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The Foundation of Assurance Is Jesus | 1 John 1:1–4
8th August 2026 • Compass Bible Church Men's Bible Study • Compass Bible Church
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Knowing that you know begins with knowing Who you know.

It's one of the most dangerous assumptions a person can make — especially where church attendance is normal and Christian language is native. John writes his letter to people whose confidence has been shaken by teachers who left, and he doesn't answer their doubt by telling them to look harder at themselves. He points them to what he heard, saw, looked upon, and touched. This first message in Knowing That You Know asks the question underneath every other question about assurance: what is your confidence actually resting on? Because the answer determines whether it holds.

Assurance Beyond Simplistic Faith — 0:00

Avoid Assumption, Pursue True Assurance — 7:16

Why 1 John Matters for the Church — 11:15

Trust the Biblical Christ Alone — 26:03

Faith Produces Fellowship — 38:11

Full Joy Through Christ and Community — 45:03

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So first John's where we're gonna be.

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If you want to get your Bibles

already ready for that, that would

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be a good place for you to turn.

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It's a short book, but there's a lot

inside of it, and we're gonna have to.

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Give a lot of time and attention

to make this valuable for you.

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It's deceptively simple and

endlessly deep, and I wanna

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show you some of those things.

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But before we do that, uh, I wanna start

by encouraging you with a quote that I

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came across a while back, but found and

still find incredibly helpful sermon's.

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Title is called The Foundation

of Our Assurance is Jesus.

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And we'll come back to that in a second.

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But let me, uh, encourage

you with this here.

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Oliver Wendell Holmes is noted as saying

this, I would not give a fig for the

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simplicity, this side of complexity, but

I would give my life for the simplicity

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on the other side of complexity.

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Sit with that a second.

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See if you can track

what he's saying there.

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There's a kind of approach

to difficult topics.

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Where on the near side of complex

subjects like our faith, like theology,

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like the action of our faith and how

it works together with our faith.

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There is a, a tendency when you're early

in this stage to oversimplify something

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to the point that it's simplistic and it's

not accurate to what you're being taught.

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That is one error that can

happen with complicated

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subjects or difficult subjects.

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Complexity.

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As he says here, he says, I

would give my life however.

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For the simplicity on the other

side of complexity on the near

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side of complexity is simplistic.

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On the far side of complexity is simple.

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You're gonna find that to be true

in your study of the gospel of John,

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rather the letter of John first

John, which is closely tied to and

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connected to the Gospel of John.

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One tendency to read this letter

is to read it simplistically.

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And to see that it's circular nature

and it's circular and repeated words are

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simple to the point of being simplistic.

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And you might say to yourself,

this seems pretty obvious.

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Why would John spend so much time

saying these things over and over again?

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But as you study this book, and what I'm

gonna promise to you as you hang with me

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these next eight or nine months, is that

the more you study this, the more you put

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your mind into the, the, the letter of

First John, the more you'll find it to be.

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Incredibly rich, and yet the circular

nature of the book, its repetition is not

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meant to be understood simplistically, but

it is simple simplicity on the far side

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of complexity after studying it, after

thinking about it, after discerning it.

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So I don't want you to make the mistake

of seeing John as a simple book.

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I want you to see it simply

without oversimplifying it.

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This is gonna be important because

one of the subjects that we're gonna

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tackle with this particular letter is

the tap, this topic of your salvation

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and your assurance, uh, which is this

topic of saying, how do I know that?

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I know I'm right with God?

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How can I be assured that my

relationship with God is built to last?

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Uh, as Jesus says that my

relationship with God is built on

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the rock and not built on the sand.

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How do I know that?

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How do I know that?

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I know to quote the series title.

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And John's intention in writing is

to help you know that you know, in

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fact, that's one of the things he's

gonna say near the end of the book.

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Let me just take you there really quickly.

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First, John chapter five,

starting at verse 13.

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This is one of John's stated reasons

for writing this little letter.

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He says, one John five 13, I write these

things to you who believe, and he is

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talking to an audience of believers who

believe in the name of the son of God.

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That you may know that

you have eternal life.

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I want you to know that you

know, is what John is saying.

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And so even though there's lots

of things that we're going to read

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and study together that might cause

you pause and say, I'm not sure if

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I have what John is talking about.

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John doesn't give you a line to say

if you're this tall, you can get on

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the rollercoaster of Christianity.

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He doesn't give you clear measurements

to say, well, if you've sinned

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this many times today or this week,

you're clearly not a Christian.

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He gives you something much more practical

and more realistic, and yet also at the

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very same time, much more challenging.

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He gives you these broad and beautiful

brush strokes of what the Christian life

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is meant to look like, and his intention

is to encourage you who believe and to

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give you the assurance that your walk

with God is solid on the solid ground.

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It's making progress.

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So we're gonna read a lot about what

John has to say about your salvation,

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your faith, ultimately your assurance.

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And this is critical for us because

we live in the land called the Bible

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Belt, and some have called Texas

the belt buckle of the Bible Belt.

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You know that there's a church,

you throw a rock at any corner.

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You're gonna hit a church, you'll

hit something with a, a, a beautiful

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campus and usually really great.

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Uh, a really great landscaping,

sometimes large parking lots.

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There's churches everywhere.

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We're meeting in a church

and not all of them are bad.

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That's a great thing, by and large.

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But one of the challenges in our

particular area is that faith has

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become something that is easy.

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It's expected.

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And it's part of the cultural ethos.

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Even though things are changing in Texas

and the demographics are shifting into

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something entirely other than what Texas

used to be known for, there's still a

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reminiscent sense of Christian faith here.

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It's expected.

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It's normal.

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You talk to your server or

your barista and you say, Hey,

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where do you go to church?

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Or as Pastor PJ said recently in

a sermon, do you have a faith?

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No one's offended by that.

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At least not initially.

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I mean, we're not in Austin, so it's

a little more practical up here.

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People expect you to say, well, yeah,

I go to, I go to Prestonwood, or I

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go to Lighthouse, or I go to Compass.

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Faith is an expected thing around here,

and that's wonderful in one sense,

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but also terrifying in another because

then you can easily do something

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that Jesus s warns us against.

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And Matthew chapter seven, you can grow

presumptive or assuming that you have a

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relationship with God because you're near

people who have a relationship with God.

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Jesus says in one of the scariest

passages in the Bible, not everyone

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who says to me, Lord, Lord will

enter the kingdom of heaven.

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No one who says that.

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That is, just because you confess

with your mouth as Romans 10 says,

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doesn't mean that your heart is right,

just because you're saying Lord.

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Lord, you call it Jesus, king

and Lord, and master doesn't

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mean that you are right.

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Two Corinthians 13.

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Paul says, test yourself to see

whether you're in the faith or do you

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not realize this about yourselves,

that Jesus Christ is in you unless

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indeed you fail to meet the test.

