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How We Carry the Message, Bridge Gaps, and Demystify A.A. [Season 2, Episode 5]
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Ninety years after its founding, many people have heard of A.A., but not everyone understands how it works. In this episode, we hear how non-alcoholic professionals, A.A. members and GSO Staff help open the doors to recovery by dispelling misinformation about A.A.

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- The views and opinions expressed

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during this podcast are

those of our guests.

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No one person speaks for A.A. as a whole.

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- There's a lot said about

Alcoholics Anonymous out there.

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Some of it is accurate,

some of it is outdated,

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and some of it simply isn't true.

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In this episode, we're exploring

how Alcoholics Anonymous,

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through service, communication,

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and cooperation, helps

dispel misinformation

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by clearly sharing what

A.A. is and what A.A. is not.

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First impressions of A.A. don't

usually come from meetings.

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They come from conversations,

websites, referrals,

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and what people think A.A.

is can either open the door

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to recovery or quietly close it

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before someone ever walks through.

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But when misinformation is

replaced with clarity, the hand

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of A.A. becomes more visible

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and more accessible to

those who need it most.

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My name is Nathan and I'm an

alcoholic. Welcome to GSO.

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For our first segment, we are

going to change perspectives.

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The following recording comes

directly from the Southwest

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Regional Forum held in Albuquerque,

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New Mexico in November 2025.

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It's a talk on the subject of Cooperation

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with the Professional Community

given by Veronica Ramirez.

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- It's a beautiful moment. Thank you so

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much.

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- A Class A General Service Board trustee.

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Class A means that Veronica

is a non-alcoholic.

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- My friendship with A.A. started in 2015,

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and A.A. never ceases to amaze me.

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- As a non-alcoholic friend of A.A.,

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Class A trustees are available

to appear in public on behalf

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of Alcoholics Anonymous,

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and are primarily selected

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for their professional

experience, expertise,

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and familiarity with A.A.,

providing a rich source

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of wisdom and perspective.

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Here's Veronica talking

about her professional

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work in the judicial system.

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- Right. So I started as a field officer,

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boots on the ground, going out

to see people doing a lot of

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pre-release planning inside

of the prison system, so

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as probation officers.

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And we would try to pre-

prepare them as much

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as we could for release.

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There was nothing to me better

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than actually the hands

on work with the imprisoned

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and their families, because we

all know that when people go

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to prison, a lot is involved in that.

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So it's not just the inmate,

but the families as well.

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- Just like any service

position in A.A., trustees rotate.

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There are seven class

As at any given time,

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and they can serve up to two

consecutive, three-year terms.

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It's a big commitment.

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So what would inspire a

non-alcoholic to devote so much time

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and energy to a program of recovery

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of which they do not belong?

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- So I remember when I worked

for the parole officer, people

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that had been r- been released

from Texas prisons were

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reporting to me and

talking to me about A.A.

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I mean, we had heard about

A.A. and we knew about A.A.,

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but we didn't really

know about A.A., right?

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So it was just like all of

this talk about anonymity

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and I was like, "What

is, what even is that?"

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Like, unless you all go

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and tell us, we don't know.

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And so those things

where I looked around

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and I thought, why is this person changing

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and this person is not?

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Why is it that this group

continues to go back

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and this group is seeing

some positive changes?

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And what I could point to

was Alcoholics Anonymous.

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When I started really getting involved

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and really learning about

it, it was eye-opening.

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As a probation officer in the state system

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and federal system for 21 years,

I have not seen anything be

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as effective as A.A.

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A.A. has a beautiful way

of being gentle, warm,

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loving, and then I started to

realize, no wonder this works.

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No wonder this works.

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I saw a lot of positive change,

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but we don't know those things

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unless we hear it from all of you.

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- And this is where we hear the insight

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and perspective that a

non-alcoholic professional can bring

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to carrying the message of A.A. to those

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that may not be as familiar.

