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Hi there.
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Welcome to episode number 72.
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Today is a very special episode because I have a special guest with
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me that I will be interviewing.
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And her name is Kimora ward, and I'm gonna get Kimora to introduce herself shortly.
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But the purpose of her being here today is to share her journey
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and what it's been like for her.
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Been on the temples of financial success, accountability program.
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Kimora was part of the beta launch that we did amongst group of women that decided
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to take on the challenge for six months.
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So they were basically stuck with me for six months.
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And it's been an amazing journey and Kimora has been like our, a
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student, her and another me member.
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She showed up to every single call.
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I think there was only one that you may have missed because of work,
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but you showed up, even if you could only show up for the first part you
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did all the homework, you watched all the videos, you took action.
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You attended all the coaching calls.
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Introduce yourself so that everybody gets to know who you are and what you do.
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Hi, my name is Kimora ward.
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I am an auditor by profession.
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I live on the island of Montserrat.
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I love reading.
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I love music, love listening to music.
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So that's just a bit about me onto.
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I think you forgot to mention that you are a self-published author.
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Yes, I am a self-published author.
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Yes.
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Yes, my dear.
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Thank you very much for that.
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I did forget.
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That's and so Kimora has a book of poetry.
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You can find it on Amazon.
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It's called inner reflections thoughts that came from within, and you can
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actually get it on Kindle or paperback.
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I have it.
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And like I mentioned on.
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Episode 49.
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So if you want to go back and listen to the previous episode that Kimora
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was on, you will find it on episode 49, where we talked about finances
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and managing your mental health.
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But Kimura's book of poetry is absolutely amazing.
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It's part of my devotional collection.
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You won't be able to see this when you are listening to the podcast,
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but Kimora can see it on the camera, but I have my books here and it's
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amongst my, I have four books where I switch between devote devotion.
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So absolutely love it.
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So yeah, go check it out.
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Thank you, Esther.
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Thank you for that.
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You I'm most welcome.
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So happy to have you here today.
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So we're gonna get straight into it.
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I've got a set of questions that I'm gonna ask, and we're just gonna talk
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about your journey and what it's like for you to be on the program.
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So to get started.
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What was your financial situation when you decided to join the temples of
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financial success accountability program?
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Okay.
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So when I decided to join the program, Was in a state where I wasn't that badly
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off because I had done a session with you.
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Yes.
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Which helped me to get back my footing.
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As I would've mentioned in the previous podcast, I was a person who loved to
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save, or I am a person who loves to save.
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And then, and therefore, because of advice given to me by my.
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was almost able to save, close to $20,000, just being a young person
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coming out of school and stuff like that.
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However, I reached the point where due to challenges due to going on a
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plane every year, not watching my not watching my finance finances closely.
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I actually.
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Managed to slip into the ditches, and I be became debt full of debt.
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So when I joined the program, I got out of aro because like I
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said, I did the session with you.
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So I had pretty much a good.
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In good information about what I should be doing, which is budget.
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That's the main thing I should have been doing, budgeting my funds, seeing
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what my plan is for my money and just letting my money work for me.
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I guess that's investing, but still, yeah I run with that.
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I run with the 10 pillars of.
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Finance and I listened to what you had to say.
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And to this day it has been helping me extremely, and I am grateful,
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truly honored and grateful to have been a part of a group of women who
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held each other accountable for their actions, their financial actions.
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Amazing and amazing.
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And you were right that we had first worked together.
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To do your budget and you were very consistent with that.
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I must say so.
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Like when I have these sessions with people, it's we sit down, we
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do the budget, we go through your success plan, how the things that
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you can do to make this budget work.
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And then it, I just prayed to God.
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I'm like, please Lord.
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I've given them everything.
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Their goals are achievable.
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They have the finances to achieve the, their goals.
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I hope they put it to action.
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And you were one of those people that you were consistent with your budget.
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And so by the time the financial pillars program came, it was
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almost like, okay, the next level or the next step, of for you.
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So based on that what were your.
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Six month goal when you joined the program and why were those goals important to you?
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Yes.
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So I can remember at the startup, I had some goals.
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I think I met them right now.
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One of them were to.
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Yes.
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Reached 10,000 K by the end of the year.
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So I think if you can just tell me when that program has started.
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I think it was last year, October, September, end of September.
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Beginning of October.
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Yeah.
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And her kid, you're not, that's what I told myself.
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I said a six month goal would be to reach about no 10 months at the
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end of the year, but that wouldn't have been six months, but I.
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I am going to put that as a goal.
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And I, kids did not.
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I achieved that goal by some form miracle.
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I don't know, amazing.
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I did achieve it and I actually closed my vehicle alone.
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That was another goal of my, to close my vehicle alone.
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I did that in December of 2021.
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And also, yeah, those were the two main ones.
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I.
