When it comes to student mental health, the need is huge, but the budget? Not so much. If you’ve ever looked around your school and thought, “How am I supposed to support these students with so little to work with?”, this episode is for you. I’m sharing five practical, low-cost (or completely free) ways to address mental health needs on your campus.
Whether you’re part of a fully staffed counseling department or flying solo, the truth is, you don’t have to do this alone. These strategies aren’t about adding more to your plate; they’re about giving you tools you can have in your back pocket, so you’re not starting from scratch in the middle of a crisis. Having these tools ready will help you feel more confident and grounded when it matters most!
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Mental Health Awareness Month is upon us. That is the
Lauren:month of May. And so I figured it would be a timely episode to
Lauren:talk about addressing mental health needs, and more
Lauren:specifically, I want to talk about some low budget ways to
Lauren:address mental health needs, because let's be real, you do
Lauren:not have a huge budget to overhaul an entire mental health
Lauren:program for your school, and I get that. I have some past
Lauren:episodes on mental health that I will link to in the show notes,
Lauren:but let's talk about some low budget ways to address mental
Lauren:health needs in this week's episode.
Lauren:You got into this profession to make a difference in your
Lauren:students' lives, but you're spread thin by all the things
Lauren:that keep getting added to your to do list. I can't create more
Lauren:hours in the day, but I can invite you into my counselor
Lauren:clique where you'll finally catch your breath. Come with me
Lauren:as we unpack creative ideas and effective strategies that'll
Lauren:help you be the counselor who leaves a lifelong impact on your
Lauren:students. I'm Lauren Tingle, your high school counseling hype
Lauren:girl, here to help you energize your school counseling program
Lauren:and remind you of how much you love your job.
Lauren:First, I want you to think about leaning on others in terms of
Lauren:how you collaborate with them and use their gifts and
Lauren:abilities, along with yours, to help students in their time of
Lauren:need. So who are some people you could be leaning on here? Your
Lauren:teachers, they don't really know what to look for right now with
Lauren:your students. Maybe they want to help. They feel overwhelmed
Lauren:by all of their classroom duties, so it's just like not on
Lauren:the forefront of their mind because they don't know what to
Lauren:do. They don't know how to help.
Lauren:However, your teachers know your students really well. So I think
Lauren:if you can help your teachers know what to look for, even just
Lauren:in terms of, hey, this is how you notice that a student is
Lauren:struggling with anxiety, depression, other mental health
Lauren:issues. You're not asking them to diagnose. You're not asking
Lauren:them to look at the student and say, Hey, I think you are
Lauren:depressed. You should go see a counselor. Do not identify any
Lauren:of those things if you do not have the education to do that.
Lauren:I want you to think about giving some sort of training or maybe
Lauren:just some quick tips to teachers for how to identify and how to
Lauren:give some basic support for students who may be struggling
Lauren:with mental health needs. And maybe that's solely walking them
Lauren:down to see a counselor, but I don't want you to forget about
Lauren:teachers being key players in identifying students and
Lauren:connecting them to the appropriate resources.
Lauren:Next, think about the people like the mental health counselor
Lauren:who may be in your building, the school psychologist who may come
Lauren:in for testing once a week, or the social worker who pops in
Lauren:every other week to meet with some students. These are people
Lauren:who are used to collaborating with others. They're used to
Lauren:identifying needs with students and then helping them connect to
Lauren:resources. They do what you do in a similar vein, and so I
Lauren:don't want you to forget about how valuable of a resource they
Lauren:can be.
Lauren:Now, some of these people are only in your school building
Lauren:every so often. They may not be there full time. They probably
Lauren:don't know every student in the school, or a big chunk of them
Lauren:like you do, but I want you to think about leaning on them for
Lauren:their expertise. Could they give a presentation to those teachers
Lauren:who need help identifying students? Could they be a
Lauren:resource in the community or connect you to community
Lauren:resources? Yeah, I think they could. So don't forget about
Lauren:them in terms of what they could offer you for resources that are
Lauren:just outside of the school building. But also if they would
Lauren:be interested in doing something in the school building if
Lauren:they're not completely overwhelmed by their own
Lauren:caseloads and their own responsibilities. Maybe they
Lauren:want more one on one time with students, and they want to do a
Lauren:small group with you, or they want to come with you into a
Lauren:classroom to do a lesson. You don't know until you ask. And so
Lauren:don't forget about these people and their valuable expertise
Lauren:with students' mental health needs, that's what they
Lauren:specialize in, too.
Lauren:And then this comes in terms of collaborating with others. I
Lauren:just want you to keep this in the back of your mind. It's
Lauren:important to set boundaries so that you don't burn out, because
Lauren:I do think that when you are constantly working with these
Lauren:students in crisis, yes, it's rewarding, because you really do
Lauren:make a huge difference. Sometimes it's a life or death
Lauren:difference, and you are so thankful that you were the right
Lauren:person at the right time to talk to this student and help solve a
Lauren:major crisis or avoid something even bigger happening. But a lot
Lauren:of that, as we know, could send you into a burnout mode. So I
Lauren:just want you to be aware of what your capacity is and be
Lauren:able to refer out if that is outside of your scope. Do not
Lauren:think that you have to be able to handle everything on your
Lauren:I know we talk a lot about living in the gray. There isn't
Lauren:own.