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- I think learning the

important words to use,

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because when you talk to

professionals, you have

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to talk their lingo, right?

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If anybody told me positive

outcomes, lower recidivism,

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reentry, cost containment,

low budget, like,

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that's what we want.

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If you use words like, "Free." What? Okay.

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I definitely wanna hear about that, right?

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The other thing that I

wanna talk about is the

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professionals themselves.

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So as a federal probation officer,

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we're considered law enforcement,

so we're hazardous duty,

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but it is a field where I think a lot

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of professionals probably

suffer from alcoholism.

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And so don't forget that

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because I think it's really important.

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And I think in this

area there's still a lot

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of negative connotations

associated with that.

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Go into an office, into

a probation office,

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into a medical facility,

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into a child protective service office.

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Don't forget about the

juveniles please - into a juvenile

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probation office, into the prison system

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and say, "This is who I am.

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May I please schedule a five,

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10-minute meeting with the

warden, with your chief,

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with the chief judge?" Do it.

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And if, and if they don't

give you the time, just

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be persistent, right?

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Or "If the chief doesn't have time for me,

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can I just leave this with you?"

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And it's The Grapevine

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with maybe your little contact number.

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And I say that because

we do get really busy.

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Like, A.A. has so much to

offer people that are busy.

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The podcasts are great.

I mean, I love them.

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I think that would be

a very effective tool.

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Somebody may not, really

may not be interested

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in an open A.A. meeting.

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They may not want to yet,

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but there's so many other things, right?

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And so I, I would also

think about the podcast

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and how you can use that if you're dealing

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with professionals that are busy.

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So I'm here to tell you again

the work that you're doing.

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It's incredible. It's

amazing. Keep doing it.

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There's such a need.

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You're saving lives and

that's incredible work.

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- The 12th step of

Alcoholics Anonymous states,

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"Having had a spiritual

awakening as a result

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of these steps, we tried to

carry this message to alcoholics

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and to practice these principles

in all our affairs." While

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what Veronica said is true,

there is a need for this work

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and it is saving lives,

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ensuring sobriety for each

member comes from practicing the

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12th step, carrying the message of A.A.

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to those that may need it.

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You know, our primary purpose.

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- In this podcast, we respect

the anonymity of A.A. members.

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Last names are shared only

for those who are not in A.A.

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- There are lots of different

options today to get sober,

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and Alcoholics Anonymous is

not trying to convince anyone

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that A.A. is the only way.

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We've just found a way that works for us,

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and we share that with others.

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When searching online, it may

be unclear if you found an A.A.

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resource or something else.

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I had a quick convo with Kelley C.,

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the staff member on the Public

Information desk, on how

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to confirm if what you

found online is actually

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Alcoholics Anonymous. Hey, Kelley.

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- Hey, Nathan.

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- If you're looking specifically

for Alcoholics Anonymous,

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what are some tips for

identifying A.A. information online?

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- That's a great question.

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Like you said, there's a

lot of resources out there,

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and A.A.'s not trying to convince anyone

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that A.A. is the only way to stay sober.

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We just found a way that works for us,

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and we try to share with others.

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So if you're looking

specifically for A.A.,

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there's some things to

look out for online.

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And the first one is checking

that website address.

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The official Alcoholics

Anonymous World Services website

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is www.aa.org.

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- Okay, great. So are there any red flags

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that someone might find online

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that would tell you this is not

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officially Alcoholics Anonymous?

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- Totally. So if a website

describes paid memberships,

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exclusive access,

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or special recovery

services presented as A.A.,

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it may not be affiliated with A.A.,

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and it's good to double check that.

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- Good to know. Great. You know,

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it's interesting talking

about anonymity and online

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because we're putting information

about ourselves out there,

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but we, in Alcoholics Anonymous,

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take anonymity very seriously.

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Would we ever ask

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for personal information

from somebody online?

