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Rediscovering Joy in Family Meals
Episode 35 • 10th September 2025 • ParentEd • Focus on the Family Singapore
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“I used to think discipline meant controlling my son and stopping certain behaviors. Now I understand that discipline can also mean trusting him to learn—even during messy moments.” – Chelsea 

In this heartfelt episode, Chelsea Cheng, mother to her 3-year-old son Nathanael, shares her evolving parenting journey—from enforcing control to embracing trust and connection. She opens up about letting go of rigid routines, regulating her own emotions, and learning to connect with her child before giving direction.

Chelsea’s reflections remind us that parenting isn’t about perfection, but about growing together, slowing down, and seeing through our children’s eyes. Tune in to discover how small shifts in perspective can lead to deeper relationships and more joyful parenting. 

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With an exciting quest at FAM JAM Fest, experience joy around mealtimes as a family! In celebration of children this October, FAM JAM Fest is a for children, by children community event that empowers children to encourage other children and their families. 

 

Celebrate Children's Day with fun, food and family: 

 📅 Saturday, 18 October 2025 

🕙 Time: 9.30am - 6pm 

📍Venue: South Beach Avenue L1 Fountain Plaza 

 

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