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He says, we find that scripture

gives us some clear warnings not

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to assume and presume upon the Lord

when it comes to our relationship.

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And so on the one hand we have John

who's saying, I write these things to

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give you an assurance about your faith.

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And on the other hand, scripture tells

us in a few places, Hey, be careful that

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you're not just making assumptions about

your walk with God just because you're

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near people who have a walk with God.

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There should be clear evidence

or scripture calls fruit.

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Galatians chapter 5 22 23.

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There should be fruit or evidence

of your relationship with God.

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And so we wanna look at this letter

because we don't want to assume.

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I wanna avoid assumption.

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So the first reason we need to look at

this is we wanna avoid the assumption.

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The second reason we wanna look at this

is I want you to enjoy assurance, to avoid

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assumption, and to enjoy assu assurance.

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First, John is necessary for us

because John in, as a pastor in,

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he's very pastoral in this letter.

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One thing I've learned after

reading this thing over and over

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again is that John writes like a

man who cares about his people.

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He's not throwing swords with

his mouth and saying, you guys

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ought to be better by now.

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What's wrong with you?

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Shape up or ship out, you

know, stop acting like this.

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You ought to grow up.

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He's, he's a pastor, he's a father.

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He's a man who cares about his people.

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And consequently, because your pastors

at this church care about you, we want

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you to enjoy the assurance that comes

with knowing the God that has saved you.

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And to do that well, we have to know

what genuine assurance looks like because

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we don't want to fall prey to Matthew

seven having a false assurance note.

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Again, not everyone who says to me,

Lord, Lord, he says, many will say

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to me on the day, Lord, didn't we?

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And then they're gonna fill in the

blank with all of the good works

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that they've done for the Lord.

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These men possessed assurance

even to their dying breath,

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and they face the Lord.

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And he says, the scariest

words depart from me.

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I never knew you.

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And so we gotta be clear that

we can have an assurance that

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is misleading, a foe assurance.

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I want you to have genuine assurance,

which means we need to know from one John

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what that genuine assurance looks like.

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Most important question

you can ask yourself.

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Is going to be what is the foundation

or the basis of my assurance?

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What gives me confidence

that I am right with God?

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How do I know that?

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I know how you answer that question

is critical to your experience

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of the blessing of assurance.

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To answer it wrongly, and all

of us are tempted to do this.

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To answer it wrongly will

leave you shaky and unsure.

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You'll come to a crisis of faith where

you're saying, am I even a Christian?

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Am I even a man after God's own heart?

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I wanna be a Christian.

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I can't because I can't do these

things that you're measuring yourself

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against a standard that maybe

God doesn't want you to measure.

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And so we're, we're trying to write

attention here in this letter.

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On the one hand, I want you to

love and revel and cherish the

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grace of God in Christ Jesus.

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I want you to so savor the fact

that you are saved by grace.

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That it is a doctrine that you

clinging to for life and for

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health for the rest of your life.

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On the other hand, I don't want

you to take grace and say, well,

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consequently I could do whatever I want.

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As Paul says in Romans six, shall

we continue to sin that Grace

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May have bound by no means how?

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How can we who died to

sin still live in it?

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He says, and therefore, I

want you to avoid license.

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Don't want you to see grace as a

ticket to sin, but I want you to see

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grace as freedom to do righteous.

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To live righteously in God's sight first.

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John is going to help us

with all of these things.

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I love this letter for you guys.

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I'm so excited for the next nine months.

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God willing, we will get through

all of this, but of course, we're

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only doing a sermon a month, so

this is gonna go pretty quickly.

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Here's how you can get

the most out of John.

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All I want you to do before you

show up to this meeting every

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month is to just read first.

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John, before you get here, I would love

for you to read through the letter.

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If you're a slower reader, it

might take you 25, 30 minutes.

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Um, and because John is so deceptively

simple and endlessly deep, uh, you

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might be tempted to slow down during

certain sections, and I'm, I'm just gonna

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encourage you, just read through it.

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Just read through all five chapters

before you get here, even if you

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woke up 30 minutes early to do that

before you arrive to the sermon.

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That would really help you get

a sense of where John is going.

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And again, I don't want you to feel

anything less than John's pastoral

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heart as we go through this letter.

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Well, speaking of John, let me just

give you a couple introductory markers

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before we dive deeper into this.

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Here.

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I keep on referring to John.

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Well, what John are we talking about?

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Uh, you'll notice that the letter doesn't

begin with a a from John to these people.

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It's really and technically an anonymous

letter, and yet it's anonymity is not to

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be, is is not something that should throw

you off because based on the language.

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We're pretty confident that

this is from the Apostle John.

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This is the same John who wrote

the Gospel of John, which Pastor PJ

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preached through a couple years ago.

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In fact, if you wanted to pair Pastor PJ's

preaching, you could go back through our

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catalog, download the sermons, and listen

to them in light of our series here.

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So this is gonna be John, a son of Zedi.

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Uh, we don't have evidence in the

text itself besides the fact that

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it matches so closely to the gospel

of Johns stylistically, and even in

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vocabulary and even in the simplicity.

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When you learn Greek, uh, for the first

time when you go to elementary Greek,

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one of the letters that, uh, a Greek

professor will make you read through

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is gonna be First John or the Gospel

of John, because John's language is

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so simple, but he is not simplistic.

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Uh, John is far from that.

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He is simple.

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He's not simplistic, and so the

language is easy, at least on

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its face, superficially, but

challenging reading to be sure.

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The audience, who's John writing to?

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Well, again, notice he doesn't address

it to any particular group of people.

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He's not saying to the the Athenians, he

is not saying to the church at Ephesus.

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He just jumps into his,

what I think is his sermon.

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And so it seems likely that who

John is referring to is likely

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the church in or around Ephesus.

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John spends his final ministry days

in this region, and consequently

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he becomes a father to all

of these people in this area.

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At least that's how we understand it.

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This makes the most sense of John's.

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Timeline and his ministry.

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So if Ephesus is the most

likely candidate, the church at

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Ephesus, they've gotten a lot of

inks spilled on the scriptures.

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You might know this.

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They get a lot of attention.

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And so John is there, he is

their pastor, at least one of

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their pastors at this time.

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But maybe this letter, uh, yeah, this

letter is meant to be a circular letter.

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So that would mean it would also

go to a lot of the churches in,

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in and around Asia Minor, perhaps.

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And that's why we think there's so

little here in terms of specificity

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to a certain group of people.

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Uh, he calls them his little children.

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In fact, this is one of the

things I love most about John.

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He's likely an age of John.

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He, you might know, he lives the

longest we suspect of all the apostles.

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Uh, he is probably in his

later years at this point.

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If we think that the gospel of John

was written around 90 ad we think First

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John was written between 90 and 95

ad, give or take, and on top of that,

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some have even suggested that second

John might have been a cover letter.

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Four.

