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It is such a
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pleasure to be
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here with Madison
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from University
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of Connecticut.
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One thing about
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Madison is she
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personally
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inspires me with
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how much she is
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able to manage
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and how much she
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is able to take
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on and make it
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look so
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beautifully
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effortless.
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Madison, thank
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you for
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being here.
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so much for
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having me, you
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are too kind.
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I wanna jump
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right in, but
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before we do
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that, what is
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your Campus
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Chronicles story?
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I have a lot.
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really fun
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experiences.
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experiences, but
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most, I'm very
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much a
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perfectionist.
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go my way, I
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take it well.
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sophomore year of
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college where I
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since I was in
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the leadership
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team in my
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learning
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community at
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college.
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panel event that
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marketing
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materials for it.
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it up as much as
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possible, get the
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attendance.
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really upsetting
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for me since I
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professionals in
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space, different
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aspects of the
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that I had met
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subsection leadership group
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in the BCLC.
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learned a lot.
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network with the
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panelists that I
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for them.
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looking for, you
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you use defeated
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such a visceral,
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description word.
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going to all that
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when you're maybe
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say that you
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might be a little
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bit of an
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overachiever and
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many incredible
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students who do
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that and it
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suspected.
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the failure
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experience.
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in that moment
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going through
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vulnerable that
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about you?
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to just tell
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myself that I did
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could have done,
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any person that I
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to that I thought
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might bring more
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attendance to
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happened to not
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work out, but
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that following
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semester, we did
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leadership group
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in our learning
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community and it
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went much better.
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attendance.
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that I was super
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proud of.
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that if you did
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everything you
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did enough.
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shortcoming or a
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personal failure
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of yours.
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something that I
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with my
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whole life.
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I struggled with
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it really, really
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bad though in
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university
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go wrong, maybe
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not get the right
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grade or
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something
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extracurricular
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work out, I would
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feel like
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it was me.
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something
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fundamentally
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wrong with me
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versus realizing
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that it was
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circumstantial.
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hard to not take
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it personally.
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no student who
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heard about the
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event and didn't
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go was thinking,
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oh, she's the one
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hosting, I'm not
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gonna go to that.
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definitely hard
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to separate
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yourself from the
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experience, but--
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a lot of work
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while you're
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still in
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university and
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you're building
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communication and
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interpersonal
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skills.
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as you go to
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school, you
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incredible GPA,
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you take good
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care of yourself.
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do it all?
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like to know, how
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do you so
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beautifully and
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effortlessly
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manage all that
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Madison is?
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firsthand, it is
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not always
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beautiful.
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that's good.
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getting real.
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days where it's
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really hard for
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everything at once.
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UGC work and
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social media
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management kind
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of going into
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marketing space,
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since that's what
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my degree
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program is in.
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get started when
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you are someone
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that has been an
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overachiever,
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like you
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mentioned, I have
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always been the,
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I can do
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everything by
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myself kind
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of person.
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an island.
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it's very
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important to go
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into something
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like that,
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knowing you
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cannot do this by
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yourself.
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a good support
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system, really
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good friends.
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support
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system for me.
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super, super
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involved in
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everything that I
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do and they help
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lend their voices
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for me to
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make videos.
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have that group
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of people that
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you can lean on
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and just vent,
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just talk about
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it if you're
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getting
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overwhelmed, if
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you feel like
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maybe I should
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take a step back
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from this
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project, having
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another person to
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kind of be a
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sounding board
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for you and give
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you their input,
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they're the ones
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that are with you
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every day.
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They're the
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people seeing
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what you're doing
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and they know the
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toll that it's
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taking on you.
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So I think it's
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really important
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to maintain a
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really, really
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strong
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support system.
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And poker, they
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call it a tell.
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And you just
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talked about when
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you feel that
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you're getting
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overwhelmed.
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What is one of
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your, I'm getting
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overstimulated,
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I'm getting
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stressed
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out tells.
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Is it physical,
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is it mental?
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How do you start
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to know that
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something is off?
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And from that
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space, what do
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you do to get
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yourself in a
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better place?
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Yeah, so I have
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dealt with
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anxiety since I
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was about 14 is
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when I kind of
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recognized it
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because I was
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getting really
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stressed over a
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homework
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assignment and I
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threw my binder
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across the room.
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And it occurred
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to me, that's
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probably
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not normal.
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That's probably
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not a healthy
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reaction.
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So over the
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years, my
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strategy to
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calming myself
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down and
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recognizing when
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I am getting
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stressed out has
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changed.
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College has been
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very eyeopening
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for that because
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I'm able to see
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it sooner.
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When I start to
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feel really
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tired, when I
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start to feel
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just worn down
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and disinterested
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in what I'm
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doing, I'm able
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to clock that a
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little sooner.
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Good, that's a
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big part of
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the battle.
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Yeah, yes it is.
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But I'm able to
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see it coming
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from
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further away.
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So I know to
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communicate with
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my bosses, my
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people that I'm
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working with,
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people that are
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expecting a
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deliverable from
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me within a
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certain amount of
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time, hey, I'm
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having a day, I
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really need to at
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least take this
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morning time to
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take a step back,
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watch some TV,
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drink some
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orange juice.
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I love an orange
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juice in the
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morning.
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And just take
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that time for
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yourself to be a
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little bit more
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grounded and just
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live in the
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moment rather
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than trying to
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catch up on all
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the million
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things that you're
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trying to do.
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Have you always
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been self-aware
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or has it
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developed?
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It's definitely
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developed.
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And in early high
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school, it would
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kind of turn into
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panic attacks.
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And I would be
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actually one
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really good
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example.
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I was in my human
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anatomy class in
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high school and I
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was sitting there
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and just all of a
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sudden this huge
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wave of anxiety
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and sadness and
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frustration came
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over me.
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And I just put my
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hands around my
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eyes and I
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had a moment.
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I just was crying
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and trying to be
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quiet so people
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wouldn't look at
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me because that
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makes it so
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much worse.
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But just kind of
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having an
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emotional moment
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and I realized
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that
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shouldn't happen.
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Like I should be
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able to try to
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get ahead of that
629
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and understand
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that I'm doing
631
:
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too much.
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I need to take a
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step back and try
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to kind of cut it
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off before I get
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to the point
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where it just all
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has to come out
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and I can't hold
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it in anymore.
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Have you
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struggled with
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people pleasing
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tendencies?
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Because I know
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anxiety and
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people pleasing
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tend to go hand
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in hand and that
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you're putting
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other people and
652
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I'm the same way,
653
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you put other
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people's needs
655
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ahead of your own
656
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until you break
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and you crumble.
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I feel like I
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have people
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pleasing
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tendencies
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exclusively with
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my jobs.
664
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Like I want to
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make my
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clients happy.
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I want to make
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the people that
669
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are paying me
670
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very happy
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because I want
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them to keep
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paying me.
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And it's really
675
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difficult to have
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those kinds of
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conversations for
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me because I
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don't want to
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disappoint
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anyone.
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I don't want
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anyone to feel
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like, oh, she's
685
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unreliable, she
686
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can't do it.
687
:
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So it was really
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hard for me in
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professional
690
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settings to kind
691
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of talk about
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when I am getting
693
:
00:10:42
overwhelmed and I
694
:
00:10:43
need to take a
695
:
00:10:44
step back.
696
:
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Well, that's when
697
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we jump into
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:
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proving too.
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We're trying to
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prove, prove,
701
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prove that we're
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capable, that
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:
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we're great, that
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we're
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smart enough.
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:
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And I know for
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:
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me, I started
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working in a
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:
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professional
710
:
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capacity much
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younger than the
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:
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vast
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:
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majority of people.
714
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And because I was
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:
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doing that, I was
716
:
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always trying to
717
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00:11:01
prove that I
718
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belonged.
719
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00:11:03
And I was trying
720
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to prove that I
721
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00:11:05
was able to
722
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handle it without
723
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issues, without
724
:
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consequence.
725
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00:11:08
And that left me
726
:
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feeling very
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:
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severed from who
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I was because I
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took on this role
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of business
731
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person and
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talent, the
733
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things that I was
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doing way
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:
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too early.
736
:
00:11:19
Have you
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struggled with
738
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that identity
739
:
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crisis a little
740
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bit and being
741
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both a student
742
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and a
743
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business owner?
