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Welcome to the Frontline Herbalism Podcast with your host, Nicole Rose from the
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Solidarity Apothecary.
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This is your place for all things plants and
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liberation.
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Let's get started.
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Hello. Welcome back to the Frontline Herbalism Podcast.
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So today's episode is all about herbal support for like ongoing chronic stress.
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And it's got all my kind of like top tips, not just on herbs, but like kind of practical
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things for anyone who is coping with a like acutely stressful situation or an ongoing
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stressful situation.
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So yeah, I'm not going to talk loads because I talk loads in the episode, so I'll let you
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listen to that.
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But I just want to say we've got some sexy T
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shirts fundraising for the mobile herbal clinic Calais.
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We finally confirmed a design or two designs thanks to your help on Instagram and they are
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live on my website and you're able to buy them.
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And yeah, selling this much is like literally the main thing that fundraisers for us.
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Completely grassroots project that serves like hundreds of people living in northern France,
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refugees, people on the move, asylum seekers.
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And yeah, we have a mobile clinic tries to go every single month.
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It's not always possible, but the first week of the month normally with a doctor and a team
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of herbalists and hundreds and hundreds of herbal medicines and we support people with
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like first aid and preventative medicine and self care.
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Things like upper respiratory infections like coughs and colds get a lot of people to
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hospital.
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Before I had my baby, I was back and forth there for four years.
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Like it's such a huge project that I'm super passionate about and it is so frustrating how
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much effort we need to constantly put into fundraising to make it happen.
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So if you can buy a T shirt, they're also in lots of nice colors this year.
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That would be ******* amazing.
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I'll put the link in the show notes.
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Please share them on your social media and with your friends and things because yeah, it
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just keeps the ******* project going.
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So,
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yeah, anyway, and also the other thing to like plug is the Hubblers in PTSD and Traumatic
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Stress course is open for enrollment on 22 March.
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No one is turned away for lack of funds.
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You don't have to contribute anything
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financially to access the learning,
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but if you can, that's ******* amazing.
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Like the income from this course like
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literally sustains 90% of the sold out apothecary and all the work I do supporting
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people experiencing state violence with herbal medicine.
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So yeah, if you can pay, that's awesome.
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If you can't, that's Also ******* awesome.
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You can still access it, but I will put the link in the show notes.
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Please check it out.
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Please join the waiting list if you're keen to
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learn more and you don't want to miss it because yeah, it's really, really special.
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Very comprehensive program,
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very life changing.
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I'm going to be recording some of the amazing
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testimonials I've been receiving recently and sharing them on here and in other places.
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But yeah, please, please, please check it out.
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It's only available twice a year, so it's
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coming up to its little springtime open window.
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And it's the best time to learn about herbalism because you know, spring is coming
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for people living where I am at least.
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So yeah, anyway, check that out and I hope this episode gives some value to you.
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Okay, lots of love.
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Bye.
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All right, so let's dive into herbal support for ongoing chronic stress.
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And I guess some disclaimers that I guess this is like focused towards people living in like
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England and Wales and Scotland and Ireland and like people in the kind of regions where I
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live or folks in the so called us.
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I'm very aware that like the whole world doesn't have access to these things or like a
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place of quote unquote safety.
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You know, like if you're living in a war zone
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or you know, a place of like active genocide or conflict or everything else that.
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Yeah, just basically trying to name that.
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There's like a lot of privilege with like a
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lot of the things I'm recommending people to implement.
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But yeah, I think wherever you are, like a lot of this stuff is very useful.
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You know, like when I talk about things like sleep that is like very contextual living.
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For example, in northern France where we work with like the Mobile Herbal Clinic, Calais.
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Like a lot of what we're doing is supporting people to sleep well, you know, with things
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like lavender oil.
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Because if someone sleeps well they're less likely to not be able to find fight an
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infection and you know, like they are more resilient in terms of like what their, you
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know, simple cold upper respiratory infection not becoming like a chronic thing or a life
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threatening thing in their lower respiratory system,
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like pneumonia or something, for example.
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So yeah, even something like sleep which might
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feel like a kind of,
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you know, a lot of people might think is like not like a bougie recommendation, but it's
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like, oh, you know, you've got somewhere like safe to sleep or whatever.
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Like actually interventions like sleep are like life saving like across the zone, you
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know.
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So anyway, I'm Just gonna, I'm just gonna get stuck in.