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Uh, for First John as a way to

introduce the letter because Second

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John, very similar in language, very

similar in content, and yet in this

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one he actually says the elder to

the unelected lady and her children.

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There's an address there.

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That one actually functions like a

letter where First John doesn't have

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the same elements of the letter.

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In fact, first John,

again, it's anonymous.

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It doesn't say who it's from, doesn't say

who it's to, and it, it gives us the sense

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that this is more sermonic in tone, which

would account for a lot of the repetition.

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I think it's a compelling idea to

think that First John was meant to

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be a sermon read out loud by the

church that he was writing it to,

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which would be one of the reasons

you see so much repetition, so much

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circularity in John, in John's thinking.

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He's trying to do what all good teachers

do, which is to repeat themselves.

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Why does John write then?

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Well, first John is written,

we think based on the internal

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evidence, primarily because of

division taking place in the church.

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There's a large group of people

in this church at this time who

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leave the church because of a, a,

a doctrinal, a doctrinal fight.

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You're gonna read about this in

chapter two, where he says, therefore,

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uh, he says, they went out from us

that said this, this large group

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of secessionists, these, these, uh,

antagonizes, they went out from us.

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But they were not of us.

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John is trying to console them

for, if they had been of us, they

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would have continued with us.

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So John is trying to help them

wrestle through this difficult

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season of a church split.

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People that they knew and loved and

perhaps were doing ministry with

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suddenly up and leave the church,

and John's trying to reach them

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and say, guys, don't sweat this.

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Let's think this through.

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Let me give you the assurance that

you need to know that your faith

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is not in jeopardy just because

you've suffered this traumatic loss.

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In fact, let me encourage you

with this whole letter about what

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genuine faith, genuine doctrine,

and genuine love looks like.

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One of John's reasons I already

noted here is that he wants

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to assure you as his reader.

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You're gonna see three themes

repeat over and over again

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in the first letter of John.

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Uh, John is writing to help clarify

true obedience, true doctrine,

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and true love, true obedience,

true doctrine, and true love.

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You're gonna see this over and over

again, and I'll highlight them to you and

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point them out as we come across them.

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It's true obedience, true

doctrine, and true love.

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That's really the flavor that John

gives us as we're trying to ask and

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answer the question, how do I know

that my faith is legitimate, is real?

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Well, the fruits he's gonna

point to is true obedience,

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true doctrine, and true love.

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Okay?

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All of that is just a starting place

for getting us into the gospel of John.

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I mentioned to you John's language and

his Greek is quite simple, but as we

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enter into these first four verses,

you're gonna find that the simple Greek.

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Is deceptively simple and endlessly deep.

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Let me read along with you as we read

through these first four verses, and

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then I'm gonna slowly take us through

this section to give you a sense of

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what I think John is trying to do.

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Here's what it says.

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Read along with me in your Bibles, please.

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That which was from the beginning,

which we have heard, which we have

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seen with our eyes, which we looked

upon and have touched with our hands.

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Concerning the word of life, the life

was made manifest, and we have seen

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it and testified to it and proclaim to

you the eternal life, which was with

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the Father and was made manifest to us.

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That which we have seen and heard,

we proclaim also to you so that you

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too may have fellowship with us.

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And indeed our fellowship is with the

Father and with his son, Jesus Christ.

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And we are writing these things

so that our joy may be complete.

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Okay.

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Jam packed.

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I wonder if when you read those

first few verses you're saying,

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what is John trying to say here?

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It's so tangled and twisted.

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These are some of the most challenging

verses in the New Testament.

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Let me try to diagram for

you what I think he's doing.

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Are you able to see, gentlemen,

can you see B behind me?

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Let me back up then.

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It is gonna be important for you to see.

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Is that better?

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Great.

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Okay.

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John begins with four relative clauses.

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It is, they're describing something

without giving you the verb.

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So he begins by saying, he's starting

this whole thing, saying that, which was

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from the beginning, which we have heard.

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Which we have seen, which we've

looked upon in touch with our

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hands concerning the word of life.

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So he's saying a preamble.

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He's ramping up to his main

idea, but he doesn't get to his

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main idea until verse three.

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Let me show you that, which

was from the beginning.

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By the way, he's talking about Jesus

here, and yet he's not using a masculine

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pronoun to refer to him that is neutral.

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That which was from the beginning.

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Which we have heard, which we have seen

with our eyes, which we looked upon and

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have touched with our hands, is clear.

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He is talking about more

than just a subject.

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He's talking about the

subject that is Jesus Christ.

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He says, concerning the word of life,

commentators are divided about what

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he's exactly doing here, but it's

clear to me, at least however much

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you take my word for it, that he's

intending to communicate not only the

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message about Jesus, but Jesus himself.

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John loves to do these things

where he gives you simple language

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that has depth of meaning.

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That is, he's intending to say

more than one thing, even as

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he says the one thing itself.

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So he's saying the that which

was from the beginning, which

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sounds a lot like John one.

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One, right?

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In the beginning was the word.

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The word is with God.

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The word was God.

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He's doing something similar here

and that he's given you simple

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ideas that have depths of meaning.

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So when he says that, he's talking

about the message, but he's also

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talking about the messenger.

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Jesus himself, who was from the beginning.

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That is the agent of creation.

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The one who's pre-existent, the one

who came and was born as a baby.

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He was from the beginning,

and we have heard him.

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We've heard him, we've heard his message.

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We've looked upon him and have

touched him with our hands

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concerning the word of life.

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Let me continue.

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Verse two is a parenthetical statement.

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You'll notice that there's two big

dashes on the front end and the back

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of M dashes is what those are called,

but they're, it, it's meant to signify

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that this is a parenthetical statement.

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There's not m dashes in the Greek text.

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You should know this.

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Uh, so what we're doing here, what

we're seeing is that an editor is

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trying to help us see, we think verse

two is a parenthetical statement,

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and I would be inclined to agree.

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So notice here John ends with

concerning the word of life.

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All of this is about the word of life,

which again, I'm gonna argue is both

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about the subject and the subject.

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Capital S Jesus.

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So we're talking about the message

and the messenger, and then John in a

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parenthetical statement says, here's what.

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Here's what happened.

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That life was made manifest.

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It was revealed to us, and we've

seen it and testified to it and

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proclaimed to you the eternal life.

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He's talking about Jesus, but

he is also talking about your

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eternal life in and with Jesus.

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Which was with the father

and was made manifest to us.

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So you again, you begin to see

some of the, the parallels here.

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Jesus fits this description, so does

the message about Jesus, and I think

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that that dual meaning is intended.

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You'll also notice in the language

that John uses here, that it sounds

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a lot like a courtroom deposition.

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We testify, we proclaim.

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We, we've seen, I saw this with my hands.

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I looked on him, I touched him.

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I, I, I, I saw the, the risen Christ.

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I saw the preen, uh,

not the pre in Christ.

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I saw Christ.