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In my head, there was another one in my mind.
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There was, there were three of them, maybe it was something relating to
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invest investing, but I'm not sure I'm not quite certain because I've all.
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Yeah.
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I think you, you wanted to start exploring what your investing options were and yeah.
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What you could do as you were reducing the debt and having more
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disposable income available, how you can start, put putting that to work.
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Yeah.
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I think those were the three goals.
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And why were those goals important to you?
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Why was it important for you to pay off the vehicle alone?
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To save the 10 K and to want to start investing because Esther, I don't like
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owe nobody I don't even like to owe.
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I don't like to owe nobody.
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I don't owe nobody for no lump sum of money.
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What I go, I just want you to have your money here.
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Take your money.
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I don't want it.
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I, if I borrow a $5 from somebody, they getting it back in two seconds and I
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don't go around borrowing money anyway.
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So it's.
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A customer thing of mine, but I just don't like that.
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And another thing is I love freedom, financial freedom, so I wanted to be able
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to save the amount of money so that I should just do what I want with money.
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Be it, give it to someone if they need it.
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Be it travel, be it buying clothes, be it just doing what people do with money,
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so that's just me, financial freedom.
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That's my why.
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And that has always been my why, I remember reading Bo's
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book and what are your whys?
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And my biggest, why is I want financial freedom and I also
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want to be a philanthropist.
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I don't know why, but.
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Yeah.
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And you have that in you and for anybody who doesn't know who Bo is.
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It's Bo so can be from cleverer finance.
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She has written three book series and her first book save money, ditch debt dads.
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Yeah.
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And then there's, she has an investing book and she has a business book and
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she also has a fourth book, which is coming out next week, actually July.
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July 6th, it's coming out, but her fourth book is about her and her story.
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I will be having her on the podcast sometime in July.
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Yes.
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So you guys will get to meet her.
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Paula is like our mentor when it comes to finance.
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Yeah, she is.
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Yeah.
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Kimora has like the books and reads them.
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Yep.
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And what I love about what you said is that, one, you just, you
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don't like having debt, right?
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So it's like just eliminate it.
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And sometimes we do have to take on debt, but just because you take on
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debt, some people get too comfortable with the debt that they have, yeah.
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Because remember there's good debt.
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There's good.
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Debt like a mortgage or something.
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Yeah.
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So there's good debt, but I'm not discrediting.
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Per se, but I, for some reason I have a problem with just
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having a lump sum of money.
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And like you said, becoming comfortable with just owning that lump sum of money,
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as opposed to taking action and seeing how you can eradicate it, Exactly.
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And I think it's so important to have a bigger why.
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So your bigger, why was to be financially independent and to have that freedom?
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Cause when you think about it, like budgeting on its own is it's not fun.
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There's nothing fun about me having spending limits.
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, there's nothing fun about that.
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There's nothing fun about.
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Me having to give someone money back.
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I wanna keep the money for myself.
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But then when you have a bigger, why, that kind of helps you or motivates you
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to be able to work towards those goals.
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So how would you say.
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Or what specific things did you do to pay off the debt to save money?
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And how did the program help you to achieve those things?
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So what did you do specifically?
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Maybe you can name like one or one or two things that you did, actions that
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you took tools that you used and how the program helped you to achieve.
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Okay.
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So let me start off by saying, I just followed your instructions.
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I made sure I came to your classes and I watched you, by
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the way, you're easy to listen to.
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So it was just easy to just say, okay, I'm I have this class,
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I have this coaching call.
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I'm gonna meet up with the girls today.
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And it was easy to do that.
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That's.
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I'm glad for the accountability group.
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And because of that, not only was I keeping track what, not only were
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they keeping track of my, goals, but I was actually writing my
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goals down, keeping track of my own goals, keeping myself accountable.
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And what I did was I actually had no spending.
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So it's I would have days where I literally don't spend money or I would
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decide that, Hey, no X, Y, Z today.
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No, I just would make sacrifices, and if I bought it is just let me see.
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It's just a case where you have to make certain sacrifices.
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Yeah.
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You can't just have your cake and eat it to you.
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Wanna get rid of debt.
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You wanna get your.
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Your savings built up.
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You have to make certain choices and certain wise choices at that too.
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You have to think about what you're doing and that's what I did.
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And like I said, I just basically followed your instructions.
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I listened.
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I listened to you and yeah, not only did I listen to you, I pretty
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much did what resonated with me.
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Most of what you said resonated with me.
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And I said, okay, this makes sense.
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So lemme get, when I did it, it worked for me and in my favor, yeah.
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Like I said, I would've managed to reach the 10,000 K at the end of the
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year.
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And it's like, I.
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If you knew what I had at the beginning of the year, you would
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say, wow, that's a fact cry to the 10th at the end of the year.
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Yeah.
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So God is just good.
