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Carol Stiff: Uh, so part of my, my
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Sports Foundation is educating
people about what Title IX is.
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campus receiving federal funds.
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So, uh, yeah, I worked on the 30th
anniversary, 35th, 40th, 40th.
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And so this was the 50th and we did
a four part series on the 37 words.
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BEP Narrator: We'll
discuss race and how it
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plays a factor and how we didn't even talk
about this topic because we were afraid.
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A black.
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Tony Tidbit: We are coming to you
live from the new BEP studio for
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another thought provoking episode of
a black executive perspective podcast.
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We talk about race, culture,
and those uncomfortable topics
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that people tend to avoid.
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So today we are joined by Carol Stiff,
a powerhouse in women's sports media to
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discuss her journey through corporate
America, the challenges she faced and
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the lessons learned along the way.
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Carol will share her unfiltered
perspective on navigating a male
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dominated industry, standing firm on
principles while advancing women's sports
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and the reality of being pushed out.
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After decades of commitment.
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Let me tell you a little bit about Carol.
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Carol Stiff is a nationally recognized
sports executive and a driving force
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behind the growth of women's sports.
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During her 31 year career at ESPN,
she spearheaded programming for NA
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NCAA women's basketball, the WNBA
and multiple, multiple collegiate
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championships across ESPN networks.
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A woman basketball hall of fame inductee.
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My girl, I love it.
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We want to learn more about that.
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She received a prestigious honors,
including the John Bunn award from
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the Naismith Memorial Basketball
Hall of Fame and the Edward R.
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Murrow award for her sports reporting.
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Since retiring from ESPN in 2021,
Carol has continued her mission
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as president of the Women's Sports
Network and founder of Stiff Sports
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Media Consulting LLC, advising
brands on advancing women's sports.
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She also served as the
executive producer for ESPN 30.
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For 30 documentaries dream on and the Emmy
winning 37 words beyond our media work.
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Carol is deeply involved in advocacy
serving on boards of the Women's
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Sports Foundation and the Woman's
Basketball Hall of Fame and the
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Pat Summit Foundation Fund as well.
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A former college basketball
coach and student athlete.
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She remains a leading voice in the
fight for equity in sports, Carol
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Stiff, my sister, welcome to a
black executive perspective podcast.
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Thrilled to be here.
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Thanks for having me.
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I mean, look at the end of the day, as I
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missing is they gave you land and title.
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You've done a lot of great things.
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So I can't wait till we
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But before we go there, tell us a little
bit, where are you currently residing?
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And tell us a little
bit about your family.
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Carol Stiff: Sure.
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I'm presently living in
Farmington, Connecticut, which
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was 10 miles from ESPN campus.
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Um, I'm staying there, although the anchor
of the women's sports network is in LA.
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Uh, decided to stay back
here in cold Connecticut.
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Um, I have two children, uh,
both are adults now, both out of
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college, no more tuition payments.
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Um, one's in bank financing and
decides who gets, uh, who gets
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loans and who doesn't out in
Torrey Pines, uh, California.
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And my other, my other child's a woman,
a young woman who just got a special
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ed job teaching bilingual special
ed to, uh, three and four year olds.
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Carol Stiff: very
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Tony Tidbit: patient.
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Carol Stiff: No, no, no.
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I don't know where she got that.
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Tony Tidbit: awesome.
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So listen, you know, just
going through your bio, you.
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Have a list.
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I mean, you've been everywhere.
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You've been on major platforms.
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You're a basketball
hall and fame inductee.
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of, um, interviews and, and, and
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obviously, uh, executive producer of
30 for 30, why did you want to come on
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a black executive perspective podcast?
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Talk about this topic because it's
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Carol Stiff: so important, especially
where we are politically right now.
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Uh, diversity and inclusion is not wiped
out of my mind or my mouth or my words.
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Uh, it makes us better, makes
us stronger, and no one should
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be discriminated against.
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Tony Tidbit: Well, number one, I
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He goes right to the right to it, right?
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So we're so excited for you
to be here and thank you.
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So you ready to talk about it?
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Cause we got a lot of stuff to talk about.
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I'm ready.
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So, you know, obviously, you
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me, you retired in 2021.
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Now we're in 2025.
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So, and you've done a lot of things along
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So let's back up a little bit
and let's, let's go back to
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the early days of your career.
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Tell us a little bit, what was
your motivation to get into sports?
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Talk a little bit about that.
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Carol Stiff: So I, uh, believe it
or not, it was in my mother's DNA.
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She had a, uh, brother, um, he was the
only woman out of five and he was a
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terrific basketball player and coach and
he coached at the university of Dayton.
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to the games on the radio and he,
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Um, you know, Dayton Flyers, I think
they beat John Wooden's team once.
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So, um, I, it caught fire and, but I
remember the day she, my mom, I don't know
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how she got the money out of six kids.
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I was the youngest.
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She took him to Madison square
garden, not to watch the Knicks who
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I adore or love still, but to watch a
doubleheader women's basketball game.
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And it had Montclair state with
a woman named Carol Blaisdowski.
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And she hit 52 points
in the garden that day.
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Uh, used to whip my
brother in the backyard.
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He'll kill me for saying that.
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Tony Tidbit: this a, a, a Sheryl
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Carol Stiff: maybe, maybe a little under.
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in the neighborhood and sports
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just came very easily to me.
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I wanted to be a PE teacher and a coach.
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And that's what I did for the
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the pivot, so when you went
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to see Montclair estate, okay.
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At Madison square garden,
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It was sold out.
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It was sold out.
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So that I didn't even think, I
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Carol Stiff: was, it was really,
um, I forget who sponsored.
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I should know that, but it was
really, uh, it was Montclair state.
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Immaculata, uh, Queen state was very good.
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And in other words, you found what
you're calling them basically, right?
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Carol Stiff: just so like enthusiastic
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Of the talent that was on the court
and Blaise Jowski, I did a piece on
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her later in life and didn't make the
Olympic team, but that's for another day.
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also had a double, double,
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double points and rebounds.
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she would have had more points.
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Tony Tidbit: No, and
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Carol Stiff: you said she
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I think Kobe Bryant broke it.
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So it's, uh, you know, talking
about breaking records, you
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were at ESPN for 31 years.
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Tell us that pivot.
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What made you go to ESPN?
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And what was your, what did
you think you were going to
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do when you first went there?
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Carol Stiff: Um, Tony, I just
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a, um, isn't that, um, HPCU?
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Carol Stiff: That's pretty cool.
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Tony Tidbit: So tell us, you went to ESPN.
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What were you, what was,
what was your motivation?
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What do you think you were going to do?
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start here and then they end up over here.
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Carol Stiff: So I was, uh, I
was coaching my final year of
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coaching at Brown university.
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Ivy League.
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What was your record?
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Carol Stiff: Um, we did
really well that year.
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I was there one year and we won, uh,
defensive team of the year or something.
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Tony Tidbit: Madness?
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Carol Stiff: Uh, no, we did not.
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No, we were good, but I don't
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Tony Tidbit: so the ESPN
recruits you to come there.
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I I decided I wanted to get out
of coaching I didn't want to
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have to rely on 17, 18 year olds,
either making us win or lose.
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If you have talent, you win.
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the road, a lot of stuff, right.
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Tony Tidbit: people's houses and trying
to convince their kids, dealing with
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their parents, can I start all that?
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Carol Stiff: And then Ivy league,
no, no athletic scholarship.
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you know, you might get some
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financial aid, but not, not enough.
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I was working for a little temp agency
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in Connecticut here and I got a call.
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Would you like to work, um, over at
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It's in Bristol, Connecticut.
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They're looking for someone to help,
uh, with their 10th anniversary party.
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Tony Tidbit: So this
was an 89 then, right?
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Carol Stiff: It's 88 going into 80.
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So, uh, who doesn't want
to work on a party, Tony?
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Carol Stiff: So, uh, the communications
department hired me with Rosa Gaddy,
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who is also a Brown, um, employee.
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that was a woman from Brown.
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Why, why was so exciting
back in 89, 90, 91?
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Carol Stiff: You felt like you
were the little blue engine
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trying to go up the mountain.
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shortly after, remember the MLB,
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uh, negotiation and ESPN got MLB.
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Tony Tidbit: you know, it's kind of funny.
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Um, I never worked, I always
wanted to work at ESPN, right?
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My, well, my wife, you know, my
wife, she worked at ESPN, right?
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I worked at a few startups, but I know
that feeling when you talked about,
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cause that, you know, ESPN, a billion
dollars, whatever the case may be.
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But even at a 10 year old, it
still was a young company that
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was still trying to make its way.
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worked at a young company.
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rolling in the same direction.
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And it just, it is, it was like catching
lightning, lightning in a bottle.
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up the mountain, you would be asked a
question, you would just figure it out.
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would put stuff together.
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of my entire career there.
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more corporate, um, but, you
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Just every day was different.
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And I love that.
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I could never work, God bless those
people that work in, in Detroit,
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you know, and putting cars together.
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I just, that was, that
would not be for me.
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Tony Tidbit: So you started off in
the communications department and
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then how did you pivot and started
moving around and stuff to that?
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Carol Stiff: So an opening, uh, in the
programming department, uh, programming
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and acquisition is the department
that actually cuts all the deals.
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With the leagues, um, radio,
every, every platform and, um,
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whatever we, we acquire, we then
turn over to production to produce.
