Artwork for podcast Family Matters
Lost Boys, Fairies & Real Life: Daf x James on Adoption & Storytelling
Episode 1221st October 2025 • Family Matters • Adoption UK
00:00:00 01:07:16

Share Episode

Shownotes

In this episode of Family Matters, James talks with Daf, the writer and creator of BBC’s Lost Boys & Fairies. Together they explore adoption and representation on screen, the inspiration behind Lost Boys & Fairies, and how stories like Doctor Who can help adoptees make sense of identity, belonging and loss. They also discuss the importance of authentic storytelling, community, and continued support for adopted people beyond childhood.

Mentions & recommendations:

Russell T Davies; This Is Us (Disney+); Lion (film); Trying (Apple TV+); and lots of love for Welsh and queer representation on mainstream platforms.

Content note: discussion of grief and bereavement, trauma, abandonment, raised voices, and mental health.

Guests:

Daf — playwright/screenwriter/composer/performer; creator of Lost Boys & Fairies.

James — adoptee and screenwriter.

Host:

Sarah (Adoption UK)

Links:

Lost Boys & Fairies https://www.bbc.co.uk/iplayer/episodes/m001wzp2/lost-boys-and-fairies

Adoption UK Connected https://www.adoptionuk.org/cyps-cymru

Stay in touch:

Subscribe, rate and review to help more families find the podcast. For support, community and training, visit Adoption UK https://www.adoptionuk.org/

Hashtags: #AdoptionUK #FamilyMattersPodcast #AdoptionRepresentation #LostBoysAndFairies #DafJames #AdopteeVoices #DoctorWho #WelshTV #ConnectedWales

Links

Chapters

Video

More from YouTube

More Episodes
12. Lost Boys, Fairies & Real Life: Daf x James on Adoption & Storytelling
01:07:16
11. Far Beyond the Adoption Order: Trauma, love, and the fight for support
01:00:12
10. 'What Has Worked for You?' Simon Benn asks for your insights on trauma and healing
01:00:52
9. Inside the Psychology and Therapy Hub (PATH): Support that truly ‘gets it’
00:53:12
8. Parenting From A Distance
00:32:22
7. Through a Trauma Lens: What adoption support gets wrong
00:58:06
6. Adoption, Neurodiversity and Identity
00:41:29
5. Disability Benefits – What Every Carer Needs to Know
00:52:33
4. 'You're someone new now'- An Interview with Mahesha Rice
00:54:00
3. Radical Self-care for Carers
00:35:19
2. Finding Mac - Adoption, Love and Loss with Rev Richard Sutcliffe
01:08:28
1. Adult Adoptees in Conversation: Contact, reunion and long, lost families
01:15:09
10. Young Adoptees Meet the Minister
00:45:28
9. Stress-Free Christmas: Expert Tips for Adoptive Families
00:15:54
8. Adoption Today: Legacies of Forced Adoption and the Modern Impact with Dr. Michael Lambert (Part 2)
00:50:17
7. Uncovering the Past: Forced Adoption in the UK with Dr. Michael Lambert (Part 1)
01:07:39
6. Trauma-informed Education - Isn’t it just excusing bad behaviour?
01:37:31
5. The Adoption Process: Being Matched with a Child
00:37:44
4. The Adoption Process: Going to Panel
00:29:04
3. The Adoption Process: Being Assessed
00:23:43
2. The Adoption Process: Getting Prepared
00:32:25
1. Thinking About Adopting? Here’s What You Need to Know
00:26:53
1. trailer Family Matters Podcast - Teaser
00:00:30