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I know people listening to this show, like understand the nuances of what's going on in
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the world.
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You don't need me to tell you, but I just, you
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know, I just thought I would kind of like preface what I'm trying to say with that kind
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of like naming of all this,
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like structural violence that like influences these things and what are possible for people.
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But yeah, if you are in a situation right now,
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are experiencing like ongoing stress, you know, whether that's just ******* selling your
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labor in capitalism or a loved one you know, dealing with cancer treatment, or you're
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supporting someone in prison, or you're recovering from those experiences, or you're
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just,
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you know, a single mom trying to ******* survive, like living, living in poverty.
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Like all of these things are like ongoing chronic stresses, right, that demand
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structural responses and,
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you know, resistance and movements to challenge them and everything else.
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But, but ultimately, like, you're still in that place, right?
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So,
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yeah, I think it's important to just,
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you know,
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just start where you are really.
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And the number one place that I always start with near enough, every ******* client or
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person that comes to work with me one to one, is sleep.
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It seems boring to talk about, but sleep is the most essential thing and nothing helps the
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body more in terms of like repair and energy and addressing chronic illness or inflammation
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than like high quality deep sleep and someone who's got a baby who's nearly two now.
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I know how intense like sleep deprivation and sleep disruption is.
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And yeah, shout out to all the parents who've been going through that, all the breastfeeding
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in the middle of the night and all the things.
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But yeah,
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the number one thing I think if you are experiencing chronic stress is to focus on
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getting as much good sleep as possible.
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And you know, there is like a whole hour long
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lesson in the herbalism, PTSD and traumatic stress course all about sleep, you know, like
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sleep versus capitalism,
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like all the things that affect sleep,
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like all this like sleep hygiene stuff,
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which like, side note, I am like very pro supportive of people watching wholesome trash
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before bed because I think it puts the body in a parasympathetic state and allows people with
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intense anxiety to switch off from racing thoughts.
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So I'm not recommending that you turn off all your devices and sit in silence before bed
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because I think for someone with a highly activated nervous system that can actually
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just feel ******* awful for them,
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but what I do encourage is having this kind of parasympathetic time through the day, so
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enabling Even like micro moments of rest.
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And I know that's like really, really hard
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when you're in like a really chronically stressful sit.
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But, you know, maybe that's like having a cup of tea outside somewhere or having a cup of
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tea inside somewhere or, you know, staying on the toilet a little bit longer before you go
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back to a stressful family situation.
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You know, just like any little bits of time that you can snatch that enable you to like,
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breathe out a little bit,
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I think is really important.
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But in terms of sleep, like oftentimes when we're in this like really intense, like, fight
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or flight activation, like high levels of cortisol and stress hormones, if we haven't
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had access to that kind of respite,
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it can be extremely difficult to get to sleep.
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And that's when I think there are lots of
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amazing herbs that can support us.
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So I think people have probably seen me talk about it in the Herbalism and State Violence
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book or on my episode about herbal support for grief.
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But like, when my best friend Taylor killed himself, myself in prison,
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I was in such an acute state of rage and activation and all day long had to deal with
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these like, prison authorities and like all this like gnarly funeral organizing stuff that
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like, I didn't have access to that kind of like rest and digest state in any way.
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Do you know what I mean? So getting to sleep was really difficult
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because of the like, just the levels of adrenaline.
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Which is why I worked with like a stronger kind of sedative, like hypnotic nervine called
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wild lettuce.
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You know, like, I've had clients that have had like sleep issues.
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And yeah, I always start with for example, like skullcap, which is like much more like
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nourishing and it's like more of a long term tonic.
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But it's also quite sedating and hypnotic.
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And then if that's kind of not working, then I'll move to things like wild lettuce.
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But I had someone who like just kept sleeping through their alarm, like nearly lost their
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job because they just had such deep quality sleep with this herb.
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Other sort of accessible herbs are plant like passion flower or.
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Yeah, like working with like.
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I know skull caps are expensive, but it is
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really wonderful in terms of supporting someone to access that like more
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parasympathetic time before bed,
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which enables like deeper quality, more like restorative sleep.
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When you have a lot of stress hormones,
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they're gonna, you know, they're potentially gonna be waking you up in the night, right.
