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Southland Rugby's Referee scholarships and wellbeing initiatives
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Andrew Rowland, previously chair of Rugby Southland Referees joins me to talk about two initiatives they are running in the furthest south peninsula of New Zealand.

Firstly their Referees of the Future Scholarship initiative - a new way of attracting young (and not so young....) people into refereeing. We look at what's behind it, what's the 'offer' and how it's going so far. There's some more info here on their 2026 scholarship awardees.

And then Andrew and I talked about their Chaplaincy offer for their match officials in the province. We talk about what it is, what it's not, and how it's helped him and his fellow referees. If the word chaplaincy sends you down a certain thought route (as it did for me), then worth listening to what it actually is.

For more about refereeing in Southland, head here.

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Keith Lewis:

Welcome to Advantage over the podcast for the rugby referee community or

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simply those in rugby who want to know more about refereeing.

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Your host today is Keith Lewis.

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Are you ready?

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Time on

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so joining me on the podcast today is Andrew Rowland from Rugby Southland

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down in New Zealand.

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We'll have a chat about what that means before

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but until recently Andrew was chair of Rugby Southland Referees.

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But he has just handed the reins over to a new chair down there.

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But in his time as chair he kind of led and grew the referee organization down there.

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And one of the many initiatives that he oversaw is one that I saw not that long ago

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and wanted to delve into and that's about the thorny issue or the troublesome issue around

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the world of how do we attract and recruit new referees.

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So they've done some great stuff down there.

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So we'll have a chat with that.

Keith Lewis:

So thanks for joining us, Andrew.

Andrew Rowland:

Thanks for the opportunity, Keith.

Andrew Rowland:

Much appreciated.

Keith Lewis:

Cool. So you guys call it your referee of the future scholarship program and

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it's all about attracting and retraining match officials and especially or initially

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targeting young match officials.

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That's what I want to get into.

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But obviously most listeners to the to the Advantage over podcast are probably up north

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or elsewhere.

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So let's just paint the scene of where you are

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and the geography and the rugby landscape of Southland.

Keith Lewis:

So where are we speaking to today?

Andrew Rowland:

Okay, so we are probably.

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I'd almost hesitate to say that we are

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probably the southernmost rugby playing province in the world.

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So right at the bottom of the south island of New Zealand and our province,

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it's actually reasonably sparse.

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Gee,

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probably.

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I'm probably an hour and a, probably an hour

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and a half one way trip to our furthest point and that you could probably draw a circle

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around the province and, and that's about where you'd.

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Where we'd travel to.

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Poss. Yeah, that.

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That would probably be a cover it.

Keith Lewis:

The big cities down there.

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Invercargill.

Andrew Rowland:

No,

Andrew Rowland:

no, no. Invercargill is, is the city.

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Lots of little rural towns.

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So the likes of Gore, Tiana, Winton, you know these names probably don't mean anything but

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these are, you know, towns of, you know they could, there could be 10000 in them.

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So we have a, we have a, a blend of metro rugby.

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Our premier division is made up of predominantly.

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Well this.

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There's six teams and four of them would be

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regarded as metro.

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There's probably,

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there's one that sits a wee bit in between and then there's definitely a country team.

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The majority of our division One and two would be country based.

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So. Yeah, country footy.

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Yeah, so that's.

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So yeah, we have Premier.

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We have Premier men's and then Senior woman's and then we have those other two divisions and

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then we get into our.

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We have president's grade and then we get into our age groups.

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So down to.

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Yeah.

Keith Lewis:

And the number of clubs that you facilitate would be.

Andrew Rowland:

Oh, good question.

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I think there's something like clubs in

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southland.

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There's probably 30 odd.

Keith Lewis:

Yeah. I guess scale into the referee society side as well.

Keith Lewis:

So what's the, what's the, the refereeing approach?

Andrew Rowland:

Yeah. So not, not all of those clubs feature in every grade and you know,

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there are, there are pockets of.