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Yeah, a hundred
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percent.
746
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I wake up some
747
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days and I'm
748
:
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like, what
749
:
00:11:30
am I doing?
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I'm 21, I don't
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00:11:31
know anything
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:
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about anything.
753
:
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I'm working with
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00:11:34
these people that
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:
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have been doing
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:
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this for
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:
00:11:35
10 years.
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:
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I'm working with
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00:11:37
these people that
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have much bigger
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followings than I
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:
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do, way more
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views than I get.
764
:
00:11:42
And it's just
765
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really hard to
766
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navigate that.
767
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00:11:46
But I think my
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best advice in
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that kind of
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space is just do
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it anyway,
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because you will
773
:
00:11:54
never know what
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you can achieve
775
:
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unless you just
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try it and
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you go for it.
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I started my UGC
779
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career really at
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the beginning of
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this year and I
782
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was taking very
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well-paying jobs,
784
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very, I took
785
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00:12:06
several unpaid
786
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00:12:07
internships
787
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00:12:08
during my
788
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college career.
789
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00:12:09
I've taken a lot
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of kind of the
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lower levels of
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the jobs in the
793
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social media and
794
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digital
795
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marketing space.
796
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00:12:17
And the thing
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that I've learned
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00:12:20
from that is that
799
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those kinds of
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jobs are
801
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important.
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00:12:23
I do think that
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00:12:24
internships
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00:12:24
should be paid,
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:
00:12:25
but that's
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another
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conversation.
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I believe the
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same thing.
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That is
811
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another time.
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But it's
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important when
814
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you are doing
815
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00:12:34
those kinds of
816
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things to know
817
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that you are
818
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00:12:36
still learning.
819
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Even though
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you're doing a
821
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job and you're
822
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00:12:39
not kind of
823
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seeing the
824
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realization of it
825
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or you're not
826
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getting a lot of
827
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views, you're not
828
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00:12:45
getting a lot of
829
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00:12:46
return on what
830
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you're putting
831
:
00:12:48
out, you're still
832
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learning what
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00:12:50
might not work.
834
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00:12:52
You're learning
835
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00:12:52
how can I adjust
836
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00:12:53
this to see an
837
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00:12:54
increase?
838
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00:12:55
How can I adjust
839
:
00:12:55
this to see more
840
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00:12:57
of what a client
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00:12:58
is looking for,
842
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00:12:59
even just what
843
:
00:12:59
I'm looking for?
844
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00:13:00
Because this is
845
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00:13:01
what I want to do
846
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00:13:02
for a living
847
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00:13:02
because I
848
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00:13:03
love it.
849
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00:13:04
I want to add
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00:13:05
too, in 2023, I
851
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00:13:07
did a TEDx talk.
852
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00:13:08
And in the talk,
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00:13:09
I discussed a
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little bit of
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00:13:10
what Madison is
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00:13:11
talking about in
857
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that, even if
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00:13:13
you're young,
859
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00:13:13
you're learning,
860
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you're imperfect,
861
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00:13:15
you still deserve
862
:
00:13:16
a seat at the
863
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00:13:17
table and to have
864
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00:13:18
your ideas
865
:
00:13:18
recognized.
866
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00:13:20
I feel like I see
867
:
00:13:20
that so much with
868
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00:13:21
these incredibly
869
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brilliant,
870
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genius,
871
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entrepreneurial,
872
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00:13:25
intelligent young
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people who don't
874
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00:13:27
always get the
875
:
00:13:28
seat at the table
876
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or the respect
877
:
00:13:29
that they deserve
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:
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off the jump, you
879
:
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might say.
880
:
00:13:34
And that's hard
881
:
00:13:35
as well as you're
882
:
00:13:36
fighting against
883
:
00:13:36
so many
884
:
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stereotypes of
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:
00:13:38
what it means to
886
:
00:13:39
be from your
887
:
00:13:40
generation.
888
:
00:13:42
Yeah, I mean,
889
:
00:13:43
even in the
890
:
00:13:43
social media
891
:
00:13:44
space, my
892
:
00:13:44
boyfriend will go
893
:
00:13:45
to work and he
894
:
00:13:46
tells people,
895
:
00:13:47
"Yeah, my
896
:
00:13:47
girlfriend works
897
:
00:13:48
in social media."
898
:
00:13:49
And I'm like,
899
:
00:13:50
"Oh, well, why
900
:
00:13:50
didn't you say
901
:
00:13:51
I'm a content
902
:
00:13:51
creator?"
903
:
00:13:52
Like, I feel like
904
:
00:13:52
that term just
905
:
00:13:54
fits what I
906
:
00:13:54
do better.
907
:
00:13:55
And he's like,
908
:
00:13:56
"Babe, people are
909
:
00:13:57
gonna think that
910
:
00:13:57
you're doing
911
:
00:13:58
content that is
912
:
00:13:59
not what
913
:
00:13:59
you're doing."
914
:
00:14:00
And I'm like,
915
:
00:14:01
"Oh, that is a
916
:
00:14:03
real generational
917
:
00:14:04
difference.
918
:
00:14:04
You tell someone
919
:
00:14:05
that's in their
920
:
00:14:06
20s, yeah, my
921
:
00:14:06
girlfriend's a
922
:
00:14:07
content creator.
923
:
00:14:08
It sounds a lot
924
:
00:14:09
more promiscuous
925
:
00:14:11
than it might end
926
:
00:14:12
up being."
927
:
00:14:13
Yeah, and there's
928
:
00:14:14
so much to fight
929
:
00:14:15
against in terms
930
:
00:14:16
of, there's so
931
:
00:14:17
many negative
932
:
00:14:18
stereotypes too
933
:
00:14:19
about content,
934
:
00:14:20
social media, the
935
:
00:14:21
internet.
936
:
00:14:22
Why do you love
937
:
00:14:23
social
938
:
00:14:23
media so much?
939
:
00:14:26
That was
940
:
00:14:27
definitely a
941
:
00:14:27
progression too.
942
:
00:14:28
I never was a big
943
:
00:14:29
social media
944
:
00:14:29
person when I was
945
:
00:14:30
in high school.
946
:
00:14:31
I wouldn't say
947
:
00:14:32
I'm a private
948
:
00:14:33
person, but I
949
:
00:14:34
just wasn't like
950
:
00:14:35
a post every
951
:
00:14:35
second of my life
952
:
00:14:36
on the internet.
953
:
00:14:37
I'm a very
954
:
00:14:38
private person,
955
:
00:14:39
so you're gonna
956
:
00:14:39
teach me
957
:
00:14:40
something here.
958
:
00:14:42
Yeah, when I was
959
:
00:14:44
with my friends,
960
:
00:14:44
I wasn't taking a
961
:
00:14:45
million pictures
962
:
00:14:46
and posting them
963
:
00:14:46
on Instagram.
964
:
00:14:47
I was enjoying
965
:
00:14:47
their company.
966
:
00:14:49
And I was talking
967
:
00:14:50
and we were doing
968
:
00:14:50
funny things and
969
:
00:14:51
making brownies
970
:
00:14:52
at two in the
971
:
00:14:53
morning and just
972
:
00:14:53
doing kid things.
973
:
00:14:55
All to my
974
:
00:14:56
girlhood.
975
:
00:14:57
Yes, yes.
976
:
00:14:58
I was a
977
:
00:14:59
cheerleader in
978
:
00:14:59
high school too.
979
:
00:15:00
So me and my
980
:
00:15:00
friends would
981
:
00:15:01
rehearse our
982
:
00:15:02
dances that we
983
:
00:15:03
had to do at
984
:
00:15:03
games while we
985
:
00:15:04
were cooking in
986
:
00:15:05
the kitchen or
987
:
00:15:06
making movies or
988
:
00:15:07
whatever we
989
:
00:15:08
were doing.