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- Great question. So if you're

not buying something on our

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online bookstore where

you provide those details,

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you wouldn't need

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to provide any personal details

like full name, address,

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or any financial information

to attend A.A. meetings.

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If a site asks for personal

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or financial information to

take part in A.A. activities,

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it's really best to pause

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and seek confirmation from an A.A. source.

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- And what if we have more questions?

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- Yeah. If you have any questions

on whether an A.A. resource

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is legitimate, feel free

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to contact us at publicinfo@aa.org.

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- Awesome. Thanks, Kelley.

- Of course. Thank you.

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- To find a meeting near you

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or a meeting online,

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download the Meeting Guide

app on your mobile device.

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- Just like the Public

Information resources

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that Kelley was talking about,

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the General Service Office

supports the efforts

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of dispelling misinformation

about A.A. in a number of ways,

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like providing reliable

literature, Cooperation

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with the Professional Community,

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and guidance that helps groups

stay unified in message while

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remaining autonomous in action.

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Speaking of autonomy, our next

segment explores one area's

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actions in their work

toward dispelling this

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information about A.A.

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We're gonna hear a couple

of abbreviations in our

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conversations, so just to review,

CPC stands for Cooperation

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with the Professional Community,

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and DCM stands

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for the service position

District Committee Member.

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Dan, thank you so much

for joining us today.

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- It's great to be here,

and I'm, I'm grateful

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for getting the chance

to share a little bit

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about what our area does.

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- You are the Area 59 Eastern

Pennsylvania delegate.

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- Correct. - And your annual

Eastern Pennsylvania General

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Service Assembly, you

invite one non-alcoholic

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professional to observe and

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participate. - Yes.

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- Can you tell us a bit about the value

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of non-alcoholic professionals

being invited to the assembly

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and, and where that tradition came about?

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- Well, I think the value

is, you know, a lot of people

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think they know something about A.A.,

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and even if they're in

a professional setting,

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unless they know somebody

who is an A.A. member,

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there's probably a lot of misconceptions.

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And so it really gives

them a chance not just

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to dispel some misconceptions,

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but to see that there is

a lot that happens in A.A.

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besides people just going to meetings.

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And I think it gives them a

great opportunity to see just

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how joyful our gatherings can be,

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and give them a greater sense, too,

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of all the different kind of work

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that happens at a broader

level in general service

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besides just meetings.

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Without exception, the people

who have come always say that

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they gained such a new

understanding compared to

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what they thought before.

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Especially this year's

observer, he had a really,

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really great time, you know?

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- Well, let's talk about

that. This year's observer was

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a judge, is that right?

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- Yes. The judge, he

really got to see a lot

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of different things from the

different committee workshops.

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This year, I think we had

some really great speakers.

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Well, so I think that was

also great to give the judge,

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you know, more of a

sense of the type of work

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that happens in A.A.

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Also, one of the things we

do every year is we have a

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a lunch with the guest observer.

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It's pretty informal.

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I think it sort of broadened

his sense of, you know,

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what A.A. can be and how

big our reach really is.

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It went really well. I mean,

I, I was really pleased

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and I think everyone

had a really great time.

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- That's really great to

hear. The professionals

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that are invited

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and they participate, it seems

like there's an opportunity

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for a lot of misconceptions to

be dispelled as they listen,

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observe, and get to meet other

members and other officers.

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- I saw on the notes from our archivist

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that there's been some interesting

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reactions that people have had.

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One, we had a law

enforcement officer one year

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who broke down while

speaking at the podium.

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Another interesting comment we

got, a woman went to the mic

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and said, "When I arrived on Friday,

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I was confident I knew all about A.A.

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10 minutes later, my jaw was on the floor,

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and I'd realized I knew next

to nothing about A.A." - Wow.

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- So that's, you know,

pretty interesting to hear.

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- It really is. You spoke

about your archivist.

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I know you did a little bit of research.

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Did you get to learn about

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how long this tradition's

been going on and

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really... - Yeah.