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Pockets of clubs like you'll have the likes of

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Gore or Eastern Southland which is, you know, probably a,

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almost a subset of.

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Of Southland geographically.

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And there'll be sort of 12 clubs within that, within that quite condensed radius.

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And then for us it's about making sure that we're putting.

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That we're putting the best referee that is suited and qualified on, on those games.

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And sometimes that means that games whilst there are referees refereeing and grades

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below.

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The reason why they're referring in those grades is because they're not quite.

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It's not the right game for them and we don't want to set people up to fail just to have a

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referee on the ground to keep everybody else happy.

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That was basically where we got to.

Keith Lewis:

And so Rugby south and referees is.

Keith Lewis:

What's your membership level look like?

Andrew Rowland:

It's been reasonably steady over the last two or three years.

Andrew Rowland:

Just a moment, I got a couple of figures here.

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So.

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Yeah, so 2025,

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2025 we had 56 referees of.

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Sorry.

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Actually we had 59, 60, 63 referees.

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Sorry, four of which were females and 57 which were males.

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And then 2026 we have 61 referees.

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55 are male and six are female.

Keith Lewis:

And you also run an associate referee program as well?

Andrew Rowland:

With what we might, some people up

Keith Lewis:

here might call them club referees, I guess.

Andrew Rowland:

Yeah,

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sounds like it.

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Those numbers are included in our.

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In those numbers that I gave you before.

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But if I go back to 2025,

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we had 49 fully registered referees and 14 associates this year.

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Thus far we have 51 fully registered referees and two associate referees.

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We have just recently run a series of associate referee courses.

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So I would hope that that number increases.

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And those,

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those associate referees tend to operate more in the age grade, the lower age grade space.

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And that's only just kicked off for us.

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They had grading day Just sad day, just been

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so.

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Yeah,

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we'll see.

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Watch this space.

Keith Lewis:

So that's, that's, that's kind of sets out this, this, the scale.

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And like every referee association around the world, we're kind of always thinking about

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where the new talent's coming from and how we get to jump ship into refereeing or to look at

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refereeing as a route in.

Keith Lewis:

Tell us a little bit about the thought process that sat behind the scholarship program.

Andrew Rowland:

Yeah,

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absolutely, Keith.

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So I guess during my tenure as chairman,

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we always do our post season review and we were finding that our numbers were relatively

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stable,

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yet there were new competitions coming online, which was putting extra pressure.

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We were having to shift some competitions or ask for competitions to be shifted from the

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traditional Saturday time slots to,

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you know,

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Thursday nights, Friday nights,

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things like that, to help us be able to service these games.

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Our recruitment had probably been a little bit hit and miss in the past.

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We were just sort of relying upon word of mouth,

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you know, tap on the shoulder, that sort of thing.

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So,

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you know, as we were talking before, the definition of insanity is doing the same thing

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over and over again and hoping for a different outcome, which we were probably guilty of.

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So yeah, we, we decided to try and do something a little bit different.

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And we'd seen a couple of different iterations that New Zealand rugby had, had tried with

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some success.

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Some of the listeners might have heard of Glenn Jackson, who's currently the Fijian Drua

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coach, but he had a quite a decorated playing career both here in New Zealand and,

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and over in the uk.

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And then when he finished there, he pretty

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much,

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I think he hung up his playing jersey one year and what might have even been one Saturday

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whistle the next Saturday.

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Yeah, he did.

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And, and within very, very short time,

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you know, he was refereeing test rugby and, and doing it very well.

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So we sort of thought, looked at that and they're doing it in the female space as well,

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as we discussed before, Keith.

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So we thought, well,

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you know, what have we got to lose?

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Rather have tried something and failed than not to have tried at all.

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We were also very fortunate that we got a,

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we had a funder or a sponsor come on board.

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And just through the conversation,

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the result was that they actually were prepared to do some funding for us and they

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wanted it tagged specifically for recruitment rather than, you know, just going into the

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general coffers.

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So that was, that was probably the catalyst for, for us to get really serious about these,

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these conversations.

