Speaker:
Welcome to the Parenting
Roadmap Private Podcast.
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I'm so glad you're here.
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This podcast is a companion
to the PDF You downloaded.
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It's designed to give you short,
helpful episodes that explain the
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basics of human design, starting with
your type as a parent and your kids'
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type, plus a few bonus stories and
client conversations along the way.
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I am Erica Voell, a confidence
and wellbeing coach, and a
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certified human design guide.
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I believe your human design is
your roadmap and your permission
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to do things differently and
confidently, including parenting.
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Let's get a few quick
things out of the way.
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If you're like me and you have
lost track of your PDF, you can
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rerun your parenting roadmap.
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You'll find the link in the show notes.
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The reflection questions and notes
I will reference in each episode
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are pulled directly from that guide.
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And most importantly, take what
resonates with you and leave the rest.
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'cause some parts might click
right away and others might
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make more sense down the road.
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A little bit about me.
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I came to human design,
thanks to my therapist.
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I was deep in burnout, hitting some
walls over and over again, and I
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thought I just needed to do more
self care or be more disciplined.
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She gently suggested that I
look up my human design chart.
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I am no stranger to personality
tests, but I've never really
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found anything that stuck.
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I thought this would be like.
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Right for your blood type kind of thing.
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I was so skeptical until I
started reading about my design.
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I have never felt so seen and understood
all for my birthdate, time and location.
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It explained so much why I
struggled with decisions.
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My entire life, why I have over committed
and then second guess myself and why I
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always felt like I was doing things wrong.
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I found out I have an emotional
authority, which means I'm not
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meant to make quick decisions.
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Something I picked up from my family
who are all fast decision makers.
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And once I started learning
more, I could not stop.
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I would share bits and pieces with
friends, and then someone asked me when
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I was gonna share this with other people.
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I told myself I needed to study for
at least a year before I shared this
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professionally, and one of my first client
chart readings was for a friend and she
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turned in to be my first paid client.
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And the more I have worked with
clients, especially parents, the
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more I see human design in action.
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Human design has helped me show up
differently as a parent, and I show up
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differently in my work and in my marriage.
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So why human design for parenting?
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My daughter is wired so much differently
than I am and now instead of trying
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to make her fit into my way, I
support her way, I've learned when
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she's entering a new situation, she
needs someone she trusts nearby.
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That tiny insight has
changed so much for us.
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Same with my husband.
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He moves and he thinks
so much faster than I do.
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This has helped us make decisions as a
team instead of clashing over timing.
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By asking my daughter to sleep on her
decisions, we have saved so much money.
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Human design hasn't just
helped me personally.
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It's helped me see my family more
clearly, and it's given me language
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and tools that have created more
peace and understanding in our home.
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So what can you expect from this podcast?
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You'll find a short introductory episode.
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And then a series of type episodes.
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There's a set for parents
and a set for kids.
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So if you're a generator parent,
you'll wanna listen to that episode.
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And if you have a projector child,
you'll listen to that episode.
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I really encourage you to listen to both.
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There are also bonus episodes coming
with real parents sharing how human
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design has shifted things in their
families and their stories are
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beautiful, honest, and totally relatable.
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This isn't about doing it right, it's
about finding what works for you and
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your family because your design is your
permission to do things differently
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and confidently even parenting.
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So next up you'll find the episode
that is all about the introduction,
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and then you'll wanna find the one
that matches your type as a parent.
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Start there and then jump into your kids'.
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Type next.
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I'm so glad you're here.
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Let's make parenting feel a little
more natural with a lot less guesswork.