues and try and work
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:out, okay, what is it that's going on?
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:for me.
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:So, yeah, what's happening?
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:What's, what's, what situations?
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:When does this happen?
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:So let's look at first off, let's look at
gaps in your knowledge and understanding.
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:Yeah, I mean, this, Seems like the most
obvious, obvious reason, doesn't it?
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:Because if somebody's
saying, what do I do?
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:Or I don't know what to do.
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:Then the immediate thought
is, well, is there a gap?
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:Is there a gap in your knowledge?
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:Is there a gap in your understanding?
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:So that you don't Maybe
you've never known what to do.
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:Or maybe You keep forgetting what
to do in a particular situation,
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:and so this comes down to whether
you've stored the knowledge in your
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:memory to be recalled at a later date.
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:So sometimes you're given information,
but it doesn't actually get embedded
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:into that long term memory, which
means it's really hard to find that
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:piece of information when you need it.
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:So what is knowledge?
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:Let's have a look at that now.
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:So it could be the, the
what should I do question.
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:You know, you don't know what to do.
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:So it's like asking yourself, what
should I do in this situation?
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:And you might well find yourself
saying, , I can't remember how to do it.
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:And I can't remember what to do.
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:That is a clear sign that The information
and the knowledge is not there.
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:Yeah.
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:So what you need to do is
to do something different.
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:Find a different way of learning
something or being able to remember it.
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:And again, there's loads of
different ways you can do this.
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:But again, it's finding out in the
first place, what am I saying to myself?
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:Yeah.
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:The knowledge is the what.
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:It's the facts.
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:It's the information.
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:And like you say, if If it doesn't
go in the first time, another
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:phrase we use quite a lot is that
if you do what you've always done,
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:you get what you've always got.
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:So if you're taking information on in
the same way all the time and not being
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:able to remember it, then trying to take
the information in, in a different way.
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:So changing it up, doing
it in a different way.
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:If you're reading it, then try.
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:observing it or giving it a go or
so it's just using different methods
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:of taking on information isn't it?
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:Yeah, yeah, definitely.
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:And there is so many different ways
that people learn things but look at
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:a little bit of what is understanding.
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:So, Understanding is the reason why you
do something, what you do, or the why.
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:Yes, yeah.
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:It's the easier way to do it, but
yeah, this is what we want to be doing.
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:It's why am I doing what I'm doing?
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:Yeah, and sometimes, when you have
the understanding, when you understand
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:why you need to do something, that
can, that can, be the difference
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:that helps you remember it.
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:Yeah.
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:Because if you just have a whole load
of facts in front of you, they're often
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:really difficult to take on board.
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:But if you understand the reasoning
behind the fact, behind the piece of
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:information, then it sort of makes sense.
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:And then you're more
likely to remember it.
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:Thank you for listening.
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:Find out about the different ways
that you can work with us on our
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:website, www.confidentdrivers.co.uk,
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:and begin to transform the
way you feel about driving.