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And yeah, the, the result.

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We're also very lucky that down here we've got

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another community group that has run sort of scholarship programs in the sporting space

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for, for an extended period of time both playing and coaching.

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And I was lucky enough to go through that.

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So I sort of had a little bit of an insight as

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to what these sorts of programs could offer.

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And so I said, well,

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literally, why don't we give this a crack? What have we got to lose?

Keith Lewis:

So what is the offer? What are you offering to Interested?

Andrew Rowland:

Yeah, so,

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yeah, so what we did, a lot of it was actually more about giving these young athletes, or

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giving these athletes, not necessarily young,

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the opportunity to go through a selection process because a lot of them haven't.

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And so whether they were successful or not,

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we hope that they would walk away from, from the process with something, you know,

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something that would help them, whether it be in life or on the paddock.

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We started off with a focus on young match officials.

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But coming back to our geography, you know, a lot of down here in Southland, we export a lot

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of our talent off to university and the odd one drifts back but for the majority and they,

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you know, they spread their wings and they keep on going, which is really cool.

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So we thought, well, okay, if we're investing in them, we probably want to get something

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back.

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So that was where we ended up sort of

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splitting our, I suppose you could say splitting our votes.

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And of our five recipients this year,

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we've got two of them are secondary school age,

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two of them are ex players and one is still a current player and university age and in the

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female space.

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So what these successful recipients receive is aside from a financial contribution which it's

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encouraged that it is used for rugby purposes, whether that be a new pair of boots or a gym

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membership or whatever it might be.

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They also get additional tutelage and additional training and development sessions

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over and above our weekly, you know, our normal weekly association ones.

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And then that's with the likes of mental skills,

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sports chaplaincy.

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We've got a dietitian coming in,

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we've got access,

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they will have access to our local npc.

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So our.

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Sorry, our MPC coaches and training.

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So that's our, our Southland Stags they will

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get.

Keith Lewis:

That's your competition, isn't it?

Andrew Rowland:

Really?

Andrew Rowland:

Yeah. Yep. That's our national competition team.

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So they'll, they'll be able to go along and observe them training and you pick the brains

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of, of coaches and bits and pieces.

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So that's, that's pretty awesome.

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They have one on one coaching and you know, there's an expectation for them that they're

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Doing game plans and which you wouldn't necessarily expect a first year referee to be

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doing game plans.

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But you know, we've, we've selected these,

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these said individuals for a reason because we think we can effectively fast track them, you

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know,

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and that they've shown, you know, the resilience that we're looking for.

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So we can sort of,

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yeah.

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Test their middle a little bit earlier than what we normally would.

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So yeah, and, and that's, that's pretty much what, what they get as a result of their

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scholarship.

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The scholarship is on a,

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it's on a year by year basis for a maximum of three years.

Keith Lewis:

So just, just if I just pick up on the financial side of things because so

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many, many countries up, up here in England and most of the, the northern sides referees,

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we don't get any,

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we get expenses, but we don't get paid.

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There's no match fees involved until you get

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to the, the sort of national end of the game.

Keith Lewis:

Is that the same there?

Keith Lewis:

So is this, is this a different approach to kind of.

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And do you think that changes things?

Andrew Rowland:

Yeah, good question.

Andrew Rowland:

We are the same.

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It's funny because over my career I've always joked with people when they say, do you get

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paid? It's like, no, I have to pay.

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I have to pay a sub for the honor of getting abused every weekend.

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So it's interesting because a lot of the sports down here, whether it be basketball,

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touch,

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netball,

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the teams actually pay.

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Yeah.

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Match officials,

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whether it's 10 bucks a game or whatever it is,

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both teams contribute.

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Rugby is one of very few that don't get paid at club level.

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Yes, we get expenses, we get mileage,

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but that's all we get.

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Yeah, we, we felt we wanted to make this,

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you know, we wanted this to, to almost be a little bit elitism.

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Yeah. So we wanted people to want to be in that.