990
:
00:15:09
I think that
991
:
00:15:13
following summer
992
:
00:15:15
after I graduated
993
:
00:15:16
from high school,
994
:
00:15:17
or no, sorry, the
995
:
00:15:18
summer before I
996
:
00:15:19
went into my
997
:
00:15:19
sophomore year of
998
:
00:15:20
college, I took
999
:
00:15:21
an internship
:
1000
00:15:22,208 --> 00:15:23,375
with a company
:
1001
00:15:23,375 --> 00:15:24,041
called Victory
:
1002
00:15:24,250 --> 00:15:24,875
that I thought I
:
1003
00:15:24,875 --> 00:15:25,333
was gonna be
:
1004
00:15:25,333 --> 00:15:25,833
doing brand
:
1005
00:15:25,833 --> 00:15:26,250
management.
:
1006
00:15:26,833 --> 00:15:27,333
And I thought it
:
1007
00:15:27,333 --> 00:15:27,833
was gonna be a
:
1008
00:15:27,833 --> 00:15:28,875
lot more of the
:
1009
00:15:28,875 --> 00:15:29,791
kind of bigger
:
1010
00:15:29,791 --> 00:15:30,916
brand strategy.
:
1011
00:15:31,333 --> 00:15:32,000
And I ended up
:
1012
00:15:32,000 --> 00:15:32,875
doing a lot of
:
1013
00:15:32,875 --> 00:15:33,125
social
:
1014
00:15:33,125 --> 00:15:33,791
media work.
:
1015
00:15:34,291 --> 00:15:34,791
And at the
:
1016
00:15:34,791 --> 00:15:35,541
beginning, I'm
:
1017
00:15:35,541 --> 00:15:36,000
thinking to
:
1018
00:15:36,000 --> 00:15:36,625
myself, okay,
:
1019
00:15:36,625 --> 00:15:37,083
whatever, it's
:
1020
00:15:37,083 --> 00:15:38,000
one summer I'll
:
1021
00:15:38,000 --> 00:15:39,333
live, even though
:
1022
00:15:39,333 --> 00:15:39,916
this isn't really
:
1023
00:15:39,916 --> 00:15:40,833
what I wanna do.
:
1024
00:15:40,833 --> 00:15:41,416
Like this is my
:
1025
00:15:41,416 --> 00:15:42,500
way into this
:
1026
00:15:42,500 --> 00:15:43,708
kind of industry.
:
1027
00:15:44,416 --> 00:15:45,208
But by the end of
:
1028
00:15:45,208 --> 00:15:46,041
the summer, after
:
1029
00:15:46,041 --> 00:15:47,000
all the video
:
1030
00:15:47,000 --> 00:15:47,708
editing and the
:
1031
00:15:47,708 --> 00:15:48,875
Canva design
:
1032
00:15:48,875 --> 00:15:49,958
making and
:
1033
00:15:49,958 --> 00:15:51,125
scheduling and
:
1034
00:15:51,125 --> 00:15:51,833
all these kinds
:
1035
00:15:51,833 --> 00:15:53,166
of social media
:
1036
00:15:53,166 --> 00:15:55,000
things that are
:
1037
00:15:55,000 --> 00:15:55,541
kind of happening
:
1038
00:15:55,541 --> 00:15:56,291
in the background
:
1039
00:15:56,958 --> 00:15:57,916
I was exposed to,
:
1040
00:15:58,250 --> 00:15:59,583
I just fell in
:
1041
00:15:59,583 --> 00:16:00,166
love with it.
:
1042
00:16:00,166 --> 00:16:01,125
And I got super,
:
1043
00:16:01,125 --> 00:16:02,166
super into it.
:
1044
00:16:02,375 --> 00:16:03,291
I did an
:
1045
00:16:03,291 --> 00:16:03,958
internship that
:
1046
00:16:03,958 --> 00:16:05,041
following fall,
:
1047
00:16:05,541 --> 00:16:06,291
where I got to go
:
1048
00:16:06,291 --> 00:16:06,708
to New York
:
1049
00:16:06,708 --> 00:16:07,416
Fashion Week and
:
1050
00:16:07,416 --> 00:16:08,208
get content.
:
1051
00:16:08,208 --> 00:16:08,958
I was helping a
:
1052
00:16:08,958 --> 00:16:09,458
lot with the
:
1053
00:16:09,458 --> 00:16:10,041
social media
:
1054
00:16:10,041 --> 00:16:11,125
production there.
:
1055
00:16:11,875 --> 00:16:13,000
And I just got
:
1056
00:16:13,000 --> 00:16:13,875
super, super
:
1057
00:16:13,875 --> 00:16:14,708
obsessed with it.
:
1058
00:16:15,916 --> 00:16:16,416
If you could
:
1059
00:16:16,416 --> 00:16:17,750
dispel one myth
:
1060
00:16:17,750 --> 00:16:18,875
about social
:
1061
00:16:18,875 --> 00:16:19,833
media, what
:
1062
00:16:19,833 --> 00:16:20,250
would it be?
:
1063
00:16:20,916 --> 00:16:21,125
None of
:
1064
00:16:21,125 --> 00:16:21,500
it is real.
:
1065
00:16:23,375 --> 00:16:24,333
Absolutely none
:
1066
00:16:24,333 --> 00:16:24,916
of it is real.
:
1067
00:16:25,416 --> 00:16:26,083
Even the videos
:
1068
00:16:26,083 --> 00:16:27,208
that people are
:
1069
00:16:27,208 --> 00:16:27,625
seeing and
:
1070
00:16:27,625 --> 00:16:28,125
they're like, oh
:
1071
00:16:28,125 --> 00:16:28,791
my God, like I
:
1072
00:16:28,791 --> 00:16:29,208
can't believe
:
1073
00:16:29,208 --> 00:16:29,833
this happened.
:
1074
00:16:30,375 --> 00:16:30,833
It's not real.
:
1075
00:16:33,083 --> 00:16:34,000
I love that.
:
1076
00:16:34,000 --> 00:16:34,458
And I love how
:
1077
00:16:34,458 --> 00:16:35,125
honest you are
:
1078
00:16:35,125 --> 00:16:35,750
with your answer.
:
1079
00:16:36,833 --> 00:16:38,083
Yeah, working in
:
1080
00:16:38,083 --> 00:16:39,166
social media and
:
1081
00:16:39,166 --> 00:16:40,041
doing brand
:
1082
00:16:40,041 --> 00:16:41,000
promotion and
:
1083
00:16:41,000 --> 00:16:42,125
these kinds of
:
1084
00:16:42,125 --> 00:16:43,291
things, you learn
:
1085
00:16:43,291 --> 00:16:44,125
a lot about
:
1086
00:16:44,333 --> 00:16:44,875
what's actually
:
1087
00:16:44,875 --> 00:16:45,791
going into the
:
1088
00:16:45,791 --> 00:16:46,208
content.
:
1089
00:16:46,875 --> 00:16:47,708
And I've talked
:
1090
00:16:47,708 --> 00:16:48,333
to a ton of
:
1091
00:16:48,333 --> 00:16:48,916
different content
:
1092
00:16:48,916 --> 00:16:49,958
creators from all
:
1093
00:16:49,958 --> 00:16:51,791
different kind of
:
1094
00:16:51,791 --> 00:16:52,500
worlds within
:
1095
00:16:52,500 --> 00:16:53,166
social media.
:
1096
00:16:53,166 --> 00:16:53,500
Like I have
:
1097
00:16:53,500 --> 00:16:54,083
friends who are
:
1098
00:16:54,083 --> 00:16:54,500
fashion and
:
1099
00:16:54,500 --> 00:16:55,166
beauty creators.
:
1100
00:16:55,166 --> 00:16:55,541
I have friends
:
1101
00:16:55,541 --> 00:16:56,666
who are video
:
1102
00:16:56,666 --> 00:16:57,250
game creators.
:
1103
00:16:57,250 --> 00:16:57,750
I have friends
:
1104
00:16:57,750 --> 00:16:58,208
who are like
:
1105
00:16:58,208 --> 00:16:58,750
study app
:
1106
00:16:58,750 --> 00:16:59,208
creators.
:
1107
00:16:59,958 --> 00:17:01,958
And we all are
:
1108
00:17:01,958 --> 00:17:03,583
united under the
:
1109
00:17:03,583 --> 00:17:05,875
umbrella of we're
:
1110
00:17:05,875 --> 00:17:06,541
doing a job.
