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Donna, welcome to Thyroid Strong podcast.
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I'm so excited to have you here.
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We worked together in a six
month capacity, and you had.
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Tremendous shifts and tremendous changes.
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And I wanted to share your story with
all the listeners because I think
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sometimes when we have Hashimoto's
and we're struggling with energy and
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brain fog and fatigue and weight,
we feel really alone in our journey.
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And we're like, our family doesn't get it.
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Our kids don't get it.
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And I just need someone
to know and to help me.
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And so I'm so excited to bring
you on 'cause you did have
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a tremendous transformation.
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I did.
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I did.
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Yeah.
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So when you first came to me,
um, can you paint us a picture
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of what you were struggling with?
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Because it was more than just.
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Hashimoto's autoimmune disease, right?
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There were some other
yes factors in there.
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Yeah, sure, sure.
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So in my, I'm currently 53, so in my
twenties I had my first bout of Lyme
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disease and then being on antibiotics
for so long, I ended up with a systemic
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yeast infection throughout my whole body.
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So as an antibiotics most of my life,
which gave me chronic fatigue issues.
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Mold sensitivity started to be a factor.
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All kinds of issues where if I
would leave my house, my ears
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would feel like they were swollen.
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I couldn't hear.
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I was tired all the time.
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In the midst of trying to homeschool
three kids and run a house and be
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a married mom and work per diem.
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So I had a lot on my plate
and it was very difficult.
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Like I couldn't really schedule too
much out, even like as far as two or
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three days because of the fatigue.
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And I had been to a lot of
different practitioners in the past.
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I went to a metabolic clinic.
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They worked me up with all kinds of
lab work and do this breathing test,
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do that treadmill test and whatnot.
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And they didn't really help me.
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Even lose anything.
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Nobody could really figure
out anything that was wrong.
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And so I actually had watched you
for about two years on Facebook.
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I had, I had joined a couple of your, you
know, little lectures and I don't know,
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for, for some reason I was like, oh, it
just sounds like it's too good to be true.
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I, I don't, I don't really
know if I could trust her.
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I don't know if she's gonna be any
different than, you know, anything
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else I've tried in the past.
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And then it finally got to the point where
I just went all in and I'm like, okay.
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I'm gonna watch one more of her
episodes and I'm just going to
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invest in me for the first time.
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And that's how I ended
up signing up with you.
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And you had many, many years of
taking care of everyone else.
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Yes.
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Like homeschool.
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Yeah.
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Working, teaching, right,
because you also teach, yeah.
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Yes.
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Correct.
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Correct.
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Yeah.
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Um, so I feel like I'm finally
just gonna make this about me.
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I love that.
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And I think that's hard
for a lot of women.
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I think it's, it's a challenge to
like, if we are programmed to do life
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a certain way and to put everyone first
and then to be like, okay, I'm first and
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now someone's holding me accountable.
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Yes, yes, yes.
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Um, can you share, and I know the goal,
one of the goals was to lose weight and to
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like, feel good and to go shopping in your
closet, but it was also to get your energy
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back and to get your mind really crisp.
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Right.
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Um, can you share.
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Um, do you remember what
your starting weight was?
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Yes, I was at 220 pounds.
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Woo.
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And so it was heavy.
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And do you remember what the
weight was when we finished?
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I was at 180 1.
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And so I think it's important because I.
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There are some programs or some
styles where it's like, okay, you
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gotta hit 10,000 steps and you
gotta get this many workouts and,
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and it can feel overwhelming.
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And I felt like for you, having
been to clinics, having mm-hmm.
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Seen other people, it was like, let's.
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Let's almost like ease into this, right?
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So it was like, and I forgot
to mention the concussion.
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Yes, yes.
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That was a big part of it.
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I, I received huge, I got, I got
a concussion in October of:
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So we had to really micromanage my plan.
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Because nothing could elevate my
heart, which would affect my brain.
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Any kind of pressure or
weightlifting would, would
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impact my concussion symptoms.