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You're asking someone that's come through old school,

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you know, for me,

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no amount of money would change whether I do or don't referee.

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I do it for the love of it.

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And I would suggest that probably for the

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majority of our association that that answer would be exactly the same.

Andrew Rowland:

I haven't.

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In fact, we had one of our, one of our scholarship recipients, he goes, I don't want

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the money.

Keith Lewis:

Yeah.

Andrew Rowland:

So that was,

Keith Lewis:

I did some, that, that is interesting.

Keith Lewis:

I did some study job.

Keith Lewis:

We're not talking about big money, we're

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talking about 500 New Zealand, 500 bucks

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a year a season.

Keith Lewis:

Just to save you reading for your calculated listener.

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It's about 200 sterling,

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300 US or 400 Australian dollars.

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So like it's, it's a decent pair of boots a

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couple of times a year.

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As you say membership, a gym membership.

Keith Lewis:

So it's,

Keith Lewis:

it's not, it's not a semi professional contract or anything?

Andrew Rowland:

No, definitely not, no.

Keith Lewis:

So that's, that's a really interesting approach.

Keith Lewis:

So how's that going? Is it this is the first time you've run that

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or is this.

Andrew Rowland:

This is the first time we've run it.

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We had 12 applicants and the qualifying criteria is you had to be either.

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You could only have refereed a maximum of one year.

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So two of our recipients are effectively second year referees.

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And yeah, aside from that, it was just.

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They went through quite a rigorous, there was

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quite a process where they had to submit an application.

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You know, we looked through the applications, we selected a short list, then they had to go

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through and they went before an interview panel.

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There was three of us on that interview panel.

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So there was the chairman of the board, which

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was myself,

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there was our appointments officer and then there was our referee manager or.

Andrew Rowland:

Yeah, referee manager,

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yeah.

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So. And that was quite an intensive process.

Andrew Rowland:

Yeah, we didn't,

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we didn't take any prisoners because that was, this is all part of the scholarship.

Andrew Rowland:

Like if scholarship is in our eyes, you are effectively the best of the best.

Andrew Rowland:

Yeah. So we need to make sure of that.

Andrew Rowland:

Yeah. So. And we,

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yeah, we settled on, we didn't really.

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Well, we had a number based on finances and

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that number was clearly higher than 5.

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But 5 is what we,

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what we decided on because we certainly, we didn't want to just be handing them out to hit

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a number.

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We wanted these to be something special and we wanted people to aspire to that level.

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So. And I think,

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I think we've achieved that.

Keith Lewis:

Can I ask just what about the other seven?

Keith Lewis:

Do, do you think obviously that you had 12 applicants?

Keith Lewis:

Five, five got them.

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What of the other do.

Keith Lewis:

Does that mean we lose seven people who are wanting to be the game or have they just.

Keith Lewis:

They go through the normal society process?

Andrew Rowland:

They go through the normal association process.

Andrew Rowland:

Of those seven,

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I would say four,

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five of them have gone through the normal association process.

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Rightly or wrongly,

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if they didn't get the scholarship and didn't referee as a result,

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did they want to referee in the first place?

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So are they the type of person that we want or need?

Keith Lewis:

Yeah, that's a good provocation, isn't it?

Keith Lewis:

But it's an interesting debate.

Keith Lewis:

People think, well, actually, are we therefore

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have we lost two People that we could have had via a different route.

Keith Lewis:

But as you said before, we've got to test these things out and, and see with those.

Keith Lewis:

And if they want to, if those seven individuals want to referee, they'll still be

Keith Lewis:

refereeing.

Andrew Rowland:

Yeah, that's right.

Andrew Rowland:

If they genuinely, if they had that genuine

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desire, they would follow through with it regardless of whether they got a scholarship

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or not.

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So.

Andrew Rowland:

Yeah.

Keith Lewis:

Have there been any other sort of challenges to the program?

Keith Lewis:

It's still early days in it, I guess, but any, any challenges to share?