:
1111
00:17:07,000 --> 00:17:07,625
Even the people
:
1112
00:17:07,625 --> 00:17:08,500
who are posting
:
1113
00:17:08,500 --> 00:17:09,291
on social media
:
1114
00:17:09,416 --> 00:17:10,416
just for fun,
:
1115
00:17:10,750 --> 00:17:11,416
they're also
:
1116
00:17:11,416 --> 00:17:12,166
doing their job.
:
1117
00:17:12,833 --> 00:17:13,416
So they're giving
:
1118
00:17:13,416 --> 00:17:14,333
you what they
:
1119
00:17:14,333 --> 00:17:14,958
think that you're
:
1120
00:17:14,958 --> 00:17:15,666
gonna wanna see,
:
1121
00:17:16,000 --> 00:17:16,708
not necessarily
:
1122
00:17:16,708 --> 00:17:17,375
what's actually
:
1123
00:17:17,375 --> 00:17:17,833
happening.
:
1124
00:17:18,791 --> 00:17:19,291
They're doing
:
1125
00:17:19,291 --> 00:17:20,250
brand management,
:
1126
00:17:20,250 --> 00:17:20,833
whether or not
:
1127
00:17:20,833 --> 00:17:21,541
they realize that
:
1128
00:17:21,541 --> 00:17:22,333
they are managing
:
1129
00:17:22,333 --> 00:17:23,166
their own brand.
:
1130
00:17:23,625 --> 00:17:24,000
And there's a
:
1131
00:17:24,000 --> 00:17:24,750
time for that and
:
1132
00:17:24,750 --> 00:17:25,625
a place for that.
:
1133
00:17:25,916 --> 00:17:26,500
And then a time
:
1134
00:17:26,500 --> 00:17:27,125
and a place where
:
1135
00:17:27,125 --> 00:17:27,750
reality has
:
1136
00:17:27,750 --> 00:17:28,333
become very
:
1137
00:17:28,333 --> 00:17:28,791
distorted.
:
1138
00:17:30,833 --> 00:17:31,083
Completely
:
1139
00:17:31,083 --> 00:17:31,291
agreed.
:
1140
00:17:33,083 --> 00:17:33,416
Being in
:
1141
00:17:33,416 --> 00:17:33,958
university,
:
1142
00:17:34,458 --> 00:17:35,416
balancing all of
:
1143
00:17:35,416 --> 00:17:36,500
this, what would
:
1144
00:17:36,500 --> 00:17:37,708
you say is your
:
1145
00:17:37,708 --> 00:17:38,416
number one
:
1146
00:17:38,416 --> 00:17:39,500
self-care hack?
:
1147
00:17:43,666 --> 00:17:44,625
Or a busy soul?
:
1148
00:17:47,916 --> 00:17:48,666
My favorite thing
:
1149
00:17:48,666 --> 00:17:49,416
to do to
:
1150
00:17:49,416 --> 00:17:50,458
decompress always
:
1151
00:17:50,708 --> 00:17:51,458
is just sitting
:
1152
00:17:51,458 --> 00:17:52,458
on the couch with
:
1153
00:17:52,458 --> 00:17:53,666
my boyfriend or
:
1154
00:17:53,666 --> 00:17:54,458
I'll have my best
:
1155
00:17:54,458 --> 00:17:55,041
friend over
:
1156
00:17:55,041 --> 00:17:56,125
throwing on a
:
1157
00:17:56,125 --> 00:17:57,083
sitcom, eating
:
1158
00:17:57,083 --> 00:17:58,541
pizza or tacos or
:
1159
00:17:58,541 --> 00:17:59,208
some kind of
:
1160
00:17:59,208 --> 00:18:00,500
comfort food and
:
1161
00:18:00,500 --> 00:18:01,916
just like not
:
1162
00:18:01,916 --> 00:18:02,416
thinking about
:
1163
00:18:02,416 --> 00:18:02,833
anything.
:
1164
00:18:03,500 --> 00:18:04,500
The tacos was so
:
1165
00:18:04,500 --> 00:18:05,083
after my
:
1166
00:18:05,083 --> 00:18:05,750
own heart.
:
1167
00:18:06,458 --> 00:18:07,250
Going to the
:
1168
00:18:07,250 --> 00:18:09,500
nothing box, take
:
1169
00:18:09,500 --> 00:18:10,416
a travel there.
:
1170
00:18:10,416 --> 00:18:11,291
It's beautiful there.
:
1171
00:18:11,875 --> 00:18:12,500
I love it.
:
1172
00:18:12,500 --> 00:18:13,041
It's my favorite
:
1173
00:18:13,041 --> 00:18:13,500
place in
:
1174
00:18:13,500 --> 00:18:13,833
the world.
:
1175
00:18:15,166 --> 00:18:15,958
As you start to
:
1176
00:18:15,958 --> 00:18:17,125
progress in your
:
1177
00:18:17,125 --> 00:18:18,250
university career
:
1178
00:18:18,791 --> 00:18:19,333
and what you're
:
1179
00:18:19,333 --> 00:18:20,500
doing, looking
:
1180
00:18:20,500 --> 00:18:22,333
ahead to maybe
:
1181
00:18:22,333 --> 00:18:22,875
the upcoming
:
1182
00:18:22,875 --> 00:18:23,750
months, years,
:
1183
00:18:24,958 --> 00:18:25,583
what are you
:
1184
00:18:25,583 --> 00:18:26,291
going to do to
:
1185
00:18:26,291 --> 00:18:26,916
continue to be
:
1186
00:18:26,916 --> 00:18:27,500
able to balance
:
1187
00:18:27,500 --> 00:18:28,416
all of this and
:
1188
00:18:28,416 --> 00:18:29,083
take excellent
:
1189
00:18:29,083 --> 00:18:29,750
care of yourself?
:
1190
00:18:32,958 --> 00:18:33,541
I think it's
:
1191
00:18:33,541 --> 00:18:35,833
always a process.
:
1192
00:18:35,833 --> 00:18:36,166
I think it's
:
1193
00:18:36,166 --> 00:18:37,125
always a process
:
1194
00:18:37,125 --> 00:18:37,583
that you kind of
:
1195
00:18:37,583 --> 00:18:38,125
have to teach
:
1196
00:18:38,125 --> 00:18:38,875
yourself what
:
1197
00:18:38,875 --> 00:18:39,583
works for you.
:
1198
00:18:40,208 --> 00:18:41,000
I'm not the kind
:
1199
00:18:41,000 --> 00:18:42,416
of girl that my
:
1200
00:18:42,416 --> 00:18:43,291
self-care is.
:
1201
00:18:43,291 --> 00:18:43,750
I'm going to do a
:
1202
00:18:43,750 --> 00:18:44,583
face mask and I'm
:
1203
00:18:44,583 --> 00:18:44,875
going to do a
:
1204
00:18:44,875 --> 00:18:45,708
hair mask and I'm
:
1205
00:18:45,708 --> 00:18:46,583
going to go get
:
1206
00:18:46,583 --> 00:18:47,333
my nails done and
:
1207
00:18:47,333 --> 00:18:48,041
do all of these
:
1208
00:18:48,041 --> 00:18:48,333
things
:
1209
00:18:48,333 --> 00:18:49,000
just for me.
:
1210
00:18:49,708 --> 00:18:50,625
I like working.
:
1211
00:18:50,958 --> 00:18:52,125
I enjoy the
:
1212
00:18:52,125 --> 00:18:52,708
feeling of
:
1213
00:18:52,708 --> 00:18:53,583
being busy.
:
1214
00:18:53,583 --> 00:18:54,000
I enjoy the
:
1215
00:18:54,000 --> 00:18:55,500
feeling of, okay,
:
1216
00:18:55,500 --> 00:18:56,208
I have this many
:
1217
00:18:56,208 --> 00:18:56,833
things to do.
:
1218
00:18:56,833 --> 00:18:57,250
I have this much
:
1219
00:18:57,250 --> 00:18:57,916
time to do it.
:
1220
00:18:57,916 --> 00:18:58,166
Let's just
:
1221
00:18:58,166 --> 00:18:58,708
get it done.
:
1222
00:18:59,208 --> 00:18:59,750
And I think that
:
1223
00:18:59,750 --> 00:19:00,500
that's really the
:
1224
00:19:00,500 --> 00:19:01,125
condition that I
:
1225
00:19:01,125 --> 00:19:01,958
work the best in
:
1226
00:19:01,958 --> 00:19:02,541
despite the
:
1227
00:19:02,541 --> 00:19:03,000
anxiety
:
1228
00:19:03,000 --> 00:19:03,583
that I have.