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So I totally forgot to mention that
'cause that felt like that was a big part
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of how we adapted what you did with me.
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And it was like if you push too hard,
you'd be like, oh my God, I need
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to like sleep the rest of the day.
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Yes.
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But I also wanna like
function for my family.
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And you were having like a little
bit of vertigo and so we kind
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of like microdosed things in.
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It wasn't push, push harder, do more.
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It was like, okay, how can we.
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Build this into your identity.
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It's like I'm someone who gets steps,
but I do it in a way that works for me.
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I'm someone who, for example, we didn't
build you like a hardcore weight program.
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We were like squats, air
squats, and wall pushups.
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Exactly.
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Every couple hours.
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Exactly.
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And I still have my timer set on my
phone to go off at nine eleven, one
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three, and five every single day.
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I love it.
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This way I would always keep
track of, okay, oh my gosh,
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it's already time to exercise.
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So this way I had self-accountability.
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So important.
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And even though we didn't put
you on a hardcore program mm-hmm.
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And we made the program work for you.
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You still lost a tremendous
amount of weight.
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I was really, really shocked and I
wouldn't say that it was easy, but I
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would definitely not say it was hard.
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Mm-hmm.
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It was, it was all about determination
and seriously just prioritizing myself.
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So another big part of what we did was,
you had me go to bed earlier, so there
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were times where my husband's a night
owl, I swear he has like a genetic.
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Issue where he only needs
four hours of sleep and he
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can be on for like three days.
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Whereas me, I'm like, uh,
one eye open, one eye closed.
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So the biggest part for me was getting to
bed by 10 o'clock like you had suggested,
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you know, and, and so, so that was a
little bit hard in the beginning, but then
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I started having more restorative sleep.
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And then it got to the point where my
husband started joining me on walks and
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I'd be like, oh, we're gonna still go.
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He is like, oh, we're still going.
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So I wound up doing very, very.
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Baby steps in the sense that I
only went maybe a block or two
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and then I went to, I, I built
up to about 45 minutes for walks.
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Tremendous.
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And you stayed with it?
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I did.
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I did.
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Until the snow hit New Jersey.
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You guys had the hardest winter ever,
like in the history of like last 20 years.
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It's been rough.
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And then it's interesting because
you did go to a metabolic clinic
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and you did get a lot of data.
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Yes.
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But it wasn't necessarily, maybe the
data didn't give you the plan to lose
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the weight or to help, but we were able
to like make a plan that fit for you.
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What was great about your plan that was
different than what I've done before is
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that you tailored my macronutrients to me.
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You have the online log for your
food, so you actually saw like,
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are you going higher or lower?
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Like are you meeting your goals?
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That was one big thing and with them, all
they would do is come up with meal plans.
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They didn't really explain like, how
many calories should I be eating?
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Like even the calculations you did, just
to determine like how sedentary I am, how
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active I am, what should I be consuming.
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The increase in water
was a big thing for me.
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I never really paid attention to that.
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So those were some really big
things and what I really valued
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about our time together is I feel
like you had a lot of insight.
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To look at tests and cross-reference
tests that other practitioners
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had never done before.
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So to remind you, I had a high
eosinophil count, and that's
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where you started thinking like,
Hey, I think you have a parasite.
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And nobody had ever seen that
number as being anything other than,
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okay, you have inflammation because
you've had Lyme disease before.
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You know you've had chronic
fatigue, you've had candida.
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You were the first person
even mentioned parasites.
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In as much that even my primary
doctor, they're like, nobody has
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parasites in, in, in, in America.
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And then lo and behold, I did do the
parasite test and we uncovered two.
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I know.
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Were you a little shocked?
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I was.
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And, and even when I went to get the
medication through my doctor, she's
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like, how the heck did you get these?
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I just felt like you really
knew how, how to compare and
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contrast the different tests.
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And you, you looked at me more like.
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A jigsaw puzzle that was assembled
versus, okay, here's a piece
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there, here's a piece here.
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But you were able to put them together.
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And I think the beauty of what you did
is you executed on the plan, right?