Andrew Rowland:

I don't think we've run into any just yet and I hope I'm not putting the

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commentators curse on things.

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I guess just scholarship programs in general.

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I've seen sometimes some of these scholarship programs are harder to get out of than they

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are to get into.

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And that was something that I was really clear and strong on from the beginning that there

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needs to be,

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they need to be meeting the criteria, otherwise there needs to be exit points.

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And I'm not saying they, yeah, they miss one meeting and, you know, you're gone.

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But it needs to be mutually beneficial to everybody.

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We're committing, not only financially but, you know, investing time in these, in these

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individuals and we need to be getting some sort of, we need to be getting payoff and

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reward for that.

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And if we're not,

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well, then, you know, there needs to be a mechanism by which that we can draw a line in

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the sand and move on.

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So touch wood.

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Yeah, touch wood.

Andrew Rowland:

We haven't had those, haven't had to have any of those conversations yet.

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And I'm confident with the individuals that we've selected that it's highly, highly

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unlikely that we're going to have to,

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hence the rigor of the initial selection process.

Keith Lewis:

That's.

Keith Lewis:

It sounds like a really interesting initiative.

Keith Lewis:

So it's certainly one we'll keep an eye on.

Keith Lewis:

So I'd like to check back in with you in maybe

Keith Lewis:

a year or so and even speak to some of the individuals when they, when they get going.

Andrew Rowland:

Be good.

Andrew Rowland:

Yeah, absolutely.

Andrew Rowland:

Absolutely.

Andrew Rowland:

I think of those.

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Yeah. Of the five we've got,

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so two of them were brand new referees and they,

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one of those two has refereed his first senior women's game and I, I actually had the other

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one running touch for me last weekend and he's not far away.

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He's not far away from actually picking up the whistle and, and going solo.

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So that's,

Andrew Rowland:

that's awesome.

Keith Lewis:

Can I just pick you up on something we talked about?

Keith Lewis:

You, you mentioned as part of your offering there was about the sports chaplaincy piece.

Keith Lewis:

I've seen some, some stuff around that which looks really interesting.

Keith Lewis:

Can you just give it.

Keith Lewis:

What, what is it and what's the, what's the

Keith Lewis:

thinking behind it?

Andrew Rowland:

How long have you got?

Andrew Rowland:

I'm about as passionate about, as I am about refereeing.

Andrew Rowland:

All right,

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so,

Andrew Rowland:

so we have a, we have an organization here, it's called New Zealand Sports Chaplaincy.

Andrew Rowland:

And we're lucky enough that down here in Southland we have a husband and wife team and

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one.

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And the husband actually works for Rugby

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Southland as a, as a paid employee.

Andrew Rowland:

And this was floated once again just before I stepped out of the chair and I thought it was

Andrew Rowland:

a fantastic idea.

Andrew Rowland:

We,

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we all know that we are going to have times in our career where we think we've been stiffed

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on selection or someone's,

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you know, someone's had a crack at us from the sideline or a coach or whatever.

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And as tough as we think we are, we're human beings at the end of the day.

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And these things do, whether you want to admit it or not, they, they do, they do affect you.

Andrew Rowland:

And I found, I always found that if I spoke to other referees,

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they would always agree with you.

Andrew Rowland:

Right.

Andrew Rowland:

Which is actually not always helpful.

Andrew Rowland:

Yeah,

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Sometimes you need someone to say, I think you might be overreacting there or you're,

Andrew Rowland:

you're kind of missing the point.

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You know, you're blaming this person, this person, this person.

Andrew Rowland:

You're blaming the game, all the rest of it.

Andrew Rowland:

Actually.

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Is there something perhaps out of kilter in your personal life which has led you to react

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in this way?

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And I think the comfort of talking to somebody that has in no way shape or form got any

Andrew Rowland:

influence on your career or your pathway.

Andrew Rowland:

There's a safety in that.