:
1229
00:19:04,625 --> 00:19:05,583
And I think that
:
1230
00:19:05,583 --> 00:19:07,541
the best thing
:
1231
00:19:07,541 --> 00:19:08,541
that I can do for
:
1232
00:19:08,541 --> 00:19:09,250
myself and the
:
1233
00:19:09,250 --> 00:19:09,625
thing that I've
:
1234
00:19:09,625 --> 00:19:10,166
learned the most
:
1235
00:19:10,166 --> 00:19:11,166
about myself is
:
1236
00:19:11,166 --> 00:19:12,041
that it's okay
:
1237
00:19:12,041 --> 00:19:12,791
for not
:
1238
00:19:12,791 --> 00:19:13,666
everything to get
:
1239
00:19:13,666 --> 00:19:14,750
done that day.
:
1240
00:19:15,375 --> 00:19:15,500
And that's
:
1241
00:19:15,500 --> 00:19:15,958
something that
:
1242
00:19:15,958 --> 00:19:16,625
I've been trying
:
1243
00:19:16,625 --> 00:19:18,791
to engrain a
:
1244
00:19:18,791 --> 00:19:19,291
little bit more
:
1245
00:19:19,291 --> 00:19:20,166
into my own head
:
1246
00:19:20,916 --> 00:19:22,000
because I always
:
1247
00:19:22,000 --> 00:19:22,541
want everything
:
1248
00:19:22,541 --> 00:19:23,458
to be perfect.
:
1249
00:19:23,458 --> 00:19:24,125
I check over
:
1250
00:19:24,125 --> 00:19:24,708
every single
:
1251
00:19:24,708 --> 00:19:25,791
graphic I make 13
:
1252
00:19:25,791 --> 00:19:26,416
times to make
:
1253
00:19:26,416 --> 00:19:26,833
sure everything
:
1254
00:19:26,833 --> 00:19:27,500
is spaced
:
1255
00:19:27,500 --> 00:19:28,000
appropriately.
:
1256
00:19:28,541 --> 00:19:29,666
I edit my videos
:
1257
00:19:29,666 --> 00:19:30,666
for an hour a
:
1258
00:19:30,666 --> 00:19:31,291
piece because I
:
1259
00:19:31,291 --> 00:19:31,791
want to make sure
:
1260
00:19:31,791 --> 00:19:32,708
that every single
:
1261
00:19:32,708 --> 00:19:33,333
second is
:
1262
00:19:33,333 --> 00:19:35,375
perfect, but it
:
1263
00:19:35,375 --> 00:19:36,208
can't all get
:
1264
00:19:36,208 --> 00:19:37,458
done in one day
:
1265
00:19:37,541 --> 00:19:38,208
if it's going to
:
1266
00:19:38,208 --> 00:19:38,666
be perfect.
:
1267
00:19:40,125 --> 00:19:41,416
No, and there's a
:
1268
00:19:41,416 --> 00:19:42,208
reason you're not
:
1269
00:19:42,208 --> 00:19:42,958
a heart surgeon
:
1270
00:19:43,125 --> 00:19:43,791
or a brain
:
1271
00:19:43,791 --> 00:19:44,208
surgeon.
:
1272
00:19:44,541 --> 00:19:45,166
If you need to
:
1273
00:19:45,166 --> 00:19:46,333
pass a task on to
:
1274
00:19:46,333 --> 00:19:47,000
the next day,
:
1275
00:19:47,333 --> 00:19:47,750
nobody is
:
1276
00:19:47,750 --> 00:19:48,333
gonna die.
:
1277
00:19:48,958 --> 00:19:49,666
And that is a
:
1278
00:19:49,666 --> 00:19:50,250
very refreshing
:
1279
00:19:50,250 --> 00:19:50,750
feeling.
:
1280
00:19:52,500 --> 00:19:53,208
So I'm gonna ask
:
1281
00:19:53,208 --> 00:19:53,916
you my signature
:
1282
00:19:53,916 --> 00:19:54,416
question.
:
1283
00:19:54,666 --> 00:19:55,458
It's a hard one.
:
1284
00:19:56,291 --> 00:19:57,083
If you were gonna
:
1285
00:19:57,083 --> 00:19:58,416
give three pieces
:
1286
00:19:58,416 --> 00:19:59,708
of advice to
:
1287
00:19:59,708 --> 00:20:00,583
university-age
:
1288
00:20:00,583 --> 00:20:01,250
students, the
:
1289
00:20:01,250 --> 00:20:02,041
pieces of advice
:
1290
00:20:02,041 --> 00:20:02,791
can be about
:
1291
00:20:02,791 --> 00:20:03,291
anything.
:
1292
00:20:04,083 --> 00:20:04,541
What would those
:
1293
00:20:04,541 --> 00:20:05,166
three pieces of
:
1294
00:20:05,166 --> 00:20:05,708
advice be?
:
1295
00:20:08,416 --> 00:20:08,625
That is
:
1296
00:20:08,625 --> 00:20:09,208
definitely a hard
:
1297
00:20:09,208 --> 00:20:09,708
one, three.
:
1298
00:20:10,416 --> 00:20:11,041
I know.
:
1299
00:20:11,291 --> 00:20:11,750
Well, we want to
:
1300
00:20:11,750 --> 00:20:12,583
get all of those
:
1301
00:20:12,583 --> 00:20:13,958
beautiful nuggets
:
1302
00:20:14,166 --> 00:20:14,541
of wisdom
:
1303
00:20:14,541 --> 00:20:15,208
out of you.
:
1304
00:20:16,583 --> 00:20:16,791
Yeah.
:
1305
00:20:21,541 --> 00:20:22,000
Actually, I have
:
1306
00:20:22,000 --> 00:20:22,375
a good way that I
:
1307
00:20:22,375 --> 00:20:22,541
can break
:
1308
00:20:22,541 --> 00:20:22,916
this down.
:
1309
00:20:23,125 --> 00:20:23,875
Since I am a
:
1310
00:20:23,875 --> 00:20:24,500
junior, I've been
:
1311
00:20:24,500 --> 00:20:25,041
in college for
:
1312
00:20:25,041 --> 00:20:26,125
three years, I'll
:
1313
00:20:26,125 --> 00:20:26,958
pull a piece of
:
1314
00:20:26,958 --> 00:20:27,458
advice I wish
:
1315
00:20:27,458 --> 00:20:28,125
someone told me
:
1316
00:20:28,125 --> 00:20:28,500
going into
:
1317
00:20:28,500 --> 00:20:28,916
each year.
:
1318
00:20:29,750 --> 00:20:30,500
So my
:
1319
00:20:30,500 --> 00:20:31,500
freshman year,
:
1320
00:20:32,833 --> 00:20:33,791
I would say the
:
1321
00:20:33,791 --> 00:20:34,083
best piece
:
1322
00:20:34,083 --> 00:20:34,625
of advice,
:
1323
00:20:36,083 --> 00:20:36,458
you are
:
1324
00:20:36,458 --> 00:20:37,125
not behind.
:
1325
00:20:38,125 --> 00:20:39,208
Because I was
:
1326
00:20:39,208 --> 00:20:39,708
convincing
:
1327
00:20:39,708 --> 00:20:40,541
myself, oh my
:
1328
00:20:40,541 --> 00:20:41,083
God, I don't have
:
1329
00:20:41,083 --> 00:20:41,875
any internships.
:
1330
00:20:41,875 --> 00:20:42,416
Oh my God, I
:
1331
00:20:42,416 --> 00:20:43,875
don't have any of
:
1332
00:20:43,875 --> 00:20:44,583
these things that
:
1333
00:20:44,583 --> 00:20:45,125
some of my
:
1334
00:20:45,125 --> 00:20:46,166
friends who were
:
1335
00:20:46,166 --> 00:20:46,750
older for
:
1336
00:20:46,750 --> 00:20:47,333
the record,
:
1337
00:20:48,625 --> 00:20:49,291
had by this point
:
1338
00:20:49,291 --> 00:20:49,875
in their
:
1339
00:20:49,875 --> 00:20:50,791
college career.