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I engaged with him and it's real.

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And I promise you, I swear.

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And it's like you can imagine John

holding his hand on the Bible.

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If there was one saying, I

testified to you, this is true.

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I am not lying.

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You'll also notice curiously.

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That when John is giving this

preamble into his subject matter,

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he uses a lot of plural pronouns

that which we have heard, right?

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We testify, uh, the life was made

manifest and we have seen it.

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So the question of course in

your mind is, well, who's the we?

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Is this a plural?

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We is this a we of majesty?

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You know, John, with the Royal, we saying,

well, we have determined these things.

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It's likely that John is intending

to communicate the witnesses, not

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only of himself as being an an

actual eyewitness, but those who.

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In the community of John, as well as

the apostles could say, this is true.

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We have seen this, we have heard this.

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There's more that could be said about

that, but I think that's a really

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good, uh, hook to leave your mind on.

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John is not talking about we plural,

we as in majesty, but the, we as in

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the apostolic community and those who

have received the testimony, there's

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a lot of, uh, in the, in this first

letter of John, there's a lot of

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arguments that John puts forth to say,

who's the authority that you rely on?

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For, for the word.

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Now, who do you rely on for

trusted information about God?

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And of course he's establishing his own.

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He's reminding his community.

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Look guys, I'm not just a a

a, a hypo, a hypothetical.

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I ideator about the gospel.

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I saw Jesus, I witnessed him, I

understood him, and he was made manifest.

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He was revealed to us.

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We've seen it.

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We testified to it.

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We proclaim.

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We're telling you we're

we're declaring to you.

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And he was with the father and

he was made manifest to us.

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John picks up again in verse three.

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So remember verse two is a parenthetical.

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Verse three is John now picking

up his train of thought, which

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is why he goes back a few.

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He goes back a a few steps and

says that which we have seen and

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heard, we proclaim also to you.

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So he's saying, okay, I, I,

I lost my train of thought.

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Or rather he inserted a different

thought and then goes back to it.

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We have seen and heard and proclaim

also to you the word proclaim.

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Is the primary verb that governs

the last two, the last two verses.

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So everything leading up to this leads

to verse three saying, I'm telling you

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all this so I can proclaim it to you.

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I'm testifying, I'm witnessing to it.

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Verse three, I say these things and

I've I've, I've seen these things,

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I've heard it, and I'm proclaiming

to you, I'm telling you them.

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I want you to know these things.

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Imperative that you understand this John

is saying, and then he tells us why.

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So that you may have fellowship

with us, which is mind blowing

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if you stop and think about that.

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I write all these things.

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I want you to know this so you

can have fellowship with us.

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And again, who's the us?

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I think he's talking about all

of those who have bended and and

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bowed the need of Christ, those

who have received and accepted

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the apostolic authoritative truth.

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I want you to have authority,

uh, fellowship with me and

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those who profess this faith.

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And I want you to have fellowship with all

of those who call on the name of Christ.

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I think that's intended.

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And then notice.

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John drops a bombshell.

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I want you to have fellowship with us.

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And by the way, our fellowship is

not just hunky dory Fellowship.

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Our fellowship is with the father

and with his son, Jesus Christ.

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This is John dropping credentials

again to say, look, these, this

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is the authoritative community

that God is establishing.

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We're gonna find out later on in

the letter that the secessionists,

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the defectors, also claim

to have fellowship with God.

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And so John is beginning to sow

seeds of who are you gonna trust,

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who are you gonna listen to?

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You're gonna have fellowship with

us if you believe these things.

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And our fellowship is with the father

and with his son, Jesus Christ.

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So one of the reasons he's writing is that

he cares about your fellowship, that you

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are fellowshipping with the right group.

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:

But finally in verse four, he

says, we're writing these things.

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So that our joy may be complete.

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:

And so John, again, pastorally,

he's concerned not only about their

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stability and their faithfulness, but

about their spiritual temperament.

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He wants 'em to have joy.

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How much joy?

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Well, complete joy.

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Partial joy.

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No full joy.

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You remember Jesus saying a lot

about this, and so there's the,

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there's the gist of the opening.

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John is sowing seeds that

he's gonna revisit later.

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And so we'll try to do the same here.

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I just want you to see what John is doing.

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John is giving us a preamble into this.

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Extraordinary letter, and it begins

with the simple and yet profound

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declaration of who Jesus is.

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These verses, verses one and

two, are meant to point us to

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the foundation of everything else

that we're about to discuss, and

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so let's just start it that way.

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Let me just tell you point number one,

then you ought to trust in the biblical

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Christ alone for your salvation.

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That's what John is doing.

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He's pointing your attention

and his first century.

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Audience's attention, not to their works.

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He doesn't talk about anything yet except

to, let's talk about the biblical Christ.

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Let's talk about the Christ who came in

real life, who lived in real history,

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who had real flesh and real blood, and

real bones, and that Christ is the one

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:

that I'm testifying to when it comes

to your assurance in Christ, to your

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knowledge of whether or not you are

saved, whether you know that, you know.

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John wants you to say, let's

look first toward Jesus.

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In fact, a.

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A great saying to the faith said,

for every look you give to yourself.

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Do you know this one?

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Take 10 looks at Christ.

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You're gonna have to look at yourself.

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When you start examining your faith,

you're gonna have to look at yourself.

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:

But instead of having some kind

of spiritual naval, navel gazing,

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:

where you're stuck looking at

yourself in the spiritual mirror.

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It's good to say, let me take my first

look and even my first 10 looks at Christ.

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:

Who is he?

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What has he done for me?

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How have I related to him?

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How have I responded to his gospel?

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:

John starts there.

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He was from the beginning.

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We've heard him.

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We've seen him.

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We've looked upon him.

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We've touched him.

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This word of life, he is the eternal life.

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He's the place that my assurance

is based upon, and I can't

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do anything better than that.

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:

What does this mean then,

practically speaking.

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Several years ago, I got interested

in Jehovah's Witnesses, not because

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I was interested in joining their

faith, but because I was interested

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at learning and understanding

so I can dismantle their faith.

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And so I did something very foolish.

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I started attending their gatherings.

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I know.

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Thank you.

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Their services are as dry

as bones, spiritually.

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Uh, man, it is, it is very different

than what you'd expect in a gathering

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like this or any church gathering

with a, a church that is actually

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following the Biblical Christ.

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Uh, but I made friends with an

older lady who invited me over for

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a study, and I said, absolutely.

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I, I have my, I'm thinking, great.

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The Lord has given you to me.

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I'm gonna win you to the faith.

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:

You're gonna, you're gonna

understand that this is, you've

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been wrong this whole time.

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:

She's been a Jehovahs

Witness for all her life.

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At that point, I went to her home

and she opened up a little book with

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me, I think the book was called,

reasoning from the Scriptures,

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:

and she began to walk me through.