Andrew Rowland:

You still get to someone who understands the rugby landscape but is not like, we all have

Andrew Rowland:

our reference, we all have our coaches and all the rest of it, but if I go to my coach and

Andrew Rowland:

say, oh,

Andrew Rowland:

you know, ****, I'm having a hard time at home or whatever, it might look like,

Andrew Rowland:

gee, yeah,

Andrew Rowland:

my coach might be 65 or 70 or whatever and I know what his response is going to be and it's

Andrew Rowland:

probably not a helpful one.

Andrew Rowland:

Right.

Andrew Rowland:

So,

Andrew Rowland:

yeah, so we've got this,

Andrew Rowland:

so we've got this lady who is,

Andrew Rowland:

is our sports chaplain and she comes along to our meetings and she simply just connects with

Andrew Rowland:

people there.

Andrew Rowland:

She doesn't, she might do a little two minute

Andrew Rowland:

spot up the front about various things.

Andrew Rowland:

The one she did recently was about,

Andrew Rowland:

you know, negative selft.

Andrew Rowland:

Talk and things like that.

Andrew Rowland:

So, you know, a lot of our T and D meetings are all about, you know, on field stuff.

Andrew Rowland:

But we don't necessarily, I don't think we spend enough time training our referees how to

Andrew Rowland:

actually look after themselves mentally.

Andrew Rowland:

We train them physically, but we don't train them mentally.

Andrew Rowland:

And we all know that if you're not in a good space when you step onto the paddock,

Andrew Rowland:

you're going to be in a worse space when you step off.

Andrew Rowland:

So.

Keith Lewis:

So I think the word chaplaincy was the word that jumped out at me because my

Keith Lewis:

dad's in the religious side of things.

Keith Lewis:

He's a vicar, retired vicar.

Keith Lewis:

And I saw the word chaplaincy, thought, is this a religious initiative?

Keith Lewis:

But it sounds the way you've described it, it's a well being offer.

Keith Lewis:

And those things aren't necessarily the same thing.

Andrew Rowland:

And I did have the same reservation as you, Keith.

Andrew Rowland:

I'm not of the religious persuasion and I'm like, oh,

Andrew Rowland:

what's this going to be about?

Andrew Rowland:

But I think for us,

Andrew Rowland:

the individual that we've got, and she makes it very, very clear that it's not about this.

Andrew Rowland:

Ironically,

Andrew Rowland:

I think I was probably the first one in our association to utilize the service.

Andrew Rowland:

I had a little,

Andrew Rowland:

a little mishap recently,

Andrew Rowland:

a small accident which could have gone, which could have been a much, much bigger accident.

Andrew Rowland:

And it led me to,

Andrew Rowland:

it led me to some thoughts that I wasn't overly happy with but to have someone to talk

Andrew Rowland:

to.

Andrew Rowland:

And she asked me some, really,

Andrew Rowland:

she asked me some,

Andrew Rowland:

some thought provoking questions, one of which I still can't answer,

Andrew Rowland:

which was around okay, if I'm, I'm coaching, I'm coaching referees and if they perhaps make

Andrew Rowland:

a mistake or something,

Andrew Rowland:

for me that's actually, I should, I do welcome that because it's a learning opportunity,

Andrew Rowland:

but yet I won't let myself make mistakes, I won't let myself have those learning

Andrew Rowland:

opportunities.

Andrew Rowland:

Goes why is that?

Andrew Rowland:

And I'm like,

Andrew Rowland:

oh,

Andrew Rowland:

I have no idea.

Andrew Rowland:

So just little things like that.

Andrew Rowland:

And I know there's been two or three others that have just sat down over a cup of coffee.

Andrew Rowland:

Like she'll just meet,

Andrew Rowland:

she'll meet any of our membership anywhere, anytime over a cup of coffee and just have a

Andrew Rowland:

bit of, a bit of a chat.

Andrew Rowland:

And yeah, there's a couple of, couple of

Andrew Rowland:

referees that I've seen that have,

Andrew Rowland:

I guess in the past tied their self worth to their refereeing performances and if it

Andrew Rowland:

doesn't go well, you kind of see them,

Andrew Rowland:

you know, they become a bit withdrawn and all the rest of it.