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And when you think about how he uses his.
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People to help us, like yourself.
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And I would say, let me make mention char cha I love Charlene cha was just
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one of the members that stood out to me and I must mention her Charlene, Paul.
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She.
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Was giving me stiff competition.
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I said this girl, but I still enjoyed all the female.
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They caught their company and I enjoyed the calls and it was a good time.
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It was a good six months.
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It really was.
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And I honestly feel like the program wouldn't have been as it was, if you
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hadn't joined, I feel like you definitely made it even the more special you
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were so helpful towards the ladies.
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You were always given words of encouragement.
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Kimora would come with these.
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Gems and these words of wisdom, if we thought we felt encouraged, wait til
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Kimora just shares her words of wisdom.
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So it was just always nice to have you, because you would
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always just encourage all of us.
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Cuz it's a journey that we're all on and we have our good days, our bad days.
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Yeah.
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And it's even though we are all working.
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On our own financial journey, we can still be an encouragement to someone else.
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Even whilst you are paying off debt, whilst you are working on your budget.
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Whilst you're trying to save money, whilst you are trying to build wealth.
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And for me, this is why Encouraging women to be so open about money, to
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talk about money, feel comfortable about money, the same way we talk about hair.
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We talk about men.
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We talk about our parents.
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We talk about our siblings.
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We talk about the church the same way we talk about TV and the government, right?
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It's the same way that I want us to be able to have these, informal conversations
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about money, where there's no shame.
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There's no judgment.
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It's not about how much you have in your bank account.
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It's not about how much I have in my bank account.
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It's about the goals that we have and the life that we wanna create and how
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we can support each other in doing that.
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So you were such a great support system in the program.
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So I just wanna personally thank you for showing up and for being such a giver,
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because it really does help and it makes.
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You know the difference and I'm grateful because I had a really
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nice bunch of women in the program.
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Like I've been on programs and it's the women are mean to each
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other and they don't get along.
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And it makes it very difficult for the coach.
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But.
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You guys were just so amazing.
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Very supportive.
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Yeah.
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And yeah, you and Charlene were like neck to neck.
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Cause we did a competition and I was given like prize prizes for I think I gave like
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first, second, third price and whenever.
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The members will take action.
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They'll get points.
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And so like Kimora and Charlene or neck to neck, and then , but I had a feeling
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you would win because you are so proactive and . I think one of the things I noticed
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about you was that you were consistent.
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You were very consistent with the time and the commitment, like you signed up
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to a program, you spent money on this program and you were gonna show up.
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Do you know what I mean?
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Yeah.
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And that level of commitment alone, when people show up like that, I
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know they're gonna get results.
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I know that how they started.
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There's no way that yeah.
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That you can be consistent with something and not get results.
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I don't care what it is.
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It might not be perfect, but there's no way that you can still
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be where you were when you started.
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So just your level of consistency and you were very coachable as well.
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And as well, you had fun with it, and you were very open.
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I think you've been open.
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it allowed me the space to be able to coach and to be able to offer my guidance.
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And a lot of it wasn't even like advice.
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It was more, these, this is the situation.
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These are your options.
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Like decide which way you wanna go thing.
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But yeah, you were just an amazing a star student, so I really
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appreciate you being in the program.
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So I'll move on to the next question, which is about, and I guess I just
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mentioned it a little bit on it.
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How did you keep yourself accountable and motivated throughout the journey?
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Yeah,
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You know what?
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I'm very like an academic person, so I like academics and I put myself
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in the zone as if I was in school.
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So I thought about it as if I was doing a course and I had to do assignments.
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And I just schedule times at which I will do the assignments
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and then say, okay, after this coaching card, I'm gonna do a bit.
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The assign the homework or whatever.
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So that's actually how I did it.
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love it.
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So I love that, that you approached it with that kind of mindset, cuz I
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think, yeah, some people, when they approach like group coaching programs
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or any course that they sign up to, they forget that you do have to put on.
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Kind of student and learning mentality.
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Yeah, you have to decide, okay, how much time am I gonna dedicate to this?
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When am I gonna do the homework and keep track of that.
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So I love that you went in it with that mindset.
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Yeah.
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Yep.
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And were there days that you didn't feel like doing.
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Do you know what I mean?
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Cause some days it's I don't wanna do this.
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I don't wanna talk to Esther about my finance.
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I don't wanna no.
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It was never like that for me.
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I actually like it.
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I like it.
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I am a person who likes to speak about finances, personal
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finances, getting my money.
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Because like I would've said in your, in the previous
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podcast, Girls about her money.
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I'm about my money.
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I want to make sure that my money is right and in order to do I
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have to do what needs to be done.
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You understand?
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So I cannot be letting things fall by the wayside or slacking on my budget
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or, just, I have to be on top of things and I will, I am going to be honest.