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Like high levels of cortisol are Gonna be leading to this kind of like wake up time,
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you know, like between two often or maybe like super, super early, like six, seven in the
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morning, which, you know, is a normal wake up time for lots of people.
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But for other people,
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especially if you've gotten to bed late, that's like too early.
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So yeah, we kind of want to be working with herbs to,
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yeah, bring down that like activation as much as physically possible through the day, but
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then, yeah, just kind of supporting you through the night.
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So, yeah, sleep is number one to survive a ongoing chronically stressful situation.
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And it is such a shame that the body needs sleep more than ever.
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And the sleep disturbances really ******* kick in with trauma.
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And I talk about that loads in the PTSD course.
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So yeah, it's a bit heartbreaking that the body does that.
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But, you know, it's in survival mode.
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And when we're in survival mode, we might not
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like want to sleep deeply because, you know, we need to wake up and see if like the *******
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threat is still there.
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Right.
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So it kind of makes physiological sense, but
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it's also like, like gutting for when people are going through a lot.
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They really need to sleep well and that's really, really hard.
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So that's when herbs can,
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you know, can come in.
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It's so hard to not go into loads of detail about this stuff, but I just want to, I guess
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flag.
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This is something I talk about in the course.
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But some people working with like sedative or more hypnotic herbs, like triggers a really
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intense, like fearful state for them,
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especially if they've experienced trauma like sexual assault or violence like while being
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like drugged or drunk or something like this.
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So I just want to give that caution that like,
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if you struggle with that state,
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there may be a reason for that.
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And it might be more appropriate to work with
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like more kind of like uplifting kind of.
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Yeah, more like gentle herbs that work on like reducing the activation in the sympathetic
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than the, you know, the fight or flight system, like lemon balm and lavender, for
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example, that don't trigger such a like full on kind of sedated state.
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Okay.
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So next is nourishment.
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And I know this is ******* difficult again when you're experiencing chronic stress
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because the stress response will turn off.
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Not completely, but it will commonly in a lot
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of people turn off desires for hunger.
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You know, like, it will like desires for food.
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Sorry.
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So we won't necessarily get those like hunger cues.
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Like for example, if you have like a really, really non stop stressful day and then you get
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to the End of the day and you're like, I haven't eaten.
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Like, that's the nervous system kind of like not protecting you, but it's kind of like
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preventing you from eating.
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Because when we eat we use energy, right? That's why we go into this like
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parasympathetic rest and digest state is so that the BL can move from, you know, like the
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head and into the gut and not from the head, but from the periphery to the gut to help
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digest our food.
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And so, yeah, when we're like highly stressed, we're not kind of necessarily getting those
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cues to eat, if that makes sense.
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And we're often feeling like we can't eat
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because we don't feel like we have the time to just sit and stop and cook a meal and you
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know,
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sit down with a loved one or whatever and have, have a good meal and then give ourselves
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enough time afterwards to digest it.
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Well.
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So I totally understand that stress, like with you, like food wise.
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But if you can focus while in that survival time on getting food in you, or say, for
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example, you're supporting a loved one who's going through a lot,
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taking some of that pressure off them by making them dinner or you know, taking them
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for a meal out or ordering them a takeaway or you know, like, for example, if someone's just
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had a baby, like ******* organizing to drop off meals so that they don't have to cook and
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they can just receive that nourishment,
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like, is a really, really nice thing to do.
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Because like I said, like, the stress response kind of creates like a hierarchy of what's
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important to us.
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And that stressor is always the thing demanding our focus.
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But actually like, our body has all these other needs.
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So yeah, if you can support someone or yourself to, to eat as well as you can, then
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you're going to be reducing the harm and the risk that the impact of this stressful period
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is going to have on someone's body.
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Does that make sense?
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When I'm working with clients in general, I like to support people to shift to have more
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protein and more like vegetables and antioxidants,
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you know, like colorful vegetables and some fruit.
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I think a lot of fruit unfortunately just triggers all sorts of gut bacteria stuff for
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people, people.
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So I think just like focusing on vegetables is
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like normally really good.
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But yeah, when we have more protein, we can support like all our systems in our body.
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And yeah, I think it's that thing.
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When we're in a stress response, we often
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really crave carbs basically, like, and I understand.
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Like, I, you know, I don't have things like crisps in the house because I would just want
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to eat them like all day long.
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But yeah, like, our body will crave certain things like sugar, for example, when we're
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really stressed because our system, system is full of blood sugar and our gut bacteria is
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probably a bit, you know, disrupted.