Lauren:really a roadmap for deciding when to refer out. You're going
Lauren:to need to consult with co-counselors, or someone at
Lauren:your district level, or someone from your internship program,
Lauren:like you need to have somebody that you can refer to and kind
Lauren:of toss ideas back and forth, but also just hold you
Lauren:accountable to not burning out. I know we don't get to choose
Lauren:our caseload, and so maybe it feels impossible to really set
Lauren:some strict boundaries on the students that you see. That's
Lauren:not possible in a school setting, but just being aware of
Lauren:what your personal and emotional boundaries might be, so that you
Lauren:know, hey, I either need to go get counseling right now. I need
Lauren:to take care of myself outside of the school day, or I need to
Lauren:be able to refer out when this is outside of my scope.
Lauren:Another big topic that I feel like comes up a lot is just
Lauren:being able to provide that mental health support when you
Lauren:do have limited access to other people. So I talked about who
Lauren:those other people might be and how you could collaborate with
Lauren:them. But what if you do not have them? What if you and your
Lauren:students have limited access to outside therapists and outside
Lauren:counselors? I think you never know until you ask. So if it is
Lauren:an idea that could be put on the table of bringing in a mental
Lauren:health counselor to your school full time or once or twice a
Lauren:week like that, would be huge to give that access to those mental
Lauren:health resources to students who can't go outside of the school
Lauren:building and get them, or they don't have parents to drive them
Lauren:there, or they don't have the means to pay for that.
Lauren:I know a lot of times when we get those mental health supports
Lauren:in the school, it is built on a sliding scale, and so it's
Lauren:really affordable and really accessible to students. So if
Lauren:you don't have that, I'd encourage you to make some waves
Lauren:and ask. You will never know if it's even possible in your
Lauren:school unless you ask.
Lauren:A lot of times, what you're doing as a school counselor is
Lauren:you're triaging. You are overwhelmed by the amount of
Lauren:crises that are walking in your door, and you're dropping
Lauren:everything to handle them. That is real life if you're finding
Lauren:yourself completely overwhelmed by the mental health supports
Lauren:that you need to create and put in place to care for all these
Lauren:students, I think that's worth visiting and thinking about your
Lauren:program in terms of, hey, it might be time to revamp
Lauren:something.
Lauren:Are all the crises that seem to be coming in, just walk ins that
Lauren:interrupt your day? Are they parent calls asking to go check
Lauren:on a student? Are you always putting out fires instead of
Lauren:getting ahead of things? If you feel like you're always reacting
Lauren:to really high need things, I think this is worth pausing to
Lauren:look at, maybe problem solving at a department meeting, or if
Lauren:it's just you kind of just starting to take note of what
Lauren:your triaging looks like.
Lauren:If it feels overwhelming, like it's interrupting your day, like
Lauren:the mental health needs of your students are out of control,
Lauren:we've got to change something. So whether that's doing some
Lauren:more education on the front end and giving students the coping
Lauren:skills that they need, or maybe that's just creating a system of
Lauren:supports of how you refer out. Maybe you need to create the
Lauren:roadmap that allows you some freedom to address mental health
Lauren:needs in a more standard way.
Lauren:I'm sure doctors have standards of care that they triage their
Lauren:patients with. I haven't looked into that, and that's not my
Lauren:background, but I'm just thinking there are systematic
Lauren:ways that maybe you could send a student down a certain path if
Lauren:they have these characteristics or these qualities, and these
Lauren:are the resources you have within your means in your school
Lauren:counseling program. And this is what you don't have, and this is
Lauren:where you need to send them. If that hasn't been built out
Lauren:already, maybe you need to pause and think about that if your
Lauren:days are becoming super overwhelming because of mental
Lauren:health needs.
Lauren:I know that there are seasons where it can feel more like
Lauren:that, or certain grade levels at certain times of the year, just
Lauren:thinking with senior stress at the end of the year, or freshmen
Lauren:transitioning into high school at the beginning of the year.
Lauren:There are moments and pockets where these mental health needs
Lauren:feel like they bubble up and kind of explode, and if you can
Lauren:kind of get ahead of that with some of the proactive training
Lauren:and educating and teaching the coping skills that students
Lauren:need, I think that you're gonna see a more manageable caseload
Lauren:as you're trying to address these things.
Lauren:A lot of what I'm thinking about as I'm talking about addressing
Lauren:mental health needs, is creating support systems and training
Lauren:other people, even though this might not be their level of
Lauren:expertise, but training them just to identify some key
Lauren:factors that can help you be more proactive. So creating peer
Lauren:support systems or training your administrators to notice warning
Lauren:signs.