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There's not, I do not do a budget all the time.
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Sometimes I start off with a budget.
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I don't follow up every day.
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Cause remember you would've had advisors to do set out time during the week
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to check on your budget and stuff.
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It's not every week.
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I look at my figures and stuff like that, but yeah, I am more
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consistent than in times past.
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Yes.
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Yes.
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And I think as well, because you have so much of your personal
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finance, that's automated, it makes it easier for you where you don't
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have to be budgeting all the time.
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And that's kinda where you wanna get to where everything's automated, you've
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set the rules already for your money.
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What's going where, so then that way you don't have to have eyes all the time.
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But you have to do the work in the beginning to get to that place.
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Yeah.
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So I say to people like you don't have to, sit down and budget all the time.
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If you get your financial house in order.
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Because budgeted it can be a lot.
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And I think for me, there was a phase where I didn't even read I would
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spend five minutes on my budget.
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Because my income and expenses were the same every month.
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Everything was set up as an automated payment, I'll get paid
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and money would just distribute to where it needed to distribute.
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So all I was really doing was just monitoring, that was what
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my budget was for a long time.
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I was just monitoring to make sure that things went where I wanted it to go.
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Amazing.
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Excellent.
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Yeah.
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What shifts would you say that you made in your mindset, behavior, and habits to
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help you stay on track with achieving your goals and continuing to make progress?
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Do you know what of the shifts I've made actually has to do with giving?
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So in order to.
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You must give to give is better too than receiving.
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So yeah, I would say I actually, we would have those, we would get that
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advice to like Thai and give offering and stuff like that, and give to
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the needy and that kind of thing.
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So what's coming to my mind, as I heard that question was.
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I became someone who was more, and the more I gave it's
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like the more it came for it.
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And it's like, I don't even know where it's coming from.
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It's here you go.
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And sometimes I don't have it to give, but I would give it.
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And that kind of helped.
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I dunno, but it just did.
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And that is like a biblical principle.
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So yeah that, that's one thing that worked for me and the mindset change as well.
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Was that.
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I came out of the lack mentality and that ties in with the giving part, because
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it's when you feel like, oh, I don't even have you, what I'm seeing demo.
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Get it from you.
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That was a bit of dialect for you.
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yeah.
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Listen, I understand in I'm from Sierra Leone and we speak
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Creole, but it sounds like OI.
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It's just, we pronounce certain words differently, so you can
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go as deep in it as possible.
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I understand everything.
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Okay.
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Okay.
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Okay.
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I dunno if the audience will understand, but yeah, I completely understand.
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Okay.
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So what I just said was.
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I don't even have the money, so why are they gonna think that I should
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give them my money and I don't have it, but then at the same time I get all
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of that thinking and I said, you know what, maybe they needed more than me.
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Or have you ever thought of that?
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I had to ask myself the question.
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I would always get this a result with me.
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Yes.
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Because I was in a better position, to look after myself
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as it relates to finances.
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And I would just say, you know what?
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Here you go, God will bless me.
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That's what I would say in my mind.
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Here you go.
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God will bless me.
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Here you go.
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God will bless me no matter what the situation would have been.
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That's the mindset I had, and I just like right now I have uh, wealth mindset.
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Yeah.
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That's my mindset.
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And because I am the type of person who reads a lot of positive books,
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Think and grow rich, the power positive thinking, Norma Norman,
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Vincent feel the power of your subconscious mind, these sort of books.
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They have reprogrammed my subconscious mind and help me to think in a new
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dynamic, even the Bible, would've helped me to create certain mindset
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shifts, and help me to be living in a.
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What to say easier, have a more easier lifestyle, yeah.
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As opposed to thinking, why is me?
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Or I had reached this pinnacle now I'm flat down on my belly
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scraping on the ground like some snake, but at the end of the day.
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Yeah.
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But at the end of the day I have to switch and say, I am a Victor.
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I am the head and not the tail.
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I am good child.
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I am good child.
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Look at the world.
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The world is so full of the world is prosperous.
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All that's on the earth is man as well.
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I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me, all these little things,
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would help me because I am very spiritual.
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So yeah, these things would've helped me along the way and
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yeah, it just, it, these are.
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Helped me shift my mindset, and I cannot forget the giving part.
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That's one of the things that I still help.
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No I shouldn't steer, but that's one of the things that I think
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helped me to get to where I am now.
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And it's interesting cuz we cover financial pillar too, is how to
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shift your money mindset for success.
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So it's so important.
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What you've shared, just having the right mindset for success is so important even
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before people start budgeting before they start, setting goals and all these
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things really shifting your mindset for wealth building is going to determine.
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How the rest of the things you do go.
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So like you were able to do that very early on and it just goes
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to show how much is paid off.
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And it's interesting because we, I think one of our coaching calls, we
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were literally talking about giving for the whole of the call and we
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were encouraging each other to give.