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So I, there was an opening for a
very low level program position
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where I was basically data entering
the schedule and coding it.
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And so
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Tony Tidbit: just for layman's terms,
so people, when you say data entering
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the talk, explain that a little bit.
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So they
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Carol Stiff: had, they had these
grids where the next step up was
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program planner and someone was
assigned to the sports center shows.
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Someone was assigned to college
football and they would take pencils
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and actually enter them in on a
graph of Monday through Sunday.
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And my job was to take what they penciled
in and then put that into the computer.
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So six o'clock sports center, seven
o'clock, Big East college basketball,
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and just putting them in by codes.
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And I did that while I was
getting my master's degree.
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So it worked out great.
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Uh, and then, um, I, I worked with Nielsen
ratings and that was also just filling
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in the number on what we got for ratings.
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So I learned about that and I asked
a ton of questions along the way.
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And then one day, Tommy O'Jackson
came up to me and he said to
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me, he's a legend of ESPN.
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Used to
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Tony Tidbit: be Denver Broncos, right?
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Was that Tommy?
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Oh, you said Tommy O?
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Tommy,
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Carol Stiff: Tommy O, OJ.
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Tony Tidbit: Got it, got
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Carol Stiff: it.
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Um, and he said to me, he was
in charge of all college sports.
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And he was in charge of programming and
acquisitions, so programming, we should
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have this big East game here, and these
are the two teams that should play, and
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we should have this football team there.
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And he had a big old stack of files,
and he goes, look, I know you played
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basketball, I know you coached basketball,
I just don't have time to schedule women's
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basketball, and by contract we have to.
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So here you go.
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And so he gave me the files and.
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I fell in love with that job.
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You know, just deciding who I think's
gonna be really good, like depth charts
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you would do for your team and who's gonna
be good from the A, CC or the Big East.
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Putting 'em together, finding the right
window that they gave me to use and,
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and then handing it over to production
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Tony Tidbit: producer.
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So just so I'm clear, 'cause
that sounds like, you know,
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you're playing with a puzzle.
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Yes.
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So just so I'm clear, what you're
saying is, is that you would get the
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schedules from all the games around,
from the conferences, and then you
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would pick based on the matchup and
based on what you thought was a good
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team and stuff of that nature that the
viewers would definitely dive into.
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And then so you would put those matches
up together based on the time, the date.
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Uh, when the game was going to be played,
what the case may be, and then that would
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turn the reality when I tell it that,
that, that matchup would come on ESPN.
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Is that what I'm hearing?
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Carol Stiff: Correct.
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Right.
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Got it.
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But the best part was when you could
put matchups together on your own, where
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you could go ask, you know, Ari Emma,
you know, it's that the contract says.
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Big East versus ACC, this is a
true story and I thought UConn was
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going to be really good because
they had a woman named Rebecca
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Tony Tidbit: Lobo,
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Carol Stiff: they had this guard
named Jen Rizotti, they had Jamel
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Elliott inside and you know, I said,
they're going to be really good.
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So there's my Big East team, but
the contract says an ACC school.
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So the year before in 94, North Carolina.
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One the national championship.
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Okay, so I went to Sylvia Hatchel and
said I have to put together a biggies
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ACC game before the conference starts.
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So like January matter of fact,
how about Martin Luther King Day?
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Martin Luther King Day, it's
a Monday afternoon, it's a big
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holiday in Connecticut, and so,
Connecticut versus North Carolina.
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So she said, I'll take the game,
I go, it's going to be on ESPN,
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Robin Roberts calling the game, Mimi
Griffin, all the bells and whistles,
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and she said, well, I'll take the
game if it's at North Carolina.
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Okay.
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She just won the national championship.
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Yeah,
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Tony Tidbit: and so she, they have
to leverage, they want to, I get
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Carol Stiff: it.
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She asked the right question, so.
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And you had to go to Geno now, right?
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No, I had to go to the file where
it said the last two years it was at
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Virginia, which is ACC soil, right?
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So it needed to be in a Big East.
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It had to be on a Big East campus.
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So I said, I'm sorry, Sylvia, but it's got
to be at, at UConn, but they'll come back
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the following year and you can play them.
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No, I don't want the game.
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And I said, what?
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She goes, no, I don't want the game.
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It's in January, January 16th.
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They're in ACC competition.
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All right.
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So at Summit, Tennessee,
Tennessee, what do you think?
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You want the game?
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Same script, Robin Roberts calling.
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And then, but I laid low.
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I stopped talking and she goes,
well, it's during the sec conference.
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We have Auburn on Saturday and wow.
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To get up to Connecticut on
Monday, Tony, I didn't say a word.
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Tony Tidbit: Classic sales move
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Carol Stiff: kept talking.
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And then she said for the good
of the game, I'll take the game.
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And
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Tony Tidbit: that
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Carol Stiff: became a
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Tony Tidbit: rivalry big time, right?
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Because Tennessee was a Primero
number one, they were one.
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And then UConn was moving itself up
and then they became a superpower.
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Carol Stiff: Yeah.
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And
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Tony Tidbit: then they played
every year after for a while.
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Is that correct?
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Carol Stiff: That's correct.
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So that day.
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So think about that.
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I made that call in may
game went to air in January.
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So how many months is
that you do the math?
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It's half a year, right?
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Tony Tidbit: Right.
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00:19:14
Carol Stiff: So the game goes to air,
Tennessee's one, UConn's two, both
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undefeated, they held the AP poll that
day, the place was packed, you could
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feel the electricity at Gamble Pavilion,
and UConn wins, they go on to be
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undefeated, win the National Championship.
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00:19:31
It was like 36
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Tony Tidbit: 0 that year,
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Carol Stiff: right?
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Yep, yep.
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And so, uh, I remember going back to
congratulate both coaches, and Gino
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was on the dais giving his remarks.
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Big old smile and then I went down
the hall and there was Pat with
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looking at the stats outside the
locker room She looks up and I go Pat.
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00:19:52
This was unbelievable This was
gonna be massive rating, but which
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it was and she goes only thing she
said was for the good of the game
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00:20:04
Tony Tidbit: That's a great story
man, so So what I'm hearing is,
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00:20:09
is that Carol Stiff, which people
don't know, was the person that
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actually made that rivalry happen.
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Okay.
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Because she had an idea and she, instead
of her using a puzzle, said, you know
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what, I'm going to do this myself.
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Let me reach out to the coach here.
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And the coach said, that
is a fantastic story.
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00:20:30
Carol Stiff: Fast forward.
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00:20:31
Now I, I put the, uh, South
Carolina UCONN game together.
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So Dawn Staley and Gino,
and that's a rivalry.
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Now that is insane.
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00:20:40
So I'm glad they're playing each
other again, UCONN, Tennessee.
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00:20:42
And, uh, matter of fact, that night in
retrospect, Pat said I made one mistake.
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00:20:49
It should have flown the team from Auburn
up the store straight to Connecticut.
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00:20:53
She took him to Knoxville and she
washed the team uniforms at her home.
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00:20:59
Tony Tidbit: So, you know, and
I want to get into that, right?
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00:21:02
Because, you know, the coach
is washing the team's uniform.
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00:21:05
That means they're not, they
don't have enough money.
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00:21:08
Right.
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00:21:08
They're not being funded the right way.
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00:21:10
Right.
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00:21:10
Before I go there, though, I want to
go back to you because let's be fair.
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00:21:15
You, you know, moved to ESPN and,
and it's a male dominated company.
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Let's just be fair.
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00:21:26
And, you know, even the stories you
tell, you, you, you've told thus
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far, where you are programming and
somebody says, here, you do it.
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00:21:34
Okay.
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:
00:21:35
Versus, Hey, I think you, or you could
be great at this, or we would love,
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00:21:39
I think because you play basketball,
it makes sense because you can do the
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matchups, but it was just, you do it.
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00:21:44
And I, maybe I'm making a
little tough of it, but talk a
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little bit, how you navigate it.
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00:21:49
You know, corporate America,
cause that was corporate America.
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00:21:52
It is corporate America, a male
dominated in a company, um, and
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be able to rise the way you did.
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00:22:01
And more importantly, be able to
put your imprint on the things
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00:22:07
that happened that you just told
30 for 30 and all the other things.
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00:22:12
Carol Stiff: Yes.
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00:22:12
Um, If I was going to fight a
battle, I always had my facts ready
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00:22:18
to go for a rating allowed me to
get better windows or et cetera.
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00:22:24
Asked a lot of wire and why not?
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00:22:27
Um, I really didn't stop my feet down.
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00:22:29
Um, I didn't want to be labeled and
I didn't want to become white noise.
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00:22:35
I don't labeling as a feminist.
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00:22:37
I didn't want, I didn't want that.
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00:22:39
Um, Surrounded myself with, which went
back to my coaching days and being made
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00:22:44
the youngest of six, surround myself with
teams, um, advocated for those around me.
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00:22:52
And then I also had
allies, and they were male.
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00:22:56
I aligned myself with the male allies.
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00:22:58
A lot of times you have to know your
sports, you know, around the water, cool.
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:
00:23:01
Hey, that NFL game, boy, that Detroit.
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:
00:23:04
What a team they got.
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:
00:23:05
You know, I could always talk sports.
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:
00:23:07
Um, I didn't alienate
myself from, from the men.
