Holidays are meant to be magical, but let’s be honest – they can also be a whirlwind of stress, unmet expectations, and arguments over things like... ham on napkins. Ever found yourself mid-fight during the holiday season, wondering, “What are we even fighting about?” This episode is for you.
As a therapist, I see this all the time in my sessions: couples bickering over seemingly small things that often hold deeper meaning. Today, I’m unpacking what’s really behind those seemingly silly holiday fights and sharing practical ways to handle them with curiosity and connection.
We’ll explore why the conflict isn’t really about the napkins or the ham, but what they represent – memories, traditions, or unmet needs. So, whether you’re dealing with family chaos, mismatched holiday vibes, or just the general holiday rush, I’ve got you covered.
Key Takeaways:
Why holiday fights are rarely about what they seem – and how to figure out what’s really going on.
The importance of understanding your partner’s holiday traditions and what they mean to them.
How to approach disagreements with curiosity rather than conflict.
Tips for validating your partner’s feelings (even if you don’t agree!).
Why compromise is healthy – and how to do it without dismissing each other’s needs.
How to start meaningful conversations about celebrating holidays together.
The power of acknowledging sadness when things don’t go as planned.
Resources:
Well, Hello Anxiety Podcast: My conversation with Jodi Richardson where we chatted about mismatched holiday vibes, setting boundaries, and handling family chaos. Listen here.
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