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And I think for me, it's been where, like I got to a point where I became
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resentful of giving because for me.
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Part of my giving was almost like wanting acceptance and
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I had to get over that phase.
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And then I went into a phase of I'm not giving anymore because
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I need to sort my finances out.
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Yeah.
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And then I had to get over that phase because I realized very
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quickly that staying in that kind of mindset is actually keeping me.
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In that scarcity mindset and in that lack of mentality, and I had to very
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quickly shift from that and be like, no, I can have my finances in order
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and I can still be a giver, and as Christians, as you and I are, part
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of us building wealth and everything.
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Big part of that is given, given of our tithe, but also given to
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the needs that, that we come across the needs that are around us.
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And I think for me, similarly to you, when I started asking God, and this
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is a very strange prayer, don't pray onto you already . But when I started
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asking God, Lord, bring me someone with a problem today that I can help.
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I'm not trusting in myself and in my resources , I'm like, Lord, you
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are gonna make provision through me.
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And I'm telling you once I started to pray that way, like God will bring needs to me.
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People will mention stuff, and it's not even that they're mention it
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to ask you, but they will mention something and God will be like,
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I want you to do this, and this.
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And I'll be like, Since you are telling me to do it.
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I know that you've made provision and given more, has really opened doors
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for me, especially like in the month of June, like in the month of June,
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so much has been going on and a lot of shifts and changes personally.
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And I was like, Lord, I need a miracle.
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And I, followed from that.
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I was like, who can I bless?
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What can I do for someone who's life?
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Can I change, who's life?
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Can I make a difference too?
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So it's such a powerful thing to do, right?
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It is always better to give them to receive.
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And I was actually saying to a friend of mine, I said, we complain about
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the black tax, especially for us immigrants that are abroad, where we
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have to work and send money back home.
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Whereas, people that are born here.
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They're not sending their money anywhere.
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And everybody just takes care of themselves.
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But for us, we work, we pay the same amount of bill, the same amount of tax,
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but that money that we could save, we're having to send, and we tend to complain
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about black tax, but there was one day when I was praying and God gave me this
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revelation that actually it's a privilege to pay black tax because would I rather
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be the one on that side receiving?
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Or would I rather be the one on this side?
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Giving.
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That's and once I started to look at it that way, I never gRED again
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about sending money back home.
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That's yeah, that's true.
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Yeah.
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It's when you pray and when you come into communion with God, then is
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when you get your epiphanies then is when you get your revelations.
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And that's why it's so important to have those three moments with
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him and, Center yourself, and then you would get your answer.
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So I'm glad that you would've come to that realization because it's
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a pretty good realization to me.
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It really is.
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I think sometimes we block our own blessings.
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Yeah.
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By thinking that, oh, we need to hold onto everything and we need
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to keep everything for ourselves.
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I just, I always think about, When everybody is financially independent
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and everybody becomes a giver.
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No one needs to suffer.
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Do you know what I mean?
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Right there.
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Doesn't right.
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There doesn't have to be poverty because there's enough to go around
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and people always wanna give more than what they receive, but yeah.
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Yeah.
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Great stuff.
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So thanks for sharing that.
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Another question that I had for you was and you've already, you've
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shared so many great tips already.
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And thank you so much.
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And guys, this is what Kimora does in our coaching course.
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She throws these gems.
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So what tips can you give someone who, has similar girls to yourself and is not sure
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where to start and doesn't believe that they can achieve their financial goal?
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What could you tell them if they're listening to this podcast?
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Okay, so tip number one for me personally, what I do is write down my goals.
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I write them down, Steve Harvey, Oprah Winfrey, these big stars.
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They will tell you no, this humble Lita, oh, I'm not the little girl.
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I'm 36 years old, but this humble woman from Montserrat is now telling
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you to write the vision and make it.
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Write down your goals.
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This little quote is found incr two, two, I think, right?
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Yeah.
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Two, two.
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Yeah.
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Is in the Bible.
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You need to write down your goals and that's all, that's probably the only
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thing I could tell you right now, we start with that and work towards
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every day, looking at them too.
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That's another thing that made the vision plan.
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If you can, even.
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Make a vision board that would add, put the ice in on the cake, and
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have it vision in your eyesight almost every day, make sure you
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see it every day and go from there.
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Another thing I can say to do is be accountable to yourself, or
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if you're not, if you don't trust yourself to be accountable to.
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Find a trusted person.
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It could be your mother, your father.
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It could be a sister, your brother, your cousin, your friend, your grandmother,
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even, it just could be your coworker.
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Somebody find somebody cuz you must have somebody.
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Everybody is most persons have somebody, I know there are some persons
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who are lonely and what have you.
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But I do hope that you would find somebody to hold you accountable.
