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Emotional Scorekeeping: Why It's Poisoning Your Connection
Episode 383rd June 2026 • Marriage, Intimacy & Healing with Andrew & Lara Pilcher • Andrew and Lara Pilcher
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There's a number running in your head right now and you might not know it — the count of who's gone first lately. Who apologized, who softened, who reached out. This episode is about why that tally exists and what to do with it.

In this episode you'll learn:

  • The difference between fair-fight scorekeeping and the emotional version most couples miss
  • Why scorekeeping is actually self-protection, not pettiness
  • How standoffs stretch from one tense night into five quiet days
  • One sentence that ends the wait without anyone having to lose

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