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And so we might be craving more sugar then.
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But like, if you can shift to,
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you know,
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higher protein, even if it's like I'm just gonna have more protein for breakfast, like
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I'm gonna have walnuts with my oats or I'm gonna like fry some tofu in the morning or
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whatever, like, just trying to start your day with a bit of protein will help a lot with
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that kind of like,
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resilience.
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Likewise, like healthy fats.
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Like, I know everyone takes the **** out
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millennials of like, oh, avocado.
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But like, actually fats are really, really
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needed by the nervous system,
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especially in terms of brain health.
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So you know, getting things like, you know,
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you can buy ******* flaxseeds and chia seeds for like super cheap from places like Lidl.
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I know they're not the most ******* ethical places in the world, but like, I'm just saying
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a lot of these things like,
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aren't as out of reach as like we perceive them to be because of all this like *******,
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you know, like, like middle class kind of wellness marketing.
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But yeah, like healthy fats, like things like avocados and nuts and olive oil, stuff like
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this, like that is really, really gonna help our kind of body's reserves in surviving
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things.
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It might be that you're on the move a lot and it's very difficult to like actually make
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meals.
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And if you have access to things like protein
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powder.
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I do think a good quality protein powder can be really life changing for someone who's
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quite prot.
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Nutrition.
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I'm always like, food first.
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Like, let's focus on food changes.
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But like, while someone's going through that
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intense period of stress who maybe doesn't have time or doesn't feel like they have time
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to really prepare a meal, then something like a protein powder smoothie can just support the
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body like,
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you know, in that moment.
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So, yeah, so that's quite like a good kind of not like hack, but it's something I recommend
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to folks who,
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yeah, don't have many spoons who are like, struggling with, you know, like cooking for
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themselves or looking after themselves because of like chronic illness, for example.
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So,
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yeah,
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and then I guess the other thing to talk about is supplements.
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And I know supplements get a bit of a bad rap.
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Like herbalists are always like, oh, you just
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need everything from food and plants and like blah, blah, blah.
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And yeah, ******* yes.
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If you can eat ******* wild berries and get
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all your antioxidants,
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that's ******* epic.
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I love ******* foraging.
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I love berries.
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That's amazing.
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But actually,
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you know, we're forced to not live like that in ******* capitalism so it is difficult to
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get what we need.
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And then you bring in layers of things like,
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you know, malabsorption or like gut problems that affect how much things you can absorb.
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And yeah, also our ******* bodies rinse nutrients when we're stressed.
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So like I like to think of someone who is surviving, driving an ongoing chronic stress
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situation as like a athlete.
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Like you need to be having like optimal nutrition.
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Like, you know, a lot of like organizer types who are just organizing, organizing,
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organizing, like fast paced, like all this resistant stuff, like all this chronic stress.
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Their adrenals are just like boom, boom, boom, boom, boom.
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It's like you need that nourishment like in those cells to keep you going, otherwise
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you're gonna burn out really hard.
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And so y. I think just like going for good quality supplements like can be a real game
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changer especially if there's this like misabsorption pattern.
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And the other thing to name is just like industrial agriculture is ******* ****.
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And like a lot of the soil health has been destroyed by ******* capitalist agriculture by
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you know, various like synthetic fertilizers and pesticides and everything else,
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herbicides.
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So it's like we're not actually getting the levels of nutrients that we need from our
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food.
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Even if you eat like really great organic food
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food, if you bring in one of these digestive issues, it's going to be a challenge.
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So I really think things like vitamin D are very life changing for people.
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If someone is vegan or prone to like a more kind of like diet where they're not eating
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very well, then I think B12s are really, really ******* important.
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I talk about B12 in the herbalism, PTSD and traumatic stress course.
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There is just like endless research connecting B12 to anxiety, brain fog, lack of focus and
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concentration.
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Like, you know, there' so many things going on
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with B12 that I really, really, really recommend it to people.
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It's not enough.
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Like if you just eat B12 from like fortified
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sources.
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Like that's my opinion.
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So yeah, a good quality B12 supplement I think is really important and the quality really
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matters with B12.
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So yeah, so I Think those supplements, it's kind of like harm reduction, right?
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Like they're going to be helping you not fall into a heavily depleted state.
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Okay, so that's what I'm talking about with nourishment.