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For your actions and your spending actions, you have to look at the boss, you
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have, do I wanna save, do I wanna invest?
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Do I want, what do I wanna do?
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Find out your why.
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That's another thing.
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What is your, why?
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Why do I want to be saving?
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What do I wanna save to buy Gucci balloons?
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Do I wanna save to buy Gucci product?
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What is my, why I have to have a why?
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And that way, listen to me when you have that, why.
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That's all the drive you need, you will find the fire comes from nowhere.
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It'll be like, oh, so true.
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I do this cause I'm doing this because I have to do this.
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I have to get this done.
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I have to get this done.
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I have to get this done.
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And if you continue to keep that to the forefront of your
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mind, it'll be easier for you.
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So those are just a few tips that I would have off the top of my
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head, never give up on yourself.
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Never give up on yourself.
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I think what happens to most people is because they don't see
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instant their bank account being instantly filled with money, yeah.
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They lose faith, or maybe they see that every time they get cash,
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either slips away and there could be other things blocking you as well.
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So you need to actually search yourself for those other things, yeah.
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Get to know yourself better, get a relationship with.
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The higher power and, just, yeah, those are my advice.
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Love that.
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So guys, just to summarize,
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Kimora said set goals, write your goals down where you can see them.
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Look at them all the time and re remind yourself of them.
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She also said, get an accountability partner.
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Find someone you trust.
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It just needs to be one person, someone who you.
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You wanna be where they are.
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You can see that they're good with money.
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They save, you wanna learn from them and you want them to hold you accountable.
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And also like things like the accountability program.
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That's why I created it as well.
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Just so that if you don't have anyone, you can tap into these
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safe, online communities where yeah.
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You're gonna be spending time with women who are.
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Working on similar goals and where you can help each other.
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And then Kimora said, know your why?
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So knowing what is the, why?
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What is the end goal?
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All of this work that you are doing, all of this, sacrifices
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that you're gonna make, what are you trying to achieve with it?
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These are such great tips, Kimora.
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Thank you so much for sharing.
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You're sharing them.
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You're welcome.
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You're welcome.
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So just to ask a bit about the accountability program, what
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would you say is the one thing that you enjoyed about it?
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Oh, the camaraderie.
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It was awesome.
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I just love how I loved how we as women, Jed.
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We helped each other.
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We were kind to each other, like you said, you have experienced women
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being mean to each other and it.
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That was nothing.
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There was nothing like that going on in this group.
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And that is what I enjoyed the most, the camaraderie,
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the helping out of each other.
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Trust me, I shout out to Charlene.
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I love her.
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And Ebony as well.
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Yes.
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If anything.
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Yeah,
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I, and I think you, you played a big role in that, and I think, and just to speak
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to everyone, listening, I think when.
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You're in group programs.
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And it's just like what we were talking about given right.
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You sign up to things, you attend things because you want to, you wanna
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receive, but then also be intentional about what you are bringing in.
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The vibes that you are bringing in, what difference are you
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gonna make to that program?
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How are you gonna impact someone's life?
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How are you gonna be helpful?
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How can you share information?
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How can you share what you know, where it's not just about you going and just
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showing up to receive, it makes such a big difference when you also pour into
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the thing that you want to pour into you.
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Yeah.
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It's like a give and take.
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So if not just.
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Any program that you're doing any time that you're working with a group of
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people always think about what can I bring to this situation to make it better?
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So that when all this is done you leave an impression.
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Yeah.
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Yeah.
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Okay.
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So three reasons.
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So guys at the moment, the accountability group is closed.
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So you're not able to join at the moment, but I will be opening doors again in
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a few months, time around September.
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So if you did wanna join, then you'd have to go on the wait
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list or send me a message.
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And I could put you on the wait list, but say there was somebody that was thinking
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about joining they're on the edge.
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They're not sure.
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What three reasons could you give them to consider joining either
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the coaching or the group program?
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Okay, so I'll say, firstly, you will get your monies worth.
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Trust me be it.
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If you're looking for education, if you're looking for encouragement,
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if you're looking for.
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Poetry with the nicest voice ever.
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you should just go for it.
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Oh, that's so sweet.
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It's going to be worth your time.
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Yes.
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And that's number one.
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Now, number two would be you actually learn things that you thought you knew,
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but you just need to get a bit of.
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I just meet on the bones or something.
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So for example, budgeting, you may say, oh, budgeting is simple.
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Anybody could do budgeting.
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What does she have to teach me about budgeting?
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Or what does she mean about changing my mindset?
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I can do that by reading books or something like that, but I tell you.
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Just try out that coaching and it will help you.
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And number three would be to be in a group is better to do it
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better than to do it by yourself.
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Yeah.
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I find like when you do things as a team, teamwork makes
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the dream work all the time.