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So Yes.
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There wasn't any sort of, like,
sometimes people ruminate or they hem
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and haw and you were like, okay, nope.
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I'm gonna do the parasite test I trust.
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Um, and sure enough, parasites came back.
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You got meds and Yes.
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You know, when we talk about.
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Weight loss.
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And we talk about, um,
like maybe feeling puffy.
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There's the basics, right?
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So it's like steps workout.
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Mm-hmm.
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Calories and macros.
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But then there's also
this inflammatory weight.
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Yes.
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Right?
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And it's like you can't do either
or you kind, you have to do both.
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You have to look at both.
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And I think one of the beautiful
things you did was like, you're like,
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yep, I'm gonna do the basics and
I'm gonna also dive deeper with you.
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You know?
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And that was a big part because
it's, it's a financial commitment
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to do anything with any kind of
practitioner and to help other people.
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What I decided to do is you had
the opportunity where you can
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use different credit cards for 18
month deferred payment, you know,
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deferred interest and everything.
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So I decided to just lock in and
I'm figuring within 18 months I'm
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gonna be able to pay for everything.
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And when you would ask me to do certain
tests, some of them were a little pricey.
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I'll be honest.
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But I felt like if, if I'm gonna
invest in myself for six months, I
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need to do everything Emily said,
otherwise she's missing pieces and
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she can't help me, so why would I
even invest with you from day one?
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And that's where I, in the
beginning, I was a little hesitant.
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I'm like, why does she
want me to do this test?
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Oh my goodness, that
one's a little expensive.
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What do I do?
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But then I just kind of like dove in.
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I'm like, I'm gonna trust her a hundred
percent with everything she needs to
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help me, and I'll be paid off in 18
months and I'm 40 pounds lighter and I
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know what to do better going forward.
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And I remember you being like, oh my
God, these pants fit, da, da da, da.
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And I was like, that's right.
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Let's go.
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I empty my entire closet.
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Honest to goodness.
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I washed every single
day in my, in my closet.
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And here's, here's what I ended up doing.
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There were probably about four or
five bags of clothes I was able to
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donate, and I currently have two pile.
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One is my hopeful pile,
maybe by September.
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And my other one's like, wow, if I ever
fit in those, that's gonna be amazing.
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So I may not ever reach that goal
just because I've had three children.
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My rib cage is a little wider,
my hips are a little wider, but
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those are my like, okay, if I fit
into those, that's really golden.
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I love that.
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I love that.
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What a weight.
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Right.
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To like, give away bags of clothes
that you're like, those clothes
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don't fit, they're too big.
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And I'm not gonna go back there.
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It's really like a weight off your chest.
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Yeah, yeah, yeah.
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And especially just
being able to function.
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You know, I, I even said to my
youngest, my youngest is 21, and
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he was really appreciative because.
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He wants me around as
long as I can be here.
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He was really sweet and he said that.
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He goes, I'm glad you're
really taking care of yourself.
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And I don't wanna be a burden
to my children when I'm older.
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You know?
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I wanna be able to get in and out of
the cars and not have them pushing
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me around in wheelchairs or whatever.
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And just like day-to-day
function, like my knees would
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always hurt, my hips would hurt.
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And to be honest, this is awful to me.
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I was even struggling getting on
and off the toilet at times because
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my knees would hurt so much.
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Because of the extra weight?
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Because all my joints hurt.
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And for example, it wasn't
like we were like, all right,
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we're gonna go hit the gym.
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It was like, okay, squats.
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Well, pushups, let's make it work for you.
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Exactly, exactly.
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And because you had told me to do it
every two hours, it was very manageable.
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And literally, if I was in the store
and my alarm went off, I can go into
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the bathroom stall and literally do my,
my squats and my wall pushups in the
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bathroom stall, like I was committed.
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I love it.
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I love it.
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I also love how.
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You taking care of yourself
energetically radiated out to
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the people around you, right?
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So you were like, your husband
started going on walks with you.
