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Are You Prepared for the Unexpected Loss of a Loved One? [E198]
Episode 19820th January 2025 • Chris Cotton Weekly Blitz • Chris Cotton
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In this episode of "The Weekly Blitz," host Coach Chris Cotton opens up about his deeply personal journey with grief following the passing of his beloved wife Kimberly's mother on New Year's Eve. With heartfelt sincerity, he delves into the complex and often overwhelming stages of grief, sharing insights and reflections from his own experience. Chris emphasizes the crucial importance of being prepared for the inevitable reality of loss, introducing listeners to the "red envelope yellow envelope" concept. This thoughtful approach involves meticulously documenting essential information and end-of-life plans, ensuring that loved ones are not left in the dark during times of emotional turmoil.


Chris underscores the necessity of having those often uncomfortable yet vital conversations about end-of-life wishes and preparations. By addressing these topics head-on, individuals can significantly ease the burden on their families and friends, allowing them to focus on healing and remembrance rather than logistical challenges. Throughout the episode, Chris also touches on the emotional and spiritual dimensions of grief, offering guidance and support to those navigating similar paths.

He encourages listeners to prioritize self-care and preparedness, not only in their personal lives but also within their business endeavors. By fostering a mindset of readiness and resilience, individuals can better cope with the unpredictable nature of life and loss. Through his candid storytelling and practical advice, Coach Chris Cotton provides a compassionate and empowering message, reminding us all of the strength found in vulnerability and the peace that comes from being prepared.


Introduction to the Episode (00:00:01)

  • Coach Chris Cotton introduces the podcast and its focus on auto repair business insights.

Happy New Year Message (00:01:13)

  • Chris shares a New Year greeting and hints at personal challenges faced recently.

Discussion of Loss (00:02:29)

  • Chris reflects on the passing of Kimberly's mother and the impact on their family.

Red Envelope Yellow Envelope Concept (00:03:46)

  • Importance of planning for unexpected events is emphasized through personal experiences.

The Emotional Toll of Grief (00:06:50)

  • Chris describes the emotional reactions and support needed during grief.

Organizing Affairs for Loved Ones (00:08:18)

  • Advice on preparing personal and business affairs to ease burdens on family.

The Stages of Grief (00:10:27)

  • Chris outlines the stages of grief observed in Kimberly's reactions to loss.

Denial and Anger Stages (00:11:38)

  • Discussion of denial and anger stages in the grieving process.

Bargaining Stage of Grief (00:13:08)

  • Explains how bargaining manifests in thoughts of regret and "what if" scenarios.

Depression and Acceptance Stages (00:15:12)

  • Chris describes the transition between depression and acceptance in the grieving process.

Call to Action for Planning (00:16:28)

  • Encouragement to have plans in place for end-of-life situations to support loved ones.

Importance of Life Stories (00:17:47)

  • Chris stresses the need to document loved ones' life stories before it's too late.

Final Thoughts on Grief and Readiness (00:19:00)

  • Reflection on being spiritually and emotionally prepared for life's uncertainties.


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