:
1340
00:20:50,791 --> 00:20:51,916
I'm not doing the
:
1341
00:20:51,916 --> 00:20:52,250
same as
:
1342
00:20:52,250 --> 00:20:52,791
everyone else.
:
1343
00:20:52,791 --> 00:20:53,041
I'm not
:
1344
00:20:53,041 --> 00:20:53,625
doing enough.
:
1345
00:20:54,833 --> 00:20:56,500
You are, you're a
:
1346
00:20:56,500 --> 00:20:56,833
freshman.
:
1347
00:20:57,041 --> 00:20:57,500
You're supposed
:
1348
00:20:57,500 --> 00:20:58,375
to be getting
:
1349
00:20:58,375 --> 00:20:59,000
adjusted.
:
1350
00:20:59,000 --> 00:20:59,541
You don't have to
:
1351
00:20:59,541 --> 00:21:00,375
join every single
:
1352
00:21:00,375 --> 00:21:01,208
club that you
:
1353
00:21:01,208 --> 00:21:01,833
walk by at the
:
1354
00:21:01,833 --> 00:21:02,458
Involvement Fair.
:
1355
00:21:03,000 --> 00:21:03,916
You don't have to
:
1356
00:21:03,916 --> 00:21:04,583
have an
:
1357
00:21:04,583 --> 00:21:05,375
internship by the
:
1358
00:21:05,375 --> 00:21:05,875
end of your first
:
1359
00:21:05,875 --> 00:21:06,750
semester of
:
1360
00:21:06,750 --> 00:21:07,125
college.
:
1361
00:21:07,958 --> 00:21:08,708
You are doing
:
1362
00:21:08,708 --> 00:21:10,375
enough and
:
1363
00:21:10,375 --> 00:21:11,250
that's okay.
:
1364
00:21:13,333 --> 00:21:14,125
For my
:
1365
00:21:14,125 --> 00:21:15,083
sophomore year,
:
1366
00:21:16,583 --> 00:21:17,375
was really when I
:
1367
00:21:17,375 --> 00:21:18,041
started to
:
1368
00:21:18,041 --> 00:21:18,958
do too much.
:
1369
00:21:19,750 --> 00:21:20,916
So I think that
:
1370
00:21:20,916 --> 00:21:21,791
my best piece of
:
1371
00:21:21,791 --> 00:21:22,500
advice for
:
1372
00:21:22,500 --> 00:21:23,666
sophomores is,
:
1373
00:21:25,291 --> 00:21:26,458
it's okay to let
:
1374
00:21:26,458 --> 00:21:27,291
something go.
:
1375
00:21:27,833 --> 00:21:29,083
It's okay to take
:
1376
00:21:29,083 --> 00:21:30,000
a step back from
:
1377
00:21:30,000 --> 00:21:31,041
a job that maybe
:
1378
00:21:31,041 --> 00:21:32,708
isn't treating
:
1379
00:21:32,708 --> 00:21:33,500
you very well.
:
1380
00:21:33,875 --> 00:21:34,625
And you think
:
1381
00:21:34,625 --> 00:21:35,208
that you just
:
1382
00:21:35,208 --> 00:21:35,958
have to take it
:
1383
00:21:35,958 --> 00:21:36,500
and suck it up
:
1384
00:21:36,500 --> 00:21:37,291
because you're in
:
1385
00:21:37,291 --> 00:21:37,666
an entry
:
1386
00:21:37,666 --> 00:21:38,750
level space.
:
1387
00:21:39,541 --> 00:21:40,208
You don't.
:
1388
00:21:40,916 --> 00:21:41,666
There are plenty
:
1389
00:21:41,666 --> 00:21:42,125
of jobs
:
1390
00:21:42,125 --> 00:21:42,500
out there.
:
1391
00:21:42,500 --> 00:21:42,791
There are plenty
:
1392
00:21:42,791 --> 00:21:43,416
of people out
:
1393
00:21:43,416 --> 00:21:44,083
there looking to
:
1394
00:21:44,083 --> 00:21:45,416
hire for certain
:
1395
00:21:45,416 --> 00:21:47,375
things or it goes
:
1396
00:21:47,375 --> 00:21:48,291
for clubs too.
:
1397
00:21:48,291 --> 00:21:48,708
If you're in a
:
1398
00:21:48,708 --> 00:21:49,250
club and you
:
1399
00:21:49,250 --> 00:21:50,125
really, really do
:
1400
00:21:50,125 --> 00:21:50,666
not like the
:
1401
00:21:50,666 --> 00:21:51,666
person that is
:
1402
00:21:51,666 --> 00:21:52,333
running the club,
:
1403
00:21:52,666 --> 00:21:53,250
start your own.
:
1404
00:21:53,625 --> 00:21:54,333
Start your own,
:
1405
00:21:54,333 --> 00:21:55,250
make friends in
:
1406
00:21:55,250 --> 00:21:56,500
other spaces, go
:
1407
00:21:56,500 --> 00:21:57,083
to club meetings
:
1408
00:21:57,083 --> 00:21:57,583
with them.
:
1409
00:21:58,333 --> 00:21:59,375
Find the space
:
1410
00:21:59,375 --> 00:22:00,166
where you feel
:
1411
00:22:00,166 --> 00:22:00,833
happy and
:
1412
00:22:00,833 --> 00:22:01,125
comfortable
:
1413
00:22:01,125 --> 00:22:01,916
because you don't
:
1414
00:22:01,916 --> 00:22:02,750
have to deal with
:
1415
00:22:02,750 --> 00:22:03,250
anything you
:
1416
00:22:03,250 --> 00:22:04,500
don't want to.
:
1417
00:22:06,333 --> 00:22:07,875
And then for this
:
1418
00:22:07,875 --> 00:22:08,916
year, we're only
:
1419
00:22:08,916 --> 00:22:09,458
halfway through
:
1420
00:22:09,458 --> 00:22:09,833
the year.
:
1421
00:22:10,000 --> 00:22:10,666
So I really only
:
1422
00:22:10,666 --> 00:22:11,750
have half of a
:
1423
00:22:11,750 --> 00:22:13,583
full year
:
1424
00:22:13,583 --> 00:22:14,666
to go off of.
:
1425
00:22:15,208 --> 00:22:16,583
But I think the
:
1426
00:22:16,583 --> 00:22:17,833
thing that I'm
:
1427
00:22:17,833 --> 00:22:18,666
trying to tell
:
1428
00:22:18,666 --> 00:22:19,541
myself the most
:
1429
00:22:19,541 --> 00:22:20,750
for this year,
:
1430
00:22:22,041 --> 00:22:23,125
it's okay to not
:
1431
00:22:23,125 --> 00:22:23,666
know what's
:
1432
00:22:23,666 --> 00:22:24,375
coming next.
:
1433
00:22:24,875 --> 00:22:25,583
I have always
:
1434
00:22:25,583 --> 00:22:26,000
been a big
:
1435
00:22:26,000 --> 00:22:26,333
planner.
:
1436
00:22:26,708 --> 00:22:27,916
I love to make
:
1437
00:22:27,916 --> 00:22:28,458
sure that I know
:
1438
00:22:28,458 --> 00:22:29,000
what's going to
:
1439
00:22:29,000 --> 00:22:29,708
come next.
:
1440
00:22:29,708 --> 00:22:30,916
I love watching
:
1441
00:22:30,916 --> 00:22:31,500
the same movies
:
1442
00:22:31,500 --> 00:22:32,000
over and over
:
1443
00:22:32,000 --> 00:22:32,625
again because I
:
1444
00:22:32,625 --> 00:22:33,000
know what's gonna
:
1445
00:22:33,000 --> 00:22:33,625
come next.
:
1446
00:22:34,500 --> 00:22:35,041
And I think it's
:
1447
00:22:35,041 --> 00:22:36,083
important to know
:
1448
00:22:36,625 --> 00:22:37,250
that when you get
:
1449
00:22:37,250 --> 00:22:38,458
to this level and
:
1450
00:22:38,458 --> 00:22:38,875
your family
:
1451
00:22:38,875 --> 00:22:39,916
starts asking
:
1452
00:22:39,916 --> 00:22:40,666
you, so when are
:
1453
00:22:40,666 --> 00:22:41,250
you guys gonna
:
1454
00:22:41,250 --> 00:22:41,916
get engaged?