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:
00:23:12
Um, there was one, one thing I used to
do was I would get to know if we were
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00:23:19
meeting outside the company, I don't
know how I did it, but I would get bios
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00:23:23
of some sort on, on the gentlemen that
were going to be in the room and often
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00:23:29
would say, Hey, Tony, how are the kids?
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00:23:33
And that just, it just, it, the whole
like facade of a, of a wall came
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00:23:39
crashing down and I would sit next to
him and go, gosh, you know, my, you
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00:23:43
have this problem with your daughter.
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00:23:45
Cause I have the same problem.
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00:23:46
And then, oh, he said,
no, you have a family.
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00:23:47
And so I personalized myself.
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00:23:50
Um, and then on Fridays
I often wrote notes.
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00:23:53
I would shut down the office and,
um, before emails were popular and
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00:23:58
I would hand write notes to people.
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:
00:24:01
Um, or, or call back Pat Summit and ask
about Tyler, don't ask for, I need you to
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00:24:06
play, you know, on this, this one date.
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:
00:24:10
So I, I use relationship
building and that helped.
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:
00:24:13
Tony Tidbit: Yeah.
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00:24:13
I mean, look, number one
is classic Dale Carnegie.
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00:24:17
Okay.
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00:24:17
So I hope you guys are listening
here because you know, um, you know,
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00:24:22
a lot of the things that you have
to do to break down barriers is to
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understand who you're dealing with.
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00:24:30
Everybody wants to Talk about themselves.
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00:24:33
They want, you know, cause everybody's
in their own little universe and you
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:
00:24:37
took a, I want to say a backseat, but
you allowed them in terms of asking
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:
00:24:42
the questions and stuff to that nature.
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00:24:44
And then all of a sudden those
barriers came down like, Oh,
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00:24:47
she's, she knows about my family.
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:
00:24:49
Oh, she knows about the
lions game yesterday.
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:
00:24:52
Oh.
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:
00:24:52
And you know, and those things
are very, very important.
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:
00:24:55
Now the thing also this is
that there probably was times
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00:24:59
where People wasn't friendly.
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:
00:25:02
Okay.
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:
00:25:03
There were times when you probably felt
diminished even when you did those things.
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:
00:25:08
Talk about those times.
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00:25:08
Carol Stiff: Oh, Oh,
one comes right to mind.
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:
00:25:11
I was in a, um, cause I worked on all our
NCAA championships, men's and women's.
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:
00:25:16
So the last one of the year was
baseball college world series, massive,
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:
00:25:21
massive tournament for baseball.
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:
00:25:23
And, um, the chair of the
selection committee decides who
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00:25:27
gets a bid for the tournament.
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:
00:25:29
We were in our summer meetings.
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:
00:25:31
So the season was over and he
had a, he had something is crawl,
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:
00:25:36
um, against me because I put his
team and I won't name the team.
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:
00:25:40
Um, I put his team at one o'clock on
ESPN on the, on the regional, the,
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:
00:25:44
the weekend before the big, big games.
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:
00:25:47
And he was really mad at me because he
was living in Mississippi and at one
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:
00:25:52
o'clock in late May, it's really hot.
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:
00:25:54
Right.
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:
00:25:55
And so I got called into my,
his best friend was my boss.
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:
00:26:02
So he calls me in and he
says, Now what did you F up?
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00:26:06
And I go, what does that mean?
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:
00:26:08
And he said, why would you
put that team at one o'clock?
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:
00:26:11
Why would you not put them?
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00:26:12
He wanted prime time and he
was the chair of the committee.
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:
00:26:15
So he thought he should get an
extra, you know, And I did my job.
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:
00:26:21
His team was not gonna rate in prime time.
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:
00:26:24
And I put him on ESPN.
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:
00:26:25
I said, he's on ESPN.
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:
00:26:27
He's on ESPN too.
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:
00:26:28
And also, he'll be the, if he wins
through, he'll be the first team
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:
00:26:31
to get the rest for, um, for Omaha.
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:
00:26:35
So what did I do?
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00:26:36
He said, I want you to change it.
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00:26:39
I want you to put him in prime.
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00:26:40
I go, no, it's too late.
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:
00:26:41
I already gave it to the NCAA.
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:
00:26:43
It's already published.
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00:26:44
And he's just not going to get his way.
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:
00:26:46
Like.
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:
00:26:47
So fast forward to the
summer meetings and, um,
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00:26:51
Tony Tidbit: real quick
before you go to here.
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00:26:52
So what happened?
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00:26:53
Carol Stiff: Oh, he had to play the
game at the time I told him, and he
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00:26:55
was the first team to get to Omaha
and he was the most rested team.
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00:26:59
Tony Tidbit: So it all worked out.
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00:27:01
Yeah, it
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00:27:02
Carol Stiff: all worked out.
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00:27:03
And the team I've had in front two
teams, they rate rated very well.
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00:27:06
And my day to day boss is a guy.
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00:27:09
And I said, you know, Dave,
did I do something wrong?
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00:27:11
Cause I want to learn.
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:
00:27:12
He goes, no.
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00:27:13
You program it the way it should
have been programmed for the, for the
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:
00:27:16
viewer and for ratings and for sales.
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00:27:18
I go, thank you.
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00:27:19
So we go to the summer meetings.
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00:27:21
I'll never forget.
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00:27:21
It was in San Diego and I had
a young guy working for me.
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00:27:25
Uh, Delroy, uh, Jones,
I think was the name.
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00:27:29
Anyhow, we're in San Diego at a hotel.
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00:27:33
Who doesn't love San Diego?
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:
00:27:35
And I am pacing outside the room.
608
:
00:27:38
And he said to me.
609
:
00:27:39
What's the matter with you?
610
:
00:27:40
I go, Oh, you don't know
what we're going into.
611
:
00:27:42
So we walk in and I was the only
woman in the room except for the woman
612
:
00:27:47
that does the tickets for the NCA.
613
:
00:27:50
So it felt like the Pentagon and
the production guy couldn't make it.
614
:
00:27:54
He was on a star phone speaker phone.
615
:
00:27:57
So this guy came up to me, the gentleman
that was treating me so poorly.
616
:
00:28:00
And he said, who makes the
decision on TV windows?
617
:
00:28:04
And I said, well, we give our
recommendation to the NCAA, but it's
618
:
00:28:08
their tournament with due respect.
619
:
00:28:10
If they don't like something,
we can talk about it.
620
:
00:28:12
So we sit down and we start the meeting.
621
:
00:28:15
He would not look at me.
622
:
00:28:17
And then he asked a programming
question about the following year.
623
:
00:28:21
Could we have a selection show
on this day and not that day?
624
:
00:28:25
And he's looking at the star phone and
he's talking to production and that's
625
:
00:28:30
a programming, that's a scheduling.
626
:
00:28:32
So, I, I could just feel the blood
going up my neck and I just said,
627
:
00:28:37
Hey Eddie, on the star phone, that's
my, that's my area of expertise.
628
:
00:28:41
I'll take that one.
629
:
00:28:43
And then I, Hey Larry, this is what
we're doing and why we're doing it.
630
:
00:28:46
And then I just acted very professional
and kind of went above him.
631
:
00:28:51
Anyhow, after the meeting, we're
having drinks or whatever dinner.
632
:
00:28:55
And the one woman in the room came up and
she said, Bravo, Bravo, you handle that.
633
:
00:29:01
So we get outside the door and
Delroy goes, Oh, my God, bravo.
634
:
00:29:06
He goes, I'm embarrassed
for the male species.
635
:
00:29:09
I
636
:
00:29:12
Tony Tidbit: mean, so number
one, thanks for sharing that.
637
:
00:29:14
I, my blood is going up
just hearing the story.
638
:
00:29:17
Okay.
639
:
00:29:18
And you know, one of the things, and
you, when we talked to her, when I asked
640
:
00:29:21
you, why'd you want to come on BEP?
641
:
00:29:23
And you said, Hey, Tony, you know,
based on what's going on right now
642
:
00:29:26
in the country, based on diversity,
equity, inclusion, I want to come
643
:
00:29:30
in and chat about these things,
because it's not something that
644
:
00:29:33
I'm a race in what the case may be.
645
:
00:29:35
When I hear these stories, and I've
experienced them as well, okay, you
646
:
00:29:39
know, where you're one, I've been in
places where I was the only black person.
647
:
00:29:44
And especially as I rose up
the ranks to the VP level, I
648
:
00:29:47
didn't see anybody look like me.
649
:
00:29:49
However, I worked my butt
off, obviously, right?
650
:
00:29:51
Like you, you work your butt off,
you do everything you overwork.
651
:
00:29:55
You, you play chess, not checkers.
652
:
00:29:57
So you're, you're seeing moves.
653
:
00:29:59
You're making moves to two
steps ahead because you're
654
:
00:30:02
anticipating blah, blah, blah.
655
:
00:30:04
And then obviously you're
not perfect either.
656
:
00:30:06
Okay.
657
:
00:30:07
And then there's other things.
658
:
00:30:09
And when you make one mistake after
all the things you've done, right.
659
:
00:30:14
You make one mistake all of a sudden.
660
:
00:30:16
And again, I'm paraphrase, you
know, what did you up this time?
661
:
00:30:21
Carol Stiff: Right.
662
:
00:30:21
Tony Tidbit: Right.
663
:
00:30:22
Which Okay.
664
:
00:30:23
And look, let's say, let's
say, let's say you were wrong
665
:
00:30:27
because you really wasn't right.
