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Why Pelvic Floor Health is Important AF with Dr. Jen Le Cougic
Episode 5119th August 2026 • But For Real • Valerie Martin & Emerson Ryder
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Dr. Jen Le Coguic is a pelvic health physical therapist with over 15 years of experience and the founder of Nashville Pelvic Health — and she's here to talk about the body part most of us are either ignoring, overtightening, or doing Kegels for when we absolutely should not be.

This episode covers way more territory than you'd expect: why bladder leaks, pelvic pain, and constipation are common but not normal, why "just do your Kegels" is actually bad advice for a lot of people, what the pelvic floor has to do with your back pain and your breathing, and why men are even less served by this conversation than women. Val and Em also bring a listener who has memorized the bathroom layout of every movie theater in her city, and they have thoughts.

This episode covers:

(00:00) Tea & Crumpets — Em's analog Sudoku era; Val's proud moment of discernment; Jen on the pelvic floor–nervous system connection and Asheville's dog-friendliness

(05:00) Step Into My Office — a listener who knows every public bathroom in her city asks: when does "annoying" become worth getting help for?

(10:00) The DSM — what the pelvic floor actually does, why "just do your Kegels" is bad advice for a lot of people, and why the medical system keeps siloing symptoms it should be connecting

(17:00) The vFit, breathwork, pregnancy, postpartum, men's pelvic health, and what to expect at your first appointment

(30:00) "...but for REAL"

(31:00) Now That's What I Call— OKAYY! — "Undone" by Weezer

(32:00) Dumpster Fire Phoenix + Rapid Fire Q&A

...but for REAL: These problems are common, but they're not normal. If something is bothering you — even if it's just annoying, even if you haven't had a baby, even if it doesn't feel "serious enough" — reach out to a pelvic floor therapist, do a consult, and get the help that's out there for you.

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