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Yeah. It's ki- it's ... Yeah,

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it's been going on a long time.

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Yeah, basically from 1976 on.

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You know, we've had anyone

from parole agents, ministers,

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police officers, doctors

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and nurses, high school

teachers, magistrates, judges,

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detox managers, penitentiary management,

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human resource managers.

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And in 1988, we had a

radio talk show host.

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- Wow. - I wasn't yet in

the program at that point,

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so I missed that one.

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- I would've liked to have been there too.

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As Area Delegate, is it your

responsibility to choose

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and invite who would come and observe?

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- Actually, how our process

works is the chairperson sends

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out a boilerplate letter

that gives a little bit

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of background about, you know,

who the guest observer is,

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you know, what qualifications to look for.

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And we ask DCMs to submit a candidate.

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And then each DCM will

be given two minutes

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to give a little talk about

who their guest observer is,

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and then we will pick a nominee.

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- Wonderful. I'm inclined

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to ask if there's a

criteria you're looking for,

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but it seems like

there's such a wide swath

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of professionals out there

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that would benefit from this, or- Yeah.

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... or is there a specific

thing that you're looking for?

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- Well, what we say is

we look for somebody

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who doesn't have a lot of

familiarity with our fellowship

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because you're gonna get the

most value out of someone

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who knows little, you

know, they'll learn a lot.

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Someone who has opportunity

to come in contact with people

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who are in A.A. or alcoholics

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and someone who, you know,

in a professional setting,

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doctors, judges, pastors,

social workers, and so on.

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- You spoke so well about the value

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of having these guest observers come.

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It seems like there's a real

need to be able to have more,

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not just in your area,

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but maybe this could be paralleled in,

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in other areas as well.

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- I was just gonna say

that I was surprised

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that you all thought this

was such an amazing thing

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because I, I kinda thought, Oh, well,

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why wouldn't you do this?

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It just seems like one of those things

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that seems like such a natural thing

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that every area would wanna do it.

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- Well, maybe they'll hear

this and get inspired.

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- I think that would be

a great, a great outcome.

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You know, the only thing that

can happen by exposing people

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to events like, you know, conventions

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or assemblies is, you know,

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it's only gonna increase awareness and,

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and be something positive.

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So I w- I would think

there's like zero downside.

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Well, actually, actually, I,

I can remember one time sorry,

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there was one year where we

actually withdrew a candidate at

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the last minute because someone worked

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with the guest observer professionally.

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You know, they, they just

didn't want that person to know

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that they were an Alcoholics Anonymous.

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- They wanted to protect

their anonymity. That makes

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sense.

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- Yeah. But other than that one

case, we've never had anyone,

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like, be uncomfortable coming.

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- Dan, did you have any

misconceptions about A.A. when you

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first came into the program? I

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- Think like a lot of people, it was

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the last thing I wanted to do.

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Maybe the thing is, is I'm not

sure exactly what I expected,

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but it was completely different.

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I don't remember much

about my first meeting,

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but I do remember that I felt

like I was in the right place.

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And I would say, like, probably

though the biggest change

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as far as how I viewed A.A.

was when I actually got into

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general service because, you

know, I think it's a shame that

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so many people don't know

anything about how we work.

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People love to say how A.A. saved my life,

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and yet they don't wanna

learn how we make decisions,

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you know which, which I think is crazy

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because, you know, for

people who get service,

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it's like it just open- it

makes A.A. so much bigger,

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you know, which, I mean,

I, I think that's been the,

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the biggest thing for me

is just how huge A.A. is

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and how much power there is

when alcoholics get together.

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- Along with being Area

Delegate, you are the chair

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of the CPC committee at the

General Service Conference.

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How has your experience

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with this tradition at

your assembly affect your

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commitment or, or vice versa?

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As a chair, how has it

affected the work you

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do at your assembly?