:
1455
00:22:42,291 --> 00:22:43,208
So where do you
:
1456
00:22:43,208 --> 00:22:43,458
think you
:
1457
00:22:43,458 --> 00:22:44,083
wanna move?
:
1458
00:22:44,083 --> 00:22:44,333
What do
:
1459
00:22:44,333 --> 00:22:45,041
you wanna do?
:
1460
00:22:45,041 --> 00:22:45,333
Where do you
:
1461
00:22:45,333 --> 00:22:45,791
wanna go?
:
1462
00:22:46,958 --> 00:22:47,875
You don't have to
:
1463
00:22:47,875 --> 00:22:48,500
have answers.
:
1464
00:22:49,125 --> 00:22:49,625
It's not
:
1465
00:22:49,625 --> 00:22:51,958
something that
:
1466
00:22:51,958 --> 00:22:52,958
you have to know
:
1467
00:22:52,958 --> 00:22:53,750
and have planned
:
1468
00:22:53,750 --> 00:22:54,708
out at this point
:
1469
00:22:54,708 --> 00:22:55,250
in your life.
:
1470
00:22:55,750 --> 00:22:56,416
You still have a
:
1471
00:22:56,416 --> 00:22:57,208
full another year
:
1472
00:22:57,208 --> 00:22:58,333
of college.
:
1473
00:22:58,333 --> 00:22:59,000
You still have
:
1474
00:22:59,000 --> 00:23:00,000
time even after
:
1475
00:23:00,000 --> 00:23:00,500
college.
:
1476
00:23:01,291 --> 00:23:03,250
If you have to go
:
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back home with
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your family for a
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little bit of
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time in between
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college and grad
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school or college
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and full-time job
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or any of those
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kinds of things,
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it's okay.
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You don't have to
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have every single
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second of your
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life planned out.
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I love all of
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those
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pieces of advice.
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And I wanna
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00:23:17,541 --> 00:23:18,250
piggyback on
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something you
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00:23:18,708 --> 00:23:19,166
said on
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number two.
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I think our
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society is so
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obsessed with
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addition, adding
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stuff, adding
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friends, adding
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00:23:25,875 --> 00:23:27,166
obligations, but
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we never actually
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are obsessed with
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subtraction.
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00:23:30,708 --> 00:23:31,458
And that can feel
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so good to take a
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00:23:33,541 --> 00:23:34,041
weight off of
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00:23:34,041 --> 00:23:34,625
yourself, even
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00:23:34,625 --> 00:23:35,166
letting go of a
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00:23:35,166 --> 00:23:36,000
toxic friendship
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00:23:36,000 --> 00:23:37,333
or letting go of
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00:23:37,333 --> 00:23:38,666
a club or
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00:23:38,666 --> 00:23:39,375
anything that's
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not right
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00:23:39,708 --> 00:23:40,208
for you.
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There's such a
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relief that comes
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00:23:42,333 --> 00:23:42,958
from that.
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Thank you for
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1524
00:23:43,916 --> 00:23:44,500
talking about
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1525
00:23:44,500 --> 00:23:45,000
subtraction
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00:23:45,000 --> 00:23:45,500
because we don't
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00:23:45,500 --> 00:23:46,041
talk about it
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enough,
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00:23:46,458 --> 00:23:47,791
especially in
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university, it's
:
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00:23:48,500 --> 00:23:49,583
always add this,
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1532
00:23:50,125 --> 00:23:50,583
add to your
:
1533
00:23:50,583 --> 00:23:51,791
resume, add to
:
1534
00:23:51,791 --> 00:23:52,750
your CV so that
:
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00:23:52,750 --> 00:23:53,291
you can be
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00:23:53,291 --> 00:23:54,583
successful and
:
1537
00:23:54,583 --> 00:23:55,375
never what can
:
1538
00:23:55,375 --> 00:23:56,500
you take away so
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1539
00:23:56,500 --> 00:23:56,750
that you
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00:23:56,750 --> 00:23:57,375
can be sane.
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00:23:58,291 --> 00:23:59,250
Yes, absolutely.
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I think that
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1543
00:24:00,041 --> 00:24:01,166
making sure that
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00:24:01,166 --> 00:24:02,041
you are okay
:
1545
00:24:02,041 --> 00:24:02,958
first is the most
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00:24:02,958 --> 00:24:03,750
important thing.
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Because if you're
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1548
00:24:04,583 --> 00:24:06,708
not okay in your
:
1549
00:24:06,708 --> 00:24:07,333
heart and your
:
1550
00:24:07,333 --> 00:24:07,875
soul and your
:
1551
00:24:07,875 --> 00:24:09,333
mind, what you're
:
1552
00:24:09,333 --> 00:24:10,416
doing also isn't
:
1553
00:24:10,416 --> 00:24:11,000
gonna be okay.
:
1554
00:24:11,625 --> 00:24:12,166
So it's very
:
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00:24:12,166 --> 00:24:12,875
important to make
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1556
00:24:12,875 --> 00:24:13,416
sure that what
:
1557
00:24:13,416 --> 00:24:14,208
you're doing you
:
1558
00:24:14,208 --> 00:24:14,875
actually are
:
1559
00:24:14,875 --> 00:24:15,708
obsessed with and
:
1560
00:24:15,708 --> 00:24:16,000
you do
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1561
00:24:16,000 --> 00:24:17,000
actually love.
:
1562
00:24:17,583 --> 00:24:18,125
Otherwise you're
:
1563
00:24:18,125 --> 00:24:18,791
just gonna drain
:
1564
00:24:18,791 --> 00:24:19,541
your own battery
:
1565
00:24:19,708 --> 00:24:20,541
and you're not
:
1566
00:24:20,541 --> 00:24:21,000
gonna be doing
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1567
00:24:21,000 --> 00:24:21,583
anything anyway.
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As we wrap up
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here, do you have
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1570
00:24:24,291 --> 00:24:24,958
any closing
:
1571
00:24:24,958 --> 00:24:25,500
remarks of
:
1572
00:24:25,500 --> 00:24:26,375
anything I did
:
1573
00:24:26,375 --> 00:24:27,916
not ask you that
:
1574
00:24:27,916 --> 00:24:28,500
you wanna share?
:
1575
00:24:31,000 --> 00:24:31,791
Take one day at a
:
1576
00:24:31,791 --> 00:24:32,583
time, always.
:
1577
00:24:33,333 --> 00:24:34,791
Just get through
:
1578
00:24:34,791 --> 00:24:35,291
the day.
:
1579
00:24:35,541 --> 00:24:36,875
If you're doing
:
1580
00:24:36,875 --> 00:24:37,375
something that
:
1581
00:24:37,375 --> 00:24:37,875
you know you
:
1582
00:24:37,875 --> 00:24:38,500
really don't
:
1583
00:24:38,500 --> 00:24:38,916
wanna do, you
:
1584
00:24:38,916 --> 00:24:39,291
have a done to
:
1585
00:24:39,291 --> 00:24:39,833
disappointment or
:
1586
00:24:39,833 --> 00:24:40,500
you have a big
:
1587
00:24:40,500 --> 00:24:41,208
exam that you're
:
1588
00:24:41,208 --> 00:24:42,041
worried about or
:
1589
00:24:42,041 --> 00:24:42,666
anything that
:
1590
00:24:42,666 --> 00:24:43,000
you're just
:
1591
00:24:43,000 --> 00:24:43,916
really dreading,
:
1592
00:24:44,166 --> 00:24:45,000
it's one day of
:
1593
00:24:45,000 --> 00:24:46,625
your life out of
:
1594
00:24:46,625 --> 00:24:47,958
thousands of
:
1595
00:24:47,958 --> 00:24:48,583
days, tens of
:
1596
00:24:48,583 --> 00:24:49,250
thousands of days
:
1597
00:24:49,250 --> 00:24:49,791
in your
:
1598
00:24:49,791 --> 00:24:50,291
total life.