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And when you are when you feel down and out, somebody can be there in that
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group, encouraging you to do what you have to do, and even the coach will be
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behind you, coaching you along the way.
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So it's easier when you're in a group and I would encourage
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anyone to join the group.
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Yes.
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Because, Hey, you never know you made this.
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Just become a millionaire just by taking this first step, Hey.
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Yeah, love that a honestly.
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And make sure I get a cut of that million.
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Make sure you come back and be like, Hey coach, you know
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that budgeting tip you gave me.
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No seriously, Esther.
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I.
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If you think about it, when you start, you remember your planting seeds, you don't
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know who you're working with right now, and you don't know what ideas they can
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come up with and you don't know what they, where they can take the principles that
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they would've learned in your program.
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So maybe as the time evolves.
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Yes.
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Go ahead and go ahead.
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Interestingly.
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So I, I have a lot of one on one clients and.
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Obviously with what I do, there's confidentiality.
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The people are willing to share their story.
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I can share it, but I can't mention names or I can't give the full details.
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But when I see what people that I work with achieve Kimora , I am just amazed.
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Like I want everybody to know.
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And I think this is why I love the group coaching is because you
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can see that it's possible and you, when you hear about somebody.
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Been able to save consistently for three months, something that
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they've never been able to do.
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Someone who had five debts and now they have two and they're slowly
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exactly working on the three.
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It shows you that this is possible.
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It shows you that you're not alone on your journey.
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I have the things that I see people achieve, by doing the work, by
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implementing the pillars by budgeting consistently, I have a client abroad.
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Who she said to me, one of our coaching sessions, she said,
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Esther, I was able to build my her house boy, a new boys quarter.
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She was able to build a new like studio boys quarter.
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And she said, I don't even know how I managed to get the money.
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But all I know is that once we had our budgeting session,
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I stayed consistent with it.
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And she said, it's one of the things that I am most proud of, that I did.
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So I know the things that people can achieve if they, gave it a
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go and if they committed to it there's no way that you can budget
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consistently and not make progress.
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There's no way that you can set goals.
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Yes.
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It might take long.
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Yes.
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You might go over the initial deadline, but the goal is to
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stick to that goal that no matter.
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You're going to achieve that goal.
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And, personally, like I have had to start over a few times, I've
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saved four months of savings.
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Used it up to build it up again.
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Yeah.
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But I have the tools, I have the tools to do that and because I've
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done it once I know I can do it again.
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And when I use my savings, I don't get upset because I'm like, no,
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but that's what I saved it for.
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So that I can use this thing.
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There you go.
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yeah, exactly.
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Yeahing pointing point, just say to your audience here, I was planning
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to take a vacation in October thereabouts of this year, right?
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So I was saving up constantly putting aside my monies to
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take the vacation in October.
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Now my birthday was on Saturday gone, and I just came up with the
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grant idea that I'm going to be taking a trip, to a different island.
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And I was like, Am I going to be taking a trip to a different island?
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I have a saved amount of money I wanted to save, but that's not
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the point you have the money.
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Anything is possible.
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I'm not saying I'm gonna die or anything, but life is made for
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living at the end of the day.
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Yes, we must be saving.
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Yes.
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We must be vigilant and stuff like that.
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But at the end of the day, you also must have that notion.
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You can start over again.
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I liked what you said when you said that, because it's not like when you
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use the money, it's not gonna come back.
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That's a part of the lack mentality, Esther, when you have, when you
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think that when you spend the money, you're not gonna get it back.
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That's a lot mentality.
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Yeah.
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Okay.
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Exactly.
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I want the audience to know that.
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Yeah.
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So let them know that they're hearing you, so they should be aware that, Hey,
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I'm not telling you to go out and spend your last cent and that kind of thing.
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And you don't know where your money's gonna come from and whatever,
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but I'm saying that you also must not be rigid and not be mean to
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yourself, especially, if you just.
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Be wise.
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Yeah.
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Know what you can do with the money that stuff forwarded to you and you'll be okay.
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And I think people on the outside people they get scared of.
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Working on their finances because they think they have to give up everything.
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But actually in our community, we promote having fun.
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We promote having a fun pot set aside money each month.
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That is for enjoyment.
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Where you're gonna.
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Spend that money, guilt free use your money for things that you
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enjoy doing things like traveling, so when we're talking about paying
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off debt, yes, we're paying off our debt because we wanna go on holiday.
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We're paying off our debt because we wanna buy a house we're paying
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off our debt because we're not spending money there because those
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areas are not important to us.
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And instead we're using our money for the things that are important.
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So actually working on your finances.
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Doing all these things, it is actually for you to have the life that you want.
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Because if you think about it, people are working their butts off.
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They have two to three jobs and they're not enjoying their lives.
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They're stressed.
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They worry, they're living in anxiety.
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They're living in fear that if they lose their job, what will happen, so imagine.