Lauren:If you don't feel like you have the capacity or the margin to
Lauren:create a whole new presentation, don't forget about the people
Lauren:who probably have presentations prepared on stuff like this. Is
Lauren:there someone in your district who does crisis training for
Lauren:people at the district level, or people in schools? Is there some
Lauren:interventionist somewhere who has already done some of these
Lauren:presentations to parents? Is there a head of your crisis team
Lauren:in the district? I know when we would have a student death,
Lauren:there be a crisis team disseminated out to a school,
Lauren:and honestly, it was maybe a key counselor from each school that
Lauren:volunteered for a little bit and felt like they had the capacity
Lauren:when it wasn't at their school, to go visit the middle school
Lauren:and be the counselor who comes in and helps with some of that
Lauren:grieving. I don't know who that is in your district, or if that
Lauren:is even a thing, but if there's a person who's the point of
Lauren:that, they've probably been trained or they've probably
Lauren:trained other people on how to handle different crises.
Lauren:Do you have a friend who's left school counseling, who has gone
Lauren:into the field to get their LPC and now they work in private
Lauren:practice? Honestly, they probably miss talking about
Lauren:students, working with teachers, collaborating with a team. Bring
Lauren:them in and have them do a presentation about warning
Lauren:signs. If you have an intern, do not forget to use your intern.
Lauren:Have them help you put together a research based yet interactive
Lauren:presentation. Maybe they have the newest research on hand from
Lauren:the classes they've been sitting in, and then you can add in the
Lauren:real world examples, and y'all can do a presentation together
Lauren:that would educate people.
Lauren:Obviously, you're probably already, but it's worth
Lauren:mentioning, leaning on your community based mental health
Lauren:resources. Maybe that's Nami. Maybe you have a funeral home in
Lauren:your neighborhood, or a hospice organization that does a lot of
Lauren:educating around grief, because I feel like grief is a mental
Lauren:health need that comes up a lot. Get a list from your social
Lauren:workers of community resources that they are giving to families
Lauren:and parents and students.
Lauren:Have a list of those community resources on hand. I always like
Lauren:to have a paper copy in my drawer, like a stack of them, to
Lauren:hand out, whether that's a list that you've built out from your
Lauren:own expertise and your own assimilation of what's out
Lauren:there, or you have something from the United Way in your area
Lauren:that literally lists out mental health needs, but also
Lauren:everything from, you need food stamps, you need to contact WIC.
Lauren:What do you do if you need to refer for an abusive
Lauren:relationship? I mean, they have so many resources out there. And
Lauren:instead of having to reinvent the wheel every single time
Lauren:someone comes to you in a high need situation, and you are
Lauren:having to research the best resource to give them, have
Lauren:those on hand. And you know, I am a digital person, mostly
Lauren:everything lives in my Google Drive, but this is something
Lauren:that I would have paper copies of on hand at all times to hand
Lauren:to a family or parent or student who needs it.
Lauren:And then lastly, just have a few low budget, but high impact
Lauren:resources on hand as you run into students with very specific
Lauren:needs. Have some things ready to start a conversation with
Lauren:students, maybe some grief conversation starters, or I have
Lauren:a bunch of different like check in activities that can be used
Lauren:on Google Drive or on a phone or a tablet. Most students are
Lauren:gonna be able to pull that up really easily, and you can go
Lauren:through it with them and start a conversation and let them
Lauren:reflect. Whether that's on the stress that they're feeling, the
Lauren:mindfulness skills or coping skills that they need to have in
Lauren:practice, maybe it's just a mental health check in that
Lauren:you're sending to your entire caseload to see who needs a
Lauren:follow up conversation.
Lauren:And then I know I've talked about them before, but EverFi
Lauren:has a bunch of free resources, including a mental wellness kind
Lauren:of course online that's totally free that students can use.
Lauren:And so I just want to put those out there for some low budget or
Lauren:even free resources to have on hand, because you're not gonna
Lauren:be able to think straight when you're in the moment of crisis,
Lauren:just like your students can't. And if we can have some low
Lauren:budget ways to get ahead of the mental health needs that our
Lauren:students have, then we are going to feel so much more confident
Lauren:about serving this high need and very intense population.
Lauren:It doesn't go away. It's never going to go away. It's probably
Lauren:only going to rise, based on recent statistics and what we're
Lauren:seeing in terms of trends in school with our students. But
Lauren:you know what? It's where we get to make a huge impact as high
Lauren:school counselors with our students. Who are the students
Lauren:who come back to you and thank you after their time in high
Lauren:school? The ones that you had real serious and intense, often,
Lauren:conversations with about real issues in their lives. So don't
Lauren:discount the work that you can do when you are thinking about
Lauren:your students mental health needs. I know it can be
Lauren:exhausting, but with the right tools on hand and just having
Lauren:them at all times in your back pocket, you're going to be more
Lauren:prepared.
Lauren:And so maybe going into May's Mental Health Awareness Month,
Lauren:all you're doing is equipping yourself and refilling your
Lauren:toolkit with what you need to help students find success with
Lauren:their mental health. Thanks for listening. I'll see you next
Lauren:week.
Lauren:Thanks for listening to today's episode of High School
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