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I think even, um, if I remember correctly,
like in the middle, like your son gave you
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a hug and he's like, mom, you're smaller.
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Yeah.
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He was able to get his arms
around my chest more tightly.
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Yeah.
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Yeah, I love that.
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It, it was probably about five inches
I lost from the circumference of
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my chest, so that's pretty sizable.
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Yeah.
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One of the things, um, that I know
you had mentioned before we started
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recording was like, when you join
the program, you're like, oh,
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okay, I get this many calls, right?
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Mm-hmm.
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And it's, it's kind of like
one every three weeks, and then
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there's like an initial and an
end and one for lab readings.
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Mm-hmm.
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And we jumped on more calls because.
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I feel like when I was really sick.
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I'm first diagnosed with Hashimoto's.
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I had questions and I felt like I had
to like put 'em in my iPhone notes
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and like save them up for my next
call or my next appointment, right?
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Versus in the program, I want
women to feel like they're held.
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I want them to feel like they're guided.
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If you have a question, you ask me
if we need to jump on a call to work
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through something, to check, workout
form, whatever it is, I want them.
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To have access and so mm-hmm.
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We jumped on calls like every other week.
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Um, we did.
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Yeah.
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And I'm just wondering, like, and we
texted through your program quite often.
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Yeah.
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00:13:22
We did a lot of chats and you
were very, very quick to respond.
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00:13:25
And I remember saying to you, oh
my gosh, I have to get a crown.
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00:13:27
And then you even gave me advice
on asking for the zirconia crowns
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because they were healthier, quote
unquote for people our issue.
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00:13:34
So I felt like you helped me
even beyond the scope of what
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we originally were trying to do.
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Yeah.
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Uh, you've worked with other
practitioners, so I'm just wondering.
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Going through an experience where
you're like, wow, I can actually
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like have a di open dialogue and
communication and drop a message
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and m responds that day, or, mm-hmm.
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Oh my God.
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I, I need an extra call.
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00:13:53
I have this question about this, um, even
though we reviewed this test, maybe I
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00:13:57
have more questions like, how does that
compare to maybe previous experiences
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00:14:02
in terms of how the process felt?
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00:14:04
So the process felt a little
bit smoother for sure.
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00:14:09
That's good.
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00:14:09
And I felt like you, you
were accountable to me.
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00:14:12
Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
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00:14:16
And you were never like,
disparaging and you were always very
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00:14:19
encouraging if I, I, I still can't
get my fat where you want them.
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00:14:24
And you, you, you never really are
like, okay, tomorrow's another day.
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00:14:27
What are we gonna do differently?
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00:14:28
So it was always like, looking
ahead, not being berated because
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you failed up to this point.
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00:14:33
It's like, okay, how are
we gonna improve for later?
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Yeah.
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Yeah.
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And I think it's so important to
meet the person where they're at.
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00:14:39
So there's definitely some
people where I'm like.
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00:14:42
More tough love and then more love,
love, just depending on the person's
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00:14:45
personality and nervous system
and nervous system regulation.
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00:14:49
Um, what would you say is like the
biggest takeaway or the biggest win
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00:14:54
from going through the program for you?
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00:14:57
I can't even just say
there's one number one.
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00:15:01
I would say is just learning what
macronutrients are because I deal with
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00:15:04
an integrative health practitioner who's
helped me with the mold toxicities and
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00:15:08
things like that, and, and I would ask her
like, what do I do about losing weight?
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00:15:11
And she's like, oh, you just
have to count your macros.
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00:15:14
And it was just like one sentence.
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00:15:15
I'm like, well, I don't
even know what macros are.
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00:15:17
How do I even do that?
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00:15:18
So that was definitely one.
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Number two, the idea of doing a little
bit throughout the day where that was
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00:15:25
something my husband had said years
ago, but I never had a practice.
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00:15:28
Way to I to implement that.
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00:15:30
So the idea of saying, okay, do
squats, you know, certain things
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00:15:33
I couldn't do because of my brain.