Andrew Rowland:

And I know they've been working with her and I, I can see the difference in them, you know,

Andrew Rowland:

100%.

Andrew Rowland:

I've had other unions,

Andrew Rowland:

other unions ring up and ask about it.

Andrew Rowland:

I just think,

Andrew Rowland:

look,

Andrew Rowland:

you know, like I do, that refereeing can be extremely, extremely stressful.

Keith Lewis:

Yeah. And isolated.

Andrew Rowland:

And isolated.

Keith Lewis:

You talked about driving an hour and

Andrew Rowland:

a half to after.

Keith Lewis:

Again, that's a long time for you to be in the car on your own after a potential

Keith Lewis:

incident,

Keith Lewis:

potential issue, a thing,

Keith Lewis:

and mulling over the state of your week and your life and all those things as well.

Andrew Rowland:

So you can come up with all sorts of weird and wacky scenarios in that

Andrew Rowland:

time,

Andrew Rowland:

you know, but to have somebody who's not indoctrinated in refereeing and can give you a

Andrew Rowland:

different perspective,

Andrew Rowland:

sometimes that's actually all you need is someone to give you a slightly different

Andrew Rowland:

perspective.

Andrew Rowland:

You know, we're lucky with Sarah that her personality is perfect.

Andrew Rowland:

It's perfect for this job.

Andrew Rowland:

It's perfect for our,

Andrew Rowland:

for our association.

Andrew Rowland:

And I think in wider terms,

Andrew Rowland:

we want people who are considering refereeing to know that we care about them, we care about

Andrew Rowland:

them as people before we care about them as referees.

Andrew Rowland:

So we look, you know, you want that warm, inviting environment and to be known as.

Andrew Rowland:

We look after our own.

Andrew Rowland:

You know,

Andrew Rowland:

we don't hang out to dry, we don't leave you to solve your own problems because invariably

Andrew Rowland:

on your journey you will have these moments.

Andrew Rowland:

And from an out, from an outsider looking in, that looks ****** scary.

Keith Lewis:

I, I, I think that's brilliant.

Keith Lewis:

I'm glad, I'm glad I asked you about that.

Keith Lewis:

I think there's a strap line that I started to use on the rugby referee.net stuff that we are

Keith Lewis:

rugby people who referee and that what you've just described is exactly that.

Keith Lewis:

We want to make sure that we look after each other, we look after ourselves and we are

Keith Lewis:

supported in whatever we do because we are rugby people and that's how rugby people

Keith Lewis:

behave.

Keith Lewis:

We just happen to do it with whistles in our hands rather than balls.

Keith Lewis:

That's really great.

Andrew Rowland:

Absolutely. And I think people look at refereeing as a lonely sport, right,

Andrew Rowland:

because they only see you out there in the middle.

Andrew Rowland:

But we are,

Andrew Rowland:

we are one big final, we are one big family and families look after each other.

Andrew Rowland:

So it, to me, it goes hand in hand.

Andrew Rowland:

And you're not,

Andrew Rowland:

you're not alone.

Andrew Rowland:

You're not fighting this battle by yourself.

Andrew Rowland:

You have got so much support, so much love,

Andrew Rowland:

so much Araha around you that you know it's a cool place to be, it's a cool group to

Keith Lewis:

be part of that is a perfect place to to end this conversation.

Keith Lewis:

We've covered two really important sub subjects there and really grateful for your

Keith Lewis:

time, Andrew.

Keith Lewis:

It's great to see both those initiatives is

Keith Lewis:

kicking off and hopefully you the listeners taken something out of both both sides of it.

Andrew Rowland:

So thanks for awesome.

Andrew Rowland:

No appreciate it mate.

Andrew Rowland:

And thanks once again for the opportunity

Keith Lewis:

that was the Advantage over podcast from rugby referee.net Hope you've

Keith Lewis:

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Keith Lewis:

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Keith Lewis:

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