666
:
00:30:28
It was his friend, which is another issue.
667
:
00:30:30
Right.
668
:
00:30:31
But let's say you were wrong.
669
:
00:30:32
Okay.
670
:
00:30:34
Okay.
671
:
00:30:34
I made a mistake.
672
:
00:30:35
So what did I F up again?
673
:
00:30:38
So that means in your mind, I've
been effing up stuff all along.
674
:
00:30:43
Um, which ain't true, but you
make it in a narrative, all right,
675
:
00:30:46
because you're trying to diminish me.
676
:
00:30:49
And I've experienced that a little bit.
677
:
00:30:51
Now you handle, I got to give it to
you and you know, Bravo to, you know,
678
:
00:30:56
you made a human, the male species look
horrible and I get all that, right.
679
:
00:31:00
But you shouldn't have to do that.
680
:
00:31:02
But talk about, yeah, you had that
face on at work, but talk about
681
:
00:31:07
how that affected you when you went
home or the day after, because.
682
:
00:31:12
One of the things that's very important
for all of us to be successful is
683
:
00:31:17
to have psychological safety, right?
684
:
00:31:19
To see that what we do,
people appreciate it.
685
:
00:31:22
They see the value.
686
:
00:31:23
They know what we're
bringing to the table.
687
:
00:31:26
And if something does go wrong,
they're not going to erase me
688
:
00:31:30
or erase all my accomplishments.
689
:
00:31:31
Can you speak to that a little bit?
690
:
00:31:33
Carol Stiff: I often found that if
If I did make a mistake, and I, we
691
:
00:31:37
all make mistakes, that's how you
learn, um, I would, I would just come
692
:
00:31:41
right out and say, Hey, that's on me.
693
:
00:31:44
My bad.
694
:
00:31:45
Not going to happen again.
695
:
00:31:46
Those are hard calls to have
with a rights holder too.
696
:
00:31:50
Um, and 99.
697
:
00:31:52
9 percent of the time, the other
person just comes, calms right down.
698
:
00:31:56
She's owning it.
699
:
00:31:57
She's, she's willing to learn from it and
we're going to give her that opportunity.
700
:
00:32:02
So that's how I always
handle that situation.
701
:
00:32:06
Be righteous and all
that all that good stuff.
702
:
00:32:08
Um regarding home Try
not to bring it home.
703
:
00:32:13
Um, but I, I, I do remember I
was, I was going down to Howard
704
:
00:32:17
University and my son, uh, was young.
705
:
00:32:22
He was probably, no, he wasn't really,
really young, probably middle school.
706
:
00:32:25
And I let the kids go on one trip
a year, maybe two, one on one.
707
:
00:32:29
I had two children and I took
them down to Howard and I said,
708
:
00:32:33
look, son, you go over there, the
cafeteria area, here's some cash.
709
:
00:32:37
I'm going to meet with
the, uh, athletic director.
710
:
00:32:40
We're going to do a game down
here and I'll be back in an hour.
711
:
00:32:44
Okay.
712
:
00:32:44
So off he goes.
713
:
00:32:45
Off I go.
714
:
00:32:46
So I come back an hour later and
we're crossing that beautiful campus
715
:
00:32:52
to, um, to catch a cab or something.
716
:
00:32:54
And, um, I go, how, how, how you doing?
717
:
00:32:57
How, how you, he goes, Hey, I'm not
going to lie, but I was the only
718
:
00:33:02
white kid person on this campus.
719
:
00:33:05
And I said, how'd you feel?
720
:
00:33:09
How did you feel?
721
:
00:33:10
And that lesson, you know, I,
I, you know, what did he say?
722
:
00:33:15
Uncomfortable.
723
:
00:33:16
Yeah,
724
:
00:33:17
Tony Tidbit: exactly.
725
:
00:33:17
Carol Stiff: Uncomfortable.
726
:
00:33:19
Tony Tidbit: Exactly.
727
:
00:33:19
Carol Stiff: Um, I said, well, did,
were they hostile or were people night?
728
:
00:33:23
Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
729
:
00:33:24
Food was great.
730
:
00:33:25
It was great.
731
:
00:33:26
Oh my
732
:
00:33:27
Tony Tidbit: God.
733
:
00:33:27
It was
734
:
00:33:27
Carol Stiff: delicious.
735
:
00:33:27
But he saw the other side.
736
:
00:33:30
Yep.
737
:
00:33:30
And, um, so for that, I'm proud
that, that I introduced him to that.
738
:
00:33:35
So
739
:
00:33:35
Tony Tidbit: that is awesome.
740
:
00:33:36
That is a great story.
741
:
00:33:37
So listen, you've been there for a while.
742
:
00:33:39
You're kicking, but you're moving around.
743
:
00:33:42
Um, You now ESPN executive
producer 30 for 30.
744
:
00:33:48
Um, and then obviously the Emmy winning
one, any Emmy winning one, 37 words
745
:
00:33:54
real quick, tell us a little bit about
746
:
00:33:56
Carol Stiff: title nine is 37 words.
747
:
00:33:57
Talk to us.
748
:
00:33:58
Um, so part of my, my role at ESPN and
when the women's sports foundation is
749
:
00:34:04
educating people about what title nine is.
750
:
00:34:06
Basically, um, equal rights
for all on campus of any
751
:
00:34:10
campus receiving federal funds.
752
:
00:34:12
You can't discriminate,
discriminate against their sex.
753
:
00:34:17
Their gender.
754
:
00:34:18
So, uh, yeah, I worked on the 30th
anniversary, 35th, 40th, 40th.
755
:
00:34:22
And so this was the 50th and we did
a four part series on the 37 words.
756
:
00:34:27
And from back to 1972, right up to
where we are with transgender athletes.
757
:
00:34:34
And, um, it was very, very
powerful and well received.
758
:
00:34:38
Um, and it's a great, great tool
of education on, on title nine.
759
:
00:34:42
Tony Tidbit: Wow.
760
:
00:34:43
And if, and again, I, if I remember
correctly, wasn't Billie Jean
761
:
00:34:47
King, a big advocate of title
nine back in 72, is that correct?
762
:
00:34:51
Carol Stiff: Yeah.
763
:
00:34:52
She played, she played, she
764
:
00:34:53
Tony Tidbit: played, she played
was Billy Bob was his dude name.
765
:
00:34:56
I forget.
766
:
00:34:57
Carol Stiff: Um, Billy Riggs,
Bobby Riggs, Bobby Riggs.
767
:
00:35:00
Yeah.
768
:
00:35:01
Bobby Riggs.
769
:
00:35:01
Yeah, yeah.
770
:
00:35:03
She, uh, She she had to win.
771
:
00:35:06
She
772
:
00:35:06
Tony Tidbit: had no choice.
773
:
00:35:07
She had no choice.
774
:
00:35:08
He was calling her out Oh, right and
think about how you know, and again, I
775
:
00:35:12
hate you know, but it's like a Jackie
Robinson thing Right where you're
776
:
00:35:16
carrying the whole race To play baseball
because if he didn't make it then it
777
:
00:35:22
would have been years further before
black or people of color could play
778
:
00:35:25
baseball It was no different then right
Um, so let me ask you this, you know,
779
:
00:35:31
in terms of title nine today, what's
some of the implications and some of the
780
:
00:35:35
things that still being people trying
to erase a lot of these issues, a lot
781
:
00:35:42
of these prop policies, because they see
it as discrimination on the other side.
782
:
00:35:47
You talk a little bit about that.
783
:
00:35:48
Carol Stiff: Oh, absolutely.
784
:
00:35:49
Uh, let's, where do you want to start?
785
:
00:35:51
NIL?
786
:
00:35:53
Um, who's getting all the NIL deals?
787
:
00:35:55
Correct.
788
:
00:35:55
Tony Tidbit: The males.
789
:
00:35:56
Carol Stiff: Yeah.
790
:
00:35:57
That's, that's a violation.
791
:
00:35:57
That's a violation.
792
:
00:35:59
Um, but they really can't prosecute
because the money to date is
793
:
00:36:04
not coming from the schools.
794
:
00:36:05
It's coming from collectives,
the boosters and the boosters.
795
:
00:36:09
It's not coming from the department now
with the new house settlement, which will
796
:
00:36:13
be probably going to affect in April.
797
:
00:36:17
Um, division one schools can pay their
athletes up to 20 million a year.
798
:
00:36:22
Where are they?
799
:
00:36:23
Where is that money coming from?
800
:
00:36:24
Where's cop and state
going to find 20 million.
801
:
00:36:27
So they're eliminating, um, positions.
802
:
00:36:31
They're limiting, you know, diversity
inclusion officers where wherever they
803
:
00:36:35
can cut, um, they're also dropping,
uh, programs, athletic programs.
804
:
00:36:40
So opportunities for kids to compete
are, are going to go the wayside.
805
:
00:36:43
And, um, I just worry
about the federal funding.
806
:
00:36:47
Um, I don't think it will go totally away
because God forbid, most of the federal
807
:
00:36:53
funding goes to the hospitals on campus
and the research that's being done.
808
:
00:36:58
But there, there is,
there are some concerns.
809
:
00:37:02
Definitely on the women's side,
but the problem with Title IX
810
:
00:37:06
is it's not being enforced.
811
:
00:37:08
There hasn't been one school
that's had to go to court or,
812
:
00:37:11
or had to pay a penalty fee.