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00:15:35
So I felt like you were able to
adapt things well for me and for
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my limitations so I could succeed.
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00:15:42
Yeah.
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00:15:43
I love that.
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00:15:44
Anything else since you, since
you're like, there's more than one?
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00:15:49
I guess just lifestyle, right?
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00:15:50
Like, now I know what to do.
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:
00:15:51
For example, I, I shared with you before
we came on, I definitely did gain a couple
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00:15:55
pounds because I haven't been walking
because of the winters that we had.
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00:15:59
Now I'm not frustrated or scared.
405
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00:16:01
I'm gonna go back up to two 20.
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00:16:02
I'm like, alright, let's lock in.
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:
00:16:03
I just told you I just went
to ShopRite, so like $400.
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00:16:06
I'm like, I need to amp up my protein
and I need to start drinking just
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00:16:10
water because I've been so lax.
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00:16:12
Like I've had soda a little bit
and like sweets here and there.
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:
00:16:14
And for me, I just can't go back that
way because I'll just keep going.
412
:
00:16:18
Yeah, I think it's really important in
the process for women to be educated.
413
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00:16:24
So you're like, now I know
what a macronutrient is.
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00:16:27
Now I know exactly what
I need to do to lock in.
415
:
00:16:30
Yes.
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:
00:16:31
And I think it's important not just to
take someone on their healing journey,
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00:16:35
but to give them tools in their toolbox.
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:
00:16:37
So for example, if you travel to a hotel
and you're like, oh, it smells musty.
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:
00:16:43
Maybe it's moldy.
420
:
00:16:44
Like, you know what to take
with you, or you know, yes.
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:
00:16:48
Oh, I gained a little bit of weight
over the winter because it was
422
:
00:16:51
the worst winter ever in Jersey,
but I know what to do to lock in.
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:
00:16:54
It's like giddy up steps, water, you know?
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:
00:16:57
Yeah.
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:
00:16:57
Calories, macros.
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:
00:16:59
Um, and so I love, I love that
you remember that and have really
427
:
00:17:04
like, instilled it and embodied it.
428
:
00:17:06
That's what it is.
429
:
00:17:06
You internalize it.
430
:
00:17:07
Like in the beginning you're just like,
oh my gosh, what, what do I have to do?
431
:
00:17:10
What do I have to log?
432
:
00:17:12
And, and like I said, I
feel like I was ready.
433
:
00:17:15
To just dive in and
completely listen to you.
434
:
00:17:18
Mm.
435
:
00:17:19
And I wasn't ready to do that for
the two years I was following you.
436
:
00:17:22
You know, it, it's definitely an
investment in yourself, and if
437
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00:17:25
you're not ready to just go all in.
438
:
00:17:29
Then don't.
439
:
00:17:31
Mm.
440
:
00:17:31
Yeah.
441
:
00:17:32
Yeah.
442
:
00:17:32
I think that's important.
443
:
00:17:33
You know, it's like you've gotta
promise yourself you're gonna do it.
444
:
00:17:35
Yeah.
445
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00:17:36
100%.
446
:
00:17:37
For someone who is maybe like you mm-hmm.
447
:
00:17:41
Who is like, I'm listening to
m I'm two years in, I'm doing
448
:
00:17:45
all her little micro trainings.
449
:
00:17:46
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
450
:
00:17:47
Um, but maybe they're hesitant
to invest in themselves, like.
451
:
00:17:51
What little golden nugget would
you give them since you've
452
:
00:17:54
gotten to the other side?
453
:
00:17:56
Like I said, the whole credit
card issue was a huge thing for me
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00:18:00
because I can invest in myself and
not worry about finances right now.
455
:
00:18:07
Mm-hmm.
456
:
00:18:07
I was able to do the deferred payment.
457
:
00:18:09
I'm paying a monthly fee.
458
:
00:18:12
And for me that was great.
459
:
00:18:13
And it, it was a credit card that even
had perks, like, you get money back.
460
:
00:18:17
So I was like, this,
this, this is perfect.