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You're not even doing anything and you're going through all that stress.
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So the idea is that once you take control of your finances, you are
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able to make your money work for you.
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Like Kimora said, tomorrow's not guaranteed to any at anybody.
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And that's how I live my life now, like I was in a job that I wasn't enjoying
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and I had to say to myself, okay.
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Esther if you were given three months to live, will you still be at this job?
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I was like, no, I would not be, I will resign today.
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So why are you continuing somewhere that is making you
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unwell, and you are not happy.
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And something, it was a very hard decision to make, but the minute I made that
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decision, my health improved and I was able to then plan for my next phase, yeah.
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I don't know why I even got into that tangent, but
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yeah.
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It's OK.
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It's OK.
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It's OK.
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Yeah.
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I agree.
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I agree.
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I agree.
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Everything you said.
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So Kimora, just to round off what goals are you working on now?
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What are your future goals?
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And what is the next phase for Kimora?
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Okay, so basically pretty much.
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Continue with my savings.
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I, like I said, I'm a saver, but I also wanna get into
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investment, because investing is making your money work for you.
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So doing investing is on my mind right now.
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And the, that is my future plan.
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Seeing what my PO, what my options are and that kind of thing, seeing.
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Who I can work with what I what I can invest in and that kind of thing.
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I also like the idea of real estate.
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Just so I an idea, I wouldn't mind getting into doing some real estate, but yeah
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I have big dreams and I do hope that.
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Gives me or affords me the opportunity to accomplish my dreams.
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I was made one year older on Saturday.
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I was made one year wise and I do hope that with that being said, I will
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be, the angels will smile upon me.
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God is smile upon me and say, We're here to help we're here to help.
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And that my walk on earth would be, it would be something to smile about.
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When I when I look back, I would say, I wouldn't have
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wasted my time here, so yeah.
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Absolutely love that.
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And guys, you can tell Kim is a woman of poetry, just even how she speaks.
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She's just such a poetic person.
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her choice of words is just absolutely BU like you say, you like listening to me.
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I like listening to you.
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Aw.
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Thank you so much Kimora.
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I think, from the outside looking in, like I admire everything that you
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do, everything that you've done, the sacrifices you've made, the way that
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you are committed to yourself, right?
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You are committed to yourself, achieving financial freedom and
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you are not gonna let you know.
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A mindset or fear or any bad habit get in the way.
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And I just love that about you, that you are very grounded person
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and you know yourself very well.
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You know what you want.
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And as long as you are given the tools and you have that level of
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support, like you make things happen.
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So I wanna give you full credit because.
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You basically did the work like, yeah.
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I was there to guide you and to encourage you, but I I always say to people
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that I, you can't motivate people.
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So when people say, oh, make me feel motivated, nobody can motivate anyone.
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You have to figure out a way to motivate yourself, yourself.
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You have to be motivated.
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Yeah, exactly.
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Yeah.
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And then whatever tools you are given, whatever support you are
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given, that you can use that and run with it, but there's no way that I
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can come and give you motivation if you're not motivated for your own.
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How is me being motivated for you going to help?
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I could be motivated for you all day, but if you're not motivated for yourself,
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then how's that gonna get you anywhere?
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I'm super excited about your next phase of your journey.
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Yeah.
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Which is investing.
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And I know you're gonna do great with that because you are a very
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wise woman and once you know what you need to do, you just get on with it.
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I'm really excited about that.
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And I just wanna say thank you for being on the podcast.
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Thank you for being such an amazing.
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Student an amazing coachee.
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You made my role very easy and just the impact that you had on the group
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and on the other women is just amazing.
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Everybody loves Kimora.
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So thank you for just showing up and being yourself.
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Are there any final words?
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And then you can let the audience know where to fight you.
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Okay.
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Just to say to the listening audience.
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Always believe in yourself.
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Always have goals, set goals for yourself, never give up on yourself.
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Even when you feel discouraged, it matters not if it's a financial goal, whatever
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goal it may be, whatever dream you have, just go for it and be godly, a lot of
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persons don't share the same religion or whatever you might maybe, but at least
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know that there's a higher power know that there's someone who is behind the scenes.
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So that those are my last words.
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And you can find me at Kimora ward.
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That's K I M O R.
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Ward w a R D and that's my Facebook.
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And you can find me on Instagram.
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My handle is Kim ward, 2, 5 86.
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That's K I M w a R D.
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That's one, one word 2, 5 86.
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That's my handle for Instagram and yeah, that's me.
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Amazing.
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And guys, don't forget to go on Amazon and get Kimura's book of poetry and
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take a picture and tag her and also tag me if you do get it as well.
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Kimora, thank you so much for being on the podcast today.
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I really appreciate you and yeah.
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Yes.
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I appreciate you too.
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Yes.
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Thank you for having me.