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Why the Jehovah's Witnesses

are right about Jesus.

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I'm a young man at this point, and I

realized at that point I was outgunned.

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This lady knew her Bible better than me.

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She showed me in her own literature how

all these pieces make sense and they fit.

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:

And while I was in the lion

stand, I came to this realization.

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This is incredibly

foolish of me, number one.

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And number two, if I'm ever going to

do this again, I better master my Bible

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:

because I have so much confusion sewn

into my heart right now because of this,

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:

this woman, this faithful Jehovah's

Witness, I'm, I'm a little nervous.

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:

How do I deal with these

texts that she gave me?

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The problem for me in part was that I, I,

I knew my Bible at least reasonably well.

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But I really wrestled to defend what I

knew to be true because I was outgunned.

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I was outmaneuvered functionally,

I was biblically illiterate.

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:

Here's why that's important.

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If you're gonna trust in the

Biblical Christ stands the reason

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you gotta know his word, you gotta

know who he is from his word.

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You gotta master the word.

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:

You gotta have a sense of

who the Christ is that you're

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:

trusting by knowing his word.

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:

I mean, this is why John calls him

the word of life in the first verse.

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I can't trust the Christ

that I don't know.

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I can't put my faith in him

if I don't know who he is.

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It is critical that I

know the word of life.

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Jesus must reveal himself to us

through His word so we can trust him.

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:

You can't trust in someone you don't

know, and which is why I think when

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:

it comes to your faith and your

assurance, you have to make sure

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:

that you are in the word frequently.

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:

One of the, uh, ex-members of DC talk

deconstructed, and one of the things

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:

that he said in an article was this,

I don't think that God rather, I don't

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think that God that I believe in is

going to just all of a sudden ignore

608

:

me because I don't believe every single

thing that's written down somewhere.

609

:

Did you catch what he said?

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:

I don't think that the,

God, lemme try that again.

611

:

I don't think the God that I believe in

is just going to all of a sudden ignore

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:

me because I don't believe every single

thing that's written down somewhere.

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:

Uh, okay, okay.

614

:

Maybe.

615

:

But you notice what he did there.

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He undermined the very foundation

of his trust in the Lord.

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:

What God does he have in mind?

618

:

If it's not informed by the scriptures?

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:

How can you trust in the

God that you do not know?

620

:

This is one reason men, we are, we are

almost fanatical about making sure that

621

:

you're in the word because we care so

deeply that you are informed and shaped

622

:

by the word more than you are even shaped

by my preaching, pastor PJ's preaching,

623

:

pastor Mark's preaching, et cetera.

624

:

We wanted to be men of the word.

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:

You're gonna trust in the Biblical Christ.

626

:

It has to start by trusting his word.

627

:

Secondly, what we want you to

trust in the Biblical Christ,

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:

instead of second rate Messiahs.

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:

This is related to what we were

talking about with Jehovah's.

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:

Witnesses mean you could talk

about the Mormons, but even then

631

:

take, take them outta the equation.

632

:

Lots of people have a second rate

Messiah, they just don't know it.

633

:

But Jesus that many people carry

around in their minds is not one

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:

shaped and informed by scripture.

635

:

It's shaped by sentimentalism.

636

:

It's shaped by some Hallmark

cards, perhaps maybe a few blogs

637

:

that they read online somewhere.

638

:

Maybe an influencer that tells 'em about

Jesus on the, on the web somewhere.

639

:

Uh, people have an idea, uh, of

their messiah, of Jesus that's shaped

640

:

by something other than scripture.

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:

This is why John begins with,

we've seen him, we've touched

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:

him, we've looked upon him.

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:

This is the real deal.

644

:

There are many false Messiahs out

there, and we could talk about all the

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:

different cult groups and the different

opportunities to, to be misled, but

646

:

I'm, I'm less concerned with that.

647

:

They're, they're a threat for sure,

but I'm more concerned with the Jesus

648

:

that you have in your own imagination.

649

:

All of us have deficiencies

when it comes to Jesus.

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:

Our job is to discern where there's

deficiencies are by again, measuring

651

:

ourselves and measuring our understanding

of him according to his word.

652

:

You'd be able to define the

biblical Jesus, which is why

653

:

I put that in our point here.

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:

It's the Biblical Jesus, not

the one that we've invented.

655

:

The biblical Jesus is meek and mild.

656

:

To be sure he is full of grace and truth.

657

:

He is wonderful and glorious,

and he's also the judge.

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:

He also loves us enough to

discipline us for our disobedience.

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:

It's important that we have a full

orbed image of Christ instead of

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:

trusting in a second rate Messiah.

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:

John later on in his, in his

little letter here, is gonna

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:

say something to this church.

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:

He's gonna say, beloved, do not believe

every spirit, just because the spirit

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:

comes to you in a polished, uh, a

polished looking display, or it's a

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:

great looking video, highly produced.

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:

Don't believe every spirit, but test the

spirits to see whether they are from God.

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:

For many false prophets have

gone out into the world.

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:

Your vision, your image, your

understanding of Jesus will be shaped by

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:

somebody and something is it Scripture.

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:

And those whom you trust to

open up scripture with you.

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:

Third, we trust in the biblical

Christ instead of our performance.

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:

And notice that John says, we

proclaim to you the eternal life.

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:

John anchors your faith in

Jesus, and he never wants you to

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:

look at yourself as the primary

arbitrator of your faith in Christ.

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:

He doesn't want you to look at yourself

and say, oh, have I done well this week?

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:

And is that evidence of my

faith in the ultimate sense?

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:

You will look at your performance, you

will look at the works that you're doing.

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:

You will look at your sin tendencies.

679

:

You will look at the, you will have

to look at them of necessity, but

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:

again, I'm looking primarily at

Christ, my faith, my hope, my trust

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:

is in Christ, the eternal life that

was with the Father took on flesh.

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:

He lived the obedient life that we

have never and could never live.

683

:

He went to the cross bearing our sin.

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:

And judgment that we deserved, and he

rose bodily on the third day, Jesus.

685

:

Amen to uh, God's Amen.

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:

The Father's amen to Jesus was

demonstrated by raising him from the dead.

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:

He is who we put our trust in.

688

:

We never graduate from

the gospel you never do.

689

:

Gentlemen, if you know the

gospel, praise God, you'll only

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:

ever go deeper in the gospel.

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:

You will never, ever move beyond it.

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:

The gospel must anchor your heart.

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:

In every single thing that you

do, you'll never forget like

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:

the Apostle Paul that you are.

695

:

And once were an object of God's wrath

and apart from Christ, you possess

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:

nothing of value, your values in him.

697

:

And consequently, we trust in

him instead of our performance.

698

:

But again, we're trusting

in the biblical Christ.

699

:

You might remember Luther in his

95 thesis, he, he wrote as thesis

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:

number one, he says, when our Lord

and master Jesus Christ had repent.