461
:
00:18:19
Yeah.
462
:
00:18:20
So just for people who are
listening, there's a company
463
:
00:18:24
called Advanced Care Card.
464
:
00:18:26
Mm-hmm.
465
:
00:18:26
And you.
466
:
00:18:28
I think it's like you fill out and you
share your credit score and you can
467
:
00:18:32
get up to like 15 months, no interest
to use towards medical expenses.
468
:
00:18:36
So when we think about the nervous system
and we think about women with Hashimoto's,
469
:
00:18:41
like being a little more maybe
dysregulated 'cause life and they have
470
:
00:18:46
an autoimmune disease and they're like,
oh my god, what's going on with my body?
471
:
00:18:49
Mm-hmm.
472
:
00:18:50
We don't necessarily
want to layer on more.
473
:
00:18:54
That would create dysregulation.
474
:
00:18:55
Like I want women to move through
this process and be like, oh my
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:
00:18:58
God, this is exactly what I need.
476
:
00:18:59
This is so healing.
477
:
00:19:00
I'm grounded, I'm steady.
478
:
00:19:02
I can follow the plan.
479
:
00:19:03
And so this option that
we're talking about, yeah.
480
:
00:19:07
Gives you that.
481
:
00:19:07
Like you don't have to move through.
482
:
00:19:08
That was a deal breaker for me.
483
:
00:19:09
I mean, deal.
484
:
00:19:10
A deal changer.
485
:
00:19:11
Deal breaker.
486
:
00:19:11
How do I, yeah, but that, that's what made
me, that's what made me, I'm like, okay.
487
:
00:19:15
You know, I wasn't really sure how I was
gonna do it until that option came up
488
:
00:19:19
and then I filled out everything I got.
489
:
00:19:20
I ended up with a Discover card and I
was like, okay, this, this, this works.
490
:
00:19:24
And the other thing I would say,
you also encourage people to use
491
:
00:19:27
function health for their blood work.
492
:
00:19:29
Mm.
493
:
00:19:29
Yeah.
494
:
00:19:30
I, I, I was a little bit reluctant in the
beginning to do that because again, it
495
:
00:19:34
was an out-of-pocket cost because I'm in
New Jersey and they charge her lab fees.
496
:
00:19:38
In addition to the, the function health,
but I was really glad I did that.
497
:
00:19:42
Hmm.
498
:
00:19:42
'cause it uncovered so many things
that normal blood tests don't do.
499
:
00:19:47
Yeah.
500
:
00:19:47
It gives you your biologic age and
it, and I did find that it was very
501
:
00:19:51
comprehensive and I've even shared
that with my primary doctor because
502
:
00:19:54
I thought it was that advantageous.
503
:
00:19:56
Yeah.
504
:
00:19:56
So you don't.
505
:
00:19:58
Suggest things willy-nilly.
506
:
00:19:59
Like you have a purpose for when you,
when you order something or when you're
507
:
00:20:03
trying to guide somebody toward it.
508
:
00:20:05
And I never felt pressured with you.
509
:
00:20:07
Even when I didn't do the parasite test in
the beginning, I had to come full circle
510
:
00:20:11
and and say to myself, okay, why would
you not say yes to that if you've said
511
:
00:20:15
yes to everything else that Emily's done?
512
:
00:20:17
Like, she's missing a piece
and unless I do that, she can't
513
:
00:20:21
help me as much as she could.
514
:
00:20:23
Yeah, I think that's a great way.
515
:
00:20:25
I mean, that's, that's
how I think about it.
516
:
00:20:26
I'm like, I'm trying to help you.
517
:
00:20:27
I'm trying to do the best you can.
518
:
00:20:28
I know, I know.
519
:
00:20:29
Like I need all the pieces.
520
:
00:20:31
Yeah, exactly.
521
:
00:20:32
Um, part of the program not only is like
calories, macros, workouts using testing,
522
:
00:20:39
but then it's also using supplements.
523
:
00:20:42
Yes.
524
:
00:20:42
Um, how did you find that part to be?