813
:
00:37:13
Uh, because they don't have the funding
at the government to prosecute schools.
814
:
00:37:19
So they're just all
running the Wild Wild West.
815
:
00:37:22
Tony Tidbit: It's the
Wild Wild West, right?
816
:
00:37:23
It's the Wild Wild West.
817
:
00:37:24
So you, the, the policies are there.
818
:
00:37:27
Everybody says the right
thing in a soundbite.
819
:
00:37:29
Um, but push come to shove, it's not
being enacted and it's not being,
820
:
00:37:34
nobody's being held accountable to
making sure that it's equal access,
821
:
00:37:38
equal funding, the whole nine yards.
822
:
00:37:40
Is that correct?
823
:
00:37:41
Correct.
824
:
00:37:41
Wow.
825
:
00:37:42
So in speaking of, in terms of
accountability, when did you figure out
826
:
00:37:48
it was time for you to start moving on?
827
:
00:37:50
When did you think your, your
tenure at ESPN was starting in?
828
:
00:37:54
Uh,
829
:
00:37:56
Carol Stiff: well, I got, I got
moved over at one point, I was, I
830
:
00:38:00
was actually offered an opportunity
to go on a rotation, a job rotation.
831
:
00:38:05
Only six people in the
company were offered.
832
:
00:38:07
I could go anywhere I wanted
to go and learn about our
833
:
00:38:11
business from their, their lens.
834
:
00:38:13
So I went to business and development.
835
:
00:38:15
And based out of New York, but
also the nine for nine films I
836
:
00:38:19
was working on with my rotation.
837
:
00:38:21
So I was on the films group
and business development.
838
:
00:38:24
So we were back then talking about
streaming and what's this Netflix yeah.
839
:
00:38:31
Sort of looking in this crystal
ball and like guessing what
840
:
00:38:35
was going to be coming next.
841
:
00:38:36
So I found it fascinating, loved it.
842
:
00:38:38
Got a call about seven
months of the nine month.
843
:
00:38:42
rotation to go over to ESPNW, which is a.
844
:
00:38:45
com and John Skipper asked me to do that.
845
:
00:38:48
And, um, you know, I told him with
due respect, I'm not a journalist.
846
:
00:38:51
I don't know what a good, you know,
I could tell you what I think of that
847
:
00:38:54
article, but I don't know how to edit it.
848
:
00:38:56
Right.
849
:
00:38:57
And he said, we're bringing you over
there to, to be the relationship builder.
850
:
00:39:00
And, um, basically decide what
content should rise to the top.
851
:
00:39:05
So I did that for three years and was
watching some of the program ratings,
852
:
00:39:10
um, on women's sports diminish.
853
:
00:39:13
So I asked Burke Magnus, my boss at the
time, if I could come back to programming.
854
:
00:39:18
Um, which I did and I was very happy,
but I didn't go back into the same role.
855
:
00:39:22
Um, I lost a lot of my, I lost
all the NCAA championships
856
:
00:39:25
minus women's basketball.
857
:
00:39:27
And I loved working on throwing softball
and women's lacrosse or men's soccer.
858
:
00:39:32
And so I, I, I kind of noticed then that
my responsibilities were diminished.
859
:
00:39:40
Um, but I kept pushing and, you
know, having to come up with new tech
860
:
00:39:43
technology for the women's tournament
and just stayed really, really
861
:
00:39:46
focused on what I was able to control.
862
:
00:39:50
So that's probably where I kind of
saw the writing on the wall that I'm
863
:
00:39:55
probably not going to be here long.
864
:
00:39:57
Tony Tidbit: Got it.
865
:
00:39:58
And then when did it eventually end?
866
:
00:40:01
Carol Stiff: Well, COVID came.
867
:
00:40:02
Okay.
868
:
00:40:03
And, um, you know, obviously business
decisions needed to be made because no one
869
:
00:40:08
was going to the Disney parks, Broadway,
cruise lines, everything was shut down.
870
:
00:40:14
So there was a massive amount of
layoffs and, um, all the vice presidents
871
:
00:40:19
in my department got, uh, retired.
872
:
00:40:23
Tony Tidbit: So they got retired, right?
873
:
00:40:25
Carol Stiff: I'm retiring.
874
:
00:40:26
Yeah.
875
:
00:40:27
That's basically what happened.
876
:
00:40:27
Yeah.
877
:
00:40:28
They, they gave me a nice package, Tony.
878
:
00:40:30
I was able to leave, um, and be
able to provide for my kids, but
879
:
00:40:34
I really wasn't ready to retire.
880
:
00:40:35
And that that's what, why I'm
still really active right now.
881
:
00:40:39
Tony Tidbit: Well, I want to talk
about women's sports network,
882
:
00:40:41
but I want to ask you a question.
883
:
00:40:43
You gave 31 years there.
884
:
00:40:46
You did a lot of work.
885
:
00:40:47
You did a lot of the dirty work.
886
:
00:40:49
You, and obviously they paid
you and I get all that, right?
887
:
00:40:54
But how did it feel?
888
:
00:40:55
Because I, you know, yeah, I remember
hiring, I had hired a life coach
889
:
00:41:01
years ago when I was leaving one
company to go in next company.
890
:
00:41:05
And as that, um, uh, as that job started
to move, I started to move on from that
891
:
00:41:11
career, from that, that company, she
said something to me, I never forgot.
892
:
00:41:15
And she said, Tony, When you leave
you're going to be emotional and I
893
:
00:41:21
didn't know what she's talking about.
894
:
00:41:22
And she said no she said people identity
Today is based on where they work and
895
:
00:41:31
The problem is is that when people
lose their job when they get laid
896
:
00:41:36
off or whatever the case may be that?
897
:
00:41:38
Identity is gone.
898
:
00:41:39
Mm hmm, right and it takes a while For
you to jump back out there again, because
899
:
00:41:45
you're mourning I'm not the VP no more.
900
:
00:41:48
I'm not, you know, executive vice
president of whatever the case
901
:
00:41:52
may be, because in our minds,
we think that's who we are.
902
:
00:41:57
And it's really not.
903
:
00:41:58
It's just a title.
904
:
00:41:59
Right.
905
:
00:42:00
But unfortunately, that part of our dance.
906
:
00:42:02
So talk a little bit before
we get into a woman's sports.
907
:
00:42:04
How did that make you feel?
908
:
00:42:06
And what was the morning game?
909
:
00:42:07
If there was, maybe you're
like, forget it, I'm out and
910
:
00:42:10
you just went on another thing.
911
:
00:42:11
Talk about that mourning process
that you had to go through.
912
:
00:42:14
Carol Stiff: I was shocked.
913
:
00:42:15
I was really shocked.
914
:
00:42:17
Um, Although they gave me a great package.
915
:
00:42:20
Um, I wasn't finished.
916
:
00:42:22
I wasn't ready.
917
:
00:42:23
Uh, what didn't see it really come in.
918
:
00:42:26
Um, I wish I had gotten
that lifetime coach.
919
:
00:42:30
Tony Tidbit: She told me that
years ago, but it's still, it
920
:
00:42:33
Carol Stiff: hurt and hurt.
921
:
00:42:34
It hurt for quite a
bit, quite a long time.
922
:
00:42:37
Um, and I, I, I moved on pretty quickly.
923
:
00:42:42
But boy, even telling my friends
and telling my colleagues, they
924
:
00:42:47
were like, you, you, not you.
925
:
00:42:50
WNBA said that I'm like,
yeah, well, um, it happened.
926
:
00:42:56
Tony Tidbit: So you were
able to get past it.
927
:
00:42:58
Yeah.
928
:
00:42:58
Right.
929
:
00:42:59
Which is tough.
930
:
00:43:00
Okay.
931
:
00:43:00
But.
932
:
00:43:02
My pastor, my church always says when
one door closes, another door opens up.
933
:
00:43:06
So talk about post ESPN, talk
about women's sports network.
934
:
00:43:11
Tell us a little bit about that.
935
:
00:43:12
Carol Stiff: I have to give a
shout out to George Bodenheimer.
936
:
00:43:14
You
937
:
00:43:15
Tony Tidbit: have a bunch of
shout outs all you want to.
938
:
00:43:17
Carol Stiff: George was the president
of ESPN on my early years there and
939
:
00:43:21
the classiest guy you'll ever meet.
940
:
00:43:23
Uh, it was always, we, we,
we, it was never, I, I, I, um,
941
:
00:43:27
he always let us do our jobs.
942
:
00:43:29
You know supported us.
943
:
00:43:30
So one of the first phone calls
actually the very first phone call
944
:
00:43:34
I received was from Robin Roberts
945
:
00:43:36
Tony Tidbit: For real for real.
946
:
00:43:38
That's awesome yeah,
947
:
00:43:39
Carol Stiff: she had heard somebody else
was laid off and she was she was upset
948
:
00:43:42
about that name and um, I waited, you
know waited for her to Go off on the
949
:
00:43:47
phone and then I, and I, you know, took
a breather and I said, yeah, me too.
950
:
00:43:53
And so, but those
951
:
00:43:55
Tony Tidbit: things, those call and tell
us a little, because I know when you
952
:
00:43:57
get those calls, you don't want them.
953
:
00:43:59
But then once you chat with
people, it makes you feel better.
954
:
00:44:01
Carol Stiff: Yeah.