701

:

He will, that the entire life of

believers to be one of repentance.

702

:

I only take one small

issue with that word.

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:

Um, in that I would've loved for

him to articulate its repentance

704

:

and faith, it's ongoing.

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:

And I, he intended that.

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:

I, I'm confident I'm not, I'm not,

uh, criticizing Luther by any stretch.

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:

Not in my league, but I would

say all of life is repentance,

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:

but all of life is faith.

709

:

It's like when you become a Christian,

you realize that the doorway to

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:

Christ is repentant faith in Christ.

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:

But then when you open the door and you go

into the house, you realize, oh, the whole

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:

house is repentance In faith, the rest

of my life is repentant faith in Christ.

713

:

My whole life, I, I open the door every,

the whole Christian life, the whole

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:

Christian mansion is repentant faith.

715

:

Knowing that, you know, begins

with knowing who you know.

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:

Your faith and assurance have

to be grounded in who Christ is.

717

:

Anything short of this.

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:

And you will perpetually

struggle with knowing whether

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:

or not you're right with God.

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:

Knowing what you know begins

with knowing who you know.

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:

Okay, uh, these next two points here,

um, we're gonna, these next two points

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:

are tangential to the main point.

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:

My main point here is, is as

we start this, Jesus is the

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:

foundation of our assurance.

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:

That is the main idea.

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:

If you don't hear these next two

points, that's okay, but they're

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:

related to what John is saying.

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:

Lemme show you here verses three.

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:

In fact, let's just

stick with verse three.

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:

Remember he's picking up again

that which we have seen and heard.

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:

We proclaim also to you so that

you two me have fellowship with

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:

us and indeed our fellowship is

with the father and with his son.

733

:

This concept of fellowship is, is

front loaded in, in John's letter.

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:

You're, you're gonna see this next time

we meet, but here he says it twice.

735

:

We're gonna see it just a little more.

736

:

He's trying to paint the picture here

that when you become a Christian,

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:

when you become united with Christ,

that union is not merely to Christ.

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:

That union is to a fellowship.

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:

It's to a community.

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:

As others have said, upon conversion,

we gain both a new father and a

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:

new set of brothers and sisters.

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:

You are saved not only to the Lord,

but you are saved to a community.

743

:

John is trying to highlight this.

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:

We've seen him, we've heard him.

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:

We proclaim to him so that you too.

746

:

The reason why the purpose clause so

that you too may have fellowship with us.

747

:

I want you to see that there is a vital

connection between faith and fellowship.

748

:

John moves quickly to this idea.

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:

You're saved, you're made right

with Christ, but you're saved

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:

for the purposes of being united

to a community of believers.

751

:

I like how Joseph Hellerman says that.

752

:

He says, indeed, the phrase

personal relationship with God

753

:

is found nowhere in the Bible.

754

:

The phrase personal relationship with

God is found nowhere in the Bible.

755

:

I'm just quoting here.

756

:

He says, according to the New Testament,

a person is saved to community.

757

:

And I thought he said that so

well, because that's so true.

758

:

You find that much of the imperatives and

the indicatives in scripture are plural.

759

:

They're written to a community

of believers, and that's

760

:

not incidental to the time.

761

:

I think that's intentional by

the spirit of God to say, you're

762

:

saved to a community of faith.

763

:

That's critical.

764

:

You're saved to a community of faith.

765

:

So I want you to see these

vital connections, uh, vital

766

:

connection number one here.

767

:

Uh, vi.

768

:

The first vital connection is

that faith produces fellowship.

769

:

That's the vital connection

your faith produces.

770

:

It, it's a, it's a tag alone.

771

:

You ever seen those motorcycles

with the sidekick on the,

772

:

on the, on the other side?

773

:

I'd love to do that one day who

ride the motorcycle foot, pastor

774

:

PJ in my sidekick and just roll

around town, show up to church.

775

:

It'll have the Compass Bible

Church logo on it with lights.

776

:

Great day if you ask me.

777

:

When you are saved, when you are given

the gift of faith it produces, it leads

778

:

to, it comes alongside with fellowship.

779

:

You cannot separate what

God has joined together.

780

:

These things are intended to go together.

781

:

This is why John so quickly jumps to this.

782

:

We want you to have fellowship with

us, and indeed our fellowship is

783

:

with a father and with his son.

784

:

You are united to a community.

785

:

You are saved to the family of God.

786

:

John calls his audience

little children, implication.

787

:

He's a spiritual father

among spiritual children.

788

:

Your relationships are no

longer merely biological.

789

:

If you even have that, your relationships

are spiritual and they are more enduring

790

:

than even your closest biological

relationship For those who are not

791

:

Christians, if you have a biological

relationship with another Christian,

792

:

you share some DNA, that's amazing.

793

:

You're, you're doubly close.

794

:

But scripture speaks about our

relationship in the deepest

795

:

and most intimate ways.

796

:

This is a privilege of

your relationship to God.

797

:

Whether you wanted it or not.

798

:

The men around you are

your brothers in the faith.

799

:

If they have professed saving faith

in Christ, these are the men that

800

:

you will live with and die with.

801

:

This is how God designed this to work.

802

:

You want assurance.

803

:

Assurance is gonna happen amidst the

community of God's men and women.

804

:

He wants you to experience that within

the community, and he, I think, rarely

805

:

gives it to you apart from this.

806

:

Because what we find out is that we need

one another, which is why there are so

807

:

many in the scriptures to call each other

out to help stir one another, up to love

808

:

and good deeds to encourage one another.

809

:

And all the Bos you see the day drawing

near, we need each other critical.

810

:

In fact, I could say it the other way,

fellowships strengthens your faith,

811

:

so you ought to experience this.

812

:

Fellowship is a gift of faith,

but it also strengthens faith.

813

:

Once you are saved to the community

of God, you are now empowered to serve

814

:

through God's strength in that community.

815

:

John says, we write these things so

that you two may a fellowship with

816

:

us, and indeed our fellowship is

with the Father and with his son.

817

:

What you have is an upside down T.

818

:

Okay?

819

:

You have a vertical relationship, a

vertical fellowship with God that is

820

:

intimately connected and entwined with a

horizontal relationship with one another.

821

:

You remember in one Peter

chapter three, it says this.

822

:

He says, husbands live with your wives

in an understanding way, showing honor

823

:

to the woman as the weaker vessel, since

you remember this part, since they are

824

:

heirs with you of the grace of life.

825

:

But as you share a common destiny,

you are equal footing when it comes

826

:

to your relationship with God.

827

:

He says so that your

prayers may not be hindered.

828

:

That's true for your wife, who is

your fellow heir if she's a Christian.

829

:

But I think it's also true in our

relationships with one another.

830

:

And I could make this case more, more

succinctly if I had a little more time.

831

:

But I would go to first Corinthians 11

to develop this idea that God cares so

832

:

much about how we treat one another.