525
:
00:20:44
Because some people are like.
526
:
00:20:46
Gimme 50 supplements, and then
some people are like, I'll do two.
527
:
00:20:50
So I have to tell you, when I first
was very sick with a candida mm-hmm.
528
:
00:20:54
I was probably swallowing
about 25 pills a day.
529
:
00:20:58
Mm-hmm.
530
:
00:20:59
And my gag reflex had gotten so
sensitized, like just my normal
531
:
00:21:02
everyday vitamin was 10 pills a day.
532
:
00:21:05
Wow.
533
:
00:21:06
What you recommended wasn't, wasn't
ridiculous, but if it was ridiculous,
534
:
00:21:11
I would've known I would've needed it.
535
:
00:21:12
So I would've just sucked it up, honestly.
536
:
00:21:14
But everything was easy.
537
:
00:21:16
Uh, you know, where you, where you,
where you order the, the supplements
538
:
00:21:19
from that was always very simple.
539
:
00:21:20
Yep.
540
:
00:21:21
There's a discount code that comes off.
541
:
00:21:22
I automatically, and I got them.
542
:
00:21:24
You know what a nice.
543
:
00:21:26
Maybe like a week, not even.
544
:
00:21:27
Yeah.
545
:
00:21:28
So that's super easy.
546
:
00:21:30
Um, I'm looking at them right now.
547
:
00:21:31
And then, oh, here's another thing
that I, that I think is great.
548
:
00:21:34
I ended up getting this, this little
container where it helps, you know,
549
:
00:21:37
like what do you take it in the morning?
550
:
00:21:39
What do you take it at night?
551
:
00:21:39
So the little pill organizers, so
that makes it even easier for people.
552
:
00:21:43
You can just focus one day a week
and just do your whole week's worth
553
:
00:21:46
of pills and then every day you
just open the little compartment
554
:
00:21:48
on when you're supposed to take it.
555
:
00:21:50
Yeah.
556
:
00:21:50
Yeah.
557
:
00:21:50
That's another way to make
it easy for busy moms.
558
:
00:21:53
Yeah.
559
:
00:21:53
I love that.
560
:
00:21:55
Yeah.
561
:
00:21:55
Life was busy before you joined, and
life sounds probably even busier now.
562
:
00:22:02
Do you feel like you can handle the
busyness or the stress or, you know,
563
:
00:22:07
life is lifeing in a different capacity
now having gone through the program?
564
:
00:22:14
I think I know when I'm
about to be triggered better.
565
:
00:22:18
And then I know to just,
okay, I'm gonna lie down.
566
:
00:22:22
And what I'm also doing, I told my
kids I'm going to prioritize myself.
567
:
00:22:26
Like tonight I'm going to the
library to play a game called Bunco.
568
:
00:22:30
And I wouldn't normally
do that in the past.
569
:
00:22:32
So now I said to my kids, okay,
I've, I've raised you guys.
570
:
00:22:36
I said to my husband, I've
taken care of you for 30 years.
571
:
00:22:38
I said, now, this year is about me.
572
:
00:22:41
And they're, they're a
little bit twitching.
573
:
00:22:42
I, I gotta be honest.
574
:
00:22:43
But then, but then I said to
my son earlier, I'm like, okay.
575
:
00:22:46
I go, you, you do have
dinner in, in the fridge.
576
:
00:22:48
I, I'm not gonna leave you like, you
know, penniless homeless food list.
577
:
00:22:52
And he's like, why, where are you going?
578
:
00:22:55
I'm like, I'm gonna the library.
579
:
00:22:56
And he's like, well, that's good mom.
580
:
00:22:58
So now they're kind of rallying behind me.
581
:
00:23:00
I love that.
582
:
00:23:01
I love that.
583
:
00:23:02
I also feel like just watching
you through the program.
584
:
00:23:06
You've like, you're, you've expanded
your capacity like you always
585
:
00:23:11
could hold a lot, but I feel like
through the process of putting
586
:
00:23:16
yourself first, nourishing yourself.