955
:
00:44:02
Yeah.
956
:
00:44:02
Oh, yeah.
957
:
00:44:02
She said all the right words.
958
:
00:44:04
That's for sure.
959
:
00:44:05
Um, but the second call was George
and I don't even know how he knew.
960
:
00:44:08
And.
961
:
00:44:09
Yeah.
962
:
00:44:09
He reassured me.
963
:
00:44:11
He said, you're going
to have so many offers.
964
:
00:44:14
Don't jump at, you know, ones you're not
sure about gave me some, but he called
965
:
00:44:18
me quite a few times and we still talk.
966
:
00:44:20
And, uh, he was just a great
resource for me to get over the
967
:
00:44:24
hump, but a good guy, really good
guy, uh, women's sports network.
968
:
00:44:28
Okay.
969
:
00:44:29
So I left, I left ESPN in July
and then, um, launched my advisory
970
:
00:44:35
company, stiff sports media consulting.
971
:
00:44:38
Uh, and that was amazing because some
friends reached out before the women's
972
:
00:44:43
sports network and one was Val Ackerman.
973
:
00:44:45
Tony Tidbit: Okay.
974
:
00:44:46
The
975
:
00:44:46
Carol Stiff: WNBA, uh, commissioner, but
she was the president for 10 years and now
976
:
00:44:51
she's the commissioner of the big East.
977
:
00:44:53
Okay.
978
:
00:44:53
God, she wasn't
979
:
00:44:54
Tony Tidbit: the commissioner of a WNBA.
980
:
00:44:56
They only
981
:
00:44:56
Carol Stiff: made this last person.
982
:
00:44:57
Yeah.
983
:
00:44:57
It was president.
984
:
00:44:59
Got it.
985
:
00:44:59
So she reached out and she said,
I need your counsel on title nine
986
:
00:45:02
programming for our conference.
987
:
00:45:04
Would you, you know, take a stipend?
988
:
00:45:06
I said, absolutely.
989
:
00:45:07
And then another company fish bait
at hired two other guys that were
990
:
00:45:11
let go that day, hired me as well
to advise them on women's sports.
991
:
00:45:15
And.
992
:
00:45:16
So that helped me, you know, get my
head off the pillow and pay some bills.
993
:
00:45:19
I still had a child in college and,
and then that November I got a call,
994
:
00:45:24
a cold call from a gentleman that,
um, wanted to launch a women's sports
995
:
00:45:27
network, 24 seven streaming network.
996
:
00:45:31
No paywall, no subscription.
997
:
00:45:34
Uh, and what sold me was doing a show
called Game On, which is our version that
998
:
00:45:40
you and I would know as SportsCenter.
999
:
00:45:42
Oh, okay.
:
1000
00:45:42,879 --> 00:45:42,949
Cool.
:
1001
00:45:42,959 --> 00:45:44,080
Um, highlights.
:
1002
00:45:44,080 --> 00:45:45,620
And so the first segment was highlights.
:
1003
00:45:45,629 --> 00:45:49,720
Second one was, you know, uh,
discussion about a hot topic.
:
1004
00:45:50,220 --> 00:45:54,160
And then the third, third segment
is, is still, um, interview segment.
:
1005
00:45:54,380 --> 00:45:59,910
And so I love the format and we did about
150 episodes the first year we launched.
:
1006
00:46:00,340 --> 00:46:02,470
Uh, got some proof points out of L.
:
1007
00:46:02,470 --> 00:46:02,620
A.
:
1008
00:46:02,640 --> 00:46:08,860
produced and, um, I would love to
see that show go for seven days
:
1009
00:46:08,860 --> 00:46:10,320
a week, just like SportsCenter.
:
1010
00:46:10,350 --> 00:46:11,060
We earned it.
:
1011
00:46:11,070 --> 00:46:12,030
We deserve it.
:
1012
00:46:12,110 --> 00:46:15,859
Um, I often heard people saying,
well, there are not enough highlights
:
1013
00:46:15,860 --> 00:46:17,830
for a full year of women's sports.
:
1014
00:46:17,870 --> 00:46:21,900
You know, when you get to
college football, uh, playoffs.
:
1015
00:46:22,325 --> 00:46:25,730
It's NBA and NFL and I'm like, no, no.
:
1016
00:46:25,895 --> 00:46:26,855
Tony Tidbit: There's a
bunch of stuff going on.
:
1017
00:46:26,855 --> 00:46:27,035
Yeah,
:
1018
00:46:27,035 --> 00:46:29,730
Carol Stiff: there's Australians,
va, I, there's many things going on.
:
1019
00:46:29,730 --> 00:46:33,545
Caught me a break, so I said no, I think
I can fill the, fill it with highlights.
:
1020
00:46:33,545 --> 00:46:36,125
But, um, so we're a 24 7 network.
:
1021
00:46:36,125 --> 00:46:38,345
Three years in all women's sports.
:
1022
00:46:38,345 --> 00:46:40,385
We have live rights, we have studio.
:
1023
00:46:40,805 --> 00:46:46,835
Um, I consider us a surround sound of
what ESPN and NBC and Fox are doing in es.
:
1024
00:46:46,865 --> 00:46:47,795
We can't compete.
:
1025
00:46:48,200 --> 00:46:52,460
With those, those, uh, those rights fees
a week, they getting billions of dollars.
:
1026
00:46:52,490 --> 00:46:52,970
Exactly.
:
1027
00:46:53,120 --> 00:46:54,770
We just, and it's growing.
:
1028
00:46:54,830 --> 00:47:01,680
Um, but we can be the storytellers and we
can tell all the stories and let you know,
:
1029
00:47:02,060 --> 00:47:07,460
uh, an NWSL game, or a hockey league,
or a college, women's basketball, let's,
:
1030
00:47:07,460 --> 00:47:08,565
let's learn about who the players are.
:
1031
00:47:09,770 --> 00:47:11,240
So that's, that's what
we're going to focus.
:
1032
00:47:11,450 --> 00:47:16,000
Tony Tidbit: So, so tell us a little bit,
like what is some, cause obviously there's
:
1033
00:47:16,000 --> 00:47:19,250
challenges along the way, what's been some
of the challenges in terms of getting this
:
1034
00:47:19,250 --> 00:47:23,730
off the ground and get more people to, to
know about it and to be a viewer on it.
:
1035
00:47:24,389 --> 00:47:28,130
Carol Stiff: So, uh, we're really easy
to find our distribution is fabulous.
:
1036
00:47:28,140 --> 00:47:31,300
We're in, uh, 150 to 2 million homes.
:
1037
00:47:31,300 --> 00:47:33,870
We're on connected TV,
Samsung, we're on Roku.
:
1038
00:47:34,520 --> 00:47:38,040
Um, once you get used to the pattern
of how to find us, we're easy to find.
:
1039
00:47:38,040 --> 00:47:40,620
We're on your phone with Tubi
and Freebie and Fubo on all
:
1040
00:47:40,620 --> 00:47:42,390
those new chicklets of channels.
:
1041
00:47:42,795 --> 00:47:45,725
Um, so finding us is not, not the problem.
:
1042
00:47:45,775 --> 00:47:51,165
What we have, um, you know, to really
focus on is getting advertisers
:
1043
00:47:51,165 --> 00:47:53,475
and that's in all women's sports.
:
1044
00:47:53,485 --> 00:47:56,065
It's still not here, Tony, still not here.
:
1045
00:47:56,225 --> 00:47:58,135
Tony Tidbit: So just stop
right there for a second.
:
1046
00:47:58,415 --> 00:47:59,214
Just unclear.
:
1047
00:48:00,140 --> 00:48:04,880
So you're having a hard time getting
advertisers, a Gatorade or whatever the
:
1048
00:48:04,880 --> 00:48:12,620
case may be, a Footlocker or Dicks or
Nike to run across women's sports content?
:
1049
00:48:12,920 --> 00:48:14,010
Carol Stiff: We're having a hard time
:
1050
00:48:14,010 --> 00:48:14,340
Tony Tidbit: with that.
:
1051
00:48:14,350 --> 00:48:16,150
What's the reason why?
:
1052
00:48:16,310 --> 00:48:19,410
Carol Stiff: So, um, first of all,
people were caught off guard with the
:
1053
00:48:19,410 --> 00:48:22,080
Caitlin Clark movement, not moment.
:
1054
00:48:23,295 --> 00:48:25,305
Tony Tidbit: When you, Oh, when
you say movement, when it was
:
1055
00:48:25,305 --> 00:48:28,055
godlike, everybody was on it.
:
1056
00:48:28,055 --> 00:48:28,245
Right.
:
1057
00:48:28,245 --> 00:48:29,825
So they wanted to put money towards that.
:
1058
00:48:29,965 --> 00:48:32,255
Carol Stiff: So it was too
late because she came along.
:
1059
00:48:32,255 --> 00:48:39,164
If you think about it in March and
April and then the WNBA, um, season.
:
1060
00:48:39,744 --> 00:48:43,425
Um, all, most all the advertising
budgets are already spent.
:
1061
00:48:44,250 --> 00:48:50,610
we, we, we really think that:
2025
only in February, soon to be March, that
:
1062
00:48:50,640 --> 00:48:53,860
a lot of people were caught off guard and
didn't have a women's sports strategy.
:
1063
00:48:53,950 --> 00:48:55,149
Tony Tidbit: Ah, got it.