833

:

That he would much rather

discipline us to the point of death

834

:

than to let us mistreat and Ms.

835

:

Love the Bri, the bride of

Christ and the body of Christ.

836

:

So we have an upside down T.

837

:

These things go together.

838

:

Horizontal relationship, horizontal

fellowship, vertical fellowship with God.

839

:

They go together.

840

:

They are not to be separated.

841

:

You ever think about how

hard this is for us as men?

842

:

I know for a fact that there are men who

are very dissatisfied with the community.

843

:

God has placed in men.

844

:

Um, heard things like,

and I, I I don't have.

845

:

The kind of relationships

with these men that I want.

846

:

They're not saying these words, but

let me just make this make sense.

847

:

Superficial.

848

:

They're not running as hard as I am.

849

:

Um, they're, you know, they, they

don't, they don't show up to these

850

:

events and I, I wanna hang out with

them and they don't do those things.

851

:

And when we talk, we're only talking about

things like the rangers, I, yada, yada.

852

:

And I think, okay, I get that.

853

:

I understand you want depth,

you want, you want a greater and

854

:

deeper relationship with these men.

855

:

And, and more than just a superficial,

let's talk about the weather.

856

:

Let's talk about the sports things.

857

:

I get that.

858

:

But remember what Paul says.

859

:

In, in chapter 15 of Romans, he says,

we who are strong have a responsibility

860

:

to bear with the failings of the weak.

861

:

If you count yourself strong, one of the

challenges I would offer you when you

862

:

experience fellowship that is deficient in

your mind, not reaching to the level that

863

:

you want, is to look at your own soul for

a second and say, maybe I'm the problem.

864

:

Maybe, maybe my expectations are

too much and, and maybe I'm asking

865

:

to be served when God is putting

me in a position to serve others.

866

:

And maybe my attitude, even if I

just keep it to myself, bleeds out

867

:

and it, and it hinders the way that

people want to connect with me.

868

:

And maybe I just need to be okay that

this is providentially where God has me.

869

:

Might be true too, that

God's moving you along.

870

:

That's possible.

871

:

But I just wanna bring up in your

mind when you think about fellowship.

872

:

Whether it's in your community group

weekly, which I think is great, it's

873

:

a great way to make sure that it's

structured into your schedule, or

874

:

whether it's you meeting for some for

breakfast with somebody opening up a

875

:

couple of chapters of scripture or just

talking about how's marriage, how's life?

876

:

Just keep in your mind here.

877

:

God intends for you to use this

vehicle fellowship to strengthen

878

:

your relationship with him.

879

:

The vertical fellowship, these things are

built by God for you to grow, and when you

880

:

find people irritating or frustrating, or.

881

:

You know, they don't listen or their

breath stinks or they talk too loud,

882

:

or I don't like what they talk about.

883

:

Just know God is sanctifying you

through these very same people and

884

:

he charges you to care for them.

885

:

Charges you to Philippians

two, to consider others as more

886

:

significant than yourselves.

887

:

I think 98% of our fellowship issues

would evaporate if we approached

888

:

our relationships that way.

889

:

Our community groups, even our, our

small groups that we have outside

890

:

of community groups, our, uh, our.

891

:

Just our normal gatherings.

892

:

Fellowship is part of the way

that God gives you assurance.

893

:

When he saves you, he

saves you to a community.

894

:

They're hard.

895

:

I'm not gonna deny that, but notice how

he ends and we are writing these things

896

:

to you so that our joy may be complete.

897

:

Where the prior plurals, I think were

speaking to the apostolic community,

898

:

the authorized agents of orthodoxy.

899

:

I think our here refers to

his audience and himself.

900

:

I'm writing these things to you

so that our joy, my joy, as one

901

:

of your pastors and your joy as

one of my people may be complete.

902

:

I want you to see the connection between

joy and, and write doctrine about Christ.

903

:

Write, belief about Christ,

and write fellowship.

904

:

I think joy here is a

byproduct of those two things.

905

:

I would love for you to realize

that full joy is a byproduct.

906

:

It's a happy tag along to right

thinking about Christ and Real

907

:

Fellowship with brothers and

occasionally sisters in Christ,

908

:

Dietrich Bonhoeffer in Life Together,

one of my favorite books about community.

909

:

By the way, you should read at least

the first two chapters of that book.

910

:

Excellent.

911

:

He says God has willed that we should

seek and find God's living word in

912

:

the testimony of other Christians

in the mouths of human beings.

913

:

Therefore, Christians need other

Christians who speak God's word to them.

914

:

And another book, one

author says it this way,

915

:

oops.

916

:

We will skip that.

917

:

Actually,

918

:

I could show you in the gospel of John,

John:

919

:

I've spoken to you that my joy may be

in you and that your joy may be full.

920

:

Jesus intends for the Christian to

have a full joy in following him.

921

:

Here's how you do this according

to what we're reading here.

922

:

So I, I would love for you pursue your

joy by deepening your knowledge of Christ.

923

:

Deepening your knowledge of Christ, you're

never gonna expand it to the point of ha

924

:

learning something, perhaps brand new,

uh, but deepening your knowledge of Christ

925

:

will help you understand him better.

926

:

I mean, think about the friends

that you've had for 20 or 30 years.

927

:

Anyone have that?

928

:

That's a special thing.

929

:

If you have friends who are 20, 30 years

in the making, you realize that that

930

:

friendship is special in ways that someone

that you've known for 20 days, even if

931

:

you're firing in all cylinders, you like

them, you talk about the same things.

932

:

You have similar

lifestyle, similar seasons.

933

:

Those are great, but those 20 years,

30 year relationships are so special.

934

:

There's context, there's perseverance.

935

:

They're seeing someone in all

kinds of, in all kinds of seasons,

936

:

they know you, you know them.

937

:

You've seen them get married, you've

seen them have kids, you've seen

938

:

them do all sorts of things, get

fired and go through that season.

939

:

You've seen them, you know,

struggle with their weights.

940

:

You've seen them struggle with

their wives, you've seen them

941

:

and they've seen you, and there's

something incredibly rich about that.

942

:

I dare say that your relationship with

Christ is that on steroids, and it's

943

:

not that he's learning more about you.

944

:

You are, however, seeing more and

more of him deepening the well of your

945

:

understanding and your love for him.

946

:

Seeing new shades of his character, of

his nature, exploring new territories, not

947

:

of brand new novel realities, but rather

the depths and the riches of Christ.

948

:

Ephesians chapter three, Paul's praying

for his audience and he says, look,

949

:

I, I'm praying that you have eyes to

see the height, the depth, and then

950

:

the width of the love of Christ Jesus.

951

:

I think that's what

John is getting at here.

952

:

So I'm gonna encourage you, man,

to deepen your knowledge of Christ.

953

:

I would argue that your capacity for

delight corresponds to your depth.

954

:

That knowledge paves the way deeper

knowledge paves the way for deeper joy.