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- Yeah. I mean, I think that

this whole thing has really

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been very typical in A.A.,

a learning experience

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because I really knew next

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to nothing at all about

CPC other than, you know,

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I knew professionals, but

that that was really it.

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And so I think the thing

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that's amazed me the most is

just the level of commitment

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that some professionals

have to our fellowship.

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It's really, really inspiring.

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Particularly at the international,

I went to one of the, one

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of the CPC panels,

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and it was somebody who

basically, their entire life,

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they devoted to A.A. almost

more than an alcoholic,

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which was really incredible.

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So I think that, you know,

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has really just given me a

much deeper appreciation for

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how many opportunities

we have to reach people

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through professionals in

different ways, you know,

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just things that I never even thought of.

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You know, so I think that's

certainly given me a much

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greater appreciation of

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how us having a guest observer

directly ties into that

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because, you know, I think somebody

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who actually learns

more about what A.A. is,

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they're gonna be more

likely to recommend us.

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- So along with CPC,

along with Cooperation

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with the Professional Community, Treatment

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and Corrections are two

other service committees

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that have lots of opportunity

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to dispel misinformation in A.A.

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Additionally, many areas

have what is called a

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Bridging the Gap program.

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Can you talk a bit about how those service

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efforts connect? - I think

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it's, it's an interesting question

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because I think there's like

a lot of overlap in general

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if you think about it between a lot

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of our different service

committees, you know, and they,

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and they all tie into each

other one way or another.

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Our area does have a really

strong Bridging the Gap program

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that's kinda grew up since

I've been in service.

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- Maybe your Bridging the Gap coordinator

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could tell us more about

it. What's their name?

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- Jim L. - You think Jim would

be willing to talk to us?

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- Oh, absolutely. Absolutely. He would.

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He l- he loves talking

about Bridging the Gap.

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- Hey, Jim, how are you, man?

- How you doing today?

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- Dan B. was just telling us

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that you are the Bridging

the Gap coordinator

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for Area 59 Southeast Pennsylvania.

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- Yeah. For about the last four

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years, I've been doing it now.

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- I know that every area in A.A. does

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Bridging the Gap differently.

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What does Bridging the

Gap look like for Area 59?

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- Area 59, for a number

of years, their Treatment

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and their Corrections

handle Bridging the Gap, but

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because of the spirit of

rotation, every time it got up

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and got moving, it kind

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of faulted out when everybody swapped out.

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- Mm. - So Area 59, about eight

years ago, our past delegate,

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Ken D., decided that he wanted

to have a permanent position

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to keep some kind of continuity

between the transitions.

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So in Area 59, Treatment

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and Corrections is who I answer to,

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but I am kind of a standalone with that.

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What that does is allows me

to keep databases up to date,

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keep connections up to date,

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and when all the different intergroups

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and districts all rotate in

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and out, it allows me to

track down the next person

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and keep, keep all the lines

of communications open.

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- What kind of

misconceptions do you notice

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with new A.A. members

coming from treatment?

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- I think a lot of times,

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because of all different

programs you have,

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you have temporary sponsorship,

you have 12 step calls,

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you have ride share,

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different intergroups

have different things.

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They tend to mix all that up.

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Bridging the Gap is literally

to get you to a meeting,

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get you through your first

week of meetings, and,

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and answer all those oddball

questions that make no sense

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to somebody first coming into A.A.-

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- So what are some of

those oddball questions?

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- What are those banners

hanging on the wall

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with the 12 rules?

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You know, what's a home

group? What's a sponsor?

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You know, I say it all the time

when I do my workshops that

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you hear two types of stories in A.A.

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You hear the person that pulled

up in the parking lot was

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scared to death, left,

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and it took them five

years to get back to A.A.

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And then you hear the other end of it

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where they pull up in the

parking lot, they're scared

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to death, they're going to leave,

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and somebody knocked on a window

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and said, "Hey, you looking

for an A.A. meeting?" And I

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haven't left since.