:
1599
00:24:51,000 --> 00:24:52,541
So it's never as
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00:24:52,541 --> 00:24:53,458
bad as you're
:
1601
00:24:53,458 --> 00:24:55,125
going to create
:
1602
00:24:55,125 --> 00:24:55,791
in your mind
:
1603
00:24:55,791 --> 00:24:56,416
that it is.
:
1604
00:24:57,291 --> 00:24:57,750
And if somebody
:
1605
00:24:57,750 --> 00:24:58,500
wants to hop on
:
1606
00:24:58,500 --> 00:24:59,291
over, they love
:
1607
00:24:59,291 --> 00:25:00,083
your vibe, they
:
1608
00:25:00,083 --> 00:25:01,000
love Madison like
:
1609
00:25:01,000 --> 00:25:02,166
I do and they
:
1610
00:25:02,166 --> 00:25:02,708
wanna check out
:
1611
00:25:02,708 --> 00:25:03,166
some of your
:
1612
00:25:03,166 --> 00:25:03,750
content.
:
1613
00:25:03,750 --> 00:25:04,333
Where do they go?
:
1614
00:25:05,916 --> 00:25:06,416
A lot of
:
1615
00:25:06,416 --> 00:25:07,000
different places.
:
1616
00:25:07,958 --> 00:25:08,541
That Girl in a
:
1617
00:25:08,541 --> 00:25:09,041
Blazer is
:
1618
00:25:09,041 --> 00:25:09,625
definitely my
:
1619
00:25:09,625 --> 00:25:10,375
biggest account
:
1620
00:25:10,375 --> 00:25:11,000
that I run.
:
1621
00:25:11,000 --> 00:25:11,916
I do a lot of
:
1622
00:25:11,916 --> 00:25:12,708
corporate skits
:
1623
00:25:12,708 --> 00:25:13,583
and I love them
:
1624
00:25:14,083 --> 00:25:14,500
and that's
:
1625
00:25:14,500 --> 00:25:15,666
content that I am
:
1626
00:25:15,666 --> 00:25:16,750
very proud of.
:
1627
00:25:18,333 --> 00:25:18,916
Okay, you can
:
1628
00:25:18,916 --> 00:25:19,416
head on over
:
1629
00:25:19,416 --> 00:25:20,000
there and watch
:
1630
00:25:20,000 --> 00:25:20,666
her skits.
:
1631
00:25:20,708 --> 00:25:21,166
I'm gonna be
:
1632
00:25:21,166 --> 00:25:21,875
watching some of
:
1633
00:25:21,875 --> 00:25:22,708
those and I'm
:
1634
00:25:22,708 --> 00:25:23,250
sure some of them
:
1635
00:25:23,250 --> 00:25:23,750
would be very
:
1636
00:25:23,750 --> 00:25:24,791
relatable to
:
1637
00:25:24,791 --> 00:25:25,958
internship
:
1638
00:25:25,958 --> 00:25:26,625
scenarios
:
1639
00:25:26,625 --> 00:25:27,333
as well.
:
1640
00:25:27,583 --> 00:25:28,125
So you can have a
:
1641
00:25:28,125 --> 00:25:28,833
laugh with those.
:
1642
00:25:29,291 --> 00:25:30,041
I wanna say a big
:
1643
00:25:30,041 --> 00:25:30,666
thank you for
:
1644
00:25:30,666 --> 00:25:31,625
coming on, for
:
1645
00:25:31,625 --> 00:25:31,958
sharing
:
1646
00:25:31,958 --> 00:25:32,708
everything so
:
1647
00:25:32,708 --> 00:25:33,666
candidly, so
:
1648
00:25:33,666 --> 00:25:34,416
vulnerably.
:
1649
00:25:34,416 --> 00:25:35,166
We're so lucky to
:
1650
00:25:35,166 --> 00:25:35,500
have you.
:
1651
00:25:36,333 --> 00:25:36,916
Absolutely, thank
:
1652
00:25:36,916 --> 00:25:37,416
you so much for
:
1653
00:25:37,416 --> 00:25:37,875
having me.
:
1654
00:25:37,875 --> 00:25:38,250
I love it.
:
1655
00:25:38,833 --> 00:25:39,416
And thank you so
:
1656
00:25:39,416 --> 00:25:40,166
much everyone for
:
1657
00:25:40,166 --> 00:25:41,375
joining me on
:
1658
00:25:41,375 --> 00:25:42,041
another episode
:
1659
00:25:42,041 --> 00:25:42,833
of the Campus
:
1660
00:25:42,833 --> 00:25:43,333
Chronicles
:
1661
00:25:43,333 --> 00:25:43,916
podcast.
:
1662
00:25:47,125 --> 00:25:48,083
So if today's
:
1663
00:25:48,083 --> 00:25:49,041
episode gave you
:
1664
00:25:49,041 --> 00:25:50,250
life, perspective
:
1665
00:25:50,625 --> 00:25:51,750
or just a much
:
1666
00:25:51,750 --> 00:25:52,666
needed moment to
:
1667
00:25:52,666 --> 00:25:53,541
breathe in a busy
:
1668
00:25:53,541 --> 00:25:54,791
world, I don't
:
1669
00:25:54,791 --> 00:25:55,458
want you to keep
:
1670
00:25:55,458 --> 00:25:56,083
it to yourself.
:
1671
00:25:56,791 --> 00:25:58,166
Share it, tag us,
:
1672
00:25:58,416 --> 00:25:59,458
please send it to
:
1673
00:25:59,458 --> 00:26:00,208
a friend who
:
1674
00:26:00,208 --> 00:26:01,291
needs to hear it.
:
1675
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And if you're not
:
1676
00:26:02,791 --> 00:26:03,541
on our newsletter
:
1677
00:26:03,541 --> 00:26:04,541
yet, what
:
1678
00:26:04,541 --> 00:26:05,250
are you doing?
:
1679
00:26:05,791 --> 00:26:06,166
Go to
:
1680
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:
1681
00:26:08,416 --> 00:26:08,875
and join
:
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:
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We have all the
:
1684
00:26:10,500 --> 00:26:11,500
behind the scenes
:
1685
00:26:11,500 --> 00:26:12,291
things,
:
1686
00:26:12,500 --> 00:26:13,125
unfiltered
:
1687
00:26:13,125 --> 00:26:14,250
thoughts from me
:
1688
00:26:14,250 --> 00:26:15,041
and the team,
:
1689
00:26:15,666 --> 00:26:16,541
bonus resources
:
1690
00:26:16,541 --> 00:26:17,875
and Insider only
:
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invites to
:
1692
00:26:18,791 --> 00:26:19,875
events, giveaways
:
1693
00:26:19,875 --> 00:26:21,000
and things that
:
1694
00:26:21,000 --> 00:26:21,958
we really don't
:
1695
00:26:21,958 --> 00:26:22,375
post
:
1696
00:26:22,375 --> 00:26:23,333
anywhere else.
:
1697
00:26:24,083 --> 00:26:24,958
I promise I'm not
:
1698
00:26:24,958 --> 00:26:25,708
gonna spam you.
:
1699
00:26:26,166 --> 00:26:26,875
It's just the
:
1700
00:26:26,875 --> 00:26:27,375
good stuff
:
1701
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straight to
:
1702
00:26:28,083 --> 00:26:28,625
your inbox.
:
1703
00:26:29,375 --> 00:26:29,791
Being in
:
1704
00:26:29,791 --> 00:26:30,583
university is
:
1705
00:26:30,583 --> 00:26:31,416
wild enough.
:
1706
00:26:31,750 --> 00:26:32,541
You don't need to
:
1707
00:26:32,541 --> 00:26:33,458
miss out on what
:
1708
00:26:33,458 --> 00:26:33,958
matters.
:
1709
00:26:34,666 --> 00:26:35,750
Sign up now and
:
1710
00:26:35,750 --> 00:26:36,500
let's make this
:
1711
00:26:36,500 --> 00:26:37,833
next semester the
:
1712
00:26:37,833 --> 00:26:38,708
one that you stop
:
1713
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surviving and
:
1714
00:26:40,250 --> 00:26:41,458
start thriving.
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1715
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Until next time,
:
1716
00:26:43,666 --> 00:26:45,083
stay bold, stay
:
1717
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curious, keep
:
1718
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writing your own
:
1719
00:26:46,916 --> 00:26:47,166
chapter.
:
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This is Campus
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Products.