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It's just doing your best, you know, like, even if you're going through loads of stress,
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you're driving around, maybe you're like in between like housing situations, like just the
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difference between having a bag of nuts versus a packet of crisps with no nutrition or
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chocolate with loads of sugar in.
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Like, if you can just do some like simple swaps between food that is going to give you
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genuine energy versus food that is going to take energy from your body and trigger
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inflammation, then yeah, that is going to be potentially life changing.
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Changing.
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Okay, so then we're gonna go to nervous system support,
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right? And again, this is something I talk about
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loads in the herbalism, PTSD and traumatic stress course.
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But the default in our culture when we're struggling with energy or when we're going
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through a lot of chronic stress is like we reach for the stimulants.
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And trust me, like, I'm two years, nearly two years into babyland.
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Like, I love my ******* coffee.
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Like I do need it in the morning these days
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because, you know, I just don't get the long periods of sleep that I used to get.
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But unfortunately, capitalism has just marketed these amazing wonderful herbs which
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are very traditionally indicated for people in incredibly fatigued chronic illness states.
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And they're giving them to people who are often in intense states of fight or flight and
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maybe not,
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you know, actually experiencing intense chronic fatigue, but actually are just really
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overwhelmed and stressed.
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And you know, people with chronic fatigue can
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also, and do also, and mostly also feel this fight or flight all the time.
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But what I'm saying is like,
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be very wary of the kind of like energy supplements that are marketed that contain
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herbs like rhodiola, for example, which is traditionally indicated for people, like I
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said, in severe states of fatigue and long term illness.
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And these herbs can put a lot of ******* pressure on the adrenal system and enable you
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to keep going to the point that you burn out even harder and face the more serious disease.
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Also, several of the ginsengs, for example,
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might come into this category.
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They're often marketed as adaptogens to help
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you adapt to stress.
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But what you really need when you are adapting to stress is actually more often than not is
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just like nervine relaxants.
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So these are herbs that help you shift from a
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highly activated fight or flight state into a more Parasympathetic rest and digest kind of
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state where the world doesn't feel as threatening,
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where you don't feel as anxious, where you feel, like, able to connect with humans or
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animals or plants.
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And what we need when we're in intense periods of kind of, like, survival, chronic stress
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states, is, like,
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as much access to this kind of downtime as physically as possible.
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And when something is a constant threat,
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even if we are kind of like, resting, our body is often still constantly processing or
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perceiving that threat.
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Does that make sense?
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So, for example,
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supporting people in prison, I might have access to kind of parasympathetic time, you
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know, like, watching trash in the evening or, like, foraging or doing medicine, making
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things that make me feel good.
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But there's, like, part of me and my nervous system that is like, ****, ****, ****.
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Like, my friend's in solitary confinement and, you know, like, a white supremacist tried to
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******* stab him.
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Or,
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you know, my other friend in prison has cancer, and if she doesn't get these test
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results, then blah, blah, blah.
Nicole:
So it's like, there's often this, like, level of, like, background activation that is just
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like, humming and humming and humming.
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And I think that there are herbs that really support to, like, tone that down.
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I don't think it's a case of, like, you take a herb and you instantly feel, like, calm and
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groovy.
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Like, for people experiencing chronic stress or trauma.
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I just.
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You're so rare that you're going to experience
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that feeling of safety and relaxation.
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Does that make sense?
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But you can,
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like, take it down two notches.
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And I think that's where herbs really come in,
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is they can be working almost, like,
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at a tissue level that we're not aware of.
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Does that make sense?
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So herbs like chamomile.
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I know people are like, ugh, chamomile, you
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know, it's like, sold everywhere, blah, blah, blah.
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But, like, if you have a really ******* strong cup of chamomile tea with, like, several
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chamomile tea bags, or a really strong chamomile tincture or glycerite, like, you are
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gonna ******* feel that effect.
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Like, it is a really underrated, powerful herb ran over.
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But, yeah, like, these nervine relaxants like chamomile and lemon balm or Hawthorne, you
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know, hawthorn has this amazing effect on all the blood vessels.
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And I've just seen it over and over and over again.
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Just has this, like,
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effect where it can just, like, yeah.
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Take down this background anxiety a few
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notches so that you can like function a bit better and think a bit more clearly and feel a
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bit calmer and a bit more open and loving or you know, like plants like rose and lavender.