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Then you know you got them

when they start asking you

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questions like, "What

about this meeting?" Or,

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or "when's that person speaking

at the ..." They start asking

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questions rather than, "What

is all this stuff?" They start

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asking specifics like,

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"Where is the noon meeting

at such and such church?

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Where is the church?" You know?

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That's when you know

they're kind of tied in.

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- Do you find a difference in reactions

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when we're talking about bridging the gap

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specifically for treatment?

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What about corrections?

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Are there different kinds of

misconceptions, different kinds

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of approaches and dispelling

those misconceptions when

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working with someone that's coming out

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of a correctional facility?

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- There is. I think the ones

coming in out of corrections.

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Remember, coming out of

treatment, you just had 30 days

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or 20 days of, of

everybody hugging everybody

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and everybody pumping everybody up

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and everybody encouraging everybody.

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So they kind of come to A.A. expecting it

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to be just like their counseling group,

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and it's kind of like a little step down.

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But they're comfortable.

Coming out of corrections,

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when a lot of people

are, are coming up to you

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and being friendly, your

first instinct you have

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to do in time behind bars is,

"What do you want from me?"

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- Yeah, defensive.

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- And I, I, I pick it

up sometimes in a room.

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They sit in the back corner,

back to the wall, arms cross.

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They, they really, they're

not sure what this is,

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but it sure isn't what

they just came from.

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And then I explain to them,

"Hey, I know on the inside,

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somebody's nice to you, they

want something." It's kind

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of the same out here, I said, "But

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what you don't understand

is we need you here.

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You won't understand this

for about six months,

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but you're important to us.

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We don't want anything from you other than

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to keep coming back."

And then I tell them, So

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that six months, a year from now,

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when somebody else comes out

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of a state correctional

facility and you walk in

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and see them sitting in the corner,

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you do the same thing I just did to you,

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and that's why we need you.

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- Yeah, yeah. Wow.

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What kind of misconceptions

did you have about Alcoholics

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Anonymous when you first

got into the rooms?

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- Well, the obvious one is

I thought you were gonna

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teach me how to drink.

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I thought you were gonna

teach me how to drink

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like a gentleman, you know?

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And that, that went right

out the window when I met

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my first sponsor.

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Mm. I wanted to stop hurting.

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I wanted to stop getting in trouble.

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I wanted to stop hurting those around me,

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but I didn't know what to do.

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I think my misconceptions

were, as everybody says, a guy

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with the brown bag under

the bridge, you know,

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hasn't showered in six months.

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What I learned quickly was that's not

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what A.A. was, you know?

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There was lawyers, doctors, priests, nuns.

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We had two nuns back in the 80s that were

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they were beloved by people in A.A.

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- Yeah. - You know,

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and they, you didn't know they were nuns

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until you ran into them somewhere else,

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like at the ACME or something.

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So that kind of changed my

conception of what A.A. was.

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- You dispell these

misconceptions effectively,

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and you're speaking a lot

about that connective tissue

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between individuals and fellowship.

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What about resources beyond

people, flesh and blood?

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What kind of literature

do you find most helpful?

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- GSO literature, like the

pamphlets for volunteers

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or requests.

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I do use the Bridging the Gap pamphlet.

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Use a lot of the what A.A. is and isn't.

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So we, we kind of use

whatever it takes to get,

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get ahold of somebody.

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The key is you wanting to get sober.

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If you do, A.A.'s there and,

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and we'll find a way to help you do it.

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- Thank you, Jim.

- Thank you.

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- More information on all the

services you just heard about

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can be found at aa.org.

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For specific inquiries about Cooperation

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with the rofessional Community,

you can email cpc@aa.org,

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and for Corrections, contact

corrections@aa.org.

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For Bridging the Gap and

Treatment, contact tf@aa.org.

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That's T as in treatment

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and F as in facilities, tf@aa.org.

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A.A. members, how does your area

connect with professionals?

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We'd love to hear your experience.

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Please email nominating@aa.org.

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