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142: The Final Episode of New View Advice
Episode 142 • 29th October 2025 • New View Advice • New View Advice
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This is the last episode of New View Advice podcast! This is truly the end of an era for me, and I am so grateful for every single person who has ever listened to this podcast. In this episode I share my gratitude, talk a bit about my decision to end of the podcast, and I offer my last 10 pieces of advice for the journey of healing, and also life in general.

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  • Introduction to the Last Episode - 0:00
  • What to Expect Moving Forward - 5:07
  • My 10 Pieces of Advice - 13:04
  • Outro - 20:15

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Thank you so much for being a part of this journey with me. It wouldn't have been possible without all of you. I am forever grateful and cheering you on as you continue your healing journey 🩵

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