955

:

Second, I wanna encourage you to

pursue your joy by investing in

956

:

fellowship with other church members.

957

:

Remember, John writes that

our joy may be complete.

958

:

This is a plural.

959

:

He's including his audience.

960

:

He's riding so that we may have

fellowship with one another.

961

:

I'm gonna encourage you not to lose

steam in your investing of fellowship,

962

:

and I applaud you 'cause you're here.

963

:

Praise God for that.

964

:

You're here, you're doing the thing.

965

:

I pray that you would not lose steam

in investing in fellowship because the

966

:

payoff is there and in just like the

market, there's gonna be ups and downs.

967

:

There's gonna be bull

markets and bear markets.

968

:

Even in your fellowship, you're

gonna have seasons where it feels

969

:

great, others where it doesn't, but

you have to keep on investing to

970

:

keep committing to these things.

971

:

John wants them to have fellowship

with him with one another, and he wants

972

:

'em to stay in that proper fellowship.

973

:

He's gonna fight for them to have

that two potential hindrances.

974

:

Number one, conflict.

975

:

I want you to expect conflict

with brothers that you love.

976

:

Please expect it.

977

:

Please expect conflict.

978

:

Please know that the

church is not perfect.

979

:

She's in progress, and that includes

everybody in your small group.

980

:

That includes your pastors.

981

:

Your pastors will disappoint you.

982

:

I can promise you that.

983

:

Just be around us long enough and we

will disappoint you with the decision.

984

:

Or a thing that we say, a, you

know, an insensitive remark from

985

:

the pulpit or from whatever.

986

:

We're gonna hurt you.

987

:

You're gonna hurt each other.

988

:

Expect that in this community, the

difference is that Jesus gives us

989

:

marching orders for how to deal

with that when you have conflict.

990

:

Jesus doesn't say, Hey, no sweat.

991

:

Shake it off and move along.

992

:

He actually says, look, if some, if

your brother has something against you.

993

:

You go and reconcile you, you go figure.

994

:

If you know your brother has something

against you, you go figure it out.

995

:

You go, you initiate.

996

:

And then same gospel, Matthew, Matthew 18.

997

:

He says, if, if you have something

against your brother, whose

998

:

responsibility is it to resolve it again?

999

:

You So either way, either way, whether

you are the offended or the offender,

:

00:50:04,964 --> 00:50:06,194

you're, you're not released from it.

:

00:50:06,194 --> 00:50:08,594

You have a responsibility

to resolve the conflict.

:

00:50:09,694 --> 00:50:12,454

There are times when your conflict

will result in a parting of ways.

:

00:50:12,514 --> 00:50:17,164

It happens, but that's not

the ordinary way that God

:

00:50:17,164 --> 00:50:18,124

designs our fellowship to work.

:

00:50:18,124 --> 00:50:19,234

You need to expect conflict to come.

:

00:50:19,234 --> 00:50:22,324

Secondly, uh, if conflict is one

issue, connection is another.

:

00:50:22,834 --> 00:50:24,934

Um, I like Proverbs:

:

00:50:24,934 --> 00:50:25,624

You can write this one down.

:

00:50:25,624 --> 00:50:26,224

We'll end on this.

:

00:50:26,584 --> 00:50:30,724

Whoever brings blessing will

be enriched and one who waters

:

00:50:30,724 --> 00:50:32,284

will himself be watered.

:

00:50:33,244 --> 00:50:36,394

If you're struggling with connection,

pour into the lives of others, serve them.

:

00:50:37,354 --> 00:50:39,874

Think about giving without

necessarily needing to receive.

:

00:50:39,874 --> 00:50:40,864

God will take care of you.

:

00:50:40,894 --> 00:50:41,164

He will.

:

00:50:41,194 --> 00:50:42,064

He will provide for you.

:

00:50:42,064 --> 00:50:45,394

One way or another, God will provide,

give and don't expect to receive.

:

00:50:46,324 --> 00:50:49,564

Proverbs:

blessing will be enriched, the

:

00:50:49,564 --> 00:50:51,154

one who waters himself be watered.

:

00:50:52,354 --> 00:50:55,264

That's our first sermon

on the letter of John.

:

00:50:55,954 --> 00:50:58,744

I want you to realize that John's

point is that you trust in the Biblical

:

00:50:58,744 --> 00:50:59,944

Christ alone for your salvation.

:

00:51:00,259 --> 00:51:03,079

He points to Jesus, the real

Jesus who lived in time and

:

00:51:03,079 --> 00:51:05,569

space in history, who was really

crucified and really rose again.

:

00:51:05,929 --> 00:51:10,069

And then I want you to see that John

zeroes in on fellowship right away,

:

00:51:10,249 --> 00:51:14,299

your horizontal fellowship feeding

into your vertical fellowship, both

:

00:51:14,299 --> 00:51:16,159

of them mutually reinforcing you.

:

00:51:16,159 --> 00:51:16,969

You need both.

:

00:51:17,179 --> 00:51:20,179

Thirdly, John wants you to

see that joy is his intention.

:

00:51:20,179 --> 00:51:22,849

He wants you to know the joy that

comes from having a right doctrine

:

00:51:22,849 --> 00:51:25,669

about Christ and a real fellowship

with those who are in Christ.

:

00:51:26,149 --> 00:51:27,289

This is only the beginning.

:

00:51:27,289 --> 00:51:29,599

We have so much more territory

to cover, but let me pray for us.

:

00:51:29,959 --> 00:51:31,339

As you know, head to your small groups.

:

00:51:31,849 --> 00:51:32,149

Oh Lord.

:

00:51:32,149 --> 00:51:36,499

Thank you so much for the gift that we

have in Jesus Christ who lived for us.

:

00:51:36,739 --> 00:51:38,089

He died for our sin.

:

00:51:38,149 --> 00:51:43,249

He rose from the dead, defeating

sin and death and then he ascended

:

00:51:43,249 --> 00:51:45,739

to your right hand and we now

trust and believe that someday he

:

00:51:45,739 --> 00:51:47,059

will return to receive his bride.

:

00:51:47,809 --> 00:51:51,199

Until then, Lord help us to

remain faithful to the real Christ

:

00:51:51,199 --> 00:51:52,129

that is revealed in scripture.

:

00:51:52,414 --> 00:51:56,824

Help us to remain in, uh, intent

and investing in the relationships

:

00:51:56,824 --> 00:51:57,994

with those who are in Christ.

:

00:51:58,054 --> 00:52:01,594

And Lord, let us know the joy

that comes with harvesting these

:

00:52:01,594 --> 00:52:02,824

kinds of things in our lives.

:

00:52:03,214 --> 00:52:03,844

We love you.

:

00:52:03,874 --> 00:52:04,894

Help us now in our small groups.

:

00:52:04,894 --> 00:52:06,544

In Jesus name, amen.

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