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So yeah, I explore these in depth in the herbalism, PTSD and traumatic stress course.
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I have got another.
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Oh yeah, I'm going to be talking, I'm going to
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be doing separate episodes, hopefully whenever I say, oh, I'm going to be doing this, then
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something happens with the baby and then I can do it.
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So I'm wary of saying what I'm going to do, but I would like to in the near future record
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an episode about these different types of nervines, which are herbs with an affinity for
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the nervous system, so that you get more of a picture of what I'm on about basically.
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But yeah, when we're in that chronic survival mode, any herb that can just take that level
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of activation down a few notches I think will also prevent harm and enable you to, yeah,
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yeah, access a little bit more of this kind of rest and digest state.
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So yeah, I kind of feel like when you're in this survival mode, this like harm reduction
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strategies are like really, really important.
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The other aspect I think is like managing expectations around,
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quote unquote healing.
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And like I think when you're enduring
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something,
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it's more about like letting water out of the tap.
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Like I had an amazing comrade who sort of supported me with like free counseling for
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like two, three years when I had no money and my best friend was going through cancer and
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all this stuff with my other friends in prison and suicide attempts.
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And like my PTSD was just like off the charts with like prison related things.
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And, and instead of this pressure of like I need to be this like perfectly regulated
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human, which is ******* impossible.
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Actually it was more about like how can we open the tap just enough to release?
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Because I think when you're going through something really, really full on,
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it is when that builds up and up and up and up.
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That's when we develop, you know, like intense ******* breakdowns for example, or like severe
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crises or like severe ******* flare ups, ups and periods of burnout that take years and
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years to recover from if we do.
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Whereas like again, like a harm reduction thing, like if we can just like release things
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a little bit to like take rocks out of the backpack kind of thing.
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Like I think when someone's going through chronic stress, they can't put that backpack
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down.
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They have to keep carrying it.
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They don't have a choice.
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Do you know what I mean? Like your best Friend's got a life threatening
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disease or your partner does, like, or they do, or you are the person with that disease.
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Like, you don't have a choice, right? You can't just like turn it off,
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so you have to carry it.
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But if we can just like, you know, take a few
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of those stones out, then it will be a bit lighter and I think,
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yeah, less pressure on,
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you know, healing and processing and all of this stuff and more just kind of like how can
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you release that like activation in your system?
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Okay.
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And then the other thing is like working with
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nerve tonics.
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And you would kind of think that nerve tonics would come when there's like a period of
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burnout out,
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because that's when we often reach them.
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You know, I get the client that comes to me
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when they are really ******* burnt out, when they're just really struggling and the fatigue
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has got overwhelming or their illness has got super overwhelming.
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And that's when you're like, okay, right, let's work with this and this and this.
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But like, you can also work with nerve tonics.
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And nerve tonics are herbs that help like the
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structure and the functioning of the nervous system.
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Like, you can work with them as preventative.
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Like, that is the best ******* time to work with them.
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So, for example, I knew that when I had Lee,
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I would.
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I was like very frightened of developing like
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postpartum depression because my mum had very severe depression when I was growing up.
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So I just.
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That was really important to me.
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And I'd seen,
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you know, other people go through postpartum periods with like vast amounts of like chronic
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stress on their systems, you know, leading to all sorts of like, hormonal issues and yeah,
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just like states of depletion.
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And don't get me started on capitalist parenting and the lack of the village.
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Like, all of this stuff is massive and real.
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And for me, knowing that that is the reality, I wanted to like, resource myself as much as
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possible.
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So like the second I had that child, I was
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taking like blends that were full of herbs like milky oats and shatavari and hawthorn
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berries and schisandra.
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And I started having St. John's War pretty much like after I'd given birth because I just
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wanted to support like my system.
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I wanted to support my adrenals and all the
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like, stress response stuff.
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I wanted to support,
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you know, my digestion.
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I wanted to support my liver most especially
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so that I could clear all those like, hormones from the pregnancy and, you know, hormones
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from like the stress responses.
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So like, yeah, like working with those tonics as a preventative of burnout was, like, really
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powerful for me.
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And there are certain herbs that can be very
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stimulating to certain people, like Schisandra, but if you're not in a really
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intense state of depletion, but you're under a lot of pressure,
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I think it's like a ******* amazing herb.