587
:
00:23:19
Yeah.
588
:
00:23:19
Doing hard things like, you
know, like taking parasite meds
589
:
00:23:22
is not like a walk in the park.
590
:
00:23:23
Like you kind of feel growth, like not
the great on them, just being consistent
591
:
00:23:27
with regular training and workouts.
592
:
00:23:30
Mm-hmm.
593
:
00:23:30
Like it expands your capacity so to hold.
594
:
00:23:34
More challenges that life brings
and, and my body's stronger
595
:
00:23:38
too, so that's a big part of it.
596
:
00:23:39
You know, like your body's hardier.
597
:
00:23:41
Yeah.
598
:
00:23:42
I'm assuming it doesn't hurt to get
off the toilet now in your knees.
599
:
00:23:44
Hopefully.
600
:
00:23:45
No, no.
601
:
00:23:46
Praise God.
602
:
00:23:46
No, it's good.
603
:
00:23:47
Yeah, it's good.
604
:
00:23:48
Yeah.
605
:
00:23:49
Is there anything that we haven't talked
about that you really wanna share or
606
:
00:23:54
that you wanna leave the listener with?
607
:
00:23:57
Well, it, it's, I, I've
said it a couple times.
608
:
00:24:00
It's like, now is the time.
609
:
00:24:01
Like if you've watched Emily
and you've looked at Emily, you
610
:
00:24:04
know that you need something.
611
:
00:24:07
Mm.
612
:
00:24:07
And Emily's the right person for you
because she'll help you where you're at
613
:
00:24:12
and she'll get you to a different place.
614
:
00:24:15
It may not be where you wanna
be in your mind, but it's
615
:
00:24:17
gonna be different and better.
616
:
00:24:20
And just to trust her.
617
:
00:24:24
I love that.
618
:
00:24:25
I know.
619
:
00:24:25
I really feel like.
620
:
00:24:27
My, my being on earth is like,
I think if the women and the
621
:
00:24:32
moms of the world feel better.
622
:
00:24:35
Yeah.
623
:
00:24:35
That radiates out to your kids, to your,
to your family, your to community, and
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00:24:39
like the whole world is just better
when the moms of the world feel better.
625
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00:24:43
Oh, for sure.
626
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00:24:44
For sure.
627
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00:24:44
Yeah.
628
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00:24:44
That whole happy wife, happy life
thing is also happy mom, happy life.
629
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00:24:49
Yeah, totally.
630
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00:24:49
Totally.
631
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00:24:50
There's like a reason why
that, uh, saying exists.
632
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00:24:52
Yes.
633
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00:24:53
Donna, thank you so much for
sharing your journey and just
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00:24:56
being like sharing it all Right.
635
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00:24:58
Like being vulnerable, being like, I had
a concussion and this and this and this.
636
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00:25:01
Yeah.
637
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00:25:01
Yeah.
638
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00:25:01
Um, I think it really.
639
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00:25:03
Inspires a lot of women who have felt
stuck or haven't felt heard or feel
640
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00:25:07
really alone To hear your story and
be like, oh my God, I'm not so alone.
641
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00:25:11
There's other women who have experienced
this and there is like, there's hope.
642
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00:25:17
There's hope.
643
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00:25:17
Getting to the other side of it, for sure.
644
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00:25:19
Yeah, so thank you so much.
645
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00:25:20
It was so welcome.
646
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00:25:21
Wonderful to have you on.
647
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00:25:22
It was, and I recommend Youi
when I run into people in like
648
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00:25:25
doctor's offices and stuff.
649
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00:25:27
I write your name down for people
honestly, because you know,
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00:25:31
we have to help each other.
651
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00:25:33
100%.
652
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00:25:34
That's so sweet.
653
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00:25:35
I love that.
654
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00:25:35
I love that so much.
655
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00:25:37
My heart just exploded.
656
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00:25:39
Um, Donna, thank you.
657
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00:25:40
You're welcome.
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00:25:42
Thanks for having me.