:
1064
00:48:55,280 --> 00:48:57,840
Carol Stiff: So they're getting calls
from some of the people you just
:
1065
00:48:57,840 --> 00:49:00,810
mentioned, Hey, where's our women's
sports strategy and the media come,
:
1066
00:49:00,840 --> 00:49:02,610
uh, we don't have one, you know?
:
1067
00:49:03,020 --> 00:49:06,290
So they're building one now,
but they still haven't come.
:
1068
00:49:06,580 --> 00:49:09,950
And so we need advertisers to
step up and support these, these
:
1069
00:49:09,950 --> 00:49:11,589
great athletes and their stories.
:
1070
00:49:11,995 --> 00:49:13,775
Um, so that's, that's important.
:
1071
00:49:13,795 --> 00:49:18,665
And then we need, um, we're looking for
some investors come in so we can go out
:
1072
00:49:18,695 --> 00:49:23,604
and get, you know, richer rights and
more expensive rights and get that game
:
1073
00:49:23,604 --> 00:49:25,925
on studio up and running every day.
:
1074
00:49:25,934 --> 00:49:27,397
Like I want, yeah, I love,
:
1075
00:49:27,397 --> 00:49:28,625
Tony Tidbit: I can't wait for that.
:
1076
00:49:28,985 --> 00:49:29,425
What's.
:
1077
00:49:29,680 --> 00:49:30,630
What's the end game here?
:
1078
00:49:30,630 --> 00:49:33,390
What are you trying to,
where do you see this going?
:
1079
00:49:33,400 --> 00:49:36,220
If you get the funding and all that
stuff, where do you see this going?
:
1080
00:49:36,280 --> 00:49:38,370
Carol Stiff: I kind of don't want
to have a women's sports network.
:
1081
00:49:38,370 --> 00:49:45,510
Like it should be equal, like not, not
lesser than, you know, you still see it.
:
1082
00:49:45,539 --> 00:49:48,410
Um, I won't name names
of, of cable networks.
:
1083
00:49:49,125 --> 00:49:51,665
You know, they're still putting
all our women's sports and
:
1084
00:49:51,665 --> 00:49:53,435
inferior windows and second tier
:
1085
00:49:53,435 --> 00:49:53,715
Tony Tidbit: stuff.
:
1086
00:49:53,765 --> 00:49:54,015
Yeah.
:
1087
00:49:54,015 --> 00:49:54,415
And so
:
1088
00:49:54,415 --> 00:49:56,855
Carol Stiff: if you give them
an opportunity, if you build
:
1089
00:49:56,855 --> 00:49:57,955
it, they will come right.
:
1090
00:49:58,205 --> 00:50:01,415
And we have very, we
have many proof points.
:
1091
00:50:01,795 --> 00:50:06,465
Um, I don't know if we're still gun shy
and putting women's sports in prime time.
:
1092
00:50:07,035 --> 00:50:10,495
Um, but you know, maybe on a
Thursday night, you'll see it,
:
1093
00:50:10,505 --> 00:50:13,395
you know, the WNBA is running
on a Friday night in the summer.
:
1094
00:50:13,395 --> 00:50:14,205
I don't know who.
:
1095
00:50:14,595 --> 00:50:19,315
I mean, they did really well, but who
watches TV on a Friday night in Minnesota?
:
1096
00:50:19,315 --> 00:50:22,325
I mean, you're out, you're out
having, you're out in the park.
:
1097
00:50:22,325 --> 00:50:23,645
To be honest, even being in
:
1098
00:50:23,645 --> 00:50:25,525
Tony Tidbit: Detroit, you
know, it doesn't matter.
:
1099
00:50:25,525 --> 00:50:25,945
Right.
:
1100
00:50:26,195 --> 00:50:29,635
Carol Stiff: So, um, that
still needs to be flushed out.
:
1101
00:50:29,635 --> 00:50:32,595
But I think what will happen is,
and I hope this, and I saw a proof
:
1102
00:50:32,595 --> 00:50:36,235
point with, with on a call out
Google, they came to the table,
:
1103
00:50:36,235 --> 00:50:37,785
they were going to spend money on.
:
1104
00:50:37,870 --> 00:50:45,590
Uh, NBA and WNBA and the woman who was
representing Google was an Olympian rower
:
1105
00:50:46,520 --> 00:50:51,159
and she got their deck and she's being
very, you know, cordial at the meeting
:
1106
00:50:51,159 --> 00:50:55,130
and of course the meeting starts, you
know, about the NBA and we're going
:
1107
00:50:55,130 --> 00:50:58,479
to do this, we're going to do that
and they want her to spend a billion
:
1108
00:50:58,559 --> 00:51:04,610
dollars and she shut the deck and she
goes, I want to see the WNBA Oh, well,
:
1109
00:51:04,610 --> 00:51:07,710
that was page 39 of a 40 page deck,
:
1110
00:51:07,730 --> 00:51:08,150
Tony Tidbit: right?
:
1111
00:51:08,200 --> 00:51:08,590
Right.
:
1112
00:51:08,590 --> 00:51:08,680
Right.
:
1113
00:51:09,590 --> 00:51:14,309
Carol Stiff: So she said it's the
25th anniversary of the WNBA and
:
1114
00:51:14,310 --> 00:51:16,800
there aren't even 25 games schedule.
:
1115
00:51:17,330 --> 00:51:21,049
Uh, I want 25 games, push the deck back.
:
1116
00:51:21,049 --> 00:51:23,789
So she wasn't gonna spend a dime on NBA.
:
1117
00:51:24,100 --> 00:51:25,080
Tony Tidbit: But there
you go though, right?
:
1118
00:51:25,080 --> 00:51:26,110
So that's what we need.
:
1119
00:51:26,120 --> 00:51:28,260
You get advocates like that who got money.
:
1120
00:51:29,015 --> 00:51:30,175
That believe in it.
:
1121
00:51:30,555 --> 00:51:32,245
So that's why it's important.
:
1122
00:51:32,265 --> 00:51:32,735
I get it.
:
1123
00:51:32,735 --> 00:51:35,005
You don't want to have only women's own.
:
1124
00:51:35,045 --> 00:51:39,025
I get that But in a day you
got something that eventually
:
1125
00:51:39,025 --> 00:51:41,245
you get people behind it Right.
:
1126
00:51:41,275 --> 00:51:43,175
And then they got money
and they're pushing it.
:
1127
00:51:43,175 --> 00:51:46,555
And then let's get a lot of credit
to you because it wouldn't happen.
:
1128
00:51:46,855 --> 00:51:50,535
Those things wouldn't happen if it wasn't
for people like yourself, or, you know,
:
1129
00:51:50,545 --> 00:51:57,425
Billie Jean King or all these other, you
know, forerunners of women's sports to be
:
1130
00:51:57,425 --> 00:51:59,494
fair to even got it to where it is today.
:
1131
00:51:59,575 --> 00:52:02,385
But the thing about it, which I love.
:
1132
00:52:03,325 --> 00:52:04,165
You're not done.
:
1133
00:52:04,675 --> 00:52:06,305
There's still more to do.
:
1134
00:52:06,725 --> 00:52:10,755
There's still more things to, there's
still more hoops to jump, right?
:
1135
00:52:10,755 --> 00:52:12,905
Because that's really the key here.
:
1136
00:52:12,945 --> 00:52:17,095
The more that people like yourself,
they're out there advocating, pushing,
:
1137
00:52:17,454 --> 00:52:21,835
don't give it up because you believe
it, that's going to affect change.
:
1138
00:52:21,925 --> 00:52:22,175
Yep.
:
1139
00:52:22,285 --> 00:52:22,875
Okay.
:
1140
00:52:23,025 --> 00:52:26,215
And you know, that's why we were
excited to have you here because
:
1141
00:52:26,215 --> 00:52:29,965
at the end of the day, what people
need to understand is that you.
:
1142
00:52:30,300 --> 00:52:34,150
You yourself, only you have
the ability to affect change.
:
1143
00:52:34,180 --> 00:52:35,460
You may not think so.
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You may think you're going up
against a behemoth, but guess what?
:
1145
00:52:39,360 --> 00:52:44,060
If you just start rolling that little
snowball down the hill, you get a
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1146
00:52:44,060 --> 00:52:48,579
Carol stiff, who's creating a women's
sports network, which I'm so excited.
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00:52:48,579 --> 00:52:52,680
And listen, you know, anything that we
can do to help you, but final thoughts,
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tell us, give us the final thoughts
that you want to leave the audience.
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00:52:56,710 --> 00:52:58,070
Carol Stiff: Don't be, I could be talking
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1150
00:52:58,070 --> 00:52:58,580
Tony Tidbit: all day long.
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00:52:59,300 --> 00:53:02,000
Carol Stiff: We'll have to go to
the local bar, get a cold one.
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1152
00:53:02,470 --> 00:53:04,909
Um, don't be afraid to ask why not.
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1153
00:53:05,929 --> 00:53:10,910
And, uh, be prepared to, you know, to
fight the battles that are most important
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1154
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to you, um, and that you have facts
for, and then, you know, lastly, uh,
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1155
00:53:16,699 --> 00:53:20,380
take, take the pride in knowing that
you can look at yourself in the mirror
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at night and say, you've done good.
:
1157
00:53:22,710 --> 00:53:25,820
And you didn't, you weren't unethical and.