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And I think in this category, it is often, like, the berries, for example,
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or the roots that really,
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yeah, just like, help.
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Help prevent you from getting to that intense
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state of burnout.
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Like, I remember when Taylor tried to kill
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himself and was in hospital and was in a coma.
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And I text my friend Rashika, who I've got a podcast interview with,
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and I was just like, I'm in London.
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Like, I don't have any access to my herbs
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here.
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Like, I'm staying in a hotel near the
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hospital.
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Like, the prison paid for the hotel, which
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was, like, really weird.
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I think they thought.
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Thought he was gonna die, like, straight away,
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and he didn't.
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And then they were like, oh, well, I don't
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know how many more nights we can pay for.
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And I'm like, you'll pay for it.
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Anyway,
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I text her and I was just like, I just need support.
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So she just did a amazing decoction for me with, like,
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all the roots and, like, you know, nettle and elderberry and, like, just these, like, herbs
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and plant medicines that were, like, full of, like, nourishment.
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And, yeah, like, it was a tonic and it just helped,
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not collapse, basically.
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Like, I needed to get through these really
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long days of being around prison officers while my best friend was, like, chained to
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this ******* hospital bed.
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So, yeah, like,
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those herbs, like, helped me in that acute period.
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It didn't mean that I was going to be taking them for six ******* months.
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Do you know what I mean? Or stimulating my system over and over again.
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It meant that during that period of stress, that couple of weeks where things were, like,
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really, really intense, there wasn't an option to breathe out.
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They had my back.
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And, yeah, that's what I talk about in the herbalism PTSD course, is like,
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yeah, working with these kind of nerve tonics as a way of, like, how do we maintain our
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nervous systems and give them the best ******* head start?
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Because, like,
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lo and ******* behold, like, things are not going to get less stressful.
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Do you know what I mean?
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I've been drafting a newsletter about, like, is herbalism trivial?
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Because I think people,
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you know, can think it's like this cutesy hobby of, like, oh, I'm foraging,
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and it's like, all cottagey, like, doing stuff in your kitchen.
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And it's like, no, like, herbalism is survival for a lot of people.
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Like, plant medicines are, like, the primary form of healthcare for most people on the
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planet.
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And when we can, like, work with these herbs,
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like, you know,
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I want to ******* support the organizer who's resisting ice for six ******* weeks like,
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constantly in their community who's not sleeping well.
Nicole:
Like, I want that organizer to feel energized and nourished and to have good enough sleep so
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that when,
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you know, they get to that kind of end point, if there is an endpoint, they can, like, you
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know, ******* not get there in a state of, like, extreme depletion and stress, where we
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just lose people in our struggles and our communities to intense, debilitating, chronic
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illnesses, which are traumatic as **** for them.
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Like, I, you know, I think that prevention is really important and really, like, politically
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important as well.
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And I think a lot of people, like, don't give themselves credit of, like,
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how intense a lot of this work is, you know, like, how intense it is to,
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you know, like, survive certain situations and what people have been through.
Nicole:
You know, the solidarity stuff is really intense.
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Like, it's just ******* intense.
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Like, the world is ******* intense for people.
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So, like, let's ******* embrace, like, the ******* land, because the land can support us
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and nourish us.
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And I know most people don't have access to
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land, and that's exactly how capitalism is designed.
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But if you do have access to land, if you're a herbalist, if you're able to access plants,
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then that's why we need to be ******* distributing medicine to.
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To people, like, on the front lines of resisting this world.
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Oh, ran over.
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But, yeah, I'm just trying to say nerve tonics
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are ******* great for maintaining and supporting people in periods of acute stress
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and chronic stress and recovery from stress.
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So,
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yeah.
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Okay, finally,
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some last little things on my notes that I wanted to say is that, like,
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when you are in that survival mode,
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reaching out for support can be, like, critically important.
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Because, like, for example, like, when I'm in,
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like, a super stressed state, I often struggle, even though I'm a herbalist, to know
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myself.
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What do I need right now?
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And, like, it sounds daft, but, like, sometimes I'll text friends that are, like,
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herbally people,
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and they'll just be like, nicole, take this.
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I'm like, oh, thank you.
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Like, because I just, like, you know, the fight or flight nervous system state literally
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switches off, like, quality thinking.
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So, yeah, it's really Hard to make those decisions about what we need when we're, like,
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acutely triggered.