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1158
00:53:26,480 --> 00:53:31,100
You can, you know, rest, rest a lovely
night of sleep knowing that you can
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1159
00:53:31,100 --> 00:53:32,400
smile at yourself in the mirror.
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Tony Tidbit: Oh, that is awesome.
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00:53:34,090 --> 00:53:34,920
That is awesome.
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Question.
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My final question.
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How can a black executive
perspective podcast help you?
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00:53:40,080 --> 00:53:40,869
Just get the word
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Carol Stiff: out.
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00:53:41,610 --> 00:53:46,140
Um, it's important and keep doing
what you're doing, Tony, because
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1168
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this is really, really important.
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00:53:47,610 --> 00:53:50,320
And, you know, straight talk only
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00:53:50,320 --> 00:53:50,860
Tony Tidbit: helps.
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00:53:51,875 --> 00:53:52,645
Well, thank you.
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00:53:52,665 --> 00:53:56,125
And just so I'm clear, when you say get
the word out, what word should we be
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1173
00:53:56,125 --> 00:53:58,535
getting out that there's a women's sports?
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00:53:58,535 --> 00:53:59,245
There we go.
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Carol Stiff: There's a
women's sports network, right?
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1176
00:54:03,474 --> 00:54:05,235
Tony Tidbit: So that's
a, that's a no brainer.
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1177
00:54:05,285 --> 00:54:05,795
Okay.
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00:54:05,795 --> 00:54:07,015
We're definitely going to do that.
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00:54:07,415 --> 00:54:11,145
Um, I'm looking forward to
working with you in any way.
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1180
00:54:11,175 --> 00:54:15,075
And we'll talk about that, you know,
offline, but more importantly, I'm
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1181
00:54:15,565 --> 00:54:19,705
Knowing how busy you are, knowing
that you're, you know, championing a
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1182
00:54:19,705 --> 00:54:24,804
network that's going to not just, um,
something for women to watch, but for
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1183
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all human beings to be able to gravitate.
:
1184
00:54:28,125 --> 00:54:31,895
And knowing the challenges that
it takes to do that, I salute you.
:
1185
00:54:32,155 --> 00:54:34,345
So you ain't got no
problem having our back.
:
1186
00:54:34,355 --> 00:54:34,665
All right.
:
1187
00:54:34,665 --> 00:54:36,635
Cause we're going to do, we're
going to be right there with you.
:
1188
00:54:36,995 --> 00:54:38,434
So Carol stiff.
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1189
00:54:38,434 --> 00:54:41,775
I want to thank you for joining a
black executive perspective podcast.
:
1190
00:54:42,125 --> 00:54:45,295
I want you to stay right there
because you're going to help
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1191
00:54:45,295 --> 00:54:47,245
us with our call to action.
:
1192
00:54:47,245 --> 00:54:48,305
So stay right there.
:
1193
00:54:48,625 --> 00:54:52,895
So now I think it's
time for Tony's tidbit.
:
1194
00:54:53,235 --> 00:54:58,295
Corporate America may give you a title,
but it will never define your worth.
:
1195
00:54:59,115 --> 00:55:03,874
True success is surviving the
system, learning the game, and
:
1196
00:55:03,895 --> 00:55:05,945
thriving on your own terms.
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1197
00:55:06,725 --> 00:55:08,005
And you heard a lot of that.
:
1198
00:55:08,410 --> 00:55:09,570
From Carol stiff.
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1199
00:55:09,640 --> 00:55:13,180
So again, I want to remind everyone
to make sure you check out every
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1200
00:55:13,180 --> 00:55:17,110
Thursday on a black executive
perspective podcast need to know by Dr.
:
1201
00:55:17,110 --> 00:55:18,619
Nsenga Burton, Dr.
:
1202
00:55:18,619 --> 00:55:23,800
Burton dives into the timely and crucial
topics that shape our community that
:
1203
00:55:23,800 --> 00:55:25,929
you don't have time to figure out.
:
1204
00:55:26,099 --> 00:55:28,560
So definitely you want to
check her out every Thursday.
:
1205
00:55:28,845 --> 00:55:30,765
Need to know by Dr.
:
1206
00:55:30,765 --> 00:55:31,715
Nsenga Burton.
:
1207
00:55:31,865 --> 00:55:36,105
And then you also want to check out our
round table, pull up, speak up, right?
:
1208
00:55:36,105 --> 00:55:38,115
Which is coming out next week.
:
1209
00:55:38,365 --> 00:55:42,794
We're bold unfiltered voices
tackle the day's most provocative
:
1210
00:55:42,794 --> 00:55:44,845
issues, sharp perspectives.
:
1211
00:55:44,845 --> 00:55:48,314
You heard Carol say real
talk and a call to action.
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1212
00:55:48,325 --> 00:55:51,085
Don't forget to watch
and join the revolution.
:
1213
00:55:51,355 --> 00:55:51,795
So.
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1214
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As, uh, typically people who watch or
listen to a black executive perspective
:
1215
00:55:56,860 --> 00:55:59,250
podcast, they know our call to action.
:
1216
00:55:59,340 --> 00:56:04,070
Our goal here is to eliminate
all forms of discrimination.
:
1217
00:56:04,410 --> 00:56:09,910
And the way we do that, we have
an acronym called less L E S S.
:
1218
00:56:10,030 --> 00:56:11,930
And Carol stiff is going
to help us with that.
:
1219
00:56:11,940 --> 00:56:12,810
Carol kick us off.
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1220
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Carol Stiff: For L.
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1221
00:56:14,510 --> 00:56:14,610
Yeah.
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1222
00:56:14,980 --> 00:56:20,620
Learn, always ask questions, always
just, you know, uh, be willing
:
1223
00:56:20,620 --> 00:56:22,890
to say, yeah, I can do that.
:
1224
00:56:22,960 --> 00:56:26,500
Try it, but then also it's okay
to fail because you're learning.
:
1225
00:56:26,989 --> 00:56:27,789
Tony Tidbit: Absolutely.
:
1226
00:56:27,790 --> 00:56:30,750
And after you learn, E stands for empathy.
:
1227
00:56:31,370 --> 00:56:34,040
Now you've learned about
people that you don't know.
:
1228
00:56:34,050 --> 00:56:36,730
You've learned about things
that you wasn't aware of.
:
1229
00:56:37,165 --> 00:56:41,745
Now you can be more empathetic because
you can put yourself in their shoes.
:
1230
00:56:42,725 --> 00:56:47,675
Carol Stiff: So S, the first S is to
share your insights to enlighten others.
:
1231
00:56:48,165 --> 00:56:52,464
And that works really, really well
that you have to talk through things.
:
1232
00:56:52,494 --> 00:56:58,395
And I always surrounded myself with the
team and my team was all different ages.
:
1233
00:56:58,555 --> 00:57:00,285
Different colors, different backgrounds.
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1234
00:57:00,675 --> 00:57:04,185
And I always took their insights
and then made my decision.
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1235
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Tony Tidbit: That is awesome.
:
1236
00:57:05,415 --> 00:57:07,445
And then the final S is stop.
:
1237
00:57:08,005 --> 00:57:11,655
You want to stop discrimination
as it walks in your path.
:
1238
00:57:11,995 --> 00:57:16,394
So if aunt Jenny or uncle Joe say
something at the Sunday dinner
:
1239
00:57:16,394 --> 00:57:18,364
table, that's inappropriate.
:
1240
00:57:18,405 --> 00:57:22,555
You say auntie Jenny, uncle
Joe, we don't believe that.
:
1241
00:57:22,575 --> 00:57:24,295
And you stop it right there.
:
1242
00:57:24,535 --> 00:57:26,945
So if everyone can incorporate less.
:
1243
00:57:27,175 --> 00:57:32,095
L E S S will build a more
fair, more understanding world.
:
1244
00:57:32,325 --> 00:57:32,945
And guess what?
:
1245
00:57:33,325 --> 00:57:36,935
We all will be able to see
the change that we want to see
:
1246
00:57:37,145 --> 00:57:39,244
because less will become more.
:
1247
00:57:39,775 --> 00:57:43,195
Don't forget to check out all episodes
on a black executive perspective
:
1248
00:57:43,234 --> 00:57:48,315
podcast on YouTube, Apple, Spotify,
or wherever you get your podcast.
:
1249
00:57:48,445 --> 00:57:51,865
And you can follow us on
our socials of LinkedIn X.
:
1250
00:57:52,015 --> 00:57:59,015
YouTube, Instagram, Facebook, TikTok at a
black exec for our fabulous guests, Carol
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1251
00:57:59,015 --> 00:58:02,325
president of the women's sport network.
:
1252
00:58:02,364 --> 00:58:03,795
We appreciate her being here.
:
1253
00:58:04,135 --> 00:58:05,275
I'm Tony tidbit.
:
1254
00:58:05,545 --> 00:58:06,685
We talked about it.
:
1255
00:58:06,854 --> 00:58:08,195
We learned about it.
:
1256
00:58:08,304 --> 00:58:09,794
We even laughed about it.
:
1257
00:58:10,074 --> 00:58:11,035
We love you.
:
1258
00:58:11,355 --> 00:58:12,065
And guess what?
:
1259
00:58:12,295 --> 00:58:14,524
We're out
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1260
00:58:16,905 --> 00:58:18,745
a black executive
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00:58:18,805 --> 00:58:19,485
Carol Stiff: perspective.