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But what I wanted to say is that, like,
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if you are able to supporting yourself or someone else to access support is really
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powerful.
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So, like, if you are like, you know, someone
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you love has just died, you're really not coping.
Nicole:
Like, if you.
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You booked in with a herbalist,
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who could do that thinking for you, you know, who can make that blend for you, who can get
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those herbs in the post to you so that all you have to do that day is deal with whatever
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thing is hanging over you right now while accessing those herbs and that support from
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the land,
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then that's ideal.
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Do you know what I mean?
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And I wish more groups of friends would just chip in for each other so that one of their
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friends could access counseling or access a herbalist or have a massage or.
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Do you know what I mean?
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Like, just building that kind of collectivity into it, I think is really important.
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So, yeah, so if you can kind of, like,
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outsource a bit of that thinking,
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I think that's like, really, really valuable.
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Because I think when you're in that, like, survival stress land,
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often you're only either thinking about yourself and your urgent needs, like, okay, my
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family is about to become homeless, or you're preoccupied with someone else's needs, like,
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you know, my friend has cancer or, you know, whatever's going on for you.
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So I think if you can.
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Can access, like, someone else who can help
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hold stuff for you,
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that's awesome.
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And,
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you know, like,
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any support is better than none.
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Like,
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I think people want, like, a groovy protocol of, like, okay, I take all these supplements
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every day, or da, da, da.
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But, like, taking a supplement once a week
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that your body is really deficient in is better than not taking it at all.
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Do you know what I mean? So I think this kind of, of, like,
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white supremacy culture of, like, intense perfectionism just has to go.
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Like, we need to be able to just kind of like,
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be allowed to be inconsistent.
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And, you know, there's all sorts of hacks, like leaving your supplements next to the
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kettle or something where you make your coffee so that you are reminded to take them.
Nicole:
You know, there's all of this, like, there's so many podcasts about that stuff.
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But yeah, I just think, like,
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even the tiniest bit of support,
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if it's one herbal cup of tea you can take a day to give your body 10, 20 minutes max off
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from your stress response, then that's ******* epic.
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And that's a Good thing you can do for yourself if it's one bath once a week.
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If I mean, sorry.
Nicole:
I hate this obsession with baths and self
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care.
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It's really annoying that it's like the
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default.
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But yeah, some ******* nice.
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I don't have a bath in my caravan so I'm sad about that.
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But you know, having like an Epsom salt bath once a week or something is also great.
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Like harm reduction of the impact of chronic stress.
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So. So anyway, I'm going to stop there now because I've been talking a long time.
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If any of this stuff is like interesting to you, then the Herbalism, PTSD and Traumatic
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stress course is open really soon.
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If you want to join it, please join the waiting list.
Nicole:
It means you can get a discount code if you are going to pay for it.
Nicole:
You can also access the course for free.
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Okay.
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It's no one turned away for lack of funds.
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I ******* mean that.
Nicole:
Like if you can't afford to donate anything,
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that is absolutely fine.
Nicole:
Like 2/3 of the people that access opposite,
Nicole:
you know, don't, don't or like put in a small donation.
Nicole:
I think the average is like 15 pounds or something.
Nicole:
But yeah, that doesn't matter to me.
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Like what matters to me is solidarity with
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people who are trying their best to survive this world and all the in it and are
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connecting with plants as that source of support that they've been denied because of
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our culture and how, yeah,
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how disconnected we are from the land, from the medicine all around around us.
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So yeah, thank you for listening.
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Please check out the course.
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Share this with someone who's going through a lot.
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I'm still supporting people one to one.
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So if you wanted support from herbalist, like
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please don't be afraid to reach out or if you know someone that's struggling with that and
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you and your mates can like chip in to help make that happen for them.
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That's awesome.
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We also have support via the Black Flag Herbal Clinic which is like an anarchist free clinic
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which is completely for free.
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So if yeah, money is just like not option for
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you, then that's a good option.
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Unfortun,
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there's a really long waiting list now because I can only see like two people a week through
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that clinic.
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But we're going to be building it out with
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more herbalists and stuff.
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Anyway, I'm going to stop talking.
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Thank you so much for listening.
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I will be back very soon to talk about more herbal things.
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Let me know what you thought of this show.
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Okay, thanks.
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Thanks so much for listening to the frontline herbalism podcast.
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You can find the transcript, the